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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I wonder if some kind folk could assist me. I am considering going to a club alone, but the idea of wandering around a place semi or indeed naked fills me with concern. Any advice or suggestions on normal behavior etc?? For example, how can one look cool with no pockets to put ones hands in??

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By *olfcartweaselCouple
over a year ago

Melrose


"I wonder if some kind folk could assist me. I am considering going to a club alone, but the idea of wandering around a place semi or indeed naked fills me with concern. Any advice or suggestions on normal behavior etc?? For example, how can one look cool with no pockets to put ones hands in??"

Pluck up the courage to actually talk to people at the bar. You might get shot down. Do it anyway. Don't be creepy with it, don't assume your hands are welcome on a stranger's body. Under no circumstances follow someone who leaves the bar around, if you haven't been chatting - stalkers are easy to spot. Never assume a woman on a play bed is open to an unannounced penis (Especially one without a condom). No really means no.

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By *olfcartweaselCouple
over a year ago

Melrose

Oh, and you are not in any way "lesser" than the couples or single women - don't act like you have a chip on your shoulder, don't act like you are entitled to anything just because you paid more for entry. Try to realise you are one of many, and will need to stand out in a positive way - a way that makes potential partners feel at ease with you, not nervous of you

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By *atEvolutionCouple
over a year ago

atlantisEVOLUTION Swingers Club. Stoke

We don't have a towel policy.

Stayed dressed or undressed - that's up to you.

Because we are a nightclub based Swingers Club we expect only that you are smartly turned out and well mannered.

Cat X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you _olfcartweasel. Lots of great information. I wouldn't dare touch anyone without permission!! I am confident of my consideration, what I cannot really understand what to expect. I suppose in the outside world you can rely on previous experiences to see you through situations. But with this being so very different from anything else, I cannot even run through scenarios in my head, simply because I don't know what goes on and how interaction is formatted.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We don't have a towel policy.

Stayed dressed or undressed - that's up to you.

Because we are a nightclub based Swingers Club we expect only that you are smartly turned out and well mannered.

Cat X "

Thank you cat. well mannered I can do. You have indeed enhanced my interest. I shall away and peruse your club.

Many thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh, and you are not in any way "lesser" than the couples or single women - don't act like you have a chip on your shoulder, don't act like you are entitled to anything just because you paid more for entry. Try to realise you are one of many, and will need to stand out in a positive way - a way that makes potential partners feel at ease with you, not nervous of you"

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By *atEvolutionCouple
over a year ago

atlantisEVOLUTION Swingers Club. Stoke


"We don't have a towel policy.

Stayed dressed or undressed - that's up to you.

Because we are a nightclub based Swingers Club we expect only that you are smartly turned out and well mannered.

Cat X

Thank you cat. well mannered I can do. You have indeed enhanced my interest. I shall away and peruse your club.

Many thanks "

My Pleasure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And don't write a bad review after you go, you'll end up being accused of all sorts just like the guy who posted an avoid review tonight lol (9 reviews removed at the last count)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I will never post a bad review about anything or anyone on here. There is always a positive angle to be found. And negative comments say more about yourself than they do about them eh.

Many thanks, some excellent feedback from some lovely folk

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I follow people around and say 'shag?' every so often and touch sneakily without being invited to and drink other people's drinks too, I hoot with laughter at men fucking and make suggestions and offer helpful advice and I try to weasel in as a couple to save money then dump her for someone better once I'm in *

*ive never been to a club but this is what people have said has happened to them over the years.

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

I would say also be assertive - but not pushy

Its not easy to do that but looks smart smile and flirt but if your interested I always ask what are the people looking for

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By *iscellaneousCouple
over a year ago

Idle

I never really entertained the idea of bringing just a single guy in to play but after going to some clubs and meeting lots of them it's definitely something we want to do - but with the right guy that we've met in a club a few times and feel a rapport with.

So tips for single guys: talk to us at a club when you see us (great if we bump into you a few times and get to know you) and let's have a dance, drink or chat (but don't leave out MiscM). Don't put any pressure on me (MiscF) as that will turn into an instant no and don't expect anything the first time you meet a couple unless you're extremely lucky! Happy for single guys to come over and chat whenever we are out, we just don't want the expectation or assumption that we will play essentially

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