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"What is it? Tell please. " Check out the Festival page of The Vanilla Alternative website | |||
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"Cowboy boots and ......? ideas " Now that would be telling! | |||
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"We are thinking of heading down. Any other couples been and or going? " We are going. This will be our first time | |||
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"I was hoping to go this year for the first time. Recent experience has made me a little more wary of the privacy of such things. Narrowly missed inadvertent tabloid fame last weekend, not keen to chance it a second time. " We're exactly the same...such a shame | |||
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"I was hoping to go this year for the first time. Recent experience has made me a little more wary of the privacy of such things. Narrowly missed inadvertent tabloid fame last weekend, not keen to chance it a second time. We're exactly the same...such a shame " This is true but the club itself is open so all the indoors to enjoy plus the blow up marque is well protected from prying eyes! Add a river on two sides, a1 on another and private land the other and it is getting harder to get in for those without a ticket..... | |||
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"I was hoping to go this year for the first time. Recent experience has made me a little more wary of the privacy of such things. Narrowly missed inadvertent tabloid fame last weekend, not keen to chance it a second time. We're exactly the same...such a shame This is true but the club itself is open so all the indoors to enjoy plus the blow up marque is well protected from prying eyes! Add a river on two sides, a1 on another and private land the other and it is getting harder to get in for those without a ticket....." SF was captured by telephoto lens, helicopter and a couple with a valid ticket who were a journo and photographer. It's not about people getting in without a ticket. | |||
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"Having read all the comments, I think a few people are missing the point..., One of the reasons that Swingfields made the headlines was because of where it was held and obviously there were some disgruntled locals... They try to make it all a bit 'shock, horror' that something was going on in an otherwise peaceful location... Not usually an area frequented by swinger events! VA is a swingers club! So what would be the point of journalists/photographers trying to get a story on it.... It would hardly be seen as a big news to see swingers at a swinger club! If so, why would they not do it before, especially as there are events taking place outside at other times of the year... I'm sure the fantastic VA team will ensure that security is as good as it can be, and that everyone feels comfortable... I feel very sorry for those caught up in the Swingfields fiasco but do feel the circumstances were different and the whole point of getting the story was because of where it was. Anyway, hope everyone has a great time at FOF, I'm sure it will be a fantastic weekend! " I agree to a point. We were affected and therefore won't be going. Just hope the press do leave the event alone. It was great last year, and everyone has lots of filthy funx | |||
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"Having read all the comments, I think a few people are missing the point..., One of the reasons that Swingfields made the headlines was because of where it was held and obviously there were some disgruntled locals... They try to make it all a bit 'shock, horror' that something was going on in an otherwise peaceful location... Not usually an area frequented by swinger events! VA is a swingers club! So what would be the point of journalists/photographers trying to get a story on it.... It would hardly be seen as a big news to see swingers at a swinger club! If so, why would they not do it before, especially as there are events taking place outside at other times of the year... I'm sure the fantastic VA team will ensure that security is as good as it can be, and that everyone feels comfortable... I feel very sorry for those caught up in the Swingfields fiasco but do feel the circumstances were different and the whole point of getting the story was because of where it was. Anyway, hope everyone has a great time at FOF, I'm sure it will be a fantastic weekend! " The joke of it was, there were no disgruntled locals, they all seemed to find it quite amusing and their main concern was traffic increasing. Swinging in a swingers club isn't a shock, but it can be turned into salacious clap trap to appeal to the bored readers of the tabloids. It's no huge surprise that celebrities have sex, that still makes the so called "news". The issue is and remains security. Pure and simple. | |||
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"I was hoping to go this year for the first time. Recent experience has made me a little more wary of the privacy of such things. Narrowly missed inadvertent tabloid fame last weekend, not keen to chance it a second time. " I was at that very same festival and like you have had serious misgivings about going to anything similar. Having said that I decided not to let it ruin my fun. Although I will be on alert and that little bit more careful about what I get up to in the open. So I will be going to the Festival of Fun and I'm really looking forward to it. | |||
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"This has been posted on a Vanilla Alternative Facebook group: Good evening all xxx I need to ask you all a favour after the second year of shite with swingfields. If anyone sees any forum posts about the privacy at the FOF is please pass on this info. There are huge differences between swingfields and FOF, and this statement is by no means an attack on swingfields event. The FOF is held in the private grounds of a licensed and registered venue, that adheres to all licensing, performance, alcohol, EHO and tax legislation. We re not holding parties in locations that could cause offence to the general public, all attendees are registered members of the club and agree on application to a code of conduct. We are of little interest to the press as headlines like "Swingers invade sleepy village for a weekend of sex" are much more gutter press worthy than " long established private members club hold a weekend party the same as every other weekend for 5 years and 6 months" We have now held just shy of 1000 parties at the club and not a single incident of trouble. This is the fifth year of FOF and the press are so not interested in us that they report swingfields as being the longest running ( 1 year less than us) and the only outdoor event of its kind..... We have a huge responsibility to our members as we cannot risk exposing them as unlike one off annual events we cannot simply pack up and disappear, we have to face you all week in week out, and without our members the fun at The VA would be over. Sadly some ( not accusing swingfields at all) believe any publicity is good publicity, but we know the other attempt at a swingers country house festival last year actually invited the press in.....but he could, one event and has anyone heard of him since??? So, pick your party to suit your cloth and roll on FOF" "nuff said" perfect and thanks for informing us. | |||
