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" Just a discussion for swingers who use clubf to air their views on this great club and for people to talk about their experiences there. " Isn't this what the club review section is for? | |||
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"I've not visited all of them, only Club F, Quest and the long since defunct Spank'd well over a decade ago. F is fairly good, but by comparison to the other two I'd have to say it comes clear 3rd. The people I've met there over the last year or so have been marginally more cliquey than other clubs, the culture there seems to revolve around the accommodation, with 90% of play occuring only in select groups and only after the club has closed which to my mind someheat negates the point of it being a club. You can easily go all night and see very little play, even as a voyeur, and what you do see tends to be among the older crowd. Of which F seems to attract a disproportionate amount. The décor in places is well overdue for an overhaul, it has a bit of a WMC meets knocking shop feel which can be off-putting to some. Never bothered me but when compared to the clean, well thought out style at Quest I know which I prefer. All that having been said, the staff are lovely, courteous and always keen to help. Most from what I can see are swingers themselves and I always get a kick out of seeing the barmaid get a good seeing to. They are very receptive to feedback, usually put a good buffet on, and they have a great little kitchen for snacks, something Quest could really use since I always need something to eat after a heavy session. The dungeon is far better equipped than Quest and has Bob, who is always a bonus. As with any other kind of club, YMMV, there's no one type that is inherently better. These are just my impressions. " Thank you for offering your thoughts. | |||
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As for the barmaid getting a good seeing to! Well as long as she was not on duty then she is there to have a good time like everyone! Glad to hear it, though staff dont play on duty
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"I think there is too much chlorine in the hot tub! But the club have some amazing people, such as yourself good sir." The chlorine levels are good, its when people dont shower and go in with perfume, after shave and make up it works extra hard to keep it clean and cos its in a smaller space it lingers, we have put up a fan but it is a problem from time to time but unless we switch off the chlorine it will happen and I dont really want to switch it off...so sorry bout it but it isnt cos there is too much chlorine xx | |||
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"Crikey! Thank you LLMW! What honest feedback, much appreciated. Not sure how often you went or when you went last but I think things have changed a bit and are still changing, the bar has been redecorated (yes it did look tired) and the clientele seem to be getting younger, though all ages come to the club and are definitely welcome! The clique doesnt happen now (we did get a few comments about that) but I have to say that people do come to meet their friends, its only a clique if people are left out? I would hope no one felt left out as we do our best to make everyone feel welcome, though swingers are friendly and sociable so its not hard
As for the barmaid getting a good seeing to! Well as long as she was not on duty then she is there to have a good time like everyone! Glad to hear it, though staff dont play on duty
xx"I presume she wasnt on duty but to be fair she was a bit too busy for me to stop her midflow and ask questions 
Thank you for taking the feedback in the manner it was intended, i had some good times at F and really look forward to seeing the new changes, ive not been since around February, and was there infrequently in the year before that, maybe 5-6 visits i think. Me and my new partner (The one in the profile pic) are planning a trip up shortly actually, you may recognise me as the bloke who came in with the short half asian girl who was asking you odd questions about booking the place for a private function last year :-S though you might get weird questions like that all the time haha | |||
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"Its good to get honest feedback! And its always worth remembering that every single night is different! Hope to see you both soon xx "We've been planning on going for a while, will eventually go once some health issues pan out. But this thread certainly has made us feel a bit more relaxed about going. | |||
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"The club is as friendly as you are to it. You go in moaning then you may be disappointed. The age range on all nights is across the boards, we try not to judge on anything least of all your age all we ask is you treat the club and its staff and members with respect and abide by our very few rules. And I can assure people that there is plenty of play at clubf, I would say though that its a big building on 3 floors and if you are in the wrong place at the wrong time you may miss the fun and games. A good idea is not to wait hopefully, then wonder why nothing happens, but get in amongst the members and socialise, chat or sumply say hello! it can make a world of difference! "I'm hoping to come down Wednesday. I did pm a few days ago but will try and ring tomorrow regarding membership if that's ok? | |||
