FabSwingers.com forum: Swinging club virgin

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi all -

So I'm thinking of dipping my toes in the swinging club scene but hear so many mixed reviews about them ,

I'm by no means a newbie as been around the Dogging scene a number of years and still enjoy it and it's still very active ..

Ok so I hear :

Swinging clubs are like meat markets 20 men to 1 girl ,

Lots of old wrinkly men wanking away

Dark and dingy

But I don't know so any advise would be greatful, I don't won't to be stood on my own like Billy no mates but then I can chat bollox too anyone and I'm not worried about waking around with my John Thomas on show and my local area is west mids

Thanks

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

I suggest you visit Atlantis in Stoke on a Friday evening.

You can then find out for yourself that clubs are not how people sometimes perceive them.

Some clubs do have a men:women ratio like you describe. Atlantis never have loads of surplus single guys. Give it a whirl

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By *mega_1Woman
over a year ago

Birkenhead

That's certainly not my experience of swinging clubs, I regularly attend Townhouse and they take care to keep the ratios at a decent level, in fact on Saturday nights they only allow a total of 8 single guys.

Other events may have a higher ratio such as the Greedy Girls event but they still keep the ratios to 3-4 men per woman.

I'd say go along to an event and experience for yourself.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

I've never been to a club like the one you've described so you will be pleasantly surprised wherever you choose to go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all -

So I'm thinking of dipping my toes in the swinging club scene but hear so many mixed reviews about them ,

I'm by no means a newbie as been around the Dogging scene a number of years and still enjoy it and it's still very active ..

Ok so I hear :

Swinging clubs are like meat markets 20 men to 1 girl ,

Lots of old wrinkly men wanking away

Dark and dingy

Thanks

First things first, completely forget what you think or have heard about swinging clubs, chances are your way off base!

Clubs in west midlands are Xtasia and Chams, plus a few smaller venues with paid hostesses.

Both clubs are great but completely different to each other.

You'll enjoy both

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Why not go one evening, have a chat to folk and then make up your own mind. You don't have to stay.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for all your comments they are appreciated , and yes I'm gonna give it a whirl and make my own judgement .

Thanks again

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By *ove121LustCouple
over a year ago

LaLa Land

"Thanks for all your comments they are appreciated , and yes I'm gonna give it a whirl and make my own judgement .

Thanks again "

Choose your club according to your confidence too! We got to stadia because you stay dressed and it's more like a 'normal' club but somewhere like chameleons you need to strip to a towel or shorts as soon as you get there

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By *orgeouslyyoursWoman
over a year ago

essex just looking around

"Hi all -

So I'm thinking of dipping my toes in the swinging club scene but hear so many mixed reviews about them ,

I'm by no means a newbie as been around the Dogging scene a number of years and still enjoy it and it's still very active ..

Ok so I hear :

Swinging clubs are like meat markets 20 men to 1 girl ,

Lots of old wrinkly men wanking away

Dark and dingy

Thanks

Having s giggle

Every club is unique has its own benefits ive visited about 12 all over country and yet none as you describe

The idea is to pick the right club on the right night. If it don't work for you try another night or club none are same and sex isnt the main critierer of many places.

If your going as a guy check days your allowed many ckubs gave caps on guy numbers and they arent allowed on Saturdays for the above misconception . Theme nights are always busiest x

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