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"lol whys that ?" You must have thought it was a good idea as well! ![]() | |||
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"So how can I word it so that people get what I'm on about. A night for Bi and Bi curious guys - also wives or partners welcome ??? ![]() Can I confuse things even more - I like playing with bi men but hubby is straight, so would bi-friendly male partners also be welcome? You hate me now, right? ![]() ![]() | |||
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"So how can I word it so that people get what I'm on about. A night for Bi and Bi curious guys - also wives or partners welcome ??? ![]() Sorry I wasn't trying to be rude. x I was just asking as other bi nights are usually for anyone that's bi. Maybe have a look at how the other clubs describe their bi nights? ![]() | |||
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"I didn't read your message right Scarlet. The way I see it is you can have 3 types of these parties.. Bi or Bi sexual guys Bi or Bi sexual ladies or a Bi night which is for all sexes bi ladies and bi guys...and TV's etc etc. Maybe a 4th We used to run parties for T girls and admirers..." Oops I'm too slow at posting. ![]() | |||
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"Ive been trying to message you scarlet but your out of my age range or something ?" Mailed you x | |||
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"We have had a lot of couples just lately that only wanted to meet other bi or bi sexual ladies so we started that party a while ago which is doing very well. So after that I thought I would try the same idea for the guys as we noticed a lot of couples are with bi guys but straight women etc." It worked really well when I did these nights . Let me know if you need a hand ![]() | |||
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"I didn't read your message right Scarlet. The way I see it is you can have 3 types of these parties.. Bi or Bi sexual guys Bi or Bi sexual ladies or a Bi night which is for all sexes bi ladies and bi guys...and TV's etc etc. Maybe a 4th We used to run parties for T girls and admirers..." Nice one for considering the idea ![]() | |||
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"Sorry Scarlet I didn't think you was being rude, I'm having to justify myself as to the fact that we are not copying other clubs parties....its a long story x" I refer to this...... ![]() | |||
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"Sorry Scarlet I didn't think you was being rude, I'm having to justify myself as to the fact that we are not copying other clubs parties....its a long story x I refer to this...... ![]() Spicyminx, her having run a successful bi night I refer to, before it gets twisted x | |||
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"Glad to see we have some interest already, I will message you separately for now, if there is enough interest we will probably hold it on the 3rd Friday of every month... This will be a night with Bi or bisexual Guys in mind, the same as the Bi Ladies night on the 3rd Friday... (please note it is not a Bi Night for all sexes) ![]() Bit confused 3rd fri is this bi fems or bi males ![]() | |||
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"oopppss I mean Bi Guys 3rd Friday Bi girls 4th Friday ![]() Sorry just read this post ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I know what you're trying to get at but it's impossible to please everyone. Some bi nights end up being very bi lady focused. But then most swingers nights all year have a significant amount of bi lady action. The more unusual and less tolerated in a 'normal' swinging environment is bi guy action. And so.... Chams and Tease II (SpicyMinx) and AbFab run Bi nights. Bi guys/TVs/TSs and so on are particularly welcome. I've been to them all. The people make the party. There will be all sorts but the Bi guy thing is expected, even encouraged and amazing to be a part of. In summary - Run a bi night - they're the most open minded deviant nights I've ever been to in the swinging world. The more the better. ![]() Absolutely agree. The atmosphere at a bi night is totally different in my eyes ![]() | |||
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"So the Q is : When is the next Bi night? V sad to see early Oct Bi Kink not going ahead. So I'm in London Oct 9th with my best outfit and deviant mind and there's no one to play with. We need more regular Bi nights. " So it's the wrong night and totally the wrong town but 10th October sees the launch of Swindon Swingers remix night... Bi/TV/gay/straight... Whatever tickles ones fancy. ![]() | |||
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"would I add Gay Guys/couples to this ?" I think you should ![]() | |||
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"Hi so how about Friday the 16th October 2015.....We would charge £10 each, along with the normal bring your own drink. Would you want the hot tub on this night ? It would be for Bi guy couples male/female. Gay Guy couples And bi guys and TV's and single ladies if they want to watch bi guys together... This would not be a full on bi night as a lot of couples have mentioned that it only encourages ladies playing together and not guy..... What do you think ?" So if single bi ladies came. Can they play. You say single ladies if they want to watch bi guys together What can't it just be a bi night full stop ? | |||
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"Hi so how about Friday the 16th October 2015.....We would charge £10 each, along with the normal bring your own drink. Would you want the hot tub on this night ? It would be for Bi guy couples male/female. Gay Guy couples And bi guys and TV's and single ladies if they want to watch bi guys together... This would not be a full on bi night as a lot of couples have mentioned that it only encourages ladies playing together and not guy..... What do you think ? So if single bi ladies came. Can they play. You say single ladies if they want to watch bi guys together What can't it just be a bi night full stop ? " I think and correct me if I'm wrong it's a night for bi guys, bi guys with straight female partners and gay guys, so if you are a bi female you wouldn't go to this night, you would go to bi ladies night instead, complicated! Might as well just be a full bi night like at Tease, Chams and now VA, seems to be a desire for them x | |||
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"Its a night based on the guys playing ![]() ![]() What happens if you want to play with females and watch bi guys. Would I have to attend both events ? To be honest. Trying to read the forum thread has given me a headache. Would rather attend a bi night full stop. But good luck with the new night | |||
