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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey were new to this and thinking about going to a few clubs just to see if we like them and as new experiences. So any advice for a few nervous newbies ????

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By *rank n BettyCouple
over a year ago

Not meeting

Just be yourself and youll have a great time

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Read the advice on the club website about dress code etc.

Go. Do as much or as little as you feel comfortable with. Have fun.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Find out if you need to take any ID on the first visit. Sometimes it's needed to join.

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By *ndykinkyMan
over a year ago

STOKE-ON-TRENT

Try to relax, don't have to much to drink

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

Plan to go along and have a fun evening. Relax and chat to people. I would suggest you don't expect to play with others on the first night. Get used to your surroundings and don't put any pressure on yourselves. If you feel comfortable then go with the flow. But just expect to visit the club and mingle.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

Remember you have a voice.

I am regularly surprised when I read on here "I went to a club and xx happened but I didn't stop it".

If someone touches you but you aren't interested, politely tell them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you x this is one thing that was worrying us. We're guessing there is some sort of security there if needed ? Not that you would need them just as reinsurance

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By *andm288Couple
over a year ago

oxford

Most clubs have staff to hand to sort out any problems but we haven't seen the so called bouncers in clubs

As previous people have said just go along to a club with the intention of a social drink and check out the surroundings Xtasia in west Brom has more of a night club feel to it with the playrooms upstairs & downstairs

Also has a heated smoking area outside which is a plus point

Where some clubs are classed as wet clubs where you will wear a towel or similar

Eg no street wear / clothes

And most of all only do what you are both comfortable with

And finally enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey were new to this and thinking about going to a few clubs just to see if we like them and as new experiences. So any advice for a few nervous newbies ????"

We would suggest going along the first time with the intention of not playing, just chatting to the nice people - sort of a meet and greet. There will be stuff to watch, the atmosphere to absorb and loads of phone numbers to note down (we have seen your photos so we know you will be a popular couple).

Going with the intention of not playing takes the pressure off. Just explain to the people you meet that you are just there for a social and they will understand. Then when you go the second time you will be a lot more relaxed and can go for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's easy where you are just head along to Chams they were all lovely there club is brilliant and very relaxed. Don't drink to much. sexy underwear. Chat to people it's just like a club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All good advice. Make sure you both have established where the line is drawn before you go. It's easy to get carried away when you are there. You will both love it, just remember to say no if someone is pushy but that only happens if you are having sex in a public area and people don't know you are not for group play. You won't need security. The other guests will look after you. If you say no and someone continues they will always be told by the other guests. It's like your own little private army. I know I am a single guy but I go to clubs with a female and I love it. Have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like going to Xtasia in West Brom, lovely club and lots of different facilities.

It depends on what your looking for what nights to attend any club, some only met single guys in on certain nights for example, so other nights are single females and couples only.

Whichever one you go to they will usually offer to show you around, introduce you to regular guests etc. You can go as slowly or as quickly as you want, some people dive straight in, others take a couple of visits to start wanting to play, it's all done on your own comfort levels.

Good luck and have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both chams and xtasia great clubs and cater for different markets like people have said xtasia more nightclub and chams sauna/spa venue were at chams tomorrow night and would be more than happy to sit and chat and show u around. Again as others have said don't go with expectations to play as we didn't play until our third visit and a simple no thanks is enough to suffice to let people know your not interested

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