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By *eeley OP   Woman
over a year ago

Dudley

So, lately I've been wondering how many men would actually like to attend clubs but are too scared on their own?

I ask because my fem playmate and I often offer to take men as guests and either get stood up or ignored after arranging meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id happily go along with you -! Its sleays better to go with someone than alone even if you dont play with them - what happened to socialising in swinging?

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By *eeley OP   Woman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Id happily go along with you -! Its sleays better to go with someone than alone even if you dont play with them - what happened to socialising in swinging? "

Ah see, I'm after someone to play with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Didnt say i wouldnt play with you - just said that even if you dont end up playing together its nice to have someone to socialise with - im always looking for fun people to play with

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By *eeley OP   Woman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Didnt say i wouldnt play with you - just said that even if you dont end up playing together its nice to have someone to socialise with - im always looking for fun people to play with "

Ah, that's not what I meant lol. I always go with friends so I'm never really without someone to socialise with lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im with you now well when im off down that way and you fancy taking a stray in with you lol - mostly housetrained - love to nip slong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Awww What a lovely gesture


"So, lately I've been wondering how many men would actually like to attend clubs but are too scared on their own?

I ask because my fem playmate and I often offer to take men as guests and either get stood up or ignored after arranging meets. "

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By *eeley OP   Woman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Awww What a lovely gesture

So, lately I've been wondering how many men would actually like to attend clubs but are too scared on their own?

I ask because my fem playmate and I often offer to take men as guests and either get stood up or ignored after arranging meets. "

We are trying to encourage younger guys to take the plunge and just g for it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well good on you. I'm older and have never been

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By *eeley OP   Woman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Well good on you. I'm older and have never been"

You should go, it's really not as scary as people think lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Awww What a lovely gesture

So, lately I've been wondering how many men would actually like to attend clubs but are too scared on their own?

I ask because my fem playmate and I often offer to take men as guests and either get stood up or ignored after arranging meets.

We are trying to encourage younger guys to take the plunge and just g for it lol "

i just tell guys ive booked them in now but dont actually bother doing it because i got fed up of being let down and turning up alone booked in as a couple .... ive had so many sick grans and dead parrots and just outright disappearing acts.

I wait till the actual day now to add them to my booking so I am completely sure they will go (and its very rare I ever have to add anyone on)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always amazed so many cancel meets. Fair enough there are always some genuine reasons but ....

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By *eeley OP   Woman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Awww What a lovely gesture

So, lately I've been wondering how many men would actually like to attend clubs but are too scared on their own?

I ask because my fem playmate and I often offer to take men as guests and either get stood up or ignored after arranging meets.

We are trying to encourage younger guys to take the plunge and just g for it lol

i just tell guys ive booked them in now but dont actually bother doing it because i got fed up of being let down and turning up alone booked in as a couple .... ive had so many sick grans and dead parrots and just outright disappearing acts.

I wait till the actual day now to add them to my booking so I am completely sure they will go (and its very rare I ever have to add anyone on)"

I've had about 3 actually show up, maybe 4. I usually meet them outside the club so I can have a quick chat before we go in. If there's no chemistry they are then still free to do what they want and so am I.

I see alot of men saying they want to go to clubs but then they chicken out. The mind boggles!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm intimidated by clubs but who knows maybe one day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone I know won't go on his own,asks if he can come with me but,not as a partner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can not believe you women get let down. Nice profiles ladies xxx

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By *uny1122Man
over a year ago

longeton

I always looking for fab swinger women so u can do what u r looking and I know many people who r not couple but they r doing that

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By *eeley OP   Woman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Can not believe you women get let down. Nice profiles ladies xxx"

Thanks. Women also get messed about alot on here.

We also tend to want threesomes with men (my wifey and I) but you'd be suprised at the amount of men that chicken out lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can not believe you women get let down. Nice profiles ladies xxx

Thanks. Women also get messed about alot on here.

We also tend to want threesomes with men (my wifey and I) but you'd be suprised at the amount of men that chicken out lol "

It's because most men feel intimidated by the thought of it... And are scared they won't be able to perform

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By *heBandit5342Man
over a year ago

stockport

Bloody Hell - amazing!

