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VA's Fri 15th April

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi guys. A gorgeous FWB and I are going to Frisky Friday at the Vanilla Alternative on the 15th. Although my friend has been to numerous KK parties and has swung before, it'll be my first time at a club. I can't tell you how ridiculously excited we both are. Although I confess to being slightly nervous too. Has anyone been to Frisky Fiday before and can tell me what it's like with regards to ages and mix of singles and couples? Is there anything etiquette wise I should know too. We should be staying in the hotel too so if anyone else is going let us know so we an say hi. Thanks for reading and any advice or info is greatly appreciated. Matt

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By *teed99Man
over a year ago

Kettering

Having attended most VA Frisky Fridays for the past 4 years I may be able to help. They attract people of all ages and the exciting about Frisky Fridays is that every week is different. Unlike the couples only evenings on Saturday nights that tend follow a similar pattern, Frisky Fridays pan out differently from week to week. Having said that, socialising starts in the bar and snug, and after the buffet at 10.30, moves down to the hot tub.

What happens next is all down to those visiting that particular Friday. It's always good fun which is why I and many others keep returning.

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By *ensualcouple99Couple
over a year ago

Colchester

We only been three times every time was a friday and always stayed over.

Each time we thoroughly enjoyed the night but no two were the same because of the people there.

As long as you make an effort to talk to people you will enjoy. We find going without expectation of play is best. Go with the intention of meeting and mixing and chatting and then play will happen if you want it to.

The hot tub is usually a good place to be once you've done chatting. Lol

Mrs S

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi and thanks for taking he time to reply. We are really looking forward to it and the anticipation is driving us both wild. I like he sound of a mixed crowd and was happy to see that they limit single guys so as not to unbalance the evening. What sort of time does everyone arrive in the bar? Am I right in presuming people dress to impress in the bar at first before heading off to play. When they strip down do they leave their clothes in lockers? Is the dress down usually fully nude, underwear/lingerie or towels? Thanks.

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By *teed99Man
over a year ago

Kettering


"Hi and thanks for taking he time to reply. We are really looking forward to it and the anticipation is driving us both wild. I like he sound of a mixed crowd and was happy to see that they limit single guys so as not to unbalance the evening. What sort of time does everyone arrive in the bar? Am I right in presuming people dress to impress in the bar at first before heading off to play. When they strip down do they leave their clothes in lockers? Is the dress down usually fully nude, underwear/lingerie or towels? Thanks. "

On Fridays, those staying in the hotel and a few of us regulars arrive soon after 8 but other drift in right up until the front door is locked at 11.

Dress code on arrival is smart casual. Some ladies go for outright sexy right from the start whilst others start off in something more conventional and then get changed later. There is a non-street clothes rule for the play areas, so everyone gets changed in the locker rooms. Guys usually just use a towel but a few prefer boxers. Ladies often choose to go for something sexy (undies or play wear) or they can just use a towel. It is unusual not to be nude in the hot tub but first timers are welcome not to be if it makes them feel better.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hi and thanks for taking he time to reply. We are really looking forward to it and the anticipation is driving us both wild. I like he sound of a mixed crowd and was happy to see that they limit single guys so as not to unbalance the evening. What sort of time does everyone arrive in the bar? Am I right in presuming people dress to impress in the bar at first before heading off to play. When they strip down do they leave their clothes in lockers? Is the dress down usually fully nude, underwear/lingerie or towels? Thanks.

On Fridays, those staying in the hotel and a few of us regulars arrive soon after 8 but other drift in right up until the front door is locked at 11.

Dress code on arrival is smart casual. Some ladies go for outright sexy right from the start whilst others start off in something more conventional and then get changed later. There is a non-street clothes rule for the play areas, so everyone gets changed in the locker rooms. Guys usually just use a towel but a few prefer boxers. Ladies often choose to go for something sexy (undies or play wear) or they can just use a towel. It is unusual not to be nude in the hot tub but first timers are welcome not to be if it makes them feel better."

Awesome thanks for the tips. We are hoping to get a room but may have left to too late to book one. I'll call them shortly. As for the club the more great things i read about it the more excited I become. We are looking forward to it so much. Hope it doesn't disappoint.

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