FabSwingers.com forum: What makes you want to go to a club? You thoughts..

By *icknsuck2 OP Couple
over a year ago

St Ives bay, area

What make you decide which club to go to.?!

What makes a good club in your eyes.

A.) Playrooms. What types or rooms?

B.) Bar with alcohol?

C.) Spa area hot tub,sauna,steamroom

D.) Club location a city centre?

E.) Couple and single females only nights?

F.) Couples plus others nights?

G.) Age range of people 20-40 40-60. 60+

H.) Do you like clubs which have a host or not?!

J.) Open times of the club?!

We can never decide what makes a good club and why we think they have been good night,

Some many people remember diferent place.

What's your people thoughts?!

xxxx

Lns

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly ... It's the people there and the vibe !

Had great nights in chams ... And a cpl of dullish ones

Fantasic times at VA and an OK one ..

Xtasia has the potential to be the best for us but sadly for us it seems bit to work .. Noisy so hard to get chatting etc ..

All about the people ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When we used to frequent clubs it would be whether or not the club was likely to have a good selection of players present .

So Chams Darlaston on a Friday night was a good choice .

Since we only used clubs to play in , nothing else really mattered .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only ever been to one...

Looking for a club buddy to try a few more with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *irty130Couple
over a year ago

Bristol Area

Simple - everyone you meet in a club has bothered to leave the house. ie. No sofa swingers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love one particular club as we feel comfortable but sexy too....we are now thinking of trying others that have other equipment x

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By *icknsuck2 OP Couple
over a year ago

St Ives bay, area

Do you guys like it wen the clubs is busy with a lot of couple for preferred when there's a small group.?!

We been to one club with a host before and felt force to over socialis with others and total to stay to one area only ?

Till they let us into the spa area after an hour of the club being open.

Wasn't a relaxed evening.

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By *icknsuck2 OP Couple
over a year ago

St Ives bay, area

And

What time do you like a club to open.?

We went to one club that open at 9pm which we thought was better.

Then another club opened at 10.30pm was a bit later as normal leave clubs about 12.30am

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By *GHertsCouple
over a year ago

North Herts

We've only ever been to VA, and our first tentative step into this world was back in February when we visited. Our criteria for choosing VA was quite simple as a first step - it's relatively close and easy to get to. Having established that we read extensive reviews here at Fab and elsewhere and also the club's website.

Everything pointed to it being a fun, friendly, welcoming, well equipped club - and that is exactly what it is, and why we've been back a number of times since.

Daresay we will visit others, and will probably use similar criteria, plus friend's we've now made recommendations, when we do.

Mr G

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Unfortunately, we do not have the same club scene up here, the Aberdeen club, selects it's own single men they allow to attend, which I totally disagree with hence why I have never attended. I have visited a few clubs south of the border, and Extasia is by far my favourite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Curious about going to a club or two. Love to try the TH because its down the road and has good reviews an Extasia in the Midlands..

But to be honest am wanting to go to Sensation white party over in Holland so i can have a fukin good dance..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love the dark room, we fuck and at the same time Trixie will wank off strangers......heaven! xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What makes a good club in your eyes.

A.) Playrooms. What types or rooms?

A full range of rooms, From open play to private, Fetish is not really my thing but I would like to watch and then see if I like what's going on.

B.) Bar with alcohol?

Yes, I would prefer one that you paid for but one that you take your own would be Okay by me.

C.) Spa area hot tub,sauna,steamroom

Only ever been to one with a hot tub and I enjoyed going in there, Not sure if I would use it later on though, I would use either a sauna/steam room if they were available.

D.) Club location a city centre?

I would prefer to stay in the club if they had rooms but a city centre would give you more choice for hotels and you could go out to a few regular clubs before having some fun.

E.) Couple and single females only nights?

Being a single Male I wouldn't be able to attend but I can see/understand why a lot of couples prefer them.

F.) Couples plus others nights?

As long as single males can attend.

G.) Age range of people 20-40 40-60. 60+

I would like a mix of ages when visiting a club.

H.) Do you like clubs which have a host or not?!

As long as the staff are friendly and on hand if required a host isn't necessary in my opinion.

