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What is dressing down?

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By *ouble_Cream OP   Couple
over a year ago

cheltenham

Ok so I was planning to go to V.A then I found out it was dress down, which I took to be naked or just in knickers or towel (towel doesnt feel sexy at all! ) after reading websites. So I've been looking at a whole host of other clubs for options but so many say dressing down....can someone please clarify what 'dressing down' actually means.

I was planning to go in a small a lace see through dress but with underwear underneath.....is that dressed up or dressed down?! I really don't want to go all that way to feel uncomfortable all night having to be naked or in just underwear. It's all very confusing! Where are all the 'nightclub' style clubs like Xtasia!? (Already been so want to try somewhere new).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sexy undies are fine, i think its just to stop people walking around the play areas fully clothed which can be a bit off putting .

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I've been to the VA fully dressed

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

VA is dressed in the bar and social area and towel or robe to go into the play area.

Dressed as in party or regular club.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

Just re-read your post.

The lace dress will be fine, but you will need to dress down for the play area.

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By *ouble_Cream OP   Couple
over a year ago

cheltenham


"Just re-read your post.

The lace dress will be fine, but you will need to dress down for the play area."

Ok so dressing down means taking the dress off.....or underwear too to only towels or robes? Some people have msgd to say a see through dress with underwear is dressed down! Oh the headache! Haha

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World


"Just re-read your post.

The lace dress will be fine, but you will need to dress down for the play area.

Ok so dressing down means taking the dress off.....or underwear too to only towels or robes? Some people have msgd to say a see through dress with underwear is dressed down! Oh the headache! Haha "

When I went it was dressed in the bar, so the lace dress would be fine, but I was told I had to change into a towel or robe to go into the play area.

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By *ornstarmartini69Couple
over a year ago

norwich

We have been a few times now and sexy lingerie in the play area is def ok. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought swinging was supposed to be a relaxing past time. I'm stressed for you!

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By *ature_NW_Redhead.Couple
over a year ago

bolton

I go to a club in Farnworth were you don't have to dress down which is brill, don't think there are many, most people dress to impress in the club I go. Up to you if you want to take your clothes off then x

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By *ouble_Cream OP   Couple
over a year ago

cheltenham


"I thought swinging was supposed to be a relaxing past time. I'm stressed for you! "

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By *herealdeal90Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield

I never understood why most clubs are dress down. Like most people have said here, I don't feel sexy just in a towel. Talking to a girl while she can see all of me is not good for my confidence. Haha. Can someone please enlighten me why clubs have a dress down policy.

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By *jandjbCouple
over a year ago

Nr Manchester

We started by going to Cupids which is a dress down club and that's what we prefer. I wear boxers and my OH wears a basque and stockings, or a variety of lace or similar dresses etc.

The "why" is because it's a swingers club, we dont want you have to go back to the locker room to get changed before wandering off to play, although my OH may get changed between plays. Last night we were in Partners with quite a few couples. Everyone in the big jacuzzi there was naked except for one lady who started in a bikini and was topless when we left.

We feel most uncomfortable when we are dressed down but some of the other people are not. That's why we like it when a dress down rule is enforced. It is also hot to see ladies in lingerie etc.

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City


"We started by going to Cupids which is a dress down club and that's what we prefer. I wear boxers and my OH wears a basque and stockings, or a variety of lace or similar dresses etc.

The "why" is because it's a swingers club, we dont want you have to go back to the locker room to get changed before wandering off to play, although my OH may get changed between plays. Last night we were in Partners with quite a few couples. Everyone in the big jacuzzi there was naked except for one lady who started in a bikini and was topless when we left.

We feel most uncomfortable when we are dressed down but some of the other people are not. That's why we like it when a dress down rule is enforced. It is also hot to see ladies in lingerie etc. "

+1 what DJ said

I do like the nightclub style clubs, but one issue I do have, is the guys are fucking with their trousers round their ankles and socks on, or they dump the trousers in a corner and when finished, they are looking around everywhere for loose change and shit that has fallen out of pockets. Nowt worse than a search party when others are still getting down and dirty.

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By *jandjbCouple
over a year ago

Nr Manchester

Well said Purring. Well described off-putting experience. That's also why I'm not keen on parties unless they are in clubs(because they have lockers) ie the safety of the things in my trouser pockets!

DJ

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