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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi Guys,

We have managed to get a rare night off the children and wanted to go to a club and have been to chams a few times now and love it there.

However it's a Monday night so it's BI night, now I'd say I am (the female) Bi ish, as in I love to play with a woman but can't make the first move

My partner (the male) is 100% straight but has no issue being around BI men playing etc just wouldn't want to play with men or men to play with him. Of course a polite no thank you would only ever be used to express this.

Is this ok and allowed?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We attended our first bi night at chams on Monday. I'm bi jays straight. Providing you are both bi friendly and as you've already said it would be a polite no thanks that would be fine. We really enjoyed it hope you do too

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

Bi Monday @Chams is aimed at the Bi Man as Bi fems can play anynight without problems but men can't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely no pressure for a straight guy to be pressured into anything....as hopefully you'll find out this Monday

It's easily our favourite night at Chameleons

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By *astmeetswest77Couple
over a year ago

monmouth

We are going for our second Monday visit. Had a great day last time.

Although we are both bi at reception they say that one of the couple has to be a practicing bi sexual.

Plenty of couples with a str8 male attend. No problem xx

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By *taffs Naturist guyMan
over a year ago

Staffordshire

As with all clubs don't expect to be pounced on. Everybody has a choice in who and how they play. As long as your partner is bi friendly and can say no thank you should a guy take a fancy then you will both be fine.

As others have said it is by far the best night at Chams with a very chilled atmosphere.

Id say go chill and enjoy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi Guys,

We have managed to get a rare night off the children and wanted to go to a club and have been to chams a few times now and love it there.

However it's a Monday night so it's BI night, now I'd say I am (the female) Bi ish, as in I love to play with a woman but can't make the first move

My partner (the male) is 100% straight but has no issue being around BI men playing etc just wouldn't want to play with men or men to play with him. Of course a polite no thank you would only ever be used to express this.

Is this ok and allowed?

"

I can be shy about approaching another female also, I never make the first move we love Chams though and may give the club a visit on a bi night, Mr Cheshire is straight but I may have a better chance with the ladies on a bi night haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I am the same hun I love to play and be play with when it come to girl on girl but am to shy to make the first move lol xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you all for your comments they have help so much.

We am looking forward to coming and have now booked a room.

Bring on the filthy sexy fun

Kay and rich

Please message us if.you am going so.we can send you a picture of us so.you can say hi xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we want to go Mrs bi Mr still testing the water nervous as hell

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Maybe you should come and joining and be nervous together xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe you should come and joining and be nervous together xx"

Definitely come and join in with us later xx

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By *ent_LifeMan
over a year ago

East Malling

Where is charms? I do like bi nights would be interesting to find out more.

What is it like?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe you should come and joining and be nervous together xx

Definitely come and join in with us later xx"

I hope some of ye like the Irish accent

In the area and hoping to come along x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How much is entrance on a Monday I am a member just never been on a Monday X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bi night by far is my fave night at chams .... It's a great laid back evening which is usually pretty busy too ..... Have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi Guys,

We have managed to get a rare night off the children and wanted to go to a club and have been to chams a few times now and love it there.

However it's a Monday night so it's BI night, now I'd say I am (the female) Bi ish, as in I love to play with a woman but can't make the first move

My partner (the male) is 100% straight but has no issue being around BI men playing etc just wouldn't want to play with men or men to play with him. Of course a polite no thank you would only ever be used to express this.

Is this ok and allowed?

"

You'll be fine. You won't be the only couple with a non bi make half and bi female, judging by the occasions I've approached a cute guy only for him to tell me he's straight but his partner isn't. However, 'bi' is not a black and white thing and many straight guys gave enjoyed what they didn't think they would so do have an open mind too!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best bi night I have attended. Easy going atmosphere friendly staff and normal rules apply no means no

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By *oderndaylivesCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Tempted to make the trip this weekend now! We are both bi and have done a Monday once before but didn't play. Good night, but then ive never had a bad night there on any day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Right this Monday we will be there got to take the plunge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Vicars and tarts on bi bank holiday Monday, optional fancy dress, free buffet included and the chocolate and champagne disco room will be open from 7pm.

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