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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hello.

I've been going to clubs for a while now and have noticed that the majority are older couples and single men etc.

Now I'm only 24 so I generally like the people I meet to be up to the age of 30, obviously with exceptions.

Does any clubs do an under 30's night or anything? Or would it be a good idea? Like greedy girls works well, so why not a night for younger swingers to meet and play?

Just a thought.

Though if this already a thing somewhere please point me in that direction

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By *entadreadMan
over a year ago

Essex


"Hello.

I've been going to clubs for a while now and have noticed that the majority are older couples and single men etc.

Now I'm only 24 so I generally like the people I meet to be up to the age of 30, obviously with exceptions.

Does any clubs do an under 30's night or anything? Or would it be a good idea? Like greedy girls works well, so why not a night for younger swingers to meet and play?

Just a thought.

Though if this already a thing somewhere please point me in that direction "

Could some of the single guys been in their 30s??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The club I went to had a complete mixture, I'm 22 and I wasn't even the youngest there! Maybe try switching it up abit and trying new places?

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By *andomfodCouple
over a year ago

walsall

I went to xtasia with an ex and though they didn't have a strictly younger night, they had a night in which they played newer music etc. This attracted a younger crowd, though I'm not sure whether they still run it.

B

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The club I went to had a complete mixture, I'm 22 and I wasn't even the youngest there! Maybe try switching it up abit and trying new places?"

Where was that? I've been going to chams lately, I tried the attic too but I hated it there.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I went to xtasia with an ex and though they didn't have a strictly younger night, they had a night in which they played newer music etc. This attracted a younger crowd, though I'm not sure whether they still run it.

B"

Thanks I'll check it out. Being wanting to go to xtasia as it seems more clubby than the others I've been going to

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hello.

I've been going to clubs for a while now and have noticed that the majority are older couples and single men etc.

Now I'm only 24 so I generally like the people I meet to be up to the age of 30, obviously with exceptions.

Does any clubs do an under 30's night or anything? Or would it be a good idea? Like greedy girls works well, so why not a night for younger swingers to meet and play?

Just a thought.

Though if this already a thing somewhere please point me in that direction

Could some of the single guys been in their 30s?? "

With a body like that. Yes. Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello.

I've been going to clubs for a while now and have noticed that the majority are older couples and single men etc.

Now I'm only 24 so I generally like the people I meet to be up to the age of 30, obviously with exceptions.

Does any clubs do an under 30's night or anything? Or would it be a good idea? Like greedy girls works well, so why not a night for younger swingers to meet and play?

Just a thought.

Though if this already a thing somewhere please point me in that direction "

Sounds like an amazing idea to me.... Can i be on the guest list please!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The club I went to had a complete mixture, I'm 22 and I wasn't even the youngest there! Maybe try switching it up abit and trying new places?

Where was that? I've been going to chams lately, I tried the attic too but I hated it there. "

Xtasia!

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By *andomfodCouple
over a year ago

walsall


"I went to xtasia with an ex and though they didn't have a strictly younger night, they had a night in which they played newer music etc. This attracted a younger crowd, though I'm not sure whether they still run it.

B

Thanks I'll check it out. Being wanting to go to xtasia as it seems more clubby than the others I've been going to "

Yeah its got the whole dance floor/bar area. That way you can go there just for a night out if playing doesn't take your fancy. We went a few times and never played but always had a good night.

B

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Looks like xtasia is my next adventure!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hello.

I've been going to clubs for a while now and have noticed that the majority are older couples and single men etc.

Now I'm only 24 so I generally like the people I meet to be up to the age of 30, obviously with exceptions.

Does any clubs do an under 30's night or anything? Or would it be a good idea? Like greedy girls works well, so why not a night for younger swingers to meet and play?

Just a thought.

Though if this already a thing somewhere please point me in that direction

Sounds like an amazing idea to me.... Can i be on the guest list please! "

If I ever get round to ever attempting to maybe organise something somewhere then of course

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By *izzyRascalWoman
over a year ago

North Hants


"I went to xtasia with an ex and though they didn't have a strictly younger night, they had a night in which they played newer music etc. This attracted a younger crowd, though I'm not sure whether they still run it.