J.) Open times of the club?!

7pm until 3pm would be ideal, Although I don't think a lot of people would arrive until 10 - 11 pm

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By *icknsuck2 OP Couple
over a year ago

St Ives bay, area

Lots of simlair views and different ones.

It's always nice to hear what other swinging like so we can decide other clubs when is different place on weekend breaks.

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By *icknsuck2 OP Couple
over a year ago

St Ives bay, area

Look like someone moved my post from swingers chat forum to clubs forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like clubs to open around 9. Ourplaceforfun in London does not open until really late even on a Sunday. I asked them why as it made no sense to me as work the next day but they explained that theyve tried opening earlier but no one comes until late. So i guess its driven by who attends

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

We tend to look at reviews and see who goes (not scientific!) usually we only pick clothed venues as we both enjoy getting dressed up to go out, even if it comes off straight away

Quite often we will reach out to people whi have gone and sometimes M will go on his own first (although that was more when we started) to check the club out.

We always call the club and chat to get a feel for the place and a recomendation on when best to visit.

All are different, but all have been exciting in their own ways

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me its what my friends say and to a degree cost.. and if it has a decent wet area x

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By *ndykinkyMan
over a year ago

STOKE-ON-TRENT

Good atmosphere, good music and dancing, friendly people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And

What time do you like a club to open.?

We went to one club that open at 9pm which we thought was better.

Then another club opened at 10.30pm was a bit later as normal leave clubs about 12.30am"

We like a club to be open in the daytime. We never stay in the evening as we like to be home then.

We get there at lunchtine and leave by 7pm

I also dislike the mix of people there in the evening

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By *rank n BettyCouple
over a year ago

Not meeting

We like to go so we can meet and potentially play on the night if everyone is in agreement, easier than trying to match diaries up

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By *umpkinMan
over a year ago

near the sounds of the wimborne quarter jack!

For me, I`m not interested in a bar but I do want hot food and soft drinks etc. I also like spa-type facilities so jaccuzzis, saunas and steam rooms. A hotel nearby is a must as I usually have to drive a considerable distance to my favourite types of club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

cleanliness - consistant standards of behaviour/clientelle allowed -

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By *umpkinMan
over a year ago

near the sounds of the wimborne quarter jack!

"cleanliness - consistant standards of behaviour/clientelle allowed - "

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

"We like to go so we can meet and potentially play on the night if everyone is in agreement, easier than trying to match diaries up"

So true!

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By *oo hotCouple
over a year ago

North West

Depends on the mood and how we feel. Sometimes we want great music and a bit of a dance to get us in the mood and sometimes we like a bit of a chill.

We never go with sole intention of playing and so the cleanliness, layout and facilities are much more important to us than somewhere local we can go for a quick shag lol.

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

We like a club that's both clean and busy and where the members have made some effort to be smart. I also like a good supply of polite non pushy single men, and some attractive women ready for girl on girl action. While the former is not difficult to find the latter can be in some clibs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the fact that you can be spontaneous at a club. You can be chatting one minute and be getting whipped the next x

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By *himp_KittenCouple
over a year ago

Preston

We've tried a fair few clubs and all have had positives and negatives.

The number one factor which sadly is the hardest to control is the crowd on the night. Swinging for us is very much like a vanilla night out in some respects. We would have a better night in an average place with great people than we would sat in some amazing bar with idiots.

Facilities wise a good mix of playrooms in various sizes which are kept clean is always a winner.

Hosts keeping single guys in line if they over step is a must.

Bar facilities paid or bring your own is good with us.

Good lighting and a good level of music to create a social atmosphere too.

Oh and some heating for dress down time

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By *icknsuck2 OP Couple
over a year ago

St Ives bay, area

We been to a few clubs that didn't have music in the play area and it seem a bit quiet like people would be listing in.lol.

Do most of you like you play areas to have a big bed for you all to play on??

Some we have been to only have small play rooms with beds in not much fun for group play.

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By *himp_KittenCouple
over a year ago

Preston

We've tried both, our preference is usually for a smaller styled room enough for 3 or 4 couples. A lot more intimate and it gets all hot and sweaty in a good way.

