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To go to a club or not?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I am a single woman and fancy going to a club.( don't know if I would play tho) I have never been and can be a little shy and am very body conscious and have never been around lots of people in that scenario ...... Should I or shouldn't I ?

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By *winny445Man
over a year ago

battersea

yes you should

when i go for the first time though usually try to go on the quietest day so i can get a feel of the place

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Go for it. I've made a lot of friends at my local club, and enjoy trying new ones.

Don't worry about the way you look. There are all sorts of body types visiting clubs for fun, whether social or otherwise. Just get chatting and, if you don't want to play, say no politely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you should even just to try it.

Trust me ..I went for my first time ever last night and on my own. Nervous wasn't the word..I had a job to write I was shaking so much.

However, everyone was friendly (as in saying hi)and once nerves went a little I felt much better.

Read reviews of your local clubs and as other poster said maybe try a quieter day/night. If you go and its not for you at least you know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely!

I go as a single female and enjoy the no pressure environment. I play if I find someone I click with and just enjoy socialising otherwise.

But a caveat: choose club carefully - the wrong one may put you off for life!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Definitely!

But a caveat: choose club carefully - the wrong one may put you off for life! "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you ladies and gents I think I may go and a couple have offered to go with me to Libs. I think this would be my best bet as I wouldn't be alone (well not to start off with lol)

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area


"Thank you ladies and gents I think I may go and a couple have offered to go with me to Libs. I think this would be my best bet as I wouldn't be alone (well not to start off with lol)"

Hope you enjoy it. Going with people you know is the best scenario.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a club if you'd like to go, you might find somebody who really loves you.

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