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"The last few Friday's I have attended as a single guy have been very disappointing. There are usually several couples, however most of them just stay dressed or stay in the bar area chatting. Those that do play often head to the lockable rooms with other couples. So from what I have seen and heard from other members that as a single guy on a Friday night it is very rare that you will get to have or see any fun. The last time I was there there was nothing happening at all, from opening time to closing time. Maybe by booking an over night room or "crash" could be a way of possibly getting some fun, as apparently most the action starts when the club closes. Maybe all the single guys the club allows in is off putting to the couples and single girls. As soon as they leave the bar they are followed by large tribes of single guys. The clientel does seem to be older than many other clubs I have previously been to but this could possibly just be the nights I have visited the club. " took all that on board , now in a cpls view it can be just as hard the cpls who sit in the bar fully clothed (we have , i (m) go in hot tub sauna ect chat to others i leave my mrs in bar to chat on greddy girls night weds an fridays we always meet back in bar , couples do that to be social .to chat get to know other swingers be it cpls or singles ,only last week in the changing rooms i over heard a convo 2 lads saying they paid in and they got nowt , i give him some advice later that night he emailed saying how he would love to lick my mrs fanny great chat up line eh ? some just dont know how to go about it and think pay in and your gona get it . | |||
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"The last few Friday's I have attended as a single guy have been very disappointing. There are usually several couples, however most of them just stay dressed or stay in the bar area chatting. Those that do play often head to the lockable rooms with other couples. So from what I have seen and heard from other members that as a single guy on a Friday night it is very rare that you will get to have or see any fun. The last time I was there there was nothing happening at all, from opening time to closing time. Maybe by booking an over night room or "crash" could be a way of possibly getting some fun, as apparently most the action starts when the club closes. Maybe all the single guys the club allows in is off putting to the couples and single girls. As soon as they leave the bar they are followed by large tribes of single guys. The clientel does seem to be older than many other clubs I have previously been to but this could possibly just be the nights I have visited the club. took all that on board , now in a cpls view it can be just as hard the cpls who sit in the bar fully clothed (we have , i (m) go in hot tub sauna ect chat to others i leave my mrs in bar to chat on greddy girls night weds an fridays we always meet back in bar , couples do that to be social .to chat get to know other swingers be it cpls or singles ,only last week in the changing rooms i over heard a convo 2 lads saying they paid in and they got nowt , i give him some advice later that night he emailed saying how he would love to lick my mrs fanny great chat up line eh ? some just dont know how to go about it and think pay in and your gona get it . " As a single man's view, the night I chose for my first visit wasn't great, as the place was pretty empty, and I didn't get there until around 9:15. I was quite obviously a new face in the crowd, and although I tried to place myself where I could engage in conversation with others, a cursory 'Hi' with a nod of acknowledgment was the most I received. Unsurprisingly, 2 hours of self-contemplation was the most I could endure, so I left. I see now, and understand what was said earlier about couples arriving later, with the intention of staying over, and can appreciate why things don't liven up 'till later in the evening. It's either that, or look for a specific event where more people are likely to arrive earlier on. I did like the venue overall, enjoyed a very chilled-out time in the be-cushioned bedouin 'tent' area, with great tunes in the background. Just wish I'd found someone to at least chat with  | |||
