FabSwingers.com forum: Any advice for somebody thinking about going to a club for the first time?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've always thought about going to a club but I didn't have someone who wanted to go so I'm thinking about going by myself. Any advice for someone who's kinda nervous?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Phone ahead and make sure they will let you in. For two reasons

1: your age

2: Most clubs you have to register beforehand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Phone ahead and make sure they will let you in. For two reasons

1: your age

2: Most clubs you have to register beforehand "

Don't accept your first visit as what it's like give it a few goes

Look round for a guy that that is on his own and known to others and chat to him . Trannies are always a good choice to chat to usually friendly and outgoing and will be known in the club

Usually a good ice breaker is its my first time here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've always thought about going to a club but I didn't have someone who wanted to go so I'm thinking about going by myself. Any advice for someone who's kinda nervous?"

My standard response....

Be respectful of the people around you and be polite and courteous. Make an effort to talk to people...You only get out of the experience what you put in so have fun. Go a couple of times to see it from different views, never judge a club by one visit. Most importantly don't go with any expectations and if something happens you'll enjoy it way more

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks, this has kinda put me at ease a bit. Now just to find a good club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks, this has kinda put me at ease a bit. Now just to find a good club

Plenty that are close to you

We had a social event at Jaydees on Saturday night where 3 of the people that came with us had never wven been to a club before and one was a young single male around your age and he highly enjoyed it

I can't recommend it highly enough tbh but there's also others close enough to you. Check the club's section and read the reviews it will give you a bit of an idea about the respective club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always talk to both partners if approaching a couple tell them you've never been before ask for advice and tips from them it's a good conversation starter don't follow people about it makes them nervous. And don't drink to much whatever you do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've always thought about going to a club but I didn't have someone who wanted to go so I'm thinking about going by myself. Any advice for someone who's kinda nervous?"
take plenty of money and don't expect anything for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be friendly and chat, don't expect anything but enjoy the experience this way if you do play it's a bonus.

Make sure you research a good club, check out their website as well as giving them a quick call to check they accept single guys on the night you're planning to go.

Main thing, have a good time

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By *ratty_DamselWoman
over a year ago

Greater London

"I've always thought about going to a club but I didn't have someone who wanted to go so I'm thinking about going by myself. Any advice for someone who's kinda nervous?take plenty of money and don't expect anything for it

Well if men go with the sole expectation of play, would going to a 'lady of the night' not be cheaper, Mark ?!

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