FabSwingers.com forum: Ideal Swingers Party

By *lexandriys OP Man
over a year ago

London

Good time of the day to all of you, sex Gods

So I attended couple of private parties, went on quite a few private meets with members, visited some clubs, and it just doesn't seems right...

All of those places and meets are.. NOT classy, where is build up ? Where are ratios ? Where is face control ? Dress codes ?

I genuinely believe there isnt a swingers event organisers in the area who can make guests feel right...

correct me if im wrong but arent you people attending for sexy times ? Not just Fuck'N'Go ?

Okay. Closer to the point... During my time of using this website (and not only this one) ive built a small team of subs who are very sexually creative. Different tastes, different ideas, different minds pretty much. We started throwing some parties, mostly for ladies but tend to invite some guys if they look hot. And after first ALL girls party we came up with idea - why not to start swingers event organising company... Now I know what you thinking: another entrepreneur looking for a way to make money...

Maybe... but after taste of those tasteless clubs ive been around in London, and of those cheaply organised events makes me want to produce somethig that people will be feeling highly respected when they attend. Whether its a couple where a guy talks his girlfriend into threesome for the last 6months and she finally says "lets do it" or if its a single guy who just wants to have fun, or if its a single lady that wants a quality over the horendous quantity.

Tell me fellows swingers... what is an ideal swingers event for you ? What does it include that you havent encountered yet ? Who wouldlike to meet at those parties ? What themes are your favourite themes ? Locations ? prices ? Services included ?

Share your opinion if you care for the quality of the swinging in London. I believe we can swing better... and I believe I can make it happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a great programme that aired in Scotland called chewing the fat and one of the sketches had a woman going wank good guy good guy wank wank as she went around a group I suspect you may not have been a good guy the way you have worded this wonder what everyone else that reads this thinks

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By *lexandriys OP Man
over a year ago

London

Well... quite an interesting answer... dont know how to respond to that...

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By *lexandriys OP Man
over a year ago

London

Id sugest ignoring the topic if you dont have anything to say related to the question

But good or not... this is more of a request for social opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well we hold small private parties for like minded others at our home just for fun no pressure play at all but if they wish to then fine ,and had great feed back from ,but based in London lots of people don't even know the folk next door let alone talk to strangers and have a laugh lol

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By *ome Social With UsCouple (FF)
over a year ago

East Midlands

I get what you are saying but most people tend to like those sort of things.

We host socials and they are fun and can lead to future hot meets

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

So you're not wanting us to write your business plan for you?

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

A group where everyone fancied us, and we fancied everyone.

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By *aveandkate35Couple
over a year ago

telford

Please take this as constructive.

I'd question your abilities as an entrepreneur if this is you're best idea, which makes me then think you're parties wouldn't be that good. I mean, if you think swinging parties are a great way to make money then you haven't thought it through and thus, you probably wont think the details through on the party.

The best meets, the best parties, the best experiences in life, ever, are always the ones you never planned.

Sure give people the venue and facilities - like clubs do, but ultimately it will be the people that make the party, and that's the one thing you can't control. The more you do try and control it, the worse or sterile it will become.

There have been a lot of events that promised the world this year that didn't deliver. There are parties that cater for the young and beautiful and those that provide "guaranteed" sex. All have customers. Are they the best? Do they do better than somewhere like the clubs? I'm not convinced.

If you do try this, you'll need a unique selling point to differentiate you and the other established parties. Again, a double edged sword, for every person you appeal to, another will be put off.

Good luck and I'm sure my comments won't deter you - just my oppinion, but personally I'd invest my cash and efforts elsewhere.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

^^^

Very well put

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good time of the day to all of you, sex Gods

So I attended couple of private parties, went on quite a few private meets with members, visited some clubs, and it just doesn't seems right...

All of those places and meets are.. NOT classy, where is build up ? Where are ratios ? Where is face control ? Dress codes ?

I genuinely believe there isnt a swingers event organisers in the area who can make guests feel right...

correct me if im wrong but arent you people attending for sexy times ? Not just Fuck'N'Go ?

Share your opinion if you care for the quality of the swinging in London. I believe we can swing better... and I believe I can make it happen. "

What is face control?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I've never been to an adult club. If I were to attend one, my ideal one would be smart casual dress code (no jeans no trainers no t shirts) so people at the bar could chat, various room sizes and themes and showers and toilets and changing area and lockers and identifiable, professional staff. Above all, I'd expect it to be clean.

