FabSwingers.com forum: Mondays at chams

By *ick and Flick OP Couple
over a year ago

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Hya. My husband is bi curious although not sure how far he wants to go. We like chams and im wondering if a monday night would be a good choice for us for him to explore?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perfect night ,my favourite night actually as the atmosphere is amazing and it's such a good crowd and mix of people x

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

Monday is a good night.. and especially as it is bi night. (No am straight) but bi men do not put me off going.

When told I am straight..they do leave me alone.. ofcourse get the cheeky chancers who try to change my mind.. but its all good fun..its still a no.

Relax.. give it a go.. even just to look for the first time.

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

Monday is a good night.. and especially as it is bi night. (No am straight) but bi men do not put me off going.

When told I am straight..they do leave me alone.. ofcourse get the cheeky chancers who try to change my mind.. but its all good fun..its still a no.

Relax.. give it a go.. even just to look for the first time.

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By *orks funMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

"Monday is a good night.. and especially as it is bi night. (No am straight) but bi men do not put me off going.

When told I am straight..they do leave me alone.. ofcourse get the cheeky chancers who try to change my mind.. but its all good fun..its still a no.

Relax.. give it a go.. even just to look for the first time.

err.. should you be going on bi night if you are single and straight ?

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

"Monday is a good night.. and especially as it is bi night. (No am straight) but bi men do not put me off going.

When told I am straight..they do leave me alone.. ofcourse get the cheeky chancers who try to change my mind.. but its all good fun..its still a no.

Relax.. give it a go.. even just to look for the first time.

err.. should you be going on bi night if you are single and straight ?"

No he shouldn't, as far as I know single guys need to be bi.

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By *ick and Flick OP Couple
over a year ago

Staffs

Thx for the advice. Think we will try a monday night soon and I don't mind a straight bloke being there. After all he isn't the only one having fun lmao

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

Just because i go on bi night doesnt make it wrong.. just like some people who go like to watch and not take part.. some people prefer company and watching bi men and boy they have no issues on a monday night with me being there.. lets not be so quick to caste judgement live and let live

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just because i go on bi night doesnt make it wrong.. just like some people who go like to watch and not take part.. some people prefer company and watching bi men and boy they have no issues on a monday night with me being there.. lets not be so quick to caste judgement live and let live"

I thought the whole idea of a bi night is a night for bi people hence bi night or am I missing the point

but back to the thread I love Mondays at chameleons I find it so much more friendly that none bi nights

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By *orthwest_cplCouple
over a year ago

Stretford

Do you tell the staff when you arrive that you are straight?

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

I have been goin there 5 years.. the staff know am straight..

Its a swingers club.. does that mean everyone who goes wants a shag?! No! So why is a bi night any different

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By *osweetandhornyCouple
over a year ago

west Midlands

Straight single men are a pain on Monday evening the only straight men in there should be part of a couple where the female is bi . Single straight men can take the pick from the other 6 days. Some single straight men only go on a Monday night because the membership is cheaper

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

"Straight single men are a pain on Monday evening the only straight men in there should be part of a couple where the female is bi . Single straight men can take the pick from the other 6 days. Some single straight men only go on a Monday night because the membership is cheaper"

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By *umpkinMan
over a year ago

near the sounds of the wimborne quarter jack!

".................. Some single straight men only go on a Monday night because the membership is cheaper"

Whilst this is true I think it should be also be pointed out that membership for Mondays may be the ONLY way some single guys can get membership so the rules are kind of forcing single guys to lie just for the chance of getting in!

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

Oh well....good points and bad points. I will still go Monday nights.

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By *D-1Man
over a year ago

London

Monday nights at Chams were the highlight of my week 7 years ago. If they're still as kicking as they used to be then you're in for a great night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see why a couple with a straight male would go Mondays, couple with bi females can go any night of the week and openly play, the bi night to me is more for bi men to play openly as its the only night they are allowed

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By *ishopstippleMan
over a year ago

Purley

that's what I thought!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Upon entrance we ask all single guys if they are a practicing bisexual male, if they say no we explain that Monday nights wouldn't be suitable for them. As they have 6 other days to attend. This is something me and mark work hard at to keep all the bisexual customers happy. As letting in straight guys can cause an issue with existing bi members who ate there for bisexual fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

think you hit the nail right on the head with that one. still get to see all the fun may get to play and its cost less.says it all really

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By *eonardoLoveMan
over a year ago

London

"err.. should you be going on bi night if you are single and straight ?"

He likes the risk

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By *umpkinMan
over a year ago

near the sounds of the wimborne quarter jack!

"Upon entrance we ask all single guys if they are a practicing bisexual male, if they say no we explain that Monday nights wouldn't be suitable for them. As they have 6 other days to attend. This is something me and mark work hard at to keep all the bisexual customers happy. As letting in straight guys can cause an issue with existing bi members who ate there for bisexual fun.

I stand by my comments about membership forcing straight guys to "lie". After all, what is there to say that you "have" to play and that you may simply "not fancy" the person approaching you, just the same as any other person on another other night, regardless of gender or sexual preference.

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By *atbearMan
over a year ago

walsall

Just to make.it clear all.single guys on a Monday must be bi

There are 6 more days for straight guys to go

A couple one can be bi the other no matter what gender must be bi friendly

So.please respect your fellow members

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems a bit unfair banning straight guys from a bi night, if that is the case, shouldn't you ban bi/gay men from any other night?

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By *orthwest_cplCouple
over a year ago

Stretford

"Seems a bit unfair banning straight guys from a bi night, if that is the case, shouldn't you ban bi/gay men from any other night?"

Seems a bit unfair banning guys from a couples/single fems only night, if that is the case, shouldn't you ban couples/single fems from any other night? Your same argument, just a slight change of customer, does it still make sense?

A Chameleon's bi night is for bi people. Single straight guys shouldn't be there, Chameleon's policy is that they shouldn't be there and we hope they make sure that the guys slipping through the net are stopped.

Their bi night does not mean you have no choice who you play with as a single guy but it does mean you should be bi.

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By *exxifun5Couple
over a year ago

NORWICH

Well we're off to Charms with a male bi friend in a couple of weeks on a Monday day/night & cant wait! Our first time & so excited as only heard good things about this club. Makes it easier for us knowing that our friend has been a few times before so can show us the etiquette & how things go there. So looking forward to it & hopefully lots of sexy fun! Tom & Tabitha xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would love to go one night with either a couple or single lady. I've played in bi groups before, oral only (my preference). Don't really fancy going on my own though.

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