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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We went to La Chambre last night for the first time. Half way through the night a guy arrived who I thought looked pretty cute. We started to chat upstairs for a bit then he went off to look around the rest of the club. He came over to chat to us again about half an hour later and he was so polite and very good company. I sat between him and my husband and put my leg across his knee as we were chatting and occasionally touching hands. He said that he was interested in me but didn't want to monopolise our time there so went off to look around the club. He came back about ten minutes later and it was a similar situation, getting on well and I said we were going upstairs in a bit. Later on when we were upstairs in a social area, my hubby had nipped to the loo and the guy came and sat next to me. We were talking and when hubby came back I got up and said that we were off to play. He didn't join us in the room and as we were playing I caught sight of him watching through the viewing window. There was this woman talking really loudly about her holidays and general mundane chatter but it really put us off our stroke so decided to find another room. As I was walking past a guy he slapped my bum so I span round and told him off. We then went in a couples only room to avoid him for a bit! When we came out I was hoping to find the nice guy but he'd gone

I've been kicking myself ever since. Poor guy couldn't have done more to politely and graciously let me know that he wanted to play. He was attractive, interesting and would have been the perfect addition to our evening but I totally blew it (or not!) Worse still, he's not on FAB and I have no contact details for him so I can't even message him to apologise for being such a plank. It's so hard for single guys at clubs trying to find the line between showing interest but not being a pest - he did it perfectly but still didn't end up getting any. I'm such a numpty!

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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago

London

It happens. Maybe try going the same night again... he could be there. Never know. Don't dwell on it too much, it will just teach you to grab an opportunity when you see it. Chin up x

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

I have been the same with couples flirted chatted for a good hour then gone for a wander and I haven't seen them for the rest of the evening

Personally I just shrug my shoulders now and say what will be will be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We went to La Chambre last night for the first time. Half way through the night a guy arrived who I thought looked pretty cute. We started to chat upstairs for a bit then he went off to look around the rest of the club. He came over to chat to us again about half an hour later and he was so polite and very good company. I sat between him and my husband and put my leg across his knee as we were chatting and occasionally touching hands. He said that he was interested in me but didn't want to monopolise our time there so went off to look around the club. He came back about ten minutes later and it was a similar situation, getting on well and I said we were going upstairs in a bit. Later on when we were upstairs in a social area, my hubby had nipped to the loo and the guy came and sat next to me. We were talking and when hubby came back I got up and said that we were off to play. He didn't join us in the room and as we were playing I caught sight of him watching through the viewing window. There was this woman talking really loudly about her holidays and general mundane chatter but it really put us off our stroke so decided to find another room. As I was walking past a guy he slapped my bum so I span round and told him off. We then went in a couples only room to avoid him for a bit! When we came out I was hoping to find the nice guy but he'd gone

I've been kicking myself ever since. Poor guy couldn't have done more to politely and graciously let me know that he wanted to play. He was attractive, interesting and would have been the perfect addition to our evening but I totally blew it (or not!) Worse still, he's not on FAB and I have no contact details for him so I can't even message him to apologise for being such a plank. It's so hard for single guys at clubs trying to find the line between showing interest but not being a pest - he did it perfectly but still didn't end up getting any. I'm such a numpty! "

You could try (watch me get a forum ban for this) putting a message on the La Chambre forum as he might be on there, bit of a long shot though. Alternatively try asking some of the customers/staff who are on fab if they remember the gent and know a way to get in touch

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