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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This may be a stupid question, so apologies if it is but are "larger" sized people welcomed at swingers clubs, or do people find us repulsive? Both my wife and i are larger people (not in height though) and i just wondered as we want to go to both Vanilla and Bitastic but are worried that we will be unsuccessful.

Thanks, R

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course. You get men and women of all shapes, sizes, heights etc at clubs and I have never seen any issues regarding size at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shut up lol its about the person not the size .. all are welcome never think that bbe xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You will be fine. I'm a size 22 and clubs I feel happy at x

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"This may be a stupid question, so apologies if it is but are "larger" sized people welcomed at swingers clubs, or do people find us repulsive? Both my wife and i are larger people (not in height though) and i just wondered as we want to go to both Vanilla and Bitastic but are worried that we will be unsuccessful.

Thanks, R "

I'm a larger lady and I don't have any trouble!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clubs if anything have been amazing for my body confidence, as a big lady I was nervous to begin with but nowadays I don't even think about it.

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

At chams have played with the larger lady... and equally the slender... trust me.. both are just as fun as each other and the size of the lady has never made it worse or better. Xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank You all, we feel better now x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And so you should angel xxhope we see you in clubs soon im sure you will be very welcome xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of clubs also do BBW nights if you are feeling a bit nervous about starting out, maybe a night like that would be good to try? I know Jaydees in St Neots has one at the end of this month, and I think VA may do them, check their website. Plus spicy minx's bi night on the first Friday of the month at VA is apparently a good night, never made it myself yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As said above va is a great club and you will be welcomed very warmly indeed but we are sure all clubs are for all people and everyone is welcomed equally .Go and have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From what we have seen larger folk get more fun than most

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By *reakShow90Man
over a year ago

Manchester/halifax


"This may be a stupid question, so apologies if it is but are "larger" sized people welcomed at swingers clubs, or do people find us repulsive? Both my wife and i are larger people (not in height though) and i just wondered as we want to go to both Vanilla and Bitastic but are worried that we will be unsuccessful.

Thanks, R "
trust me you will be fine seen every shape and size in the club and every one is welcome you will have fun

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By *reakShow90Man
over a year ago

Manchester/halifax


"From what we have seen larger folk get more fun than most "
seen that a bit some of the bigger ladies always have some one after them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What ever size you are, just go and enjoy yourself, we all come in different sizes, it's about going and socializing with other like minded swingers and enjoy the fun too.

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By *emini1637Woman
over a year ago

Warwickshire

I have only been to one club so far, a couple of times now, I'm a size 22 and have never felt uncomfortable, in fact I've probably felt more relaxed and comfortable in the club than anywhere previous (other than home of course lol) Have fun, it's what it's all about x

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

If you are feeling self-conscious have you thought about giving a BBW night a try?

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By *3xymamaWoman
over a year ago

Uptown Top Ranking

I feel really comfortable and relaxed at the clubs I've attended. People are friendly and very welcoming. Go chat and get to know people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This may be a stupid question, so apologies if it is but are "larger" sized people welcomed at swingers clubs, or do people find us repulsive? Both my wife and i are larger people (not in height though) and i just wondered as we want to go to both Vanilla and Bitastic but are worried that we will be unsuccessful.

I'm

usually the fattest chick at the club I go to and get more than my fair share of fun. Different people like different things.

Xx

Thanks, R "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"From what we have seen larger folk get more fun than most "

That's the truth lol

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By *ni_ladMan
over a year ago

Wiltshire

I'm paranoid about this too, as I'm no gym fit lad I'm always worried my body puts people off meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you will find more ageist problems in certain clubs i.e. liberty elite

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By *eerobCouple
over a year ago

solihull

Our experience is that the vast majority are of the larger size, you will be very much the norm so go have fun. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been going to various clubs for 3 years I'm a size 22 always felt welcome,there are all shapes and sizes at all clubs

Plus I do my own bbw events,and there are various other clubs which do these too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This may be a stupid question, so apologies if it is but are "larger" sized people welcomed at swingers clubs, or do people find us repulsive? Both my wife and i are larger people (not in height though) and i just wondered as we want to go to both Vanilla and Bitastic but are worried that we will be unsuccessful.

Thanks, R "
hey size doesn't stop you getting in if it does that's not good ,the beautiful people logo hasn't been attached to sex clubs yet

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By *ragonDuo34Couple
over a year ago

Spalding

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You will find people of all ages,sizes,ethnicity and sexual persuasion at clubs and there is somebody for everyone there majority of time and like others have said if you feel nervous about going on a mainstream night try one of their bbw events but believe me you will be fine

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By *ragonDuo34Couple
over a year ago

Spalding

Does anyone go to bbw events in the Midlands? I'm a size 22, and I have the same concerns. I'd love to put a body stocking on over my lingerie and go, but I do worry about others opinions x

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By *max2000Man
over a year ago

Gloucester

I love bbw can't get enough so don't be ashamed

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World


"Does anyone go to bbw events in the Midlands? I'm a size 22, and I have the same concerns. I'd love to put a body stocking on over my lingerie and go, but I do worry about others opinions x"

I know there is one at Jaydees on the 29th, I'm thinking of going

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By *angbang junkieCouple
over a year ago

Ilkeston


"Does anyone go to bbw events in the Midlands? I'm a size 22, and I have the same concerns. I'd love to put a body stocking on over my lingerie and go, but I do worry about others opinions x"

We do various clubs around Brum, and have never had an issue with size (24).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone go to bbw events in the Midlands? I'm a size 22, and I have the same concerns. I'd love to put a body stocking on over my lingerie and go, but I do worry about others opinions x"

I have been to the Easter bbw event at chams and had a brilliant time!! I'm not conscious of my body in a 1-1 setting (size 22) but was very nervous about a group setting. Really didn't need to be. The men and women were gorgeous in their own skin and I was parading around in my lingerie in no time feeling sexy as hell!! would absolutely recommend an event like this to ease you in. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im a slightly larger lady I attend clubs and events ive had a few downers... eg... you should cover up ect... even though I dont dress too revealing more elegant and classy... but Im beginning to find that bigger is in im constantly inundated with compliments ect never think bad of yourself hunni if they dont accept you for you their not worth your time xxxxx

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By *r_K_2023Man
over a year ago

St Austell

Does the acceptance of larger sizes apply to guys too? I'm a big guy hoping to go to Eurekas tonight and am a bit nervous.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks everyone, feeling more confident now. We should be going to the next bi night at VA, might see a few of you there x

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