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By *M AND J OP   Couple
over a year ago

skipton

We are looking for a club in the north west area with no "dress down" policy to go to in the near future.

I much prefer seeing men dressed nicely in shirt and pants rather than in shorts or a towel and don't want to feel pressured in to getting in to something revealing before I'm ready to .

Any help is appreciated

J & S

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By *sandaa1Couple
over a year ago

preston

The only one we know is infusions but that's only in certain areas X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Vanilla alternative is smart dress in bar area. Most is dress down once in play area I think x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are looking for a club in the north west area with no "dress down" policy to go to in the near future.

I much prefer seeing men dressed nicely in shirt and pants rather than in shorts or a towel and don't want to feel pressured in to getting in to something revealing before I'm ready to .

Any help is appreciated

J & S "

Townhouse on the Wirral.

You can stay dressed all evening downstairs if you wish to. It's only if you go up to the playrooms after 11pm that you have to dress down, Or of course if you want to get into the hot tub/sauna If you feel comfortable and do wish to dress down you can at any point during your visit.

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By *irty filthy milfWoman
over a year ago

somewhere only i know!


"We are looking for a club in the north west area with no "dress down" policy to go to in the near future.

I much prefer seeing men dressed nicely in shirt and pants rather than in shorts or a towel and don't want to feel pressured in to getting in to something revealing before I'm ready to .

Any help is appreciated

J & S "

Townhouse has a no dress down in the social areas but in the playrooms after 11pm, No 3 has a dress down at 10:30 and think Amour is a similar time? Partners is dress down in play areas but not in the bar and Cupids is straight to dress down, other clubs I can't comment on as I've not been! Hope this helps xx

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By *oo hotCouple
over a year ago

North West


"We are looking for a club in the north west area with no "dress down" policy to go to in the near future.

I much prefer seeing men dressed nicely in shirt and pants rather than in shorts or a towel and don't want to feel pressured in to getting in to something revealing before I'm ready to .

Any help is appreciated

J & S "

Xtasia in the Midlands has a Premier Inn literally next door and if you plan ahead, you can get rooms for £35 / night.

Xtasia is exactly what you are looking for and by planning ahead you can choose your night and get exactly what you want for not a lot of money.

We have been going to Clubs for ten years and used to go once a week or every couple of weeks in the NW but now prefer to travel and make a weekend of it every 6 weeks or so in a Club that attracts sexy people who dress for the occasion. That said, don't get us wrong we also like dress down Clubs but for parties, events and just overall fun... You can't beat places like Xtasia (other Clubs are of course available )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Decadance in Rochdale has no dress down policy

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By *isa 59Woman
over a year ago

Newcastle

Great question OP. As someone who has yet to visit a club, I too am a bit nervous about having to undress before I am ready to.

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By *M AND J OP   Couple
over a year ago

skipton

Glad I'm not the only one! Just don't want to be looking at clock and thinking it's gong to be dress down time soon. I want to have the choice to be able to when I'm ready!

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By *M AND J OP   Couple
over a year ago

skipton


"Decadance in Rochdale has no dress down policy "

Thanks we will have a look. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I didn't say you can stay dressed up in bar area all night if you wanted in va, which on my first visit I thought I would just do that but I was to tempted and had great fun I'd suggest meeting someone at bar for drinks to help nerves and if you get on it helps relax you then the rest is up to you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are looking for a club in the north west area with no "dress down" policy to go to in the near future.

I much prefer seeing men dressed nicely in shirt and pants rather than in shorts or a towel and don't want to feel pressured in to getting in to something revealing before I'm ready to .

Any help is appreciated

J & S "

Quest in Leeds - stay dressed all evening in bar area if you wish, on a Friday/Sat evening the bar area resembles a smart nightclub .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As previously said The No3 Club does have a dress down time but on Sunday's 4-10pm you can stay dressed in the bar /lounge all afternoon /evening

Wherever you go . Enjoy

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By *M AND J OP   Couple
over a year ago

skipton

Thanks for your help so far everyone.

There's just so much choice around our area picking the right one is hard work!

We have been to townhouse a while ago and had a great night (Leenw you were there and met us) and are going to xtasia later on in the year.

We were just looking for something a bit more local that we could go regularly to.

J & S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for your help so far everyone.

There's just so much choice around our area picking the right one is hard work!

We have been to townhouse a while ago and had a great night (Leenw you were there and met us) and are going to xtasia later on in the year.

We were just looking for something a bit more local that we could go regularly to.

