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"I think this varies between clubs. My local has condoms available behind the bar as most people bring their own. We maybe sell three condoms on a Friday night when there's 20 odd couples and 20 odd guys, they're not high demand item for purchase " Wow - Sell them? Okay. Not seen that before. Surely there are charities that give them away? Or are we lucky being in Manchester? | |||
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"The club I go to have plenty for free behind the reception and on the bar. I prefer this than in the rooms as it means no one can tamper with them (I have a suspicious mind lol)" LOL... Don't you just! It just kind of stops impulsive fun IME / IMHO. | |||
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"I think this varies between clubs. My local has condoms available behind the bar as most people bring their own. We maybe sell three condoms on a Friday night when there's 20 odd couples and 20 odd guys, they're not high demand item for purchase Wow - Sell them? Okay. Not seen that before. Surely there are charities that give them away? Or are we lucky being in Manchester?" The majority bring their own so we hardly get asked for them. When we do sell them its £1 a go | |||
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"I think this varies between clubs. My local has condoms available behind the bar as most people bring their own. We maybe sell three condoms on a Friday night when there's 20 odd couples and 20 odd guys, they're not high demand item for purchase Wow - Sell them? Okay. Not seen that before. Surely there are charities that give them away? Or are we lucky being in Manchester? The majority bring their own so we hardly get asked for them. When we do sell them its £1 a go" £1 for 1 condom?? That's extortion! I thought xtasia selling them At 50p was ridiculous! Especially when you pay a fair bit of money to get in places you shouldn't have to shell out for condoms too! | |||
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"I think this varies between clubs. My local has condoms available behind the bar as most people bring their own. We maybe sell three condoms on a Friday night when there's 20 odd couples and 20 odd guys, they're not high demand item for purchase Wow - Sell them? Okay. Not seen that before. Surely there are charities that give them away? Or are we lucky being in Manchester? The majority bring their own so we hardly get asked for them. When we do sell them its £1 a go £1 for 1 condom?? That's extortion! I thought xtasia selling them At 50p was ridiculous! Especially when you pay a fair bit of money to get in places you shouldn't have to shell out for condoms too! " That's how the owners choose to supply condoms. Nobody is forced to buy any | |||
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"Surely you shouldn't be relying on anyone else to provide them for you ? Just take your own with you, that way you wont have to whinge about the price ! " Agreed. I am responsible for my own sexual health so I always make sure I have plenty in my handbag. x | |||
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"I think this varies between clubs. My local has condoms available behind the bar as most people bring their own. We maybe sell three condoms on a Friday night when there's 20 odd couples and 20 odd guys, they're not high demand item for purchase Wow - Sell them? Okay. Not seen that before. Surely there are charities that give them away? Or are we lucky being in Manchester? The majority bring their own so we hardly get asked for them. When we do sell them its £1 a go" I am sure you would get them free like most clubs... And I would imagine the price is why you dont sell many. | |||
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"I think it's a case of you forget your own why shouldn't you have to pay? It's like saying I want to travel London Underground free today because I forgot my Oyster card and it costs lots already. " Oooo I can use my apple watch when I forget my Oyster card..... (Northern folk don't understand the pain of forgetting your oyster) | |||
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"I think it's a case of you forget your own why shouldn't you have to pay? It's like saying I want to travel London Underground free today because I forgot my Oyster card and it costs lots already. Oooo I can use my apple watch when I forget my Oyster card..... (Northern folk don't understand the pain of forgetting your oyster) " Alas I ou have a 5s so no Apple pay for me. Point is it encourages people to remember because you can always get a freebie every time you need one. | |||
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"I think this varies between clubs. My local has condoms available behind the bar as most people bring their own. We maybe sell three condoms on a Friday night when there's 20 odd couples and 20 odd guys, they're not high demand item for purchase Wow - Sell them? Okay. Not seen that before. Surely there are charities that give them away? Or are we lucky being in Manchester? The majority bring their own so we hardly get asked for them. When we do sell them its £1 a go I am sure you would get them free like most clubs... And I would imagine the price is why you dont sell many. " Pretty sure we purchase giant boxes of the things although I'm not in the procurement process so I don't know the details | |||
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"I normally take my own - though trying to get durex extra strong on a Saturday night in Central Manchester was an epic fail " Ha - Wow - I haven't seen those for 15 years... I don't think they are even made any more as they were basically declared "pointless" scientifically vs normal condoms. | |||
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"I think this varies between clubs. My local has condoms available behind the bar as most people bring their own. We maybe sell three condoms on a Friday night when there's 20 odd couples and 20 odd guys, they're not high demand item for purchase Wow - Sell them? Okay. Not seen that before. Surely there are charities that give them away? Or are we lucky being in Manchester? The majority bring their own so we hardly get asked for them. When we do sell them its £1 a go £1 for 1 condom?? That's extortion! I thought xtasia selling them At 50p was ridiculous! Especially when you pay a fair bit of money to get in places you shouldn't have to shell out for condoms too! " The entrance fee for a club is for use of the facilities only, it is ludicrous to suggest they pay for condoms too, why on earth wouldn't you bring your own.. | |||
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"Surely you shouldn't be relying on anyone else to provide them for you ? Just take your own with you, that way you wont have to whinge about the price ! " I do carry my own thanks but to charge so much for a single condom is ridiculous | |||
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"I think this varies between clubs. My local has condoms available behind the bar as most people bring their own. We maybe sell three condoms on a Friday night when there's 20 odd couples and 20 odd guys, they're not high demand item for purchase Wow - Sell them? Okay. Not seen that before. Surely there are charities that give them away? Or are we lucky being in Manchester? The majority bring their own so we hardly get asked for them. When we do sell them its £1 a go £1 for 1 condom?? That's extortion! I thought xtasia selling them At 50p was ridiculous! Especially when you pay a fair bit of money to get in places you shouldn't have to shell out for condoms too! The entrance fee for a club is for use of the facilities only, it is ludicrous to suggest they pay for condoms too, why on earth wouldn't you bring your own.. " As stated above I do take my own | |||
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"Reading this thread makes me laugh, some people moaning about paying for a condom. How many of you book into a hotel to meet people, you pay around £80 for a room, yet you do not expect the hotel to supply condoms and lube in the room for you, yet you pay on average £25 to get into a club and expect the club to provide these free of charge. Try walking into tescos and ask them if you can have some condoms and lube for free because your a swinger or may be next time your in a premier inn try asking the reception if you can have some for free because your to tight to buy your own. Ffs people surly the person your are about to have sex with is worth paying for a condom." All I am saying is that the clubs get them for free... ( Or all the ones I have been too do from the gum or higgins trust.. ) So why would somewhere charge for something they are given so that they can give them away.. We never go without a big bag of our own.... | |||
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"Reading this thread makes me laugh, some people moaning about paying for a condom. How many of you book into a hotel to meet people, you pay around £80 for a room, yet you do not expect the hotel to supply condoms and lube in the room for you, yet you pay on average £25 to get into a club and expect the club to provide these free of charge. Try walking into tescos and ask them if you can have some condoms and lube for free because your a swinger or may be next time your in a premier inn try asking the reception if you can have some for free because your to tight to buy your own. Ffs people surly the person your are about to have sex with is worth paying for a condom. All I am saying is that the clubs get them for free... ( Or all the ones I have been too do from the gum or higgins trust.. ) So why would somewhere charge for something they are given so that they can give them away.. We never go without a big bag of our own...." That's a BIG assumption that all clubs get them for free . This is not the case