The problem for me is I was a young man when I found out about clubs - but that was 26 years ago and I'm not so young as I was anymore!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some single female friends and I went to a club this weekend. Put meet request up - inbox flooded! Arranged to meet around 20 men on this profile. All were going to be there -definitely!!! If even for a social and to get a veri it was a win win as I had arranged reduced entry price for them all.

How many turned up? Not one! A mix of newbies/verifieds all full of Shit. Just reinforces what I have always known about alot of single men on here - fantasists. They talk a good talk yet given the opportunity to meet up with some real life bi women they lose their bottle. We had a bloody good night anyhow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've sort of look for the same, in 2ish years I've only had one guy have the bottle to show up, for me its about confidence, I like confident guys, so if they can't walk into a club they won't be for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A woman taking a guy to a club is a welcome gesture as a single guy going a club can be expensive and it makes it easier to mingle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So, lately I've been wondering how many men would actually like to attend clubs but are too scared on their own?

I ask because my fem playmate and I often offer to take men as guests and either get stood up or ignored after arranging meets. "
do you get in cheaper as a guest ?

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

I am more than happy to go to a club on my own and mainly do.

Don't get me wrong i will catch up with couples and females in a club if I know them

For me I tend to plan my club meets a bit in advance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Didnt say i wouldnt play with you - just said that even if you dont end up playing together its nice to have someone to socialise with - im always looking for fun people to play with "
you blew that quick haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've sort of look for the same, in 2ish years I've only had one guy have the bottle to show up, for me its about confidence, I like confident guys, so if they can't walk into a club they won't be for me"
I don't have a problem walking in its the crawling out that's the prob

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante


"So, lately I've been wondering how many men would actually like to attend clubs but are too scared on their own?

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From the messages that we get all of the men that we have suggested going to a club have said they wouldn't feel comfortable going on their own which would suggest a total lack of confidence which seems odd for swingers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So, lately I've been wondering how many men would actually like to attend clubs but are too scared on their own?

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From the messages that we get all of the men that we have suggested going to a club have said they wouldn't feel comfortable going on their own which would suggest a total lack of confidence which seems odd for swingers."
swingers are just people nothing special they either have confidence or not ,stage fright is a common thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I no longer offer to get guys in ...

Ive been left like an idiot, waiting for them to pick me up.

Once there, ive been left like billy no mates, whilst they go off shagging.

And alot of clubs dont really like you signing single guys in.

My 'kind days' are over.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always go to a club by myself as I'm free to do what and who I like.

I do occasionally come across women's profiles who want to go to a club but have never been, I'll message offering to go with them and its worked out, and they have a great time experiencing a club environment. They're always amazed how different it is to what they preconceived it to be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure I wouldn't turn you down.....would it include being a playmate?

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By *ormalguy71Man
over a year ago

Tunbridge Wells

Sounds perfect to me, although I am sure that's what most guys tell you ladies.

I do not have a problem going to a club alone but with a female would be better.

Only attended Eureka's so if any down south would like to invite me to a club id happily accept

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I used to take men as guests to clubs. They either stood me up, turned up but buggered off as soon as we got through the door, or stuck to me like glue, glowering at other men like we were married. Too much hassle.

I go to clubs alone now, or with a female buddy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a female invites a man to a club as if he is her partner (ie they are posing as a couple) do you still have to pay an entrance fee or is it the case that if fem is a member, she can bring her partner in for free?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You normally pay a couples entrance fee. Thats what happens when I take ladies to clubs

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By *iss kitty glosWoman
over a year ago

gloucester

Its not just club's, we we're recently at a friends small gathering with my and 2 other shg females 6 sgl guys invited not 1 showed. Luckily we managed to get 1 last minute guy or my poor husband my have been broken lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would go with you if asked...

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By *ushandkittyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Its not just club's, we we're recently at a friends small gathering with my and 2 other shg females 6 sgl guys invited not 1 showed. Luckily we managed to get 1 last minute guy or my poor husband my have been broken lol "

No I wouldn't of lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Awww What a lovely gesture

So, lately I've been wondering how many men would actually like to attend clubs but are too scared on their own?

