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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Trawling through the many club websites I came across one that had a rule written down I'd not seen before.

This club doesn't allow anal in the club.

Is there an etiquette that I've missed on our tours of clubs we have been to or is this unique to a small minority of clubs?

What are people's thoughts on seeing others playing this way in a club?

It surprised me to be honest, but then I thought well its not something I've seen, but I'm not a watcher either so could have been happening and I'd still be oblivious!

Due to location we wouldn't be attending this club and anal in a club isn't high on my to do list so it doesn't actually affect me but has piqued my interest.

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By *enny PR9TV/TS
over a year ago

Southport

Well that's me fucked then.

Jenny xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well that's me fucked then.

Jenny xxx"

That made me smile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well that's me fucked then.

Jenny xxx"

Or not

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire

Well that's me fucked then.

Jenny xxx"

Or not!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well that's me fucked then.

Jenny xxx

That made me smile

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By *angbang junkieCouple
over a year ago

Ilkeston

I imagine it's to eliminate to risk of getting shit everywhere. Having seen those kind of results from people at clubs before, I can understand it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A club I go to has a sign up with "no sexual activities to take place on the premises" made me chuckle reading it

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

"A club I go to has a sign up with "no sexual activities to take place on the premises" made me chuckle reading it

Would that be Chams?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A club I go to has a sign up with "no sexual activities to take place on the premises" made me chuckle reading it

Would that be Chams?

That would indeed. I did enquire and was given reason to why.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I imagine it's to eliminate to risk of getting shit everywhere. Having seen those kind of results from people at clubs before, I can understand it!"

Surely, if there's a chance of anal sex, you'd prepare yourself!!??

I've had anal in a club... No shit in sight

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By *angbang junkieCouple
over a year ago

Ilkeston

You would think, wouldn't you, but it seems some people literally do want their arses wiping for them.

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By *ardleedsMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Well that's me fucked then.

Jenny xxx"

Or not lol

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By *atEvolutionCouple
over a year ago

atlantisEVOLUTION Swingers Club. Stoke

We don't have such a rule but we ask that people play-safe and clean-up.

It's the gushers that need a talking to lol.

Cat X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You would think, wouldn't you, but it seems some people literally do want their arses wiping for them."

To be fair, you can prep and still have accidents. If you accept and enjoy anal then shit happens sometimes

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By *ownhouseTwosomeCouple
over a year ago

Birkenhead/Liverpool

Never heard of a club banning anal!!!! Sex in general can be messy, especially with gushers, but that's just one of the things we have to deal with when running a club!! I wouldn't dream of controlling the type of sex people have in our club lol

The only sex rule we have is 'no sex in the hot tub'..it's just blurgh for the next person getting in and solids affect the filters! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never heard of a club banning anal!!!! Sex in general can be messy, especially with gushers, but that's just one of the things we have to deal with when running a club!! I wouldn't dream of controlling the type of sex people have in our club lol

The only sex rule we have is 'no sex in the hot tub'..it's just blurgh for the next person getting in and solids affect the filters! lol "

FFS ... too much information blurgh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A club I go to has a sign up with "no sexual activities to take place on the premises" made me chuckle reading it

Would that be Chams?

That would indeed. I did enquire and was given reason to why. "

What was the reason lol ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Haha this thread for gross quickly. I apologise... A little bit xx

The club was a southern one, was looking for a forthcoming road trip. It wasn't the only rule that had me raise an eyebrow!

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

"We don't have such a rule but we ask that people play-safe and clean-up.

It's the gushers that need a talking to lol.

Cat X

Gushers in clubs ! How awful

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By *ndykinkyMan
over a year ago

STOKE-ON-TRENT

"We don't have such a rule but we ask that people play-safe and clean-up.

It's the gushers that need a talking to lol.

Cat X

Who are you thinking of? ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Trawling through the many club websites I came across one that had a rule written down I'd not seen before.

