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Kestrels / AbFabs - best night for new couples?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all,

hoping to make a little better of our second forum post and try to get some honest opinions from COUPLES about the best times/days to visit Kestrels/AbFabs for new couples and what we could expect for our first time at a club...

H & S

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

We were going to suggest Monday night, but after reading your profile have concluded it might be too bi for you - although many people there are not bi! In our experience it is a great night. Alternatives are Friday, quite a few single guys but fun or Saturday couples only. We haven't tried Tuesday or Wednesday.

We enjoyed every evening we went and found arranging to meet people there made a big difference. It is always nerve wracking to approach people!

Have a great time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on what you're looking for. If you don't want to be overwhelmed with single guys go on a Saturday where it is more chilled out. If you want to meet someone worth trying to arrange it first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As per previous post go on a Saturday. You won't be pestered and there is plenty to see.

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By *andrewMan
over a year ago

GUILDFORD

Definitely go on a Saturday a very friendly crowd if you make the effort to talk to people. The single men on a Friday can be a pain if they feel there is any chance of fun.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

All, thanks for the advice. We've heard about Friday nights being too much like a cattle market worth single gents pestering you to much, so would probably give it a mid for our first time. Have heard a lot about Wednesdays and Saturdays being the best days, and the advice above seems to back that up.

Monday nights would maybe be an option too, but we'd rather go with another couple to any first time there so we're amongst friendly company and not like rabbits in the headlights.

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By *lovisMan
over a year ago

Twickenham

Saturdays are you best bet - its more relaxed than the other nights but still lots of fun.

As for Kestrels it's a lottery and there will always be more single guys than anyone else no matter what day you go. Sundays tends to have a good few couples visiting but might be an idea to post a meet if you're looking for a couple.

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By *aptain VMan
over a year ago

Birstall, Leicester

Is abfas and kestrels the same club?

I'm a single guy looking to visit the club when would you suggest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok. It really does depend on what you are looking for. I've been visiting Kestrels / Abfabs for a couple of years now. Both on my own and with a couple of lady friends.. Best time to meet a bi partner, either M or F or if you are lucky both, is a Monday. Tuesday and Wednesday are clothing optional and can be quiet or busy depending on the time of the month or the weather. Thursdays is daytime only and tends to be quieter.

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By *ivinefoxWoman
over a year ago

Coventry

Yes they are the same club. It's Kestrels during the day when it's a naturist club and AbFabs at night when it's swinging. Confusing I know!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They keep Kestrels and Abfabs as separate names as the rules around dress codes are different as well as the access to the facilities is slightly more open under the Abfabs name... It's easier... Trust me...R

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By *pa and dCouple
over a year ago

Barnet

We'd echo the"Saturday" message as being a relaxed and friendly night, But it depends what you're after. We most enjoy playing with other couples, but if you're a "greedy girl" then you might want to look at other nights.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This upcomimg Friday's is ferish night is anyone going? Hope you all are well.

Justin x

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