I ask because my fem playmate and I often offer to take men as guests and either get stood up or ignored after arranging meets.

We are trying to encourage younger guys to take the plunge and just g for it lol

i just tell guys ive booked them in now but dont actually bother doing it because i got fed up of being let down and turning up alone booked in as a couple .... ive had so many sick grans and dead parrots and just outright disappearing acts.

I wait till the actual day now to add them to my booking so I am completely sure they will go (and its very rare I ever have to add anyone on)

I've had about 3 actually show up, maybe 4. I usually meet them outside the club so I can have a quick chat before we go in. If there's no chemistry they are then still free to do what they want and so am I.

I see alot of men saying they want to go to clubs but then they chicken out. The mind boggles!"

Yeah I find it's a pipe dream for most! That's why I play with guys in clubs who are already club goers - and meet the others in hotels etc! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love this. I think it would help a lot with initial nerves and awkwardness if nobody was talking to you. I can understand people not wanting to as it eats in to their own time but, as in most walks of life, I hope there are people willing to help out others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nearly went on my own once but couldn't find parking space and bottled it. If had someone to go with would definitely get through the door and have my eyes opened as not sure what to expect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I used to take men as guests to clubs. They either stood me up, turned up but buggered off as soon as we got through the door, or stuck to me like glue, glowering at other men like we were married. Too much hassle.

I go to clubs alone now, or with a female buddy."

That's the reason I won't go to a club with a man as a plus one. Although, when I've seen it, it's normally the female that doesn't want the man going off and playing with anyone else. I know for a fact if I went with a man, I would want to do my own thing and not be stuck to him, so don't bother taking one. They are welcome to attend on their own though, that's how I feel about it.

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By *andomfodCouple
over a year ago

walsall

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm attending my first club..at chams in 2 weeks and a lady is kindly accompanying me / showing me round.

We will meet first and hopefully have fun then let the night unfold from there. I'm not going to impinge on her fun and vice versa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why can't they take their wife's with them lol .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can not believe you women get let down. Nice profiles ladies xxx

Thanks. Women also get messed about alot on here.

We also tend to want threesomes with men (my wifey and I) but you'd be suprised at the amount of men that chicken out lol "
I'd be very shy with two women

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By *eeley OP   Woman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Can not believe you women get let down. Nice profiles ladies xxx

Thanks. Women also get messed about alot on here.

We also tend to want threesomes with men (my wifey and I) but you'd be suprised at the amount of men that chicken out lol I'd be very shy with two women "

Oh I know, you're a very shy person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If only my face fitted lol

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By *andomfodCouple
over a year ago

walsall

I thought I'd be more shy than I was on Saturday, but there was no anticipation. It just kind of all happened

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By *piritsonfabCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

I'm disappointed to hear this as we want to take single guys with us... but so many refuse to consider clubs, even when I say there are private rooms....

But I'm not going to try to persuade them. If they're that reticent then we're probably not a good match.

Also of course single guys aren't allowed a lot of the time.... and apparently if we took one it doesn't count (although I'd be happy to be corrected )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love to take the plunge with you, been once before on my own but taking someone with me seems a lot more appealing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm nervous about going to clubs, even though I've received suggestions from friends here that I really should go down to one since in their opinions the clubs could use a guy like me more (I know this sounds like bragging so take it with a pinch of salt). The fact is I don't appreciate being treated like a cash cow by most clubs and there is also the worry that if I go alone I will find it hard to break into the clique barriers there that will most inevitably exist anyway for the club regulars.

Having said so, if there are any couples or single females who take a shine to me and offer me an invitation to go with them I would most definitely not turn it down and neither would I chicken out at the last minute. But I am quite surprised OP because truthfully I haven't met anyone who actually would bring a guy along as a +1 mainly because a lot of them think that it is against club policy.

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By *rben112Man
over a year ago

worcester


"Can not believe you women get let down. Nice profiles ladies xxx

Thanks. Women also get messed about alot on here.