J & S"

That might well of been on one of my very rare visits to Townhouse

Hope you find somewhere more local that suits you. Look forward to catching up agai sometime in the not too distant future eother at Townhouse or Xtasia

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

Atlantis in Stoke area has none of this undress shenanigans. If you go on Saturday August 13th it's a pyjama party ( theme is optional) but you can stay at the club overnight for free.

Great for any people travelling a distance. Bring ID for each person. Read website for more info about the club. Reviews say how friendly it is.

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By *mega_1Woman
over a year ago

Birkenhead


"Thanks for your help so far everyone.

There's just so much choice around our area picking the right one is hard work!

We have been to townhouse a while ago and had a great night (Leenw you were there and met us) and are going to xtasia later on in the year.

We were just looking for something a bit more local that we could go regularly to.

J & S

That might well of been on one of my very rare visits to Townhouse

Hope you find somewhere more local that suits you. Look forward to catching up agai sometime in the not too distant future eother at Townhouse or Xtasia "

Rare visits, yeah right lol .

One of the things I love about Townhouse is that I don't have to dress down unless I want to, but on other nights I'll dress down as soon as I enter the building.

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By *arton BlueMan
over a year ago

Preston

Decadance, Rochdale.

Less than an hours drive from you, spotlessly clean, no dress down in bar / public area, just if you want to go upstairs into a room.

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By *horeyMan
over a year ago

Calne

Dress down policy does seem to be a very North/South divide thing. Clubs in the South you dress up and (generally) only undress when in a playroom. Whereas most of the clubs in the North you are expected to dress down pretty much on arrival or stay within certain areas. I would have thought some of the clubs could mix things up a bit now and again. If Cupids or Partners had one night a month when it is a 'dress up' night with no rules or pressure to undress they might attract a new crowd.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dress down policy does seem to be a very North/South divide thing. Clubs in the South you dress up and (generally) only undress when in a playroom. Whereas most of the clubs in the North you are expected to dress down pretty much on arrival or stay within certain areas. I would have thought some of the clubs could mix things up a bit now and again. If Cupids or Partners had one night a month when it is a 'dress up' night with no rules or pressure to undress they might attract a new crowd."

I like the dress down policy that Townhouse have, which is dress down upstairs in the playrooms after 11. I didn't really get it until I went to Atlantis, where they don't have a dress down rule at all. Mid play, completely naked, there are people walking round fully clothed. It felt seedy and I didn't like it at all. It's really put me off going to clubs without dress down.

I know some clubs have an immediate dress down rule too. I'm not sure that's for me either tbh. But the dress down in the play areas thing helps to keep everyone on a level playing field in my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dress down policy does seem to be a very North/South divide thing. Clubs in the South you dress up and (generally) only undress when in a playroom. Whereas most of the clubs in the North you are expected to dress down pretty much on arrival or stay within certain areas. I would have thought some of the clubs could mix things up a bit now and again. If Cupids or Partners had one night a month when it is a 'dress up' night with no rules or pressure to undress they might attract a new crowd."

Cupids have a "stayed dressed" evening every Tuesday. Few of our guests & members seem to take advantage of this. All about choices - have fun wherever you go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

really hope you have a fabulous time what ever venue you pick guys my vote would be the townhouse as vicky is a darlin n always looks after me n my GF strawberry treat when we visit but i do know laura n steve at amour love to take care of their newbies too

If n when your ready for a straight to dress down club i would love to invite you to cupids and would be more than happy to meet up n be your guide for the evening

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *itokoliloMan
over a year ago

MANCHESTER

Decadance .Its like an up Market wine bar with a twist.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See we prefer it the other way around. It's too much like hard work hard work having to get undressed and dressed again when you want to get down to the fun..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

TheUnit blackpool don't have a dress down policy you can wear what you feel comfortable in or dress down please check there page or club reviews for more info.

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By *umpleteazerWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire


"Dress down policy does seem to be a very North/South divide thing. Clubs in the South you dress up and (generally) only undress when in a playroom. Whereas most of the clubs in the North you are expected to dress down pretty much on arrival or stay within certain areas. I would have thought some of the clubs could mix things up a bit now and again. If Cupids or Partners had one night a month when it is a 'dress up' night with no rules or pressure to undress they might attract a new crowd.

I like the dress down policy that Townhouse have, which is dress down upstairs in the playrooms after 11. I didn't really get it until I went to Atlantis, where they don't have a dress down rule at all. Mid play, completely naked, there are people walking round fully clothed. It felt seedy and I didn't like it at all. It's really put me off going to clubs without dress down.

I know some clubs have an immediate dress down rule too. I'm not sure that's for me either tbh. But the dress down in the play areas thing helps to keep everyone on a level playing field in my opinion."