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"The last few Friday's I have attended as a single guy have been very disappointing. There are usually several couples, however most of them just stay dressed or stay in the bar area chatting. Those that do play often head to the lockable rooms with other couples. So from what I have seen and heard from other members that as a single guy on a Friday night it is very rare that you will get to have or see any fun. The last time I was there there was nothing happening at all, from opening time to closing time. Maybe by booking an over night room or "crash" could be a way of possibly getting some fun, as apparently most the action starts when the club closes. Maybe all the single guys the club allows in is off putting to the couples and single girls. As soon as they leave the bar they are followed by large tribes of single guys. The clientel does seem to be older than many other clubs I have previously been to but this could possibly just be the nights I have visited the club. took all that on board , now in a cpls view it can be just as hard the cpls who sit in the bar fully clothed (we have , i (m) go in hot tub sauna ect chat to others i leave my mrs in bar to chat on greddy girls night weds an fridays we always meet back in bar , couples do that to be social .to chat get to know other swingers be it cpls or singles ,only last week in the changing rooms i over heard a convo 2 lads saying they paid in and they got nowt , i give him some advice later that night he emailed saying how he would love to lick my mrs fanny great chat up line eh ? some just dont know how to go about it and think pay in and your gona get it . As a single man's view, the night I chose for my first visit wasn't great, as the place was pretty empty, and I didn't get there until around 9:15. I was quite obviously a new face in the crowd, and although I tried to place myself where I could engage in conversation with others, a cursory 'Hi' with a nod of acknowledgment was the most I received. Unsurprisingly, 2 hours of self-contemplation was the most I could endure, so I left. I see now, and understand what was said earlier about couples arriving later, with the intention of staying over, and can appreciate why things don't liven up 'till later in the evening. It's either that, or look for a specific event where more people are likely to arrive earlier on. I did like the venue overall, enjoyed a very chilled-out time in the be-cushioned bedouin 'tent' area, with great tunes in the background. Just wish I'd found someone to at least chat with "when people ask our advice on going to the club we say its like going on holiday you go into a bar what do you do , a sit and drink oe b sit drnk get to chat to others , go in the hot tub sauna ect find out what others are into the rest will follow , we have been in the club for over a hour and may x amount of people in then go for a look about and find others and been changed and go straight down stairs or up ,every body has different tactics | |||
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"The last few Friday's I have attended as a single guy have been very disappointing. There are usually several couples, however most of them just stay dressed or stay in the bar area chatting. Those that do play often head to the lockable rooms with other couples. So from what I have seen and heard from other members that as a single guy on a Friday night it is very rare that you will get to have or see any fun. The last time I was there there was nothing happening at all, from opening time to closing time. Maybe by booking an over night room or "crash" could be a way of possibly getting some fun, as apparently most the action starts when the club closes. Maybe all the single guys the club allows in is off putting to the couples and single girls. As soon as they leave the bar they are followed by large tribes of single guys. The clientel does seem to be older than many other clubs I have previously been to but this could possibly just be the nights I have visited the club. took all that on board , now in a cpls view it can be just as hard the cpls who sit in the bar fully clothed (we have , i (m) go in hot tub sauna ect chat to others i leave my mrs in bar to chat on greddy girls night weds an fridays we always meet back in bar , couples do that to be social .to chat get to know other swingers be it cpls or singles ,only last week in the changing rooms i over heard a convo 2 lads saying they paid in and they got nowt , i give him some advice later that night he emailed saying how he would love to lick my mrs fanny great chat up line eh ? some just dont know how to go about it and think pay in and your gona get it . As a single man's view, the night I chose for my first visit wasn't great, as the place was pretty empty, and I didn't get there until around 9:15. I was quite obviously a new face in the crowd, and although I tried to place myself where I could engage in conversation with others, a cursory 'Hi' with a nod of acknowledgment was the most I received. Unsurprisingly, 2 hours of self-contemplation was the most I could endure, so I left. I see now, and understand what was said earlier about couples arriving later, with the intention of staying over, and can appreciate why things don't liven up 'till later in the evening. It's either that, or look for a specific event where more people are likely to arrive earlier on. I did like the venue