This club doesn't allow anal in the club.

Is there an etiquette that I've missed on our tours of clubs we have been to or is this unique to a small minority of clubs?

What are people's thoughts on seeing others playing this way in a club?

It surprised me to be honest, but then I thought well its not something I've seen, but I'm not a watcher either so could have been happening and I'd still be oblivious!

Due to location we wouldn't be attending this club and anal in a club isn't high on my to do list so it doesn't actually affect me but has piqued my interest."

It's a London club, isn't it? I saw that and so haven't been.

Bugger that!

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

Well that's me fucked then.

Jenny xxx"

Or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well that's me fucked then.

Jenny xxx"

Or not as the case maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well that's me fucked then.

Jenny xxx

Or not

Oi you ! Get your own lines

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By *ptimum trajectoryCouple
over a year ago

gloucester

Well that's me fucked then.

Jenny xxx

Or not

Oi you ! Get your own lines

Someone hasn't read the w'hole' thread!

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

Have seen anal in clubs. No issue with it, but if you make a mess, for goodness sake, clean up.

I worked in a club and the shit I've seen left in private rooms, it's just gross.

Same with squirters, clean up, don't leave puddles. The club had all cleaning facilities and people chose to be bone idle and leave their body fluids and shit everywhere.

Even found a butt plug covered in shit, dumped behind a cushion. Just disgusting. No need at all.

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By *ownhouseTwosomeCouple
over a year ago

Birkenhead/Liverpool

"Have seen anal in clubs. No issue with it, but if you make a mess, for goodness sake, clean up.

I worked in a club and the shit I've seen left in private rooms, it's just gross.

Same with squirters, clean up, don't leave puddles. The club had all cleaning facilities and people chose to be bone idle and leave their body fluids and shit everywhere.

Even found a butt plug covered in shit, dumped behind a cushion. Just disgusting. No need at all.

urgh....nasty!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Have seen anal in clubs. No issue with it, but if you make a mess, for goodness sake, clean up.

I worked in a club and the shit I've seen left in private rooms, it's just gross.

Same with squirters, clean up, don't leave puddles. The club had all cleaning facilities and people chose to be bone idle and leave their body fluids and shit everywhere.

Even found a butt plug covered in shit, dumped behind a cushion. Just disgusting. No need at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

'Our place for fun'

Say 'no anal'. They also say their club is for straight people and bisexual females.

Bi men may come but they must agree to play straight.

According to them, it is standard practice across the whole worlds swinging community that male bisexuality is not acceptable.

As a matter of principle I would never go there even to play straight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thats just wrong. im i bi fem n do not go to clubs but if i did id avoid ones that say that as its to me discrimination. How can it be ok for me to go as a bi fem but not a bi male to go. Nooo thats just wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exactly. Their whole rule list is pretty draconian.

Many of their rules seem reasonable on their own and you could argue they just want to set things clear so everyone has fun but you can seriously overdo it and it sucks the fun out of it.

Saying that make bisexuality is not acceptable in the general swinging community is clearly homophobic and outdated.

Sure, as it's clear from some posts from some members, there are still people with their heads in the past, but I think most people are much more accepting nowadays.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How would the club owners even tho unless they are getting up close and personal to see what people are doing.

Given the other rules it's most definitely a club to avoid anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've lost count of how many times we've been in a room with a guy for straight play for him to realise my smooth body, tattoos and belly piercing probably mean I'm bi and he asks..... Next thing we're all getting it on.

They'd never know.

