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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

anybody going this friday?

nikki and myself are thinking about it. she has a fancy dress for the nights theme.

just a bit concerned about the recent reviews about single men behaviour. not that we will be worried as i can easily handle men who touch without asking.

just hope it doesnt put off other couples or ladies

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By *amdacarrCouple
over a year ago

lincoln and chameleons

Going and staying over with lincolnjames.

Not heard about bad behaviour from single guys though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm hoping to make it to Chams on Friday.

I haven't been on a Friday for a while as I now prefer Sundays - they are a bit more chilled and less hectic.

I read the reviews about last Friday night and the "strange" atmosphere. Pretty depressing as Chams is a great place, the staff are fantastic and usually the clientele is very respectful.

Only takes a couple of idiots who feel that they can do whatever they want to change people's perceptions, particularly of single guys. As a regular Chams goer who prefers to talk to people rather drag my knuckles along the ground chasing couples I hope last Friday was a one-off and it doesn't deter people from enjoying what Chams is all about!

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By *ivinefoxWoman
over a year ago

Coventry

What happened last Friday?

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By *amdacarrCouple
over a year ago

lincoln and chameleons

It's in the club reviews. Hopefully the staff will be all over it this friday

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

I was there last Friday and there did seem to be an odd atmosphere, having said that, it certainly wasn't because of single men. In fact, there were very few men in there compared to normal Fridays.

One review I read made me think I'd been in a different club because the comments about the single men were so far from what I'd witnessed.

Anyways, I'll be there on Friday so it couldn't be that bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Were going this Friday, normally go on a Saturday so hope its as good , hope lots of bi fem couples are their ????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm going and hoping for lots of fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The reviews were from one night in particular and when I was reading them, only one (Keeley) stated they had spoken to the staff about the specified males behaviour and he was asked to leave. So while reading them, I questioned whether they had informed any of the member of staff and if they hadn't then how are they to know? They're not psychic and rely on people letting them know if they are having problems. I see it too much on the reviews page, when someone says avoid, they have rarely spoken with the staff so to me its not a fair representation of the club, because if people let them know then the situation can be resolved, which in chams it was. This to me, shows more about the club and it's staff than anything else, they value the reputation of the club so will do all they can to maintain it.

As for leaving alcohol, I always do, just as a tip for him, apart from last time he made sure I got it back, so I couldn't say anything next time I went lol.

Read the reviews and it's not put me off at all

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"The reviews were from one night in particular and when I was reading them, only one (Keeley) stated they had spoken to the staff about the specified males behaviour and he was asked to leave. So while reading them, I questioned whether they had informed any of the member of staff and if they hadn't then how are they to know? They're not psychic and rely on people letting them know if they are having problems. I see it too much on the reviews page, when someone says avoid, they have rarely spoken with the staff so to me its not a fair representation of the club, because if people let them know then the situation can be resolved, which in chams it was. This to me, shows more about the club and it's staff than anything else, they value the reputation of the club so will do all they can to maintain it.

As for leaving alcohol, I always do, just as a tip for him, apart from last time he made sure I got it back, so I couldn't say anything next time I went lol.

Read the reviews and it's not put me off at all "

I've always found the staff in Chams to be very attentive to any issues, I also make sure to tell them about any other issues I've noticed such as messes in toilets etc (seriously people, if you're not toilet trained, don't leave your fecking house )

I'd have no worries about attending on a Friday again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm going Friday, I have the weekend off work so making the most of it

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire

Oh bugger has last Friday ruined it for the single guys?

I was thinking of going as well, not sure if we'll be as welcome as a trampoline flying over your fence!

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Oh bugger has last Friday ruined it for the single guys?

I was thinking of going as well, not sure if we'll be as welcome as a trampoline flying over your fence! "

Nooooooooo, there weren't many there, the guy I mentioned in my review was part of a couple.

The single guys are not to blame at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh bugger has last Friday ruined it for the single guys?

I was thinking of going as well, not sure if we'll be as welcome as a trampoline flying over your fence! "

As if anybody really cares about what the odd single guy does in a club

People will still go, single guys will still be welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh bugger has last Friday ruined it for the single guys?