We also tend to want threesomes with men (my wifey and I) but you'd be suprised at the amount of men that chicken out lol

It's because most men feel intimidated by the thought of it... And are scared they won't be able to perform "

Never had a problem

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By *rben112Man
over a year ago

worcester


"So, lately I've been wondering how many men would actually like to attend clubs but are too scared on their own?

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From the messages that we get all of the men that we have suggested going to a club have said they wouldn't feel comfortable going on their own which would suggest a total lack of confidence which seems odd for swingers."

You would certainly inspire my confidence flik!

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By *andomfodCouple
over a year ago

walsall

I think one issue is wouldn't they still need a membership? Some clubs we have heard have a 12 month wait for a single guy sign up.

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By *rben112Man
over a year ago

worcester

I got in on a guest pass

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never been to a club, I'd happily go as a guest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why can't they take their wife's with them lol . "

Their wife's what?

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By *eeley OP   Woman
over a year ago

Dudley


"I think one issue is wouldn't they still need a membership? Some clubs we have heard have a 12 month wait for a single guy sign up."

That's why I do it, they get in on a guest pass which costs abit more than single male members entry but if they are decent guys they might get offered membership. Gets their foot in the door so to speak.

I really just wish more guys would do it, especially under 35's

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By *andomfodCouple
over a year ago

walsall


"I think one issue is wouldn't they still need a membership? Some clubs we have heard have a 12 month wait for a single guy sign up.

That's why I do it, they get in on a guest pass which costs abit more than single male members entry but if they are decent guys they might get offered membership. Gets their foot in the door so to speak.

I really just wish more guys would do it, especially under 35's "

Ah ok that makes sense. At least it gets them a meet, veri and the opportunity to network if not a membership offer. We know someone who wants to go to chams but is having the same issue x

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By *eeley OP   Woman
over a year ago

Dudley


"I think one issue is wouldn't they still need a membership? Some clubs we have heard have a 12 month wait for a single guy sign up.

That's why I do it, they get in on a guest pass which costs abit more than single male members entry but if they are decent guys they might get offered membership. Gets their foot in the door so to speak.

I really just wish more guys would do it, especially under 35's

Ah ok that makes sense. At least it gets them a meet, veri and the opportunity to network if not a membership offer. We know someone who wants to go to chams but is having the same issue x"

Is he hot?

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By *irty Girty From No 30Woman
over a year ago

Burbage

I used to offer to take people after reading numerous threads posted by men to scared to go alone.

Results i found,

A) stood up

B) they expected sex

So swiftly stopped offering

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By *irty Girty From No 30Woman
over a year ago

Burbage


"Id happily go along with you -! Its sleays better to go with someone than alone even if you dont play with them - what happened to socialising in swinging?

Ah see, I'm after someone to play with. "

I read your original post as offering to take men that scared, rather than looking for male club playmates

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By *andomfodCouple
over a year ago

walsall

We have pointed him towards the thread, so he may contact you if you have him allowed. N liked the look of him so she might be bias lol.

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By *eeley OP   Woman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Id happily go along with you -! Its sleays better to go with someone than alone even if you dont play with them - what happened to socialising in swinging?

Ah see, I'm after someone to play with.

I read your original post as offering to take men that scared, rather than looking for male club playmates"

It's abit of both really, I'm not a complete Saint, I do want a club buddy but alot of men I speak to are too nervous to go to clubs so I offer to take them but quite often they chicken out.

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By *andomfodCouple
over a year ago

walsall

Well hopefully we will cross paths one day. We have only been to Chams once and would like to get to know people more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love to go to a club with somebody ...never tried anybody willing ???

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By *eeley OP   Woman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Well hopefully we will cross paths one day. We have only been to Chams once and would like to get to know people more."

I'm there every Friday and Sunday so if you come on those days you'll definitely see me lol

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By *ischievous_mickMan
over a year ago

north west


"So, lately I've been wondering how many men would actually like to attend clubs but are too scared on their own?

