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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

we have noticed on here certain "swingers" only meet at clubs, which they charge a large entrance fee but you do get to play with ladies there. Surely these cannot be classed as swingers and should not be on this site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am confused.

The swingers charge or the clubs charge?

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

I meet at clubs, but there is no guarantee of sex with me ... that makes me even less of a swinger, then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's right as the law sais, if you enter a building and pay and more than one girl is there and have sex it is classed as illegal.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Sorry, someone who goes to swinging clubs shouldn't be classed as a swinger because they are choosing to guarantee a successful nights swinging for themselves?

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By *annooWoman
over a year ago

Hastings

I think,this site is open to all....

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

If I had a decent club closer to me, I would be much happier meeting to play at a club. There is safety in numbers.

However, I wouldn't be getting paid for it.

So to me, there is no problem with people like that being on here. Its not like they force you to pay to meet, its still your choice.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Are you talking about private clubs and not swinging clubs?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Large fee? Or charge for sex? OP..Clubs Need to charge for entrance because they don't have foundation from government for paying bills for energy, water etc.

Couples or some people choosing meet only in clubs because they can't accommodate or from different reasons.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Couples or some people choosing meet only in clubs because they can't accommodate or from different reasons."

I meet at clubs because, if someone decides not to turn up to our arranged meet, I have someone else to play with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They employ escorts you mean? Dunno if it's illegal or swinging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Couples or some people choosing meet only in clubs because they can't accommodate or from different reasons.

I meet at clubs because, if someone decides not to turn up to our arranged meet, I have someone else to play with. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But I agree that site is not for people who asking for charge for sex, if you want meet privately.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World


"Couples or some people choosing meet only in clubs because they can't accommodate or from different reasons.

I meet at clubs because, if someone decides not to turn up to our arranged meet, I have someone else to play with. "

This is the resaon I only play in clubs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I meet at a club should I be getting a cut of the entrance fee?

Dammit! so many missed opportunities

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Certain swingers expect single guys to pay for the hotel...should they be on here too?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not all clubs have high entrance charges.some clubs let ladies in for free.no one, as gorgeous as they may be,can garentee a playfull eve.some ppl go just to socialise.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World


"Certain swingers expect single guys to pay for the hotel...should they be on here too?"

Certain swingers require that men MUST bring a bottle of wine to a meet.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

your misunderstanding my point lol Totally nothing wrong with all you people going to meet at clubs, your classed as swingers. I mean certain females on here advertise the club they work at. They say what girls will be working and say if you pay to go in, you will be able to join in the gangbangs/bukkake. Surly if you pay for this, its not swinging in my eyes

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"your misunderstanding my point lol Totally nothing wrong with all you people going to meet at clubs, your classed as swingers. I mean certain females on here advertise the club they work at. They say what girls will be working and say if you pay to go in, you will be able to join in the gangbangs/bukkake. Surly if you pay for this, its not swinging in my eyes "

Hmmm, well there are a couple of clubs known for doing this, but it seems to be allowed by the site so not much you can do. Best thing is to avoid those people and the clubs they are hired to entice you into.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

ha never had a guy pay for a room yet, would be nice though. We always accommodate or pay for the hotel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"your misunderstanding my point lol Totally nothing wrong with all you people going to meet at clubs, your classed as swingers. I mean certain females on here advertise the club they work at. They say what girls will be working and say if you pay to go in, you will be able to join in the gangbangs/bukkake. Surly if you pay for this, its not swinging in my eyes "
No, but I guess it would be an easy veri to get lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"your misunderstanding my point lol Totally nothing wrong with all you people going to meet at clubs, your classed as swingers. I mean certain females on here advertise the club they work at. They say what girls will be working and say if you pay to go in, you will be able to join in the gangbangs/bukkake. Surly if you pay for this, its not swinging in my eyes "

I'm guessing your talking about the private club

Yes the manager advertises the club on her profile

The private club has a mix of paid girls and customers, you pay your fee you do what you like inside, of there are single women and couples in, which do go, your free to chat to them and play if you all get along but if not the paid girls are there to cater for the guys, its a garenteed shag if all else fails

You don't have to play with them though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"your misunderstanding my point lol Totally nothing wrong with all you people going to meet at clubs, your classed as swingers. I mean certain females on here advertise the club they work at. They say what girls will be working and say if you pay to go in, you will be able to join in the gangbangs/bukkake. Surly if you pay for this, its not swinging in my eyes "