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"And I shall be attending with a rather fit fella ?? Looking forward to a great weekend. Hope to catch up with friends from SF and looking to meet new friends. xx" Oooh get u! We too are looking forward to meeting new friends and catching up with old ones! | |||
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"This has been posted on a Vanilla Alternative Facebook group: Good evening all xxx I need to ask you all a favour after the second year of shite with swingfields. If anyone sees any forum posts about the privacy at the FOF is please pass on this info. There are huge differences between swingfields and FOF, and this statement is by no means an attack on swingfields event. The FOF is held in the private grounds of a licensed and registered venue, that adheres to all licensing, performance, alcohol, EHO and tax legislation. We re not holding parties in locations that could cause offence to the general public, all attendees are registered members of the club and agree on application to a code of conduct. We are of little interest to the press as headlines like "Swingers invade sleepy village for a weekend of sex" are much more gutter press worthy than " long established private members club hold a weekend party the same as every other weekend for 5 years and 6 months" We have now held just shy of 1000 parties at the club and not a single incident of trouble. This is the fifth year of FOF and the press are so not interested in us that they report swingfields as being the longest running ( 1 year less than us) and the only outdoor event of its kind..... We have a huge responsibility to our members as we cannot risk exposing them as unlike one off annual events we cannot simply pack up and disappear, we have to face you all week in week out, and without our members the fun at The VA would be over. Sadly some ( not accusing swingfields at all) believe any publicity is good publicity, but we know the other attempt at a swingers country house festival last year actually invited the press in.....but he could, one event and has anyone heard of him since??? So, pick your party to suit your cloth and roll on FOF" Just want to echo and agree with this statement from the club, we are regular attendees to the club and have attended all of the festivals they have held and must say the privacy and security of the grounds is second to none in our opinion. As far as we are aware everyone must register with the club and show identification before entering the premises so think everything is being done to protect everyone's privacy. So come on guys don't let the fuckers win get your butts down to VA FoF and be part of one of the best weekends of the scene. | |||
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"Just want to echo and agree with this statement from the club, we are regular attendees to the club and have attended all of the festivals they have held and must say the privacy and security of the grounds is second to none in our opinion. As far as we are aware everyone must register with the club and show identification before entering the premises so think everything is being done to protect everyone's privacy. So come on guys don't let the fuckers win get your butts down to VA FoF and be part of one of the best weekends of the scene." | |||
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"Just want to echo and agree with this statement from the club, we are regular attendees to the club and have attended all of the festivals they have held and must say the privacy and security of the grounds is second to none in our opinion. As far as we are aware everyone must register with the club and show identification before entering the premises so think everything is being done to protect everyone's privacy. So come on guys don't let the fuckers win get your butts down to VA FoF and be part of one of the best weekends of the scene. " Couldn't agree more!! | |||
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"Cowboy boots and ......? ideas " A smile! lol We're in. x | |||
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"Cowboy boots and ......? ideas A smile! lol We're in. x" Great idea | |||
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"not quite sure what the guys should be rocking? " What's good for the goose.... Daisy Duke's, cowboy boots, and a gingham shirt with a knot above the bellybutton. | |||
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"Not long to go now! " No and Mrs S has been extremely naughty | |||
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"TOWELS - Like last year, visitors to the Festival of Fun need to bring their own towels. On most party nights at VA's the club supplies nice white towels as part of the entrance fee but with so many people visiting over the weekend, it would just be impossible to wash and dry so many towels, especially with everything else going on. Some will be available for sale for anyone that forgets but generally, visitors need to bring their own. The club's towels are white, so it would make sense for guests bringing their own to choose another colour that is easily recognised." What if we all bring blue ones !! | |||
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"TOWELS - Like last year, visitors to the Festival of Fun need to bring their own towels. On most party nights at VA's the club supplies nice white towels as part of the entrance fee but with so many people visiting over the weekend, it would just be impossible to wash and dry so many towels, especially with everything else going on. Some will be available for sale for anyone that forgets but generally, visitors need to bring their own. The club's towels are white, so it would make sense for guests bringing their own to choose another colour that is easily recognised. What if we all bring blue ones !! " Everyone else may bring blues ones as well though..! | |||