overall, enjoyed a very chilled-out time in the be-cushioned bedouin 'tent' area, with great tunes in the background. Just wish I'd found someone to at least chat with when people ask our advice on going to the club we say its like going on holiday you go into a bar what do you do , a sit and drink oe b sit drnk get to chat to others , go in the hot tub sauna ect find out what others are into the rest will follow , we have been in the club for over a hour and may x amount of people in then go for a look about and find others and been changed and go straight down stairs or up ,every body has different tactics"I didn't just stay sat in one place, rooted to the spot like one of those human statues lol! Of course I moved around the place, it was all new and exciting, with three floors to explore, different rooms, nooks and crannies all over. Did I really want to post, in a public forum, about how I tried to mingle with people in the bar area, or the chillout (smokers) hut, or the first room where you can use your mobile phone, but only found people moving away from me, like I was some kind of fugly social leper? No, I didn't, but it appears I now have, so thanks for that The club itself is a great venue, I did like it overall. It was just the wrong night for a newbie guy on his own. | |||
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"Well I’m just trying to figure out what the LMLMMM means and WMC and LLRRHHU in these posts !!! "It's in the slang dictionary, it can be found in the WFNA (who fecking knows aisle) | |||
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"The last few Friday's I have attended as a single guy have been very disappointing. There are usually several couples, however most of them just stay dressed or stay in the bar area chatting. Those that do play often head to the lockable rooms with other couples. So from what I have seen and heard from other members that as a single guy on a Friday night it is very rare that you will get to have or see any fun. The last time I was there there was nothing happening at all, from opening time to closing time. Maybe by booking an over night room or "crash" could be a way of possibly getting some fun, as apparently most the action starts when the club closes. Maybe all the single guys the club allows in is off putting to the couples and single girls. As soon as they leave the bar they are followed by large tribes of single guys. The clientel does seem to be older than many other clubs I have previously been to but this could possibly just be the nights I have visited the club. took all that on board , now in a cpls view it can be just as hard the cpls who sit in the bar fully clothed (we have , i (m) go in hot tub sauna ect chat to others i leave my mrs in bar to chat on greddy girls night weds an fridays we always meet back in bar , couples do that to be social .to chat get to know other swingers be it cpls or singles ,only last week in the changing rooms i over heard a convo 2 lads saying they paid in and they got nowt , i give him some advice later that night he emailed saying how he would love to lick my mrs fanny great chat up line eh ? some just dont know how to go about it and think pay in and your gona get it . As a single man's view, the night I chose for my first visit wasn't great, as the place was pretty empty, and I didn't get there until around 9:15. I was quite obviously a new face in the crowd, and although I tried to place myself where I could engage in conversation with others, a cursory 'Hi' with a nod of acknowledgment was the most I received. Unsurprisingly, 2 hours of self-contemplation was the most I could endure, so I left. I see now, and understand what was said earlier about couples arriving later, with the intention of staying over, and can appreciate why things don't liven up 'till later in the evening. It's either that, or look for a specific event where more people are likely to arrive earlier on. I did like the venue overall, enjoyed a very chilled-out time in the be-cushioned bedouin 'tent' area, with great tunes in the background. Just wish I'd found someone to at least chat with when people ask our advice on going to the club we say its like going on holiday you go into a bar what do you do , a sit and drink oe b sit drnk get to chat to others , go in the hot tub sauna ect find out what others are into the rest will follow , we have been in the club for over a hour and may x amount of people in then go for a look about and find others and been changed and go straight down stairs or up ,every body has different tactics
I didn't just stay sat in one place, rooted to the spot like one of those human statues lol! Of course I moved around the place, it was all new and exciting, with three floors to explore, different rooms, nooks and crannies all over. Did I really want to post, in a public forum, about how I tried to mingle with people in the bar area, or the chillout (smokers) hut, or the first room where you can use your mobile phone, but only found people moving away from me, like I was some kind of fugly social leper? No, I didn't, but it appears I now have, so thanks for that The club itself is a great venue, I did like it overall. It was just the wrong night for a newbie guy on his own."i didnt mean you kidda ,i ment some in general i aint nit picking at you mind, so dont read this wrong , must of been a night we wernt there as the staff will tell you sometimes am dragging the mrs out the door as she sits in bar and talks to anyone who speaks | |||