Couldn't agree more. Nothing worse than being naked playing with fully clothed people watching. Makes me really uncomfortable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dress down policy does seem to be a very North/South divide thing. Clubs in the South you dress up and (generally) only undress when in a playroom. Whereas most of the clubs in the North you are expected to dress down pretty much on arrival or stay within certain areas. I would have thought some of the clubs could mix things up a bit now and again. If Cupids or Partners had one night a month when it is a 'dress up' night with no rules or pressure to undress they might attract a new crowd.

I like the dress down policy that Townhouse have, which is dress down upstairs in the playrooms after 11. I didn't really get it until I went to Atlantis, where they don't have a dress down rule at all. Mid play, completely naked, there are people walking round fully clothed. It felt seedy and I didn't like it at all. It's really put me off going to clubs without dress down.

I know some clubs have an immediate dress down rule too. I'm not sure that's for me either tbh. But the dress down in the play areas thing helps to keep everyone on a level playing field in my opinion.

Couldn't agree more. Nothing worse than being naked playing with fully clothed people watching. Makes me really uncomfortable"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dress down policy does seem to be a very North/South divide thing. Clubs in the South you dress up and (generally) only undress when in a playroom. Whereas most of the clubs in the North you are expected to dress down pretty much on arrival or stay within certain areas. I would have thought some of the clubs could mix things up a bit now and again. If Cupids or Partners had one night a month when it is a 'dress up' night with no rules or pressure to undress they might attract a new crowd.

I like the dress down policy that Townhouse have, which is dress down upstairs in the playrooms after 11. I didn't really get it until I went to Atlantis, where they don't have a dress down rule at all. Mid play, completely naked, there are people walking round fully clothed. It felt seedy and I didn't like it at all. It's really put me off going to clubs without dress down.

I know some clubs have an immediate dress down rule too. I'm not sure that's for me either tbh. But the dress down in the play areas thing helps to keep everyone on a level playing field in my opinion.

Couldn't agree more. Nothing worse than being naked playing with fully clothed people watching. Makes me really uncomfortable "

Totally agree, part of the lure of sex clubs and swinging clubs is the freedom to be ourselves, that includes for us at least, being naked or dressing sexy. When there are people walking around in their normal clothes, it just dampens the mood for us..

Guess we are true Northern swingers though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dress down policy does seem to be a very North/South divide thing. Clubs in the South you dress up and (generally) only undress when in a playroom. Whereas most of the clubs in the North you are expected to dress down pretty much on arrival or stay within certain areas. I would have thought some of the clubs could mix things up a bit now and again. If Cupids or Partners had one night a month when it is a 'dress up' night with no rules or pressure to undress they might attract a new crowd.

I like the dress down policy that Townhouse have, which is dress down upstairs in the playrooms after 11. I didn't really get it until I went to Atlantis, where they don't have a dress down rule at all. Mid play, completely naked, there are people walking round fully clothed. It felt seedy and I didn't like it at all. It's really put me off going to clubs without dress down.

I know some clubs have an immediate dress down rule too. I'm not sure that's for me either tbh. But the dress down in the play areas thing helps to keep everyone on a level playing field in my opinion.

Couldn't agree more. Nothing worse than being naked playing with fully clothed people watching. Makes me really uncomfortable

Totally agree, part of the lure of sex clubs and swinging clubs is the freedom to be ourselves, that includes for us at least, being naked or dressing sexy. When there are people walking around in their normal clothes, it just dampens the mood for us..

Guess we are true Northern swingers though "

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By *ndykinkyMan
over a year ago

STOKE-ON-TRENT

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By *ndykinkyMan
over a year ago

STOKE-ON-TRENT

Atlantis simply allows those attending to choose when to dress down. Newbies can be wary of being undressed in front of a group of people whereas more experienced people would be comfortable with it.

Simply a matter of personal preference.

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire

I've been to partners on my own in a couple and with friends

I can stay in the lounge area chatting for ages fully clothed. .. then the mood takes for a wander so I'll go into a baby doll still covered enough to be comfortable. ... eventually though the jacuzzi wins out lol and then it's a nice big towel!

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By *esmond and Molly JonesCouple
over a year ago

Watford


"We are looking for a club in the north west area with no "dress down" policy to go to in the near future.

I much prefer seeing men dressed nicely in shirt and pants rather than in shorts or a towel.. "

Most clubs would look down on men walking round in their shirt and pants. At least put some trousers on as well ffs!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Decadance, Rochdale.

Less than an hours drive from you, spotlessly clean, no dress down in bar / public area, just if you want to go upstairs into a room. "
Good to know, thanks for that Barton

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