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"TOWELS - Like last year, visitors to the Festival of Fun need to bring their own towels. On most party nights at VA's the club supplies nice white towels as part of the entrance fee but with so many people visiting over the weekend, it would just be impossible to wash and dry so many towels, especially with everything else going on. Some will be available for sale for anyone that forgets but generally, visitors need to bring their own. The club's towels are white, so it would make sense for guests bringing their own to choose another colour that is easily recognised. What if we all bring blue ones !! Everyone else may bring blues ones as well though..! " Oh yes good point what about red | |||
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"I (blonde girl 1) am going ! It's my first time at VA! Wondered what the dress code is. (I have a single female profile which I use more frequently than this ... Sassy but Classy). Will be great to meet new people X " well we were told the dress code was to look like the cyote ugly set | |||
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"I (blonde girl 1) am going ! It's my first time at VA! Wondered what the dress code is. (I have a single female profile which I use more frequently than this ... Sassy but Classy). Will be great to meet new people X " Themed dress code is there if people want to follow it, otherwise it's casual/sexy during the day and smart sexy at night. Foam party on Saturday night can get a bit messy so bring change of clothes if partaking. | |||
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"TOWELS - Like last year, visitors to the Festival of Fun need to bring their own towels. On most party nights at VA's the club supplies nice white towels as part of the entrance fee but with so many people visiting over the weekend, it would just be impossible to wash and dry so many towels, especially with everything else going on. Some will be available for sale for anyone that forgets but generally, visitors need to bring their own. The club's towels are white, so it would make sense for guests bringing their own to choose another colour that is easily recognised. What if we all bring blue ones !! Everyone else may bring blues ones as well though..! Oh yes good point what about red " Someone feeling a bit of dom are they?? | |||
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"And no doubt she will be feeling a bit of Dom " With no doubt about that! | |||
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"Sorry if this is a stupid question, but I can't see it on the VA site, but what time do "doors open" on the Friday? Will the main club be open from that time? Tx" Come round the back and have drink with us while you wait We will be there whatever time you get there Friday lol | |||
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"Come round the back and have drink with us while you wait We will be there whatever time you get there Friday lol" Ooh, around the back around by the bins who can resist - still best offer we've had for a while! So does anyone know? | |||
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"Sorry if this is a stupid question, but I can't see it on the VA site, but what time do "doors open" on the Friday? Will the main club be open from that time? Tx" For people camping, reception will be open from midday. The bar, hot tub and play rooms inside the club will be open from 8pm. Times will be different for the Country Kitchen outside. | |||
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"For people camping, reception will be open from midday. The bar, hot tub and play rooms inside the club will be open from 8pm. Times will be different for the Country Kitchen outside." Thanks - won't be camping if we attend, so not really sure what to do as we are already in the area and either go to FoF or head home and have fun locally. Suggestions welcome | |||
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"Come round the back and have drink with us while you wait We will be there whatever time you get there Friday lol Ooh, around the back around by the bins who can resist - still best offer we've had for a while! So does anyone know?" Or around the back on the club grounds where we will all be socialising and having a laugh Failing that there's the Crown up the road if you fancy a pre-Club meal?... | |||
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"Or around the back on the club grounds where we will all be socialising and having a laugh Failing that there's the Crown up the road if you fancy a pre-Club meal?..." Hey thanks Sadly we can't make definite plans as we are let down so often on family sitting we have no idea we'll actually make it somewhere until we're actually there! | |||
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"Or around the back on the club grounds where we will all be socialising and having a laugh Failing that there's the Crown up the road if you fancy a pre-Club meal?... Hey thanks Sadly we can't make definite plans as we are let down so often on family sitting we have no idea we'll actually make it somewhere until we're actually there!" God we know that feeling very well!!! Hope to see you there Xx | |||
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"So the foam party,dont want to sound niave but is it erm how to put like skinydipping? " Most people wear shorts and tee-shirt or sexy undies but some prefer nothing at all. It's all up to you but just remember to bring something else to change into after. | |||
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"Oh just a quick one we paid upfront for the FOF on our last trip to the VA, do we need a code or something? " Jules will be sending out codes from Today. Don't panic! | |||
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"Oh just a quick one we paid upfront for the FOF on our last trip to the VA, do we need a code or something? Jules will be sending out codes from Today. Don't panic!" Oh lovely thanks | |||
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"im hoping to go single male looking to join a couple" As far as I am aware, all Single Guy tickets have been sold out for a while....please contact VA to confirm | |||
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"Code received! Looking forward! May go and buy a sexy outfit...." Us too!! Can't wait!! Miss C. Xx | |||
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"Haven't been before. What's the dress code please anyone ??" Usually at VA's it's 'Dress to Impress' but for this year's festival we have the theme Coyote Ugly that many will be following. But theme aside, during the day almost anything goes whilst at night things move up a gear. Smart, sexy, as daring as you want. Remember, it gets messy in the foam so designer clothes are probably not a good idea. It's always great to see so many people making a real effort with clothing especially considering at night, the clothes don't stay on too long anyway! | |||
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