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"The last few Friday's I have attended as a single guy have been very disappointing. There are usually several couples, however most of them just stay dressed or stay in the bar area chatting. Those that do play often head to the lockable rooms with other couples. So from what I have seen and heard from other members that as a single guy on a Friday night it is very rare that you will get to have or see any fun. The last time I was there there was nothing happening at all, from opening time to closing time. Maybe by booking an over night room or "crash" could be a way of possibly getting some fun, as apparently most the action starts when the club closes. Maybe all the single guys the club allows in is off putting to the couples and single girls. As soon as they leave the bar they are followed by large tribes of single guys. The clientel does seem to be older than many other clubs I have previously been to but this could possibly just be the nights I have visited the club. took all that on board , now in a cpls view it can be just as hard the cpls who sit in the bar fully clothed (we have , i (m) go in hot tub sauna ect chat to others i leave my mrs in bar to chat on greddy girls night weds an fridays we always meet back in bar , couples do that to be social .to chat get to know other swingers be it cpls or singles ,only last week in the changing rooms i over heard a convo 2 lads saying they paid in and they got nowt , i give him some advice later that night he emailed saying how he would love to lick my mrs fanny great chat up line eh ? some just dont know how to go about it and think pay in and your gona get it . As a single man's view, the night I chose for my first visit wasn't great, as the place was pretty empty, and I didn't get there until around 9:15. I was quite obviously a new face in the crowd, and although I tried to place myself where I could engage in conversation with others, a cursory 'Hi' with a nod of acknowledgment was the most I received. Unsurprisingly, 2 hours of self-contemplation was the most I could endure, so I left. I see now, and understand what was said earlier about couples arriving later, with the intention of staying over, and can appreciate why things don't liven up 'till later in the evening. It's either that, or look for a specific event where more people are likely to arrive earlier on. I did like the venue overall, enjoyed a very chilled-out time in the be-cushioned bedouin 'tent' area, with great tunes in the background. Just wish I'd found someone to at least chat with when people ask our advice on going to the club we say its like going on holiday you go into a bar what do you do , a sit and drink oe b sit drnk get to chat to others , go in the hot tub sauna ect find out what others are into the rest will follow , we have been in the club for over a hour and may x amount of people in then go for a look about and find others and been changed and go straight down stairs or up ,every body has different tactics
I didn't just stay sat in one place, rooted to the spot like one of those human statues lol! Of course I moved around the place, it was all new and exciting, with three floors to explore, different rooms, nooks and crannies all over. Did I really want to post, in a public forum, about how I tried to mingle with people in the bar area, or the chillout (smokers) hut, or the first room where you can use your mobile phone, but only found people moving away from me, like I was some kind of fugly social leper? No, I didn't, but it appears I now have, so thanks for that The club itself is a great venue, I did like it overall. It was just the wrong night for a newbie guy on his own.i didnt mean you kidda ,i ment some in general i aint nit picking at you mind, so dont read this wrong , must of been a night we wernt there as the staff will tell you sometimes am dragging the mrs out the door as she sits in bar and talks to anyone who speaks "No worries, thanks for that
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"I think there is too much chlorine in the hot tub! But the club have some amazing people, such as yourself good sir. The chlorine levels are good, its when people dont shower and go in with perfume, after shave and make up it works extra hard to keep it clean and cos its in a smaller space it lingers, we have put up a fan but it is a problem from time to time but unless we switch off the chlorine it will happen and I dont really want to switch it off...so sorry bout it but it isnt cos there is too much chlorine xx "Hi Sue You could change to a self regulating salt based system, the issue with neat chlorine systems is that when you start a cycle you have to dose it high to ensure it lasts, that means at the beginning of the cycle it is a lot stronger than at the end. Salt based systems generate chlorine at an almost consistent level through tte cycle and the water only has a tiny hint of saltiness so we find that much better than pure chlorine. Hope that helps Xx GTT | |||
