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By *amdacarr OP   Couple
over a year ago

lincoln and chameleons

Are there any clubs that have a higher proportion of younger guys?

Met a few at chameleons the other week, and hope to do so again this Friday, but most of the guys were late 30s 40s or older.

Perhaps the club thing doesn't appeal younger guys???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are there any clubs that have a higher proportion of younger guys?

Met a few at chameleons the other week, and hope to do so again this Friday, but most of the guys were late 30s 40s or older.

Perhaps the club thing doesn't appeal younger guys???"

I go to clubs, but I'm nearly 30, so maybe don't count lol. I'd have loved to have been visiting clubs from a younger age though as they're better than going out and getting shitfaced

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess costs comes into it for the younger ones as entrance fee can be quite costly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It does appeal, but I would assume the majority of people there are older than me, and I suppose it's a little bit of a barrier. Then again, everyone is there for a similar reason, but the pricing may be a factor for some, I agree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've asked a number of the guys we meet this same question and two answers inevitably come up as to why they don't go to clubs:

1- it is too expensive for a young single guy

2- they don't want to go alone

We have yet to find a club where there is a decent number of guys in my preferred age range. It's best to go on big party nights and hope the volume gives a higher chance. In my opinion.

-Courtney

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By *herealdeal90Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield

Iv been to a few clubs in Manchester. And it is expensive, but that doesn't bother me. But I'm not a keen goer cos the people there were all in their 40s,50s. Maybe if there was a club with a younger crowd il definitely be a regular

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We've asked a number of the guys we meet this same question and two answers inevitably come up as to why they don't go to clubs:

1- it is too expensive for a young single guy

2- they don't want to go alone

We have yet to find a club where there is a decent number of guys in my preferred age range. It's best to go on big party nights and hope the volume gives a higher chance. In my opinion.

-Courtney"

I get the same. It's cheaper than a night on the piss by a long shot and it confuses me that they won't go alone, I don't understand why that matters

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By *parkybunnyCouple
over a year ago

Zurich. NOT London.

Have a look at the Cougar & Cubs nights at Eurekas, a great night and lots of younger guys!

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By *teed99Man
over a year ago

Kettering

Being aware of visitors to The Vanilla Alternative, it would seem that people in their 20's (both girls and guys) usually come as couples or part of a larger group. There are plenty of them but as with all clubs, it changes from week to week as most are not very regular visitors.

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

Amours has younger guys and I happen to go there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a younger guy and go to chams most Friday nights.

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By *lueEyedGuyMEMan
over a year ago

MancBoltonBuryWigan

I'm really eager to give a club a try. Amours sounds good but not sure where in the cc of Manchester it is. Price doesn't bother me just the going alone for the first ever time not knowing what to expect

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

Have a look on the amours club thread - I like it there

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By *heHertsGuyMan
over a year ago

Hertford

I think the biggest thing stopping more younger single guys going to clubs is going alone.

Think a lot more would go if they knew they were meeting someone there. X

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By *lueEyedGuyMEMan
over a year ago

MancBoltonBuryWigan


"Have a look on the amours club thread - I like it there "

Cheers

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By *onny MCMan
over a year ago

Crawley

Started on the scene this year and been going to OurPlace4Fun on my own for a few months. Cost isn't much more than some of my mates spend on booze in a regular club and can't imagine going there with friends and seeing them have sex. Definitely rather go alone.

I do still qualify as young, don't I???

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By *r. JoystickMan
over a year ago

London

Hi _amdacarr (and rest of the thread)!

I'm a 21 year old guy (definitely of the slim variety), so resonate with what you're experiencing and what the reasons may be.

I agree the single guy prices can be an aspect, but it's not -always- and neither is it something that should be changed (supply/demand etc). Price as a sole excuse doesn't count, I think, as you could definitely save a little money even if you're usually strapped for cash. Once in a while is definitely possible and wouldn't stop me.

Going alone? Yes, I reckon that's a big reason. As a younger man, we know that we'll be a 'minority' in the ages there and it can be a little intimidating, especially when you see all these people who know what they're doing (or we think they do). Offering to go to a club -with- a younger guy, even just as buddies/not to play is something I'd wholly appreciate, for example.

But as for finding clubs that 'cater' to a younger male crowd, I've found it hard to find one myself. After mentioning that I'd like to try/have wondered about going to a club one night - the typical response I get is "just do it", "it's great" etc. Whilst that may be true, I think that women/couples underestimate how intimidating going for the first time, young & alone is. We often lack confidence & the know-how and are used to 1-on-1 scenarios more. Having groups of people playing/nude/etc is a little alien - and perhaps that's why it makes some anxious?