B

Thanks I'll check it out. Being wanting to go to xtasia as it seems more clubby than the others I've been going to "

Went to Xtasia for the first time on New Years. Real mix of ages but would def think that it being like a nightclub could attract younger people. I do wonder though if just generally/statistically speaking swingers tend to be above 30?

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

We'd be keen to know where the under thirties go too, just to avoid our kids ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try Fever, its a party night for the under 40's. Not quite the under 30's youre after but we've been a couple of times and its a pretty young crowd with a decent atmosphere

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Try Fever, its a party night for the under 40's. Not quite the under 30's youre after but we've been a couple of times and its a pretty young crowd with a decent atmosphere"

Oh I'll have a look at that. Thanks!

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

The Wild Wetness

We don't mind the mix of ages, although before heading out we will try to contact a few people who are are interested in as it increases the chances of finding someone fun to play with.

Although we've been before with out any preparation and had fun too.

We don't tend to ask how old, if we have not met them before. If they float our boat then that will do for us.

It's certainly an idea, it could be something a club could try, but they have to protect their income, so it maybe a matter of doing it on a slow night mid-week.

I think some clubs will also hire out a venue, allowing others to put on an event such as this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We built up a group of friends all under 30 and met them all through going to clubs...life changes mean most have moved away or stopped meeting etc.

Do agree that the majority in clubs are over 30s. Nothing wrong with that though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always found party nights attract a younger crowd. The old S** nights at Libs used to get such a clientele.

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By *andJCouple
over a year ago

fun town

I'm sure libertys do a younger generation eveing every 3rd friday!

We haven't been yet on that particular night but will try it soon

J x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm sure libertys do a younger generation eveing every 3rd friday!

We haven't been yet on that particular night but will try it soon

J x "

They do but when we went, we were probably the youngest couple and we aren't that young! X

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By *irty130Couple
over a year ago

Bristol Area

In our 20s we regularly went to Fever (just around the time they upped the age limit from 35 to 40).

There used to be a great night in London called 35-South too (for under 35's), but hasn't run for 6 or 7 years now when the F-Club closed.

Nowadays, it's about looking for clubs that attract a younger crowd (or at least a young-at-heart crowd), or one with a photo selection.

Le Boudoir in in London has a photo application. Although membership plus entry can make it expensive the first time.

Xtasia runs the Depraved night; house music/rave. Well attended, and tends to put off the older crowd.

Equally, they also run a retro night, which puts US off, so there's something for everyone if you choose the right night.

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

The Wild Wetness

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

The Wild Wetness

This is getting a bit groucho marx!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 27 and I've only ever been to Townhouse. There have been many couples younger than me there. I certainly never feel like the youngest.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'll have to try these places out, How would everyone feel about a under 30s mini party as such?

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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago

London


"I'll have to try these places out, How would everyone feel about a under 30s mini party as such?"

I'm down for it

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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago

London


"Try Fever, its a party night for the under 40's. Not quite the under 30's youre after but we've been a couple of times and its a pretty young crowd with a decent atmosphere"

Are you talking about fever in London? Been to a couple parties always a nice crowd. They have a party on the 23rd I believe. I introduced a friend and she loved it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's a great idea as I have often found myself being the youngest one in the club. But I'm turning 30 in March so I hope it never gets off the ground! You bloody whippersnappers!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know other mentioned libs, but I was just on their website and it says this:

NEXT GEN YOUNG SWINGERSEVENTHELD ON THE FOURTH FRIDAY OF EACH MONTHOn this Friday we try to attract young couples to the club by making them a very SPECIAL OFFER.So if you are both under 32 (BUT over 22 please) then your entrance cost is just £10 not the normal £25 PLUS to get your evening started you get a FREE welcome drink at the bar (a shot or a glass of wine).NOTE this offer does not stop other members and guests attending the club.We also have some special single gentlemen who are attentive without being intrusive but can be rather playful just for you ladies.These Fridays are a less formal fun way to start the weekend and the latest music to dance to

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