FabSwingers.com forum: Should I go as a single M

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm considering going to a swingers club for a first time. Not sure if I'd actually get involved - I like to think I would if the right moment happened and someone there was keen but I guess you never know how you feel until you're there.

I've read quite a few posts about people not appreciating the number of single guys at clubs - I'm not a pushy person and wouldn't be 'following couples around' or anything like that but I wonder if it's just a bad idea to go at all as a single guy - would I just be part of the problem?

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By *roticGoddessXXWoman
over a year ago

Richmond

The problem with single men in clubs is not that they are there. The problem is the idiots who act like desperate puppies and stalk. If you're not that type, you're not part of the problem.

Just go! Don't plan on anything happening, don't expect a thing, be friendly and chatty. You never know what'll happen.

People go for their own reasons (some for sex with others, some to socialize and stay with their partner only, whatever). When I go, either alone or as a couple, I always love meeting people. People don't go solely to to clubs if they don't want to at least mingle with others (or they'd be in a hotel).

As long as you look at it as just a fun time out, you can't go wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The problem with single men in clubs is not that they are there. The problem is the idiots who act like desperate puppies and stalk. If you're not that type, you're not part of the problem.

Just go! Don't plan on anything happening, don't expect a thing, be friendly and chatty. You never know what'll happen.

As long as you look at it as just a fun time out, you can't go wrong."

Excellent advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Should I go as a single M"

well you can't go as a single bloody F can you!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your attitude is great for a club. You are going without the expectation that you will play.

Some single men follow you round like dogs on heat wanking and it really doesnt make me want to play with them

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

hahahahahaha! genuinely laughed out loud at that!

"Should I go as a single M

well you can't go as a single bloody F can you!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

thanks for the advice guys

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

The hardest part about going is just getting up the nerve to take the first step through the dirt once there relax be friendly and make the most of whatever the night brings

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"The hardest part about going is just getting up the nerve to take the first step through the dirt once there relax be friendly and make the most of whatever the night brings "

* door not dirt

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The hardest part about going is just getting up the nerve to take the first step through the dirt once there relax be friendly and make the most of whatever the night brings

* door not dirt "

Hahaha yeah I should hope not!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The hardest part about going is just getting up the nerve to take the first step through the dirt once there relax be friendly and make the most of whatever the night brings "

Thats my current problem, think i will find someone who knows the scene to push me through the dirt (door) hehehe

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"The hardest part about going is just getting up the nerve to take the first step through the dirt once there relax be friendly and make the most of whatever the night brings

* door not dirt

Hahaha yeah I should hope not! "

Dependant on the circumstance a bit of dirt(y) is a good thing

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