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By *ongton loversCouple
over a year ago

stokeontrent

I don't find gushing a problem because the club's I go you can wipe the beds down I don't like the club's that have material sheets on beds very un hygienic as if someone a made a mess you can't wipe it up

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By *ndykinkyMan
over a year ago

STOKE-ON-TRENT

"I don't find gushing a problem because the club's I go you can wipe the beds down I don't like the club's that have material sheets on beds very un hygienic as if someone a made a mess you can't wipe it up"

Just ask the staff to change the sheet and the dirty one can be washed. Actually very hygienic and only takes a minute.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just ask the staff to change the sheet and the dirty one can be washed. Actually very hygienic and only takes a minute. "

Its the mattresses I'm more worried about than sheets, as sheets can be washed...mattresses cant. You need heavy duty rubber sheets on them

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By *ownhouseTwosomeCouple
over a year ago

Birkenhead/Liverpool

Just ask the staff to change the sheet and the dirty one can be washed. Actually very hygienic and only takes a minute.

Its the mattresses I'm more worried about than sheets, as sheets can be washed...mattresses cant. You need heavy duty rubber sheets on them "

We have vinyl mattresses with sheets over them. So the beds get clean sheets and an anti bac throughout the event, as and when required. It's no biggie xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have seen anal in clubs. No issue with it, but if you make a mess, for goodness sake, clean up.

I worked in a club and the shit I've seen left in private rooms, it's just gross.

Same with squirters, clean up, don't leave puddles. The club had all cleaning facilities and people chose to be bone idle and leave their body fluids and shit everywhere.

Even found a butt plug covered in shit, dumped behind a cushion. Just disgusting. No need at all.

urgh....nasty!!!! "
Am I reading this or still as sleep walking into a nightmare?

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By *tasiaCouple
over a year ago

West Bromwich

"We don't have such a rule but we ask that people play-safe and clean-up.

It's the gushers that need a talking to lol.

Cat X

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By *tasiaCouple
over a year ago

West Bromwich

The only sex rule we have is 'no sex in the hot tub'..it's just blurgh for the next person getting in and solids affect the filters! lol "

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By *hrobinhoodMan
over a year ago

arnold, Nottingham

Any kind of sex can be messy including anal, they should just supply brown towels lol

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By *adysilkCouple
over a year ago

birmingham

"I imagine it's to eliminate to risk of getting shit everywhere. Having seen those kind of results from people at clubs before, I can understand it!"

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

"'Our place for fun'

Say 'no anal'. They also say their club is for straight people and bisexual females.

Bi men may come but they must agree to play straight.

According to them, it is standard practice across the whole worlds swinging community that male bisexuality is not acceptable.

As a matter of principle I would never go there even to play straight. "

. I'm shocked at that attitude!

Sad really - they need to 'cum' out of the dark ages!!

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

Just ask the staff to change the sheet and the dirty one can be washed. Actually very hygienic and only takes a minute.

Its the mattresses I'm more worried about than sheets, as sheets can be washed...mattresses cant. You need heavy duty rubber sheets on them

We have vinyl mattresses with sheets over them. So the beds get clean sheets and an anti bac throughout the event, as and when required. It's no biggie xx"

Each club do what suits them. I personally prefer lying on something dry and comfortable, whether it's a towel or a sheet, rather than a wipe clean surface that's dam cold for my bum

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By *hrobinhoodMan
over a year ago

arnold, Nottingham

Isn't the whole point of a swingers club to find somewhere safe to have sexual encounters, I've had sex in a swingers club a few times

Next they will ban kissing in case you drool over carpet lol

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By *ynblewogMan
over a year ago

st asaph

My favourite club is the Townhouse, it has it's fair share of gushers, I have found that most clear up after they have finished, but some inconsiderate people do fail to do this, especially those in the private rooms. In fairness however the TH staff do regularly check/clean the rooms. Although I have witnessed anal going on, I have not encountered any trace of the nasty consequences refered to in this thread at any of the clubs I have visited.

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By *r_G_SPMan
over a year ago

Nice shoes

Is the club everyone talking about op4f??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Is the club everyone talking about op4f??"

Tbf my question was a generic one. I read a website that didn't allow this and was wondering on both rules and perceptions in other clubs.

It seems from the responses that although there's some gruesome stories, it's not a rule echoed in other clubs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is the club everyone talking about op4f??"

Yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I imagine it's to eliminate to risk of getting shit everywhere. Having seen those kind of results from people at clubs before, I can understand it!"

I imagine it's more to do with homophobia; they state in their rules that male bisexuality isn't acceptable in the swinging world.

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By *r_G_SPMan
over a year ago

Nice shoes

"I imagine it's to eliminate to risk of getting shit everywhere. Having seen those kind of results from people at clubs before, I can understand it!

I imagine it's more to do with homophobia; they state in their rules that male bisexuality isn't acceptable in the swinging world. "

It is true that they do say no anal. However it is a great club of which I really like.

I wouldn't say it's for straight only though as I am more than sure there is a lot more going on in the glory hole other than heterosexual activity. Also I wouldn't say the owner is 100% straight either. Not that that matters one way or the other as he is a lovely guy and great to chat to. Much respect from me

I would be more inclined to say they have their rules because it's a very small intimate club. Rules are always broken though haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I imagine it's to eliminate to risk of getting shit everywhere. Having seen those kind of results from people at clubs before, I can understand it!

I imagine it's more to do with homophobia; they state in their rules that male bisexuality isn't acceptable in the swinging world.

It is true that they do say no anal. However it is a great club of which I really like.

I would be more inclined to say they have their rules because it's a very small intimate club. Rules are always broken though haha

As I posted further up; the list of rules are so extensive they become very off putting.

Saying bi males are not accepted in the world wide swinging community is pretty bold in this day and age.

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By *atEvolutionCouple
over a year ago

atlantisEVOLUTION Swingers Club. Stoke

We have two layers of protection.

1. Cotton quilted toppers. That are boil washed after EVERY evening we open.

They can also be changed in seconds - you can't do that with vinyl covers.

2. Second layer is a waterproof mattress covers that are machine washed each week - They can also be changed in seconds - you can't do that with vinyl covers.

We keep a large stock of both items and tell customers to cone have them changed at ANY time they wish them changed.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I imagine it's to eliminate to risk of getting shit everywhere. Having seen those kind of results from people at clubs before, I can understand it!

I imagine it's more to do with homophobia; they state in their rules that male bisexuality isn't acceptable in the swinging world.

It is true that they do say no anal. However it is a great club of which I really like.

I would be more inclined to say they have their rules because it's a very small intimate club. Rules are always broken though haha

As I posted further up; the list of rules are so extensive they become very off putting.

Saying bi males are not accepted in the world wide swinging community is pretty bold in this day and age. "

I'm with you on this. The rules are off putting. We wouldn't attend because of them and not because they particularly apply to us, (Michael is straight, I'm not interested in anal in a club) but because we go to enjoy ourselves in whatever way we choose without being concerned that our fairly tame activities may being monitored.

That, and I find the wording around the bisexuality for guys to be outrageous in this day and age.

I didn't start the post to slate a club I've never visited or intend to though, so I apologise to the regulars who enjoy it there, I was merely asking about the views generally on the less controversial rule. However since it has arose, whether intended or not, the wording on the website has been interpreted by both of us as homophobic. From that we quickly drew our conclusions of where we would be comfortable spending our time and money.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I imagine it's to eliminate to risk of getting shit everywhere. Having seen those kind of results from people at clubs before, I can understand it!

I imagine it's more to do with homophobia; they state in their rules that male bisexuality isn't acceptable in the swinging world.

It is true that they do say no anal. However it is a great club of which I really like.

I would be more inclined to say they have their rules because it's a very small intimate club. Rules are always broken though haha

As I posted further up; the list of rules are so extensive they become very off putting.

Saying bi males are not accepted in the world wide swinging community is pretty bold in this day and age.

That, and I find the wording around the bisexuality for guys to be outrageous in this day and age.

Great post. Nicely balanced in my view.

I tend to take things a bit personally when I perceive phobic intent.

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