We've found that sometimes with a bigger bed people that may not be invited tactically lay very close and we then end up having to politely move or advise them we're not interested which can sometimes kill the moment when you're with a group and offend others which is certainly what we don't want to do.

A good sized room is usually our preference x

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By *izbitMan
over a year ago

St Helens

Curiosity of what the lifestyle is about and experiences ( human nature)

Rest is all about the environment of the place from up most the people there create the biggest impressions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A.) Playrooms. What types or rooms?

Yes please. Individual rooms with a bed, preferably not a PVC bed. Would love it if they also had attachment points on the walls. Also large open rooms with several beds.

B.) Bar with alcohol?

I always drive so I wouldn't touch any drink. Prefer that clubs with bars prevent people from getting tipsy.

C.) Spa area hot tub,sauna,steamroom

Yes please - all three.

D.) Club location a city centre?

Doesn't matter, I drive.

E.) Couple and single females only nights?

I wouldn't go to a night for couples and single women.

F.) Couples plus others nights?

You mean just 'open to all' nights? Yes please.

G.) Age range of people 20-40 40-60. 60+

Around my own age ideally, and my partner(s) age. I'm 31 and he's 41. We will play older or younger for the right person.

H.) Do you like clubs which have a host or not?!

Have never been to a club with a host I don't think. I don't really know what a host is.

J.) Open times of the club?!

Daytime and evening. Prefer it if patrons are encouraged to start mid-evening rather than late at night - I don't like driving late.

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

"A.) Playrooms. What types or rooms?

Yes please. Individual rooms with a bed, preferably not a PVC bed. Would love it if they also had attachment points on the walls. Also large open rooms with several beds.

B.) Bar with alcohol?

I always drive so I wouldn't touch any drink. Prefer that clubs with bars prevent people from getting tipsy.

C.) Spa area hot tub,sauna,steamroom

Yes please - all three.

D.) Club location a city centre?

Doesn't matter, I drive.

E.) Couple and single females only nights?

I wouldn't go to a night for couples and single women.

F.) Couples plus others nights?

You mean just 'open to all' nights? Yes please.

G.) Age range of people 20-40 40-60. 60+

Around my own age ideally, and my partner(s) age. I'm 31 and he's 41. We will play older or younger for the right person.

H.) Do you like clubs which have a host or not?!

Have never been to a club with a host I don't think. I don't really know what a host is.

J.) Open times of the club?!

Daytime and evening. Prefer it if patrons are encouraged to start mid-evening rather than late at night - I don't like driving late."

Let us know when you find it! You can leave C.) out for us as prefer dressing up!

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By *icepair64Man
over a year ago

Norwich

"Simple - everyone you meet in a club has bothered to leave the house. ie. No sofa swingers."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've only ever been to one...

Looking for a club buddy to try a few more with "

A club buddy/brother??

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By *unLuvazCouple
over a year ago

cheshire

Do you what I realized the other day about swinging clubs... They don't just have normal beds... I understand they could get broken but I'm sure they can be made stronger. I for one like to stand and fuck my Mrs at the side of the bed. But can't do that cos there either on the floor or too small...apart from that we go to close as its more sociable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We love the dark room, we fuck and at the same time Trixie will wank off strangers......heaven! xx"

Snap so do we!!

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By *winny445Man
over a year ago

battersea

been rios, silverleigh, paradise(chadwell heath) and kestrels

A.) Playrooms. What types or rooms?

clean,not _oo hot, cant go wrong with themed as well.

B.) Bar with alcohol?

not for me but most people can and do(very rarely see d*unkards though

C.) Spa area hot tub,sauna,steamroom

yes and a swimming pool as well please,

D.) Club location a city centre?

easy to get too, discrete as possible, but i go to rios which is on a busy high street

E.) Couple and single females only nights?

why not

F.) Couples plus others nights?

as above

G.) Age range of people 20-40 40-60. 60+

any but i like generally 20 to 60.

H.) Do you like clubs which have a host or not?!

i like to make my own introductions.but im not everybody.

J.) Open times of the club?!

im fond of Rios timings, would probably go to paradise more if it opened a few hours earlier,

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