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"The last few Friday's I have attended as a single guy have been very disappointing. There are usually several couples, however most of them just stay dressed or stay in the bar area chatting. Those that do play often head to the lockable rooms with other couples. So from what I have seen and heard from other members that as a single guy on a Friday night it is very rare that you will get to have or see any fun. The last time I was there there was nothing happening at all, from opening time to closing time. Maybe by booking an over night room or "crash" could be a way of possibly getting some fun, as apparently most the action starts when the club closes. Maybe all the single guys the club allows in is off putting to the couples and single girls. As soon as they leave the bar they are followed by large tribes of single guys. The clientel does seem to be older than many other clubs I have previously been to but this could possibly just be the nights I have visited the club. took all that on board , now in a cpls view it can be just as hard the cpls who sit in the bar fully clothed (we have , i (m) go in hot tub sauna ect chat to others i leave my mrs in bar to chat on greddy girls night weds an fridays we always meet back in bar , couples do that to be social .to chat get to know other swingers be it cpls or singles ,only last week in the changing rooms i over heard a convo 2 lads saying they paid in and they got nowt , i give him some advice later that night he emailed saying how he would love to lick my mrs fanny great chat up line eh ? some just dont know how to go about it and think pay in and your gona get it . As a single man's view, the night I chose for my first visit wasn't great, as the place was pretty empty, and I didn't get there until around 9:15. I was quite obviously a new face in the crowd, and although I tried to place myself where I could engage in conversation with others, a cursory 'Hi' with a nod of acknowledgment was the most I received. Unsurprisingly, 2 hours of self-contemplation was the most I could endure, so I left. I see now, and understand what was said earlier about couples arriving later, with the intention of staying over, and can appreciate why things don't liven up 'till later in the evening. It's either that, or look for a specific event where more people are likely to arrive earlier on. I did like the venue overall, enjoyed a very chilled-out time in the be-cushioned bedouin 'tent' area, with great tunes in the background. Just wish I'd found someone to at least chat with when people ask our advice on going to the club we say its like going on holiday you go into a bar what do you do , a sit and drink oe b sit drnk get to chat to others , go in the hot tub sauna ect find out what others are into the rest will follow , we have been in the club for over a hour and may x amount of people in then go for a look about and find others and been changed and go straight down stairs or up ,every body has different tactics
I didn't just stay sat in one place, rooted to the spot like one of those human statues lol! Of course I moved around the place, it was all new and exciting, with three floors to explore, different rooms, nooks and crannies all over. Did I really want to post, in a public forum, about how I tried to mingle with people in the bar area, or the chillout (smokers) hut, or the first room where you can use your mobile phone, but only found people moving away from me, like I was some kind of fugly social leper? No, I didn't, but it appears I now have, so thanks for that The club itself is a great venue, I did like it overall. It was just the wrong night for a newbie guy on his own.i didnt mean you kidda ,i ment some in general i aint nit picking at you mind, so dont read this wrong , must of been a night we wernt there as the staff will tell you sometimes am dragging the mrs out the door as she sits in bar and talks to anyone who speaks
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The night I went was Friday 22nd December, I had hoped it would have been busier than it was."tbh kidda was a cpl of weeks before xmas was bit quiet but starting to pick up , we go weds fridays our favy nights we do go chill sundays to , il had to delete this before sue charges us council tax | |||