I ask because my fem playmate and I often offer to take men as guests and either get stood up or ignored after arranging meets. "

Keeley, is there nobody like you in the Liverpool area . This is exactly what I've been looking for a lady to introduce me into the club scene, to help me out and join my to take my club Virginty xx

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By *eeley OP   Woman
over a year ago

Dudley


"So, lately I've been wondering how many men would actually like to attend clubs but are too scared on their own?

I ask because my fem playmate and I often offer to take men as guests and either get stood up or ignored after arranging meets.

Keeley, is there nobody like you in the Liverpool area . This is exactly what I've been looking for a lady to introduce me into the club scene, to help me out and join my to take my club Virginty xx"

I dunno, I don't live in Liverpool lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a bit floored as I thought the concept of a lady inviting a guy to a club was just a fantasy.

I've been to a number of clubs in various countries but alas, always as one of those dreaded single males. While I've always been careful to to follow the pack around the club, I'm sure I've made my fair share of ladies uncomfortable just by my sheer presence (as a single male, not a reflection of me)!

Anyway, when I saw this posting and given I'll be visiting London from the US in mid-March, I'd love to try and line up a visit but, alas, again, all you ladies are so far from London!

I've driven for play but the most I've ever driven is 2 hours and it definitely impacts the evening!

Anyway - just a little vent and if any ladies are interested in taking a gent to a club within an hour of London in Mid-March, please have a perv at my profile and consider me!

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By *eeley OP   Woman
over a year ago

Dudley


"I'm a bit floored as I thought the concept of a lady inviting a guy to a club was just a fantasy.

I've been to a number of clubs in various countries but alas, always as one of those dreaded single males. While I've always been careful to to follow the pack around the club, I'm sure I've made my fair share of ladies uncomfortable just by my sheer presence (as a single male, not a reflection of me)!

Anyway, when I saw this posting and given I'll be visiting London from the US in mid-March, I'd love to try and line up a visit but, alas, again, all you ladies are so far from London!

I've driven for play but the most I've ever driven is 2 hours and it definitely impacts the evening!

Anyway - just a little vent and if any ladies are interested in taking a gent to a club within an hour of London in Mid-March, please have a perv at my profile and consider me!"

I love single men, that's why I go to the club lol.

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By *andomfodCouple
over a year ago

walsall

We missed them last week as they were out by 7.30 for saturday night. Hoping that we will catch some soon, not that N was short of male attention lol.

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By *eeley OP   Woman
over a year ago

Dudley


"We missed them last week as they were out by 7.30 for saturday night. Hoping that we will catch some soon, not that N was short of male attention lol."

Come on Friday!

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By *andomfodCouple
over a year ago

walsall

Got issues with childcare to sort so we'd need a little more notice unfortunately. I think next time we are planning to visit is Wednesday 17th x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well hopefully we will cross paths one day. We have only been to Chams once and would like to get to know people more.

I'm there every Friday and Sunday so if you come on those days you'll definitely see me lol "

You can not miss her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So, lately I've been wondering how many men would actually like to attend clubs but are too scared on their own?

I ask because my fem playmate and I often offer to take men as guests and either get stood up or ignored after arranging meets. "

Have the same problem too. Just end up going alone!

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"Can not believe you women get let down. Nice profiles ladies xxx

Thanks. Women also get messed about alot on here.

We also tend to want threesomes with men (my wifey and I) but you'd be suprised at the amount of men that chicken out lol

It's because most men feel intimidated by the thought of it... And are scared they won't be able to perform "

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By *dventureslayerMan
over a year ago

London

I have been on my own and with others. I'd like to hit a Manchester club on Thursday, anybody else interested?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well hopefully we will cross paths one day. We have only been to Chams once and would like to get to know people more.

I'm there every Friday and Sunday so if you come on those days you'll definitely see me lol

You can not miss her "

Might hear her first

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By *andomfodCouple
over a year ago

walsall


"Well hopefully we will cross paths one day. We have only been to Chams once and would like to get to know people more.

I'm there every Friday and Sunday so if you come on those days you'll definitely see me lol

You can not miss her

Might hear her first "

That certainly sounds interesting

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By *not69Man
over a year ago

Lancashire


"Some single female friends and I went to a club this weekend. Put meet request up - inbox flooded! Arranged to meet around 20 men on this profile. All were going to be there -definitely!!! If even for a social and to get a veri it was a win win as I had arranged reduced entry price for them all.