Hope this checks a few boxes? x

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By *eonardoLoveMan
over a year ago

London

Do a petition and decrease the entry fee for younger guys

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By *lueEyedGuyMEMan
over a year ago

MancBoltonBuryWigan


"Hi _amdacarr (and rest of the thread)!

I'm a 21 year old guy (definitely of the slim variety), so resonate with what you're experiencing and what the reasons may be.

I agree the single guy prices can be an aspect, but it's not -always- and neither is it something that should be changed (supply/demand etc). Price as a sole excuse doesn't count, I think, as you could definitely save a little money even if you're usually strapped for cash. Once in a while is definitely possible and wouldn't stop me.

Going alone? Yes, I reckon that's a big reason. As a younger man, we know that we'll be a 'minority' in the ages there and it can be a little intimidating, especially when you see all these people who know what they're doing (or we think they do). Offering to go to a club -with- a younger guy, even just as buddies/not to play is something I'd wholly appreciate, for example.

But as for finding clubs that 'cater' to a younger male crowd, I've found it hard to find one myself. After mentioning that I'd like to try/have wondered about going to a club one night - the typical response I get is "just do it", "it's great" etc. Whilst that may be true, I think that women/couples underestimate how intimidating going for the first time, young & alone is. We often lack confidence & the know-how and are used to 1-on-1 scenarios more. Having groups of people playing/nude/etc is a little alien - and perhaps that's why it makes some anxious?

Hope this checks a few boxes? x"

Well said. Exactly how I feel mate especially when never seen a room full of naked/half naked all playing.

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By *eonardoLoveMan
over a year ago

London


"I think that women/couples underestimate how intimidating going for the first time, young & alone is. We often lack confidence & the know-how and are used to 1-on-1 scenarios more. Having groups of people playing/nude/etc is a little alien - and perhaps that's why it makes some anxious?

Hope this checks a few boxes? x"

Eventhough it is not my case as before the swinging clubs I tried something different, I do agree.

However I still prefer 1-1, 2-1 or 3-1 meetings

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By *anB451Man
over a year ago

M1 Southbound

I'd actually really like to go to a club but for me its the combination of the unknown and going alone.

I'd happily go to a bar on my own, but then I know how a bar works, what the etiquette's are etc. Where as a club is a total unknown.

The cash isn't an issue at all though as its cheaper than a night out.

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By *ightDiversionMan
over a year ago

Sevenoaks

I am clearly too old to comment so will at nothing .....

Does young at heart count ?- after all lost blokes stop emotionally maturing at 14 !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wish more would go for sure.

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By *eonardoLoveMan
over a year ago

London


"Wish more would go for sure. "

I would suggest everyone who is of this opinion should sign a petition and give it to the various clubs.

Lower fees for younger guys. Yes we can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe clubs should look at putting ball pools in ?

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I'm not really into clubs but I have been several times with young guys too scared to go on their own.

None of them went off to play though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We've asked a number of the guys we meet this same question and two answers inevitably come up as to why they don't go to clubs:

1- it is too expensive for a young single guy

2- they don't want to go alone

We have yet to find a club where there is a decent number of guys in my preferred age range. It's best to go on big party nights and hope the volume gives a higher chance. In my opinion.

-Courtney"

I used to think paying 25 quid was really expensive but if I go out and get wasted I usually spend around 50 to 100 quid. So for me, the cosy isn't the issue anymore, it's finding someone to go with or knowing that the club you're going to will welcome you.

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By *eepster69Man
over a year ago

Dumfries

To my mind younger single people have their own places, Like nightclubs and younger scene bars to go on the pull so to speak.

Having worked in hospitality and driven a taxi I know how an awful lot of late teens and twenty somethings behave on a night out especially after a couple of sherbets. Not sure they would add anything good to the experience for most of us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To my mind younger single people have their own places, Like nightclubs and younger scene bars to go on the pull so to speak.

Having worked in hospitality and driven a taxi I know how an awful lot of late teens and twenty somethings behave on a night out especially after a couple of sherbets. Not sure they would add anything good to the experience for most of us."

Trust me they would this side of the fence.

When we have seen younger males in a club never been a problem.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Not sure they would add anything good to the experience for most of us."