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"Hi so how about Friday the 16th October 2015.....We would charge £10 each, along with the normal bring your own drink. Would you want the hot tub on this night ? It would be for Bi guy couples male/female. Gay Guy couples And bi guys and TV's and single ladies if they want to watch bi guys together... This would not be a full on bi night as a lot of couples have mentioned that it only encourages ladies playing together and not guy..... What do you think ?" I like the idea because although I am a bi woman, I don't always play, nor do I want the focus to be on me to play - or couples who have bi women for the benefit of their men being able to watch. We won't consider going to a regular bi night for that reason - so this one sounds much more feasible for us - the only reason we won't be there is because of work - tricky weekend for us - in fact they all are until the beginning of November. Thanks for making it about the bi guys for a change - Pepper | |||
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"So the Q is : When is the next Bi night? V sad to see early Oct Bi Kink not going ahead. So I'm in London Oct 9th with my best outfit and deviant mind and there's no one to play with. We need more regular Bi nights. " Uh oh haha You've been looking forward to that ![]() | |||
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"Blimey this is getting complicated... Male and female couples with the guy being the bi one of the couple or bi curious even ![]() Would interest ues bi male straight female here ![]() | |||
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"I would be interested in attending one of these nights ![]() I'm pretty sure you don't need to be a member first ![]() | |||
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"Yes single bi guys would be allowed ![]() But no single bi girls? I'm confused though (I'm too far away to matter) I've been to bi night at Chams... why would you not just have a bi night for everyone? I'm a single bi girl and I like the bi boys. I'd rather play with two boys than an m/f couple I think. ![]() | |||
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"I have mentioned that bi ladies who like the scene are welcome to this event xxx ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I'm sorry I missed the first night. Do the gaffers reckon it was a success? Will it be continuing? " Yes and the next Bi/ Bi Curious Guys Night is on Friday 13th November and of course anyone interested in this scene is very welcome ![]() | |||
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"Mmm sounds fun , I like the sound of your date spicy minx ![]() ![]() Maybe you should get one too! ![]() | |||
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"We already run a successful bi ladies night, who would be interested in a Bi guy/ couples night? The more interest we get we will run the night. It would be for Bi guy couples male/female. And bi guys " we are a bi fem couple.we have just seen your post for jaydees on the 13th november.was coming for the weekend my wife is bi i am not.been to the bi fem night before.at jaydees and many times at other clubs would a non bi male half of a couple be welcome.only been to jaydees for one friday and a sat stayed over. | |||
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"many people getting dress up up in the rocky horror outfit " Doubtful for us as working too late every evening to get to the shops .... sadly | |||
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"I am expecting to go along and I will try to do the Rocky Horror theme. That said, I'm no Frank N Furter! Mind you I'm no Dammit Janet either! Still trying to decide exactly what to wear." julies got a leather basque and hoping her short leather skirt gets here for friday.i have a riff raf wig should be a fun night. | |||
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"Does a single guy need to book in advance?" No need to book for this event | |||
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"I am expecting to go along and I will try to do the Rocky Horror theme. That said, I'm no Frank N Furter! Mind you I'm no Dammit Janet either! Still trying to decide exactly what to wear. julies got a leather basque and hoping her short leather skirt gets here for friday.i have a riff raf wig should be a fun night." I'm going to be Eddie, with cuts and bruises lol. | |||
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"We would be interested is this still going ahead?" Yes it's on tonight Friday 13th, 9 till 2. There's an optional fancy dress theme of Rocky Horror. Should be fun. | |||
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"We already run a successful bi ladies night, who would be interested in a Bi guy/ couples night? The more interest we get we will run the night. It would be for Bi guy couples male/female. And bi guys " I'd give it a try if I were you love! Remember though that a lot of ladies (eg me) are interested in playing with a couple/few bi guys too - so I wouldn't exclude them! Hope it works well for you - great club!! ![]() | |||
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"We would be interested is this still going ahead? Yes it's on tonight Friday 13th, 9 till 2. There's an optional fancy dress theme of Rocky Horror. Should be fun." aways good to see fun people dressing up and have a good night out. | |||
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" It would be for Bi guy couples male/female. And bi guys " Go for it, Monday bi nights at Abfabs Heathrow seem to be very popular | |||
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" It would be for Bi guy couples male/female. And bi guys Go for it, Monday bi nights at Abfabs Heathrow seem to be very popular " We must have hit it on a very quiet night then ... | |||
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" It would be for Bi guy couples male/female. And bi guys Go for it, Monday bi nights at Abfabs Heathrow seem to be very popular " There are laughabley large number of non-bi guys on Mondays @Abfabs -till they work out (often take a long time)their odds of scoring arn't better on that night. | |||
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"My head hurts!" Oh dear, why's it hurting darling? Are you coming on the 22nd? ![]() | |||
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"One week to go ![]() I'm sure you'll have a fab time x Such a shame I didn't realise the date before I sorted celebrating my birthday x | |||
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"One week to go ![]() I may pop in later spicy and wish you a happy birthday if that's possible? | |||
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"Hi, I would love to come to one of these nights but not sure I fancy attending alone. Don't think I can make this one, although that's not definite. If any guys or girls wanna chat and perhaps attend together sometime feel free to message me ![]() Hi Athleticguy. Don't be nervous! I will be there and happy to show you around and introduce you to people so you wont be alone. Your welcome to message me! | |||
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"Hi, I would love to come to one of these nights but not sure I fancy attending alone. Don't think I can make this one, although that's not definite. If any guys or girls wanna chat and perhaps attend together sometime feel free to message me ![]() Always sing n swing on a Tuesday if you cant make it. Happy to show you around and make sure you don't feel alone. Everyone is lovely and friendly! | |||
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