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"The last few Friday's I have attended as a single guy have been very disappointing. There are usually several couples, however most of them just stay dressed or stay in the bar area chatting. Those that do play often head to the lockable rooms with other couples. So from what I have seen and heard from other members that as a single guy on a Friday night it is very rare that you will get to have or see any fun. The last time I was there there was nothing happening at all, from opening time to closing time. Maybe by booking an over night room or "crash" could be a way of possibly getting some fun, as apparently most the action starts when the club closes. Maybe all the single guys the club allows in is off putting to the couples and single girls. As soon as they leave the bar they are followed by large tribes of single guys. The clientel does seem to be older than many other clubs I have previously been to but this could possibly just be the nights I have visited the club. took all that on board , now in a cpls view it can be just as hard the cpls who sit in the bar fully clothed (we have , i (m) go in hot tub sauna ect chat to others i leave my mrs in bar to chat on greddy girls night weds an fridays we always meet back in bar , couples do that to be social .to chat get to know other swingers be it cpls or singles ,only last week in the changing rooms i over heard a convo 2 lads saying they paid in and they got nowt , i give him some advice later that night he emailed saying how he would love to lick my mrs fanny great chat up line eh ? some just dont know how to go about it and think pay in and your gona get it . As a single man's view, the night I chose for my first visit wasn't great, as the place was pretty empty, and I didn't get there until around 9:15. I was quite obviously a new face in the crowd, and although I tried to place myself where I could engage in conversation with others, a cursory 'Hi' with a nod of acknowledgment was the most I received. Unsurprisingly, 2 hours of self-contemplation was the most I could endure, so I left. I see now, and understand what was said earlier about couples arriving later, with the intention of staying over, and can appreciate why things don't liven up 'till later in the evening. It's either that, or look for a specific event where more people are likely to arrive earlier on. I did like the venue overall, enjoyed a very chilled-out time in the be-cushioned bedouin 'tent' area, with great tunes in the background. Just wish I'd found someone to at least chat with when people ask our advice on going to the club we say its like going on holiday you go into a bar what do you do , a sit and drink oe b sit drnk get to chat to others , go in the hot tub sauna ect find out what others are into the rest will follow , we have been in the club for over a hour and may x amount of people in then go for a look about and find others and been changed and go straight down stairs or up ,every body has different tactics
I didn't just stay sat in one place, rooted to the spot like one of those human statues lol! Of course I moved around the place, it was all new and exciting, with three floors to explore, different rooms, nooks and crannies all over. Did I really want to post, in a public forum, about how I tried to mingle with people in the bar area, or the chillout (smokers) hut, or the first room where you can use your mobile phone, but only found people moving away from me, like I was some kind of fugly social leper? No, I didn't, but it appears I now have, so thanks for that The club itself is a great venue, I did like it overall. It was just the wrong night for a newbie guy on his own.i didnt mean you kidda ,i ment some in general i aint nit picking at you mind, so dont read this wrong , must of been a night we wernt there as the staff will tell you sometimes am dragging the mrs out the door as she sits in bar and talks to anyone who speaks
No worries, thanks for that
The night I went was Friday 22nd December, I had hoped it would have been busier than it was.tbh kidda was a cpl of weeks before xmas was bit quiet but starting to pick up , we go weds fridays our favy nights we do go chill sundays to , il had to delete this before sue charges us council tax "It was ‘Black eye Friday’; the day many people finish work before Xmas, and traditionally the start of the party season. I should’ve gone out on the piss like usual | |||
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"I’ve visited Club F over 30 times and have never had a bad night. The facilities and staff are first class and they go out of their way to be helpful. I have stayed overnight on many occasions too which is always a good idea. As a single man who’s visited clubs all over the country I can honestly say I’ve never had a night there where I haven’t played. Maybe I’m just lucky . Would definitely recommend. "Well done you | |||
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"Well I’m just trying to figure out what the LMLMMM means and WMC and LLRRHHU in these posts !!!
It's in the slang dictionary, it can be found in the WFNA (who fecking knows aisle) " | |||
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"Well I’m just trying to figure out what the LMLMMM means and WMC and LLRRHHU in these posts !!!
It's in the slang dictionary, it can be found in the WFKA (who fecking knows aisle)
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