I agree in the main but a lot of the young men on Fab are not like that. It's one of the reasons they are on here.

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By *eonardoLoveMan
over a year ago

London


"Trust me they would this side of the fence.

When we have seen younger males in a club never been a problem. "

By the way, what about young single girls in clubs??? It has always been the reason why I have never gone to swinger clubs in the past.

I went to my first social organised on here last weekend, and there was only one young couple!? I had to go in a normal club to know someone interesting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The younger guys don't generally have the life skills to fend off the unwanted attention of Middle aged women in clubs generally

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

there are some younger guys that attend Townhouse and the prices are very reasonable, with NO membership costs. Just need to attend an induction night. They also hold plenty events with cheaper prices.

The club is never swamped with unruly men, or too many. There is a good number of single ladies and couples too.

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By *eonardoLoveMan
over a year ago

London


" The club is never swamped with unruly men, or too many. There is a good number of single ladies and couples too."

I hope so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often find on a busy club night many single guys are below 30 and therefore a bit to young for me.

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By *onny MCMan
over a year ago

Crawley

I would love to have sex in a ball pool!

That would be awesome

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By *amdacarr OP   Couple
over a year ago

lincoln and chameleons

Some very informed responses so thank you.

Endeavouring to reply to the private messages which again I thank you for.

Let's see how Friday at chams goes

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By *amdacarr OP   Couple
over a year ago

lincoln and chameleons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I totally agree with this. I'm a young guy (25) and I was so nervous the first time I went to chams. I eventually bit the bullet and after a slow start finally found my feet, but I'd of felt a lot more confident if I wasn't alone.

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By *wicky94Man
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

I would like to maybe go to a club, but I'm a bit nervous/shy about it so would probably want to go with someone what is a normal night at a club like?

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Swicky my dear, you can come with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have met a few younger guy's and told them to go to club's.

A few decent looking younger guy's would clean up, definitely get some action for sure.

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By *ratty_DamselWoman
over a year ago

Greater London


"Have a look at the Cougar & Cubs nights at Eurekas, a great night and lots of younger guys! "

Omg, you would have a ball!

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By *wicky94Man
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Thanks kinky haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have a look at the Cougar & Cubs nights at Eurekas, a great night and lots of younger guys!

Omg, you would have a ball! "

Coughars and cubs nights at eureekas are good.

The speed swinging is a good way to break thre ice.

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By *herealdeal90Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield

Iv been to two swingers clubs. And although I had a good time I found them cliquey and full of older people. So I didn't feel comfortable. I would go again, but probably if I can persuade a female friend. As for price. I don't think it's an issue. Once u get membership out of the way, it's £25 to get in, when I go on a night out I end up paying double that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are there any clubs that have a higher proportion of younger guys?

Met a few at chameleons the other week, and hope to do so again this Friday, but most of the guys were late 30s 40s or older.

Perhaps the club thing doesn't appeal younger guys???"

I'm 26 and I have a strong interest in the club scene...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always been too nervous to go to a club by myself. Would love to go with someone

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By *parkybunnyCouple
over a year ago

Zurich. NOT London.


"Have a look at the Cougar & Cubs nights at Eurekas, a great night and lots of younger guys!

Omg, you would have a ball! "

I did!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central


"We've asked a number of the guys we meet this same question and two answers inevitably come up as to why they don't go to clubs:

1- it is too expensive for a young single guy

2- they don't want to go alone

We have yet to find a club where there is a decent number of guys in my preferred age range. It's best to go on big party nights and hope the volume gives a higher chance. In my opinion.

-Courtney

I get the same. It's cheaper than a night on the piss by a long shot and it confuses me that they won't go alone, I don't understand why that matters"

Maybe the era of people being sociable has dwindles somewhat? Guys used to go out drinking etc by themselves and chat with everyone.

Who is at a club is a random thing, though it's less likely that there are tons of younger people, who are also my preference. When I go on busy days though there are usually enough attractive people to make it a great night.

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By *eonardoLoveMan
over a year ago

London


"Are there any clubs that have a higher proportion of younger guys?

Met a few at chameleons the other week, and hope to do so again this Friday, but most of the guys were late 30s 40s or older.

Perhaps the club thing doesn't appeal younger guys???"

I am now a member of Chams. No worries

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is one of the reasons I haven't yet braved a club- as I usually play with 25-early 30s and I'd be afraid of being the youngest girl there with no one in my age range.

