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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi everyone, I'm taking the plunge and going to a club tonight with a fab friend. I'm really nervous about etiquette, what to wear etc. Can anyone offer some girlie advice about what to expect please? Think we will be going to Partners in bury. Thanks X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi everyone, I'm taking the plunge and going to a club tonight with a fab friend. I'm really nervous about etiquette, what to wear etc. Can anyone offer some girlie advice about what to expect please? Think we will be going to Partners in bury. Thanks X"

Make sure you're comfy. I made the mistake of dress down that was too much first time then wrapped up in towel the whole night.

Now I go with a matching set or teddy with a sheer robe. And as I get more comfy, more clothes come off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also with getting in and out of wet areas you may want to think how easy the lingerie is. Eg if I'm wearing a corset then I have something for after hot tub cos I won't be faffing with that

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By *obka3Couple
over a year ago

bournemouth

dont mean to hijack the thread but we are intending going to abfabs on the 23rd, first time to a club, how many of you have played on the first visit and how many times do you play each time you visit a club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At Partners a "no" is a "no"...It is bring your own drinks and put behind bar. If you have never been please say so at entrance and make certain you get a "tour".

In the wet areas it's for guys towels and for girls sexy no street clothes...Upstairs bar area whatever you fancy and dare Enjoy Naughty x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"dont mean to hijack the thread but we are intending going to abfabs on the 23rd, first time to a club, how many of you have played on the first visit and how many times do you play each time you visit a club"

We play every time but almost always just us. Thing was on our first visit we had set in our heads we were def going to play just us but that turned out to actually be quite a lot of pressure when we were nervous anyway. I would say only plan to socialise, stay near the bar as it's easier to chat. Have a good chat on what would be too far for the night and if something does feel right within those boundaries go for it but don't make yourselves feel like just having a few drinks and relaxing in a club is not enough.

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By *obka3Couple
over a year ago

bournemouth


"dont mean to hijack the thread but we are intending going to abfabs on the 23rd, first time to a club, how many of you have played on the first visit and how many times do you play each time you visit a club

We play every time but almost always just us. Thing was on our first visit we had set in our heads we were def going to play just us but that turned out to actually be quite a lot of pressure when we were nervous anyway. I would say only plan to socialise, stay near the bar as it's easier to chat. Have a good chat on what would be too far for the night and if something does feel right within those boundaries go for it but don't make yourselves feel like just having a few drinks and relaxing in a club is not enough."

Thanks, we have done most forms of swinging except FFM,if only, I love MMF as watching K enjoying herself is a huge turn on for me but have had lots of fools that dont turn up etc so thought a club would be a good way of finding "real" players

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By *llie RoseWoman
over a year ago

By the seaside

Always ask for a tour on your first visit to any club. That way you make sure that you know all the areas available and should be told the 'rules' or use for each one.

With regards to outfit wear something you feel sexy and comfortable in but don't mind if it gets dirty if it should be dropped on the floor.

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By *orny4u84Woman
over a year ago

reading


"dont mean to hijack the thread but we are intending going to abfabs on the 23rd, first time to a club, how many of you have played on the first visit and how many times do you play each time you visit a club"

I went on my own the first time to abfabs and managed to play. Just get chatting to people and you nerve know what would happen.

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