How many turned up? Not one! A mix of newbies/verifieds all full of Shit. Just reinforces what I have always known about alot of single men on here - fantasists. They talk a good talk yet given the opportunity to meet up with some real life bi women they lose their bottle. We had a bloody good night anyhow."

so many guys complain they cant get meets, cant believe that none turned up. If I arrange to meet someone then I always turn up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some single female friends and I went to a club this weekend. Put meet request up - inbox flooded! Arranged to meet around 20 men on this profile. All were going to be there -definitely!!! If even for a social and to get a veri it was a win win as I had arranged reduced entry price for them all.

How many turned up? Not one! A mix of newbies/verifieds all full of Shit. Just reinforces what I have always known about alot of single men on here - fantasists. They talk a good talk yet given the opportunity to meet up with some real life bi women they lose their bottle. We had a bloody good night anyhow.

so many guys complain they cant get meets, cant believe that none turned up. If I arrange to meet someone then I always turn up"

I know! Not one turned up. They all talked a good talk as always. We need more men like you T. None of those bullshitters x

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France

To be fair, it happens the other way too: a long time ago, having arranged to meet a woman at a club, ( at her insistence because she felt she preferred to meet that way,and she was supposedly a regular at that club and had booked me in etc)..

But no show.

- and yes, had spoken on the phone, on cam, texted me to say she was on her way; hung around outside as arranged, asked in the club... No one had any knowledge ....

Never did get to the bottom of that mystery; but she was on fab for at least a year after that.

As far as these blokes who didn't turn up: I assume they were just dreamers and wannabes ....

Such a pity when these forums are full of blokes who seem to be desperate ....

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By *not69Man
over a year ago

Lancashire


"Some single female friends and I went to a club this weekend. Put meet request up - inbox flooded! Arranged to meet around 20 men on this profile. All were going to be there -definitely!!! If even for a social and to get a veri it was a win win as I had arranged reduced entry price for them all.

How many turned up? Not one! A mix of newbies/verifieds all full of Shit. Just reinforces what I have always known about alot of single men on here - fantasists. They talk a good talk yet given the opportunity to meet up with some real life bi women they lose their bottle. We had a bloody good night anyhow.

so many guys complain they cant get meets, cant believe that none turned up. If I arrange to meet someone then I always turn up

I know! Not one turned up. They all talked a good talk as always. We need more men like you T. None of those bullshitters x"

Well you know where I am xx

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By *ichaelxx11Man
over a year ago

Gloucester


"I'm attending my first club..at chams in 2 weeks and a lady is kindly accompanying me / showing me round.

We will meet first and hopefully have fun then let the night unfold from there. I'm not going to impinge on her fun and vice versa"

Hey buddy,

How did you manage to get on the list in Charms?

I have been looking to visit but have been advised by some members here, that singles waiting list is as long as M5.

Would anyone be kind enough to let me accompany her?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So, lately I've been wondering how many men would actually like to attend clubs but are too scared on their own?

I ask because my fem playmate and I often offer to take men as guests and either get stood up or ignored after arranging meets. "
do you get in cheaper as a guest ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if your looking at taking advsntage of the entrance price or to get in on a couple's only night then the two clubs we've visited only allow couples in on a couple's membership so you would both have to join as a couple.

if a man hooks up to get in on a singles night but only she has a single membership then the male would still have to apply for membership and may not get in or be accepted as a new single. I've never know the two clubs we visit allow guests this may not be the same in all clubs but I don't think they should allow guest's for safty reasons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm attending my first club..at chams in 2 weeks and a lady is kindly accompanying me / showing me round.

We will meet first and hopefully have fun then let the night unfold from there. I'm not going to impinge on her fun and vice versa

Hey buddy,

How did you manage to get on the list in Charms?

I have been looking to visit but have been advised by some members here, that singles waiting list is as long as M5.

Would anyone be kind enough to let me accompany her?"