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By *one_wolf.Man
over a year ago

Chatham

Cougars and cubs at eurekas is a great night for younger guys, I have been to that and a numerous of clubs.... Abfabs, TH, infusions and eurekas and find its a mix of all ages of both sexes, but the real reason is just the Unknown, but swinging shouldn't be about age, I'm 22 but more mature (so I have been told) than majority of what would be classes as Middle Aged men,

Advice for the OP and any other you g guys, look at the clubs that host young nights (cougars and cubs) and others that do newbie nights( TH, tease and others) and just remember everyone was a newbie, treat it as a pub where you have to contribute to the conversation and you will make friends for life in this lifestyle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish younger guys would go. They are more respectful than a lot of the older men who have no clue about manners or club etiquette.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

young people are looking to have sex without having relationships but talking to my son at uni you definitely don't need a sex club to get it regular and the girls appear to be as eager as the lads to experience life, but as we all get older we look for a partner or relationship and part of that pleasure is the courting

a lot of our mature friends met through swinging who are single are out of failed relationships for various reasons and have no real desire for another one soon so clubs and swinging are a great way for them to get sex without all the courting crap that goes with it. So based on the amount our lads getting at 22 he and his mates will have no need for any clubs for a long time yet. Maybe that's why we don't get many younger people in clubs

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By *eonardoLoveMan
over a year ago

London


" young people are looking to have sex without having relationships but talking to my son at uni you definitely don't need a sex club to get it regular and the girls appear to be as eager as the lads to experience life, but as we all get older we look for a partner or relationship and part of that pleasure is the courting

a lot of our mature friends met through swinging who are single are out of failed relationships for various reasons and have no real desire for another one soon so clubs and swinging are a great way for them to get sex without all the courting crap that goes with it. So based on the amount our lads getting at 22 he and his mates will have no need for any clubs for a long time yet. Maybe that's why we don't get many younger people in clubs"

Wrong, because:

1) quality of sex is very low (unfortunately for now I need to say it is like that also in clubs...hope to change my mind soon...)

2) impossible to have MFF experiences

3) it is not easy at all in UK. Young girls think to drink and get drugs. Also in swinger clubs as far as my short experience!?!?

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By *ft4ChrisMan
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Like it has already been said young guys like myself find the thought of going alone rather than the cost to be the problem. I want to go and have been looking at visiting Townhouse but I dont like the idea of going by myself and also what to fully expect. As like anything in life we get a picture in ourhead and it ends up not been anything like what we thought.

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By *retty womanWoman
over a year ago

Near Bournemouth

I think it's over priced for all guys, even the older ones

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By *eonardoLoveMan
over a year ago

London


"This is one of the reasons I haven't yet braved a club- as I usually play with 25-early 30s and I'd be afraid of being the youngest girl there with no one in my age range. "

I agree, infact I am trying these things only now at 28...there is people of my and your age though in the best clubs. So you could come

PS: I do not really like how people behave in clubs though. I do prefer quality on quantity. One meeting, for the whole night. Not just playing, doing nothing with everyone

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By *olarbear3Man
over a year ago

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I went to my first swingers club when I was 25, I don't think the price was a problem I wasn't earning much then and had my own house and the price is just similar to a normal night out and the added bonus I didn't have to pay a taxi fare home! As I drove..

Like others have said its getting the bottle to go there on your own, I picked up the courage as I had arranged to meet a couple there unfortunately they didn't show! So it was a lot of walkin around and the odd chat to a cpl..all the other single blokes could tell I was new and chatted to me also which was good.

I went to partners and I think it was a bloke called Clive who showed me around and told me all the do's and don't which made the experience very easy..

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By *D-1Man
over a year ago

London


" young people are looking to have sex without having relationships but talking to my son at uni you definitely don't need a sex club to get it regular and the girls appear to be as eager as the lads to experience life, but as we all get older we look for a partner or relationship and part of that pleasure is the courting

a lot of our mature friends met through swinging who are single are out of failed relationships for various reasons and have no real desire for another one soon so clubs and swinging are a great way for them to get sex without all the courting crap that goes with it. So based on the amount our lads getting at 22 he and his mates will have no need for any clubs for a long time yet. Maybe that's why we don't get many younger people in clubs"

Spot on

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By *anSusieCouple
over a year ago

Midlothian


"Iv been to a few clubs in Manchester. And it is expensive, but that doesn't bother me. But I'm not a keen goer cos the people there were all in their 40s,50s. Maybe if there was a club with a younger crowd il definitely be a regular"

think it's fair to say that swinging is a more mature persons hobby (not to say younger people don't try it). However, younger people go to night clubs to get parners, then they have new relationships,babies and young children. Not much time for swinging The older generation's kids are a bit older, can look after themselves & have a little more money. In my opinion swingers are 90% people in the 35-60 year old age range. So unless you want to watch mature people fucking, get along to a night club where all your peers are.

