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"Damn sausage fingers, meant to read it'll just be her if she feels comfortable enough" I thought it was her nickname | |||
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"The VA is like a bar/nightclub and there is noting to be nervous of. Go to see what it is like, don't expect sex. The hot tub is huge " Don't expect sex?? We were hoping that would be a given lol | |||
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"The VA is like a bar/nightclub and there is noting to be nervous of. Go to see what it is like, don't expect sex. The hot tub is huge Don't expect sex?? We were hoping that would be a given lol" Some people think that clubs are like an organic scene from a 1970's porn film, they are like normal clubs but with the chance of playing. Dave | |||
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"That's not the image we had at all lol but we were hoping that Em would get a chance to play if she felt comfortable. " She can, but if you go there with the expectation of playing and it doesn't happen, there may not be anyone there she fancies, then you could end up being disappointed. If you go expecting to have a relaxed and fun social evening and you do end up playing, all the better. | |||
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"The VA is like a bar/nightclub and there is noting to be nervous of. Go to see what it is like, don't expect sex. The hot tub is huge Don't expect sex?? We were hoping that would be a given lol" Oh, let's see the replies to a couple profile now | |||
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"The VA is like a bar/nightclub and there is noting to be nervous of. Go to see what it is like, don't expect sex. The hot tub is huge Don't expect sex?? We were hoping that would be a given lol Some people think that clubs are like an organic scene from a 1970's porn film, they are like normal clubs but with the chance of playing. Dave" You can play also in normal clubs. Shocks!!! | |||
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"The VA is like a bar/nightclub and there is noting to be nervous of. Go to see what it is like, don't expect sex. The hot tub is huge Don't expect sex?? We were hoping that would be a given lol If you with expectations you won't be disappointed " *dont go | |||
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"The VA is like a bar/nightclub and there is noting to be nervous of. Go to see what it is like, don't expect sex. The hot tub is huge Don't expect sex?? We were hoping that would be a given lol" What would ppl say if a single guy said sex is a given at clubs | |||
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"I think the 'lol' the end of my sentence would have implied that it was a playful throw away comment and not there to be taken out of context. " Ill remember to use the lol next time then | |||
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"Potential spanner in the works.... We've been messaged by someone suggesting abfabs is a better place to visit. Now we really don't know what to do lol" Not been to adfabs but our visit to VA was fantastic. Jane showed us around and we felt kept an eye on us, Just a little smile and a chat as we were getting drinks from the bar, made us feel comfortable and safe that we had a connection with someone. Went further than we thought we would, just haven't been able to hook it all together to get back. In our opinion a safe, clean, comfortable environment with a great bar area if you don't want to go to far and a fantastic hot tub and play area if you want a no pressure environment to explore more. Say hi to Jane for us. X | |||
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"hope you have a wonderful time at VA, i havent been because ive heard its all open and i like to have the option of playing privately if i want to. abfabs was my first club as a couple years ago friday nights and the layout was a bit scary although id recommend the club to anyone,facilities are awesome x mingles, lovely little club in colchester, great ownera and very sociable first time as a single on the scene i went there..i had a wonderful first experience. but without the wet facilities and furniture.. i go to jaydees a lot simply because of the relaxed party atmosphere and the people..got a large social going on this saturday..loads of newbies going to club for first time with a few of us, to make sure they all have a great night socially...intending to do a few more next year.. events for all these places can be found on the events forum.. i hope you have a wonderful night xx and see you at some point on your journey x" You should try it. I'm very shy but actually play in the open areas which is something I thought I would never do. They do have private play areas but I haven't even used them yet . I've felt really comfortable playing openly x | |||
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"hope you have a wonderful time at VA, i havent been because ive heard its all open and i like to have the option of playing privately if i want to. " That is the major reason I won't go back to VA, I hated the lack of private play options. In other clubs I play either in private or in open public rooms but was so uncomfortable at VA I had to leave early. Tried talking to people but they weren't having it, even those we were 'friends' with on here, very cliquey. And no-one played with others, only their own partner. Beautiful club but didn't suit me at all. | |||
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