Its for the cost of the condoms and venue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"your misunderstanding my point lol Totally nothing wrong with all you people going to meet at clubs, your classed as swingers. I mean certain females on here advertise the club they work at. They say what girls will be working and say if you pay to go in, you will be able to join in the gangbangs/bukkake. Surly if you pay for this, its not swinging in my eyes

I'm guessing your talking about the private club

Yes the manager advertises the club on her profile

The private club has a mix of paid girls and customers, you pay your fee you do what you like inside, of there are single women and couples in, which do go, your free to chat to them and play if you all get along but if not the paid girls are there to cater for the guys, its a garenteed shag if all else fails

You don't have to play with them though "

So the girls will fuck any guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ha never had a guy pay for a room yet, would be nice though. We always accommodate or pay for the hotel. "

I'd pay... but sadly you aren't my type

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"your misunderstanding my point lol Totally nothing wrong with all you people going to meet at clubs, your classed as swingers. I mean certain females on here advertise the club they work at. They say what girls will be working and say if you pay to go in, you will be able to join in the gangbangs/bukkake. Surly if you pay for this, its not swinging in my eyes

I'm guessing your talking about the private club

Yes the manager advertises the club on her profile

The private club has a mix of paid girls and customers, you pay your fee you do what you like inside, of there are single women and couples in, which do go, your free to chat to them and play if you all get along but if not the paid girls are there to cater for the guys, its a garenteed shag if all else fails

You don't have to play with them though

So the girls will fuck any guy "

Yes, to be blunt its what they are paid to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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You don't have to play with them though "
That would be an expensive coffee lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"your misunderstanding my point lol Totally nothing wrong with all you people going to meet at clubs, your classed as swingers. I mean certain females on here advertise the club they work at. They say what girls will be working and say if you pay to go in, you will be able to join in the gangbangs/bukkake. Surly if you pay for this, its not swinging in my eyes

I'm guessing your talking about the private club

Yes the manager advertises the club on her profile

The private club has a mix of paid girls and customers, you pay your fee you do what you like inside, of there are single women and couples in, which do go, your free to chat to them and play if you all get along but if not the paid girls are there to cater for the guys, its a garenteed shag if all else fails

You don't have to play with them though

So the girls will fuck any guy

Yes, to be blunt its what they are paid to do"

Looks like that club is a no go then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"your misunderstanding my point lol Totally nothing wrong with all you people going to meet at clubs, your classed as swingers. I mean certain females on here advertise the club they work at. They say what girls will be working and say if you pay to go in, you will be able to join in the gangbangs/bukkake. Surly if you pay for this, its not swinging in my eyes

I'm guessing your talking about the private club

Yes the manager advertises the club on her profile

The private club has a mix of paid girls and customers, you pay your fee you do what you like inside, of there are single women and couples in, which do go, your free to chat to them and play if you all get along but if not the paid girls are there to cater for the guys, its a garenteed shag if all else fails

You don't have to play with them though

So the girls will fuck any guy

Yes, to be blunt its what they are paid to do

Looks like that club is a no go then"

Each to their own but it does get very busy

On the plus side for women who go (customers) it stops you being harrased by guys, its usually only a select few who bother to talk to you when women are openly avalible for them to shag and they tend to benthe type of men worth talking to

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

Its not what I would consider swinging

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

finally somebody sees what we are trying to say

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By *eonardoLoveMan
over a year ago

London

It is a brothel

However single guys pay A LOT also in normal swinger clubs...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been to the private club and the guys were very respectful...

And if you read the girls blurbs on the site many say there no goes.

I've also seen guaranteed sex from normal swingers at gangbangs.. I was at a club recently and their was a flyer about it. As the lady wanted as many men as she could.

I don't see anything wrong with the clubs that do have paid girls. And you also get escorts pairing up with guys on the clock so to speak to at most clubs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have also noticed a lot more girls who do porn want lads round to basically use as free cock in pornos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its not what I would consider swinging "

It's not the dictionary definition of swinging. But then again about 1/3 of the forum members probably don't meet that definition either (albeit for different reasons).

The truth is that the club's and websites that swinging couples enjoy probably wouldn't stay in business without the wider group

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge


"Its not what I would consider swinging

It's not the dictionary definition of swinging. But then again about 1/3 of the forum members probably don't meet that definition either (albeit for different reasons).

