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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi

Ok, apologies in advance for what I'm sure is a benal post to some.

Thinking of attending abfabs on Friday for the first time.

It's swingcherries night. What can I expect?

Single guy here. Not asking if I can expect fun...just never been and would love some tios and advice.

J

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you meant "banal".

Not been to AbFabs yet although I have been to Kestrels quite a few times. From the experiences I have had and the chat's I have had with those that have been then you should be in for a pretty good time. The facilities are excellent and you should have quite a choice of whether you relax and enjoy good friendly company or tire yourself out with lots of fun. The main advice is treat everyone with respect and don't be pushy. That way lies the path to the most fun.

Enjoy it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's a swingcherries night?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's another website, they partner up with AbFabs one Friday per month. The event isn't exclusive to their members.

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By *ettyboop61Woman
over a year ago

St Neots

Have you booked OP? can't just turn up on a friday....they will send you home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you booked OP? can't just turn up on a friday....they will send you home"

Very good point, they open pre-book list on the previous Monday. However, there is a reserve lost and I'm told they now base the number of single male places on the number of couples and single women who have pre-booked, so more places may open if more couples and women book later in the week.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I miss Kestrels

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I miss Kestrels "

It hasn't gone anywhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I miss Kestrels

It hasn't gone anywhere "

Haha!! Very true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hot tub for me Friday night

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have you booked OP? can't just turn up on a friday....they will send you home"

I will be. Are you going? I hope so. Love your profile. X

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By *rishmocha2Couple
over a year ago

Beds


"I miss Kestrels "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you booked OP? can't just turn up on a friday....they will send you home

I will be. Are you going? I hope so. Love your profile. X"

Do it ASAP, it may already be full and you'll have to go on the reserve list.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

V here.

Fridays can be odd... To ensure success (as opposed to standing around looking like a spare prick) get there early (but not too early), look great (too many in tshirts and jeans) and make contact with people. The club has amazing facilities but there is this weird thing that happens, usually before 11pm/midnight, when the, previously crowded, main bar/sitting area just empties out. It's when people pluck up the courage to pair up and head to the dungeon. You want to have established a connection before then... After that guys start to do the "wandering around aimlessly" thing which could get you lucky but often results in failure.

Arranging to meet people there often helps too... Instant friends.

generally it's a pretty friendly place and if nothing else you can chill in a hot tub.

Xx

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By *ettyboop61Woman
over a year ago

St Neots


"Have you booked OP? can't just turn up on a friday....they will send you home

I will be. Are you going? I hope so. Love your profile. X"

Afraid not going during the day...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"V here.

Fridays can be odd... To ensure success (as opposed to standing around looking like a spare prick) get there early (but not too early), look great (too many in tshirts and jeans) and make contact with people. The club has amazing facilities but there is this weird thing that happens, usually before 11pm/midnight, when the, previously crowded, main bar/sitting area just empties out. It's when people pluck up the courage to pair up and head to the dungeon. You want to have established a connection before then... After that guys start to do the "wandering around aimlessly" thing which could get you lucky but often results in failure.

Arranging to meet people there often helps too... Instant friends.

generally it's a pretty friendly place and if nothing else you can chill in a hot tub.

Xx "

Thanks so much for the tips. Really appreciated.

Are you guys going?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. Not this week.

V

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nope. Not this week.

V"

Another time I hope

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly


"I miss Kestrels

It hasn't gone anywhere "

But the sun has! I can't wait for the summer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The way my skin burns, I prefer Kestrels when it's NOT sunny.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I miss Kestrels

It hasn't gone anywhere

But the sun has! I can't wait for the summer "

Me too

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By *rishmocha2Couple
over a year ago

Beds


"I miss Kestrels

It hasn't gone anywhere

But the sun has! I can't wait for the summer "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I miss Kestrels

It hasn't gone anywhere

But the sun has! I can't wait for the summer

"
Before finding Fabs used to look forward to spring just for the daffs been thinking for days now can't wait for spring and kestrels

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