I suspect it been done before...

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By *aydeesclubCouple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

Have you ever tried clubs outside of London, ours is a very good club, but we also have members of all shapes, sizes and looks come along, it wouldn't be fair to just run a party and only invite hot good looking people. Who decides who it hot, one persons hot will not be another's. Its a hard type of party to run, you will upset peoples feelings too if you check their pics and then don't invite them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I believe your a dreamer

good swingers parties are those that people return to time and time again,and work because of good reputation and people's enjoyment, you will always get a handful like you that don't like a Particular party or club, I think your setting your expectations to high,as I've been to a few parties and club's around london and I haven't got any complaints

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

good swingers parties are those that people return to time and time again."

I am always worried about clubs who rely heavily on Newbie Nights, and wonder why no one goes back a second time!

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By *epper123Woman
over a year ago

London

"Good time of the day to all of you, sex Gods

So I attended couple of private parties, went on quite a few private meets with members, visited some clubs, and it just doesn't seems right...

All of those places and meets are.. NOT classy, where is build up ? Where are ratios ? Where is face control ? Dress codes ?

I genuinely believe there isnt a swingers event organisers in the area who can make guests feel right...

correct me if im wrong but arent you people attending for sexy times ? Not just Fuck'N'Go ?

Share your opinion if you care for the quality of the swinging in London. I believe we can swing better... and I believe I can make it happen. "

How fascinating. I think there is a thread called up themselves that may be appropriate here. I would not want to go to any party where a man had spent three months talking his girlfriend into it or where all the women are subs. That smacks of male dominated and male fantasy. I don't want to go with the beautiful and shallow, I want real people, real friends (some swing, some don't), depth and fun. If you have not found quality, its maybe because you want to make money out of it and you have been going to the wrong places. Sorry, but just my opinion.

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By *angbang junkieCouple
over a year ago

Ilkeston

Sounds like you like the expensive and "classy" parties/clubs. Throwing money at an event doesn't make it good. If you want build up and ratios, try a relationship, not swinging.

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By *lexandriys OP Man
over a year ago

London

Wow.

There some good opinions here

I might have expressed myself a little wrong.

in regards to us making money on them...

weve thrown few events and already and actually didn't make money back on it, which is not an issue. We'd rather work on people's enjoyment of the night.

structure of the night. We're not planning to run events at the same location twice... (at least not in the row) And the whole party isn't starting at the venue. I've got a plan for it to start elsewhere in the bar for drinks, for people to chill. Drinks on us, central London preferably, hidden place, classy place etc.

Than its always a pick up by limo to travel to the party location, which in the most cases is a house with a bunch of advantages, like jakuzzi (classic lol ), pools, loads of space, mobile supervised cloak room etc. Basically party is a party... it starts in the bar.... than it ends up always somewhere at home... and a whole evening expirience is what I believe worth offering to people.

People that attend. Well, being selective might come across a bit harsh, to some guests... but if its membership only, and membership is only by invite at than theres no harm done. There are ways to be professional without hurting anyone.

Ratios... ratios can change event to event.

All girls being subs can always happen at all sub girls party... newbie party will always have people talking most of the night... easing it so to say. Gangbangs of course will have more gents. And any other style will have different crowd...

I didn't reply to all yet, but thanks a lot people, you did give me some topics to discus. Will be back later to response to some more posts.

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

I just want to check something, I might have the wrong end of the stick, and if so, please correct me.

So are you expecting all the women in attendance to be submissive to any man there?

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By *lexandriys OP Man
over a year ago

London

No no no...

Basically masters come with their subs.... and its up to them what they want to do with their subs... females that attend are naturally submissive and they approached woth respect because they're single... of they choose not to be dominated - they aren't.

Parties are never guaranteed sex... that would be like running a brothel... which is just awful. Everything is on mutual agreement.

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

"No no no...

Parties are never guaranteed sex... that would be like running a brothel... which is just awful. Everything is on mutual agreement.

I am totally lost, how do you know that all the women who attend are naturally submissive? Is this part of the members inviting members process?

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands

'Face control'

Sorry if someone has already asked but face control???

Sounds like a kk type thing....

I've been to many a private event/house party on both this scene and kink but haven't gone to kk for the simple idea that beauty is only make up deep... doesn't sit well for me personally.

The kink event sounds like a fantasy from story of o

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

good swingers parties are those that people return to time and time again.