The truth is that the club's and websites that swinging couples enjoy probably wouldn't stay in business without the wider group"

All of the clubs we have ever been to are able to survive without paying women to have sex with people. Fab would also be able to survive without non-swingers, but they chose not to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"your misunderstanding my point lol Totally nothing wrong with all you people going to meet at clubs, your classed as swingers. I mean certain females on here advertise the club they work at. They say what girls will be working and say if you pay to go in, you will be able to join in the gangbangs/bukkake. Surly if you pay for this, its not swinging in my eyes

I'm guessing your talking about the private club

Yes the manager advertises the club on her profile

The private club has a mix of paid girls and customers, you pay your fee you do what you like inside, of there are single women and couples in, which do go, your free to chat to them and play if you all get along but if not the paid girls are there to cater for the guys, its a garenteed shag if all else fails

You don't have to play with them though

So the girls will fuck any guy

Yes, to be blunt its what they are paid to do"

We actually know a couple who's been and they said it's ok and had a good night but they told us the girls can still say no to anyone in the club

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By *ownhouseTwosomeCouple
over a year ago

Birkenhead/Liverpool

The whole top and bottom is its illegal. If you pay girls to be 'available' for guys and charge the guys to get in, it's a brothel. It's not swinging. However I don't think it should be excluded from this site as it's providing a service which some swingers may want to try.

Do I agree with it? No actually as I don't want people confusing this club with others and thinking we all do the same. But this place does well and therefore there are people who want to make use of their services.

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By *angbang junkieCouple
over a year ago

Ilkeston

We enjoy the place, and it certainly blows any other clubs we have been to out of the water.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Couples or some people choosing meet only in clubs because they can't accommodate or from different reasons.

I meet at clubs because, if someone decides not to turn up to our arranged meet, I have someone else to play with. "

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield


"The whole top and bottom is its illegal. If you pay girls to be 'available' for guys and charge the guys to get in, it's a brothel. It's not swinging. However I don't think it should be excluded from this site as it's providing a service which some swingers may want to try.

Do I agree with it? No actually as I don't want people confusing this club with others and thinking we all do the same. But this place does well and therefore there are people who want to make use of their services."

Our concern is if the club was paying girls to have sex the police could raid and hold everyone on the premises.

All the women could possibly be charged as the club would be viewed as a brothel.

It would certainly cloud the issue and make it harder for swingers to claim they were not being paid for sex.

We would avoid any clubs we thought were paying women for sex

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By *angbang junkieCouple
over a year ago

Ilkeston

I dont think thats really how it works.

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By *icurguycovMan
over a year ago

Leeds

I've been to the private club several times. Yes, it's guaranteed sex and the girls are paid. But if you choose the right day you can have a great time and the manager is one of the sexiest women I've ever met.

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By *irty130Couple
over a year ago

Bristol Area

There's another club in the West Mids that has the same set-up. It's a shame that their glossy website claims to be a premier/genuine/ultimate swinger club. (TLC)

For newbies in the scene, it could be confusing to see exactly how clubs worked if that was the first place that came up, or the first place they braved.

Sex Clubs =/= Swingers Clubs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we have noticed on here certain "swingers" only meet at clubs, which they charge a large entrance fee but you do get to play with ladies there. Surely these cannot be classed as swingers and should not be on this site "
sorry clubs were created by couples who swing they form the essence of swinging but I agree with you on the paying for potential sex thing from the single guys perspective hugs

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By *lue BelleWoman
over a year ago

Caernarfon. North Wales


"Couples or some people choosing meet only in clubs because they can't accommodate or from different reasons.

I meet at clubs because, if someone decides not to turn up to our arranged meet, I have someone else to play with. "

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

As I can't sleep.....

I have oft thought it unfair that single guys pay a premium at Swinger Clubs. It is after all a club where people have choice. The ladies could all say no and he has paid 3 or 4 times as much as other human beings to be there. One very unhappy guy.

So...why not use this extra to pay hostesses to play with single guys ?

Now we have happy everybody. Girls make money. Guys get sex. Club is busyband vibrant. Couples and single ladies are untroubled and can still choose from the pick of the herd.

I like that idea. If I had a club I would have a separate room where members could use this service. Maybe charge more and call it a VIP room.

But is it swinging ?

Well...let's go the other way. A club where all guys pay a lot of money and are guaranteed sex. Hold on...that's a brothel.

It's a grey area, but I know one lady on this thread is paid to have sex with guys at a club. She is a swinger but also, to my mind, a sex worker.

Is it wrong ? Who knows? Who cares?

But it is the reality of life today. Be aware bit we have to live with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They have them in Amsterdam x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They have them in Amsterdam x"
yes coffee shops and bikes oh and canals hugs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Couples or some people choosing meet only in clubs because they can't accommodate or from different reasons.

I meet at clubs because, if someone decides not to turn up to our arranged meet, I have someone else to play with. "

same

and I feel safer as a single woman !

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