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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi there!

After chatting to some people on here I am more and more intrigued to visit a club and see what it's like.

I am very new to this whole scene and I know I just want to try it to see what's it like and go from there. It's peaked my interest.

But I would be a single female, which I don't think I would in any way be comfortable going as.

Any advice very much welcome!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi there!

After chatting to some people on here I am more and more intrigued to visit a club and see what it's like.

I am very new to this whole scene and I know I just want to try it to see what's it like and go from there. It's peaked my interest.

But I would be a single female, which I don't think I would in any way be comfortable going as.

Any advice very much welcome!!!

"

It really depends on your personal taste what you are looking for

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

All clubs will be extra solicitous for single women. Let them know when you get there.

Use the club page on here to check each club out. Some have events and evenings for single women to get acquainted, but each club is unique so the only way is to visit.

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By *unkydesignCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

As Gillyhicks said, it depends what you want. Are you looking to meet single guys, couples, females, gangbangs, soft swap etc etc?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you

Really valid points, and I appreciate your feedback

I guess it would depend on what I experience and the pull I feel

Single guys, couples ....defiantly soft play initially

Just wondered if there was good / better clubs for a newbie

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By *ndykinkyMan
over a year ago

STOKE-ON-TRENT

Club Atlantis Evolution in Burslem, Stoke-on-Trent is very friendly and welcoming.

Maybe easier for someone new to the scene as it is more like a normal nightclub but swinging does go on.

Just chat and get to know people, if you get on and feel like more then you are free to do so.

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By *irty filthy milfWoman
over a year ago

somewhere only i know!


"Thank you

Really valid points, and I appreciate your feedback

I guess it would depend on what I experience and the pull I feel

Single guys, couples ....defiantly soft play initially

Just wondered if there was good / better clubs for a newbie "

In my opinion as a single female I've always been made to feel very welce at all clubs I've been too, read the review and maybe message people who have left reviews? I've some great fem friends through going to clubs and they're usually at least 1 fem that I know each time I go out. If you're ever up north and I've a pass out you're more than welcome to join me and I'll help with intros too xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That's really kind and thank you so much!!!

This is an area I certainly wish to explore so I shall do a bit more research before I travel and pop this cherry!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you tied to looking a clubs in a particular part of the country?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No

It's more the club and the people that are important

I can travel to suit xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well AbFabs can be a bit hectic on single guy nights, so maybe not the best place to start if you're flying solo first time. I've heard good things about Vanilla Alternative, they strictly limit numbera of single men. You might also want to look at MSD Parties (they have a profile on here). They're run in Sutton on the first Saturday of each month, there's usually a good crowd and they're well-run.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi there!

After chatting to some people on here I am more and more intrigued to visit a club and see what it's like.

I am very new to this whole scene and I know I just want to try it to see what's it like and go from there. It's peaked my interest.

But I would be a single female, which I don't think I would in any way be comfortable going as.

Any advice very much welcome!!!

"
butlins bognor

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi there!

After chatting to some people on here I am more and more intrigued to visit a club and see what it's like.

I am very new to this whole scene and I know I just want to try it to see what's it like and go from there. It's peaked my interest.

But I would be a single female, which I don't think I would in any way be comfortable going as.

Any advice very much welcome!!!

butlins bognor "

The adults - only weekends do have a certain reputation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Although part of a couple I regularly go to Townhouse single and have never felt anything but safe, even if that's just sat at the bar chatting and taking advantage of the hot tub.

The staff are always friendly and make sure that people are comfortable.

Plus even if I do say so we are a friendly lot lol.

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By *uccubus19Couple
over a year ago

North London & Manilva Spain

GGuess it depends where you're heading, being don't know any places in Jersey!

London has OP4F which is definitely suited to single ladies.

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area


"Club Atlantis Evolution in Burslem, Stoke-on-Trent is very friendly and welcoming.

Maybe easier for someone new to the scene as it is more like a normal nightclub but swinging does go on.

Just chat and get to know people, if you get on and feel like more then you are free to do so.

"

I was going to suggest Atlantic too. It's small, so not too overwhelming. I go as a single lady and always have a good evening. It's like a night club downstairs and then a naughty club upstairs.

The people attending are friendly and the atmosphere is great.

I would happily meet you for a drink in a local pub and we could go in together if you want to check it out.

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By *aydeesclubCouple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

Its a shame your not near us, you would of loved it here

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area


"Its a shame your not near us, you would of loved it here "

Who is this comment for? Myself or the OP ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its a shame your not near us, you would of loved it here

Who is this comment for? Myself or the OP ? "
hey lizzy you know someone else is using that avatar pic don't you ?

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By *avlawMan
over a year ago

mountain view

Try one of killing kitten parties?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The Ritz club

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Wow thank you so much!!!

I'm happy to travel to try these places and any friendship and support along the way is even better in my opinion

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By *irty filthy milfWoman
over a year ago

somewhere only i know!


"That's really kind and thank you so much!!!

This is an area I certainly wish to explore so I shall do a bit more research before I travel and pop this cherry!"

You're more than welcome and I'm sure the North West has the most clubs too xx

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By *damandeve4funCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Try one of killing kitten parties?"

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

In general clubs are safe places for women. particularly if the management know you are on your own.

I'd suggest going to a club social night first to see what you think and then consider going 'properly' another time.

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