FabSwingers.com forum: First time visitor.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Whoops deleted the post by mistake haha. Great start!

Hey everyone, just visiting our first club on friday and it will be our first club and first experience altogether. Any tips for newbies about what to expect? Had some great help already from people on here! Thanks

By *icepair64Man
over a year ago

Norwich

The best advice we'd got for our 1st visit was take things at your own pace. Don't rush into playing just because you are there. You will know when it's right.

Relax and don't put any pressure on yourselves.

Hope you have a great time x

By *ansterCouple
over a year ago

Enfield

go with clear ideas about your boundaries, and what you expect to get from the visit! Then, once you have been shown around, pick a room to play in on your own, it may settle your nerves, if you have any??

Then, just get involved socially, by approaching people to chat. The social side of clubs is massive, and people there are super-friendly, in our experience! Remember if anyone gets annoying, by following you, tell them you are not interested...

No means no, and everyone respects that, in our experience!!

Good luck! Jan X

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suppose it depends on the club, whether it's dress down or dress up as they have different atmospheres and dress codes etc.

But in general, be clear on your boundaries as a couple, maybe have a code word incase either of you are uncomforable or not interested.

Most clubs will give you a tour of their facilities and explain their etiquette and introduce you to regular clients of you want.

Relax, have fun, chat and if you fancy playing do so but you will be under not pressure to do so, No means No, if anyone is being rude or persistent you can report them but we have never had an issue or reason to do so.

Have fun

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Cheers guys, taken the advice on board. Sure we will have a great time!