It would only help you if you intend to always attend with her. We were told very clearly when we joined Chams that we would only over be able to attend together on that membership

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if your looking at taking advsntage of the entrance price or to get in on a couple's only night then the two clubs we've visited only allow couples in on a couple's membership so you would both have to join as a couple.

if a man hooks up to get in on a singles night but only she has a single membership then the male would still have to apply for membership and may not get in or be accepted as a new single. I've never know the two clubs we visit allow guests this may not be the same in all clubs but I don't think they should allow guest's for safty reasons"
so its pointless then, so single guys pay your £40-75 to get in to have a sauna ,swim or Jacuzzi and on a very rare occasion sex and stop yer moaning yer sassenacks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can not believe you women get let down. Nice profiles ladies xxx

Thanks. Women also get messed about alot on here.

We also tend to want threesomes with men (my wifey and I) but you'd be suprised at the amount of men that chicken out lol

It's because most men feel intimidated by the thought of it... And are scared they won't be able to perform "

Maybe they're just not that into you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So, lately I've been wondering how many men would actually like to attend clubs but are too scared on their own?

I ask because my fem playmate and I often offer to take men as guests and either get stood up or ignored after arranging meets. "

I would like this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can not believe you women get let down. Nice profiles ladies xxx

Thanks. Women also get messed about alot on here.

We also tend to want threesomes with men (my wifey and I) but you'd be suprised at the amount of men that chicken out lol

It's because most men feel intimidated by the thought of it... And are scared they won't be able to perform

Maybe they're just not that into you "

I totally agree sometimes us guys are just not that much into you or anyone really

When we are bored and telly is crap you may seem good enough to chat meet or fuck

Could be all

Manner of reasons as to why we change our mind . And even though women seem to think guys will fuck anyone sometimes we just can't be arsed with it

It is an absolute fallacy that men spend every minute of the day trying to have sex or thinking about sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So, lately I've been wondering how many men would actually like to attend clubs but are too scared on their own?

I ask because my fem playmate and I often offer to take men as guests and either get stood up or ignored after arranging meets. "

I would love this too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think this is a great idea, I remember how nervous I was on my first club visit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never been to a club and therefore very nervous but would love to join others lol safety in numbers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never been to club as have transport problem but also unsure about going as single male

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

If I know the man I'm happy to accompany him as a friend and this happens many times. I wouldn't go to a club even as friends, with somebody that I hadnt at least met for a social, as I would want to be sure that I can be comfortable spending sometime together.

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By *JLittleminxxxxWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

I always like to go to club with a guy either I've meet or would like to meet but I would like to play so have to be attraction. But I get stood up and let down a lot of times. I did go on my own last time. But I find couple prefer couple so won't do that again. I just need to try harder lol.

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By *van ArdenMan
over a year ago

Coleford, Forest of Dean, Gloucestershire.

I often go to clubs on my own and have always been successful having fun. Having said that I find the thought of going to clubs with a female partner adds a new dimension. I quite fancy the idea personally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always like to go to club with a guy either I've meet or would like to meet but I would like to play so have to be attraction. But I get stood up and let down a lot of times. I did go on my own last time. But I find couple prefer couple so won't do that again. I just need to try harder lol. "

Found it same for meets that why unsure about clubs

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By *untimes4allMan
over a year ago

boston

Hi all.

I have no issue, entering clubs alone, they are a great way to meet people, that are genuine (unlike many profiles)

Having said that, I do understand some guys worries. I was lucky enough to start visiting clubs as a couple, and visited VA Libs and Xtasia (still members at all) as a couple.....

Does anyone know, if my couple membership entitles me to visit said clubs as a single???? (Now seperated) or do I need to take out membership as a single.?

Ps if anyone wants to hold my hand and reintroduce me to the scene? Please message. I probably know many of you through sight if you visited the clubs I did. My wife was quite well known lol.

Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You'd have to join as a single, your couples account doesn't allow you to enter as a couple on your own.

More expense

To the guy who thinks there's a waiting list for single guy's at Cham's, that's also untrue. You have to apply for membership, whether it's granted is at their discression

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