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First club to go to for someone new

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm interested to go as I've always wanted to but I'm a bit nervous as I would mostly go by myself any suggestions or tips?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Treat it like a club on a night out, but expect to see different things. Find the areas where people mingle and join in the conversation, don't sit and gawp looking like a lost puppy

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By *picyminxWoman
over a year ago

Huntingdon


"I'm interested to go as I've always wanted to but I'm a bit nervous as I would mostly go by myself any suggestions or tips? "

I'm thinking that as a single guy you would be welcome at most clubs and equally looked after as a first timer. All clubs are different so check them out in the reviews section, speak to some people , call the club and then once there be open to chatting and mingling. You will be fine

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

bedford

Just look up one local to you . Everyone is nervous about visiting a club , but no need to be , you won't be the only new person visiting we have a few every week that the club we use , just remember to be very respectful , have friendly banter with people you meet and I'm sure you will soon relax and get to meet and play with people

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By *andjCouple
over a year ago

tempsford


"I'm interested to go as I've always wanted to but I'm a bit nervous as I would mostly go by myself any suggestions or tips? "

Treat any club night as a social night out.

Be friendly but not pushy, smile don't look terrified, respect peoples space and most of all relax.

Good single guys are always appreciated by clubs, and the most successful guys are the ones that remain approachable but respectful, always chat to the hubby and the lady if your chatting to a couple, don't ignore anyone....you will be surprised how well people will respond.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Were hosting an event on the 19th at jaydees if youre interested in starting at a club xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm interested to go as I've always wanted to but I'm a bit nervous as I would mostly go by myself any suggestions or tips? "

I've thought about the same thing. Sometimes my friends are busy and i want to go to a club, like what do you do with yourself when you go by yourself, I've wanted to go to places but it's always a fear as to what kind of experience you might have if you're by yourself. But I suppose you won't know until you try

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