I was thinking of going as well, not sure if we'll be as welcome as a trampoline flying over your fence!

As if anybody really cares about what the odd single guy does in a club

People will still go, single guys will still be welcome "

I don't think it was a single guy.

To be honest i would be put off with the behaviour described and it takes a lot to annoy me !

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By *ivinefoxWoman
over a year ago

Coventry

I've been loads on a Friday and not had any problems, most guys are generally pretty respectful. Don't let a few bad apples put you off!

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By *rMrsRandyCouple
over a year ago

Mids

Hassle is ultra rare

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We were there last Fri and yes the atmosphere was very strange. We have chatted to many regulars since and they have described it as an 'odd' night. As with any club you will get people jumping to the club's defence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We were there last Fri and yes the atmosphere was very strange. We have chatted to many regulars since and they have described it as an 'odd' night. As with any club you will get people jumping to the club's defence. "

I wouldn't say it is jumping to the clubs defence, as regulars people can give a true reflection of how they normally find the club. If something like that happened often on a Friday night then there'd be more about it in the reviews and many would avoid going regularly if it was the case. Most of the reviews from a Friday night are positive, so it shows last Friday was just an unfortunate night and not something that happens often.

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By *amdacarrCouple
over a year ago

lincoln and chameleons


"We were there last Fri and yes the atmosphere was very strange. We have chatted to many regulars since and they have described it as an 'odd' night. As with any club you will get people jumping to the club's defence.

I wouldn't say it is jumping to the clubs defence, as regulars people can give a true reflection of how they normally find the club. If something like that happened often on a Friday night then there'd be more about it in the reviews and many would avoid going regularly if it was the case. Most of the reviews from a Friday night are positive, so it shows last Friday was just an unfortunate night and not something that happens often. "

Totally agree. If we thought the single guys weren't polite there's no way I'd be going back no matter how much fun the round table is with another woman and lots of guys

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We still waiting on sitter so we know if we are going friday or Saturday. Excited as not been for ages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let's have a roll call!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Me and nikki

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

Me, couldntfindgoodusername, Harpie666 and skullywag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me and brinksy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm going

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went last Friday and didn't notice a strange atmosphere. It was the same as ever. There was a fun atmosphere and play taking place everywhere, I've never seen the couples room so crowded.

There was one single guy in there who was making a nuisance of himself. He was wearing boxer shorts and a shirt, sleeveless I think. I've never seen him in there before. He was pushing in during play amongst groups in the orgy room and just being rude. When I was talking to a couple near the end of the evening they said he had been banging on the door of the private room they were in for 15 minutes. He just had no decorum about him. Rude, pushy and no swinging social skills.

If you read my veri's it says that I always ask first, I wouldn't dream of just groping, very bad form.

Like I said, no strange atmosphere, just a fun night with a couple of bad eggs.

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By *amdacarrCouple
over a year ago

lincoln and chameleons

Me and Lincolnjames staying over

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By *rMrsRandyCouple
over a year ago

Mids

We're going

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we will be there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmm.... Can't help but notice there's something missing from this list... Oh yes men! Where are you hiding? Will it be a first for single fems to outnumber the single men on a Friday!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll be there all you single women are welcome to come say hello xxxx Kimiiiiiiiii

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iam a single man I always behave myself

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire

I'm hoping to go if there's lots of sexy ladies going, which reading above it looks like there are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Iam a single man I always behave myself "

sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Iam a single man I always behave myself

sometimes "

hehe only when my tongues on your clit am I a naughty man x

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By *ivinefoxWoman
over a year ago

Coventry

I'm hopefully going to be there. Would love to meet some of you sexy peeps, only problem is I won't know what any of you look like!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm hopefully going to be there. Would love to meet some of you sexy peeps, only problem is I won't know what any of you look like! "

well if I could message you I'd show you x

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By *ivinefoxWoman
over a year ago

Coventry

Maybe we should all agree to meet at the bar at a pre arranged time...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I should be going tomorrow night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You will see me about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't wait to have some fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll be there between 7 and 8 but knowing who I'm going with it'll probably be later lol. But I'll say hello to all. I'm normally talking to people somewhere

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

will be 9 or 10 when we get there as going for food before we go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we will be there around 8

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as early as possible traffic depending x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we had a sitter we would be there. Was going to go the 13th but Mrs M was ill.