(Dan)

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By *ishopstippleMan
over a year ago

Purley


" young people are looking to have sex without having relationships but talking to my son at uni you definitely don't need a sex club to get it regular and the girls appear to be as eager as the lads to experience life, but as we all get older we look for a partner or relationship and part of that pleasure is the courting

a lot of our mature friends met through swinging who are single are out of failed relationships for various reasons and have no real desire for another one soon so clubs and swinging are a great way for them to get sex without all the courting crap that goes with it. So based on the amount our lads getting at 22 he and his mates will have no need for any clubs for a long time yet. Maybe that's why we don't get many younger people in clubs

Wrong, because:

1) quality of sex is very low (unfortunately for now I need to say it is like that also in clubs...hope to change my mind soon...)

2) impossible to have MFF experiences

3) it is not easy at all in UK. Young girls think to drink and get drugs. Also in swinger clubs as far as my short experience!?!?"

Can we have that in English: because what you've written make no sense to anyone out side of anyone under 30.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definalty due to not wanting to go alone! ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a 20 year old I want to go to the club's.

Money isn't an issue but I'm a shy person and I would feel very nervous going alone.

From the threads I have read on here and the profiles I have seen it seems alot of the people who go have experience which I feel I lack and even though I am mature for my age I feel as if I would say or do the wrong thing by accident

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By *ishopstippleMan
over a year ago

Purley

To the OP

I note you've hidden your profile so no one knows your age preference desires etc!

Are you a cougar looking to eat (consume a cub) or of similar age?

But im my experience when attending clubs with my younger ex-partner the YOUNGER guys don't know how to behave or RESPECT women

They either seem to expect the woman to do all the work and just pointing at their cock is enough to initiate the action they want without putting any effort on their part (even engaging in a simple conversation). Or they are just unable to cope with the open advances of women more experienced than them. Or Just TOOO nervous and unable to cope with the situation!

Maybe the OP is looking for the impossible. (like the strong silent type that will talk to me and share his feelings) - IT AINT GONNA HAPPEN.

Sharing sex with a couple require experience and understanding of the couples dynamic. or maybe they don't find you attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a very confident guy and still wouldn't go alone just to ensure I don't make myself look like a cock by doing something wrong or improper .. I wouldn't want to disrespect anyone.. I'm sure loads of guys feel the same way..

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By *heHertsGuyMan
over a year ago

Hertford


"The younger guys don't generally have the life skills to fend off the unwanted attention of Middle aged women in clubs generally "

Who would want to fend them off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met & spoken to quite a few men who were at Kestrels for their first visit. One I thought I recognised from the forums so went and spoke to him & showed him around the place.

I can't speak for all clubs but Kestrels during the day is a very friendly place. I'll show you round & say hi if I'm there

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By *rabness92Man
over a year ago

Netherlands


"Are there any clubs that have a higher proportion of younger guys?

Met a few at chameleons the other week, and hope to do so again this Friday, but most of the guys were late 30s 40s or older.

Perhaps the club thing doesn't appeal younger guys???"

I'm 23 and I would love to attend a club but for some reason I always end up getting so nervous

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By *D-1Man
over a year ago

London

I've been around the club scene for 15 years and it's my preferred method of meeting new people. I actually think it's perfectly acceptable for mature ladies to play with younger guys. But funnily enough find it wrong for older guys (like moi) to play with girls in their 20's. Obviously that's just my view and don't mean to offend other old fuckers who like young girls. Fab is a great medium for everyone to chat and arrange to meet in clubs. Nearly all the clubs around the country have lockable play rooms, so if it's privacy you want, you've got it. I think it'd be wrong for young guys to pay less from the point of fairness. I believe the majority of ladies don't like playing with younger guys and this is borne out of experience and the fact that my partner (who in my opinion is one of the hottest women on fab), wouldn't want to play with someone under 35). So in conclusion all you sexy mature ladies pick the guy/guys you like and invite them to your favourite or nearest venue and job done.

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