FabSwingers.com forum: protocol at swingers club

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We are attending a swingers club for first time tomorrow night and not to clear what the etiquette is for approaching others. Anyone advise?

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be social talk to people, if there is a connection ask them if they are interested in playing

By *IANnG1Couple
over a year ago

local

"We are attending a swingers club for first time tomorrow night and not to clear what the etiquette is for approaching others. Anyone advise?"

Just start a conversation from anything like the weather to do you come here often haha. when 1st at any club you will be shown around and you can ask all the questions you need too

Good luck and have fun

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If you attend as a couple are you more likely to be approached as a couple to play or as individuals? Sorry for first time naivety lol

By *irty filthy milfWoman
over a year ago

somewhere only i know!

"If you attend as a couple are you more likely to be approached as a couple to play or as individuals? Sorry for first time naivety lol"

If you're there as a couple you should be approached as a couple but not always the case when other conversations are going on! The best way to describe clubs are to imagine a nice bar but people are wearing less, what you do on the day/night is your choice but I'd suggest you have code words so that if its not working you use that word, then you ca make polite excuses and move onto the next

By *uccubus19Couple
over a year ago

North London & Manilva Spain

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

Ask questions to the staff who show you around. You are under no pressure to play with others or do anything you don't want. Have a phrase such as. ...I need a drink.....that means I am not happy, stop. So you both feel safe.

Relax and have fun.