Have to say we have been on loads of Fridays and never had any problems we couldn't deal with easy. Yes you do get the odd guys trying tge private rooms, asking to be let in, but a quick f**k off solves that same with the touching. We have noticed lately guys sitting in the changing rooms a fair bit,have mentioned this to staff too.

The last Friday we went was very quiet, very strange too, we went with another couple and a single fem who regulars amd all said it was a odd night but I guess your grt that at any club.

All in all chams is and will remain our favourite Club.we go to a fair few other clubs, all have their good and bad points but all in all chams is where we feel most at home.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Maybe we should all agree to meet at the bar at a pre arranged time..."

I'm hoping to be there about 7 ish

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By *amdacarrCouple
over a year ago

lincoln and chameleons

Should be in the bar about 830 and wandering the rooms by 9

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I'm going

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire

It's going to be a park round the corner job again tonight isn't it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hopefully around 10ish

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hopefully we bump into a few sexy fems.a few guys nikki wants to take into a private room and if we are lucky a couple up for fun.not asking for a lot hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's going to be a park round the corner job again tonight isn't it!"

No! Errol!!!!! Save me a space lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm going "

see you there sexy

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire


"I'm going

see you there sexy "

No hogging the jacuzzi now some of us guys might want to come in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm going

see you there sexy

No hogging the jacuzzi now some of us guys might want to come in "

I won't be going in the jacuzzi so feel free

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Going with a male friend

And I'm in a greedy mood for lots of you sexy guys

How many will I entertain ? How many will be there x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hopefully lots of sexy guys for me to get my claws into

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire


"Hopefully lots of sexy guys for me to get my claws into "

Not too many from my point of view

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll be in at 9.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really wanted to go tonight but my car has let me down! Hope everyone has an amazing time! X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I really wanted to go tonight but my car has let me down! Hope everyone has an amazing time! X"

Not our direction or you would have been welcome to jump in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I really wanted to go tonight but my car has let me down! Hope everyone has an amazing time! X

Not our direction or you would have been welcome to jump in "
Aww thats lovely thanks wasnt hinting but actually is anyone from telford going? Happy to pay petrol x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We travelled 20 miles of a 40 mile journey only to realise we left card at home.no money,had to come home. Nikki was not happy as she sorted a outfit out for bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a fab night at the club Friday night

Any guys who played with me please add a veri for me

What a great club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell of a night

Had an absolute blast

Dioch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hell of a night

Had an absolute blast

Dioch "

Must have been.. could have sworn met you in Xtasia last night

xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had an amazing night dressed as a school boy hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hell of a night

Had an absolute blast

Dioch

Must have been.. could have sworn met you in Xtasia last night

xx "

She bloody was lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aww ffs sorry guys I was still half cut and posted in the wrong thread pahahahaha

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By *aysmitMan
over a year ago

walsall

So come on who's coming tomorow ? Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We travelled 20 miles of a 40 mile journey only to realise we left card at home.no money,had to come home. Nikki was not happy as she sorted a outfit out for bit "
how completely gutting! Poor you x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We travelled 20 miles of a 40 mile journey only to realise we left card at home.no money,had to come home. Nikki was not happy as she sorted a outfit out for bit how completely gutting! Poor you x"

Yep.before we left I felt in jacket and card was there.got out of car and pulled it out.it was the one I hadn't received new password for yet.

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By *rMrsRandyCouple
over a year ago

Mids


"Had an amazing night dressed as a school boy hahaha"

Ah something can up we couldn't make it was hoping to definitely bump into you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really thought I'd made a impression on some of you guys on Friday

Can't believe not had a mail of anyone

I must be bad lol

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