I am always worried about clubs who rely heavily on Newbie Nights, and wonder why no one goes back a second time! "

Most of our clientele for our newbie night return again and again, check out the reviews and our verifications. newbie nights are for everyone with a positive, friendly attitude who embrace all swingers regardless of there experience level etc

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By *lexandriys OP Man
over a year ago

London

Well.... face control, yes... beauty is only makeup deep... so I agree its harsh... but who said each event is going to be identical. Different themes means different type of people attending.

You can have your juicy bootie nights,

You can have your forty n flirty nights and many more... but some sort of selection based on looks... sorry for harshness - has to be applied.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still reeling at "face control" Wow...

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By *lexandriys OP Man
over a year ago

London

No, lol I got 4 assistants to help me out with that if needed

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By *MFC PartiesWoman
over a year ago

Here, There & Everywhere

good swingers parties are those that people return to time and time again.

I am always worried about clubs who rely heavily on Newbie Nights, and wonder why no one goes back a second time!

Cant understand why its called a Newbie Night if you are now stating that the majority of your guests are NOT newbies ...

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By *MFC PartiesWoman
over a year ago

Here, There & Everywhere

"Good time of the day to all of you, sex Gods

So I attended couple of private parties, went on quite a few private meets with members, visited some clubs, and it just doesn't seems right...

All of those places and meets are.. NOT classy, where is build up ? Where are ratios ? Where is face control ? Dress codes ?

I genuinely believe there isnt a swingers event organisers in the area who can make guests feel right...

correct me if im wrong but arent you people attending for sexy times ? Not just Fuck'N'Go ?

Share your opinion if you care for the quality of the swinging in London. I believe we can swing better... and I believe I can make it happen. "

Good luck with your new venture but please dont underestimate or disrespect your potential 'guests' - the very people who you are trying to attract to your new range of parties

You state that you want to bring something NEW to the scene as you ''genuinely believe there isnt a swingers event organisers in the area who can make guests feel right'' - and then you go on to ASK people what they're looking for to MAKE them feel right!!

''correct me if im wrong but arent you people attending for sexy times ? Not just Fuck'N'Go ? - well are they?? - some people do NOT want to have a relationship with their new conquest - some DO want a fuck and go ... Does that make them wrong for doing so???

From what i read, your Party Format is being developed for you because its what you are looking for - there's nothing wrong with that at all ... there's HUNDREDS of people across the UK organising small gatherings every day of the week - they organise their own party, they select the guests, they ultimately arrange a party FOR themselves and it works FOR THEM and their circle of friends

You state that ''but after taste of those tasteless clubs ive been around in London, and of those cheaply organised events makes me want to produce somethig that people will be feeling highly respected when they attend'' ... Which parties / clubs have you attended? - Have you tried those targeted at the more 'elite' - Killing Kittens, Fever, HeavenSX or City Slickers

Whilst some people will be put off by their pretentious approach to guest selection (or as you call it Face Control) this same selection process attracts just as many people

This scene is made up of REAL PEOPLE - some are model-like, some have stretch marks, lumps and bumps, some are hung, ripped and tanned, some have beer bellies ... But thats what makes the world go around

Some people only want to gather amongst those they are attracted to - thats their prerogative

But to condemn other clubs and organisers by stating that what we offer is not what people are looking for is ignorant and totally incorrect as far as the BMFC is concerned

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

You really need to drop the phrase "face control!"

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By *uzzbuzzCouple
over a year ago

guildford

Theplaygrounds guys aka rodandjacks on here throw the best parties at Radlett. Check out photos and reviews of previous events. Well attending by a sexy mix of people, usually over 50 couples, great house with dance floor, hot tub and a pool, several playrooms. So many repeat attendees they are now holding them twice a month! Check it out before stating there are no good club/parties in London area.....just saying.

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By *MFC PartiesWoman
over a year ago

Here, There & Everywhere

"Theplaygrounds guys aka rodandjacks on here throw the best parties at Radlett. Check out photos and reviews of previous events. Well attending by a sexy mix of people, usually over 50 couples, great house with dance floor, hot tub and a pool, several playrooms. So many repeat attendees they are now holding them twice a month! Check it out before stating there are no good club/parties in London area.....just saying.

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

andover

Hi All from Corfu, well we arrange meet on the beach party's.

Then back to ours for a bucket list party all very relaxed as most people will never meet again so more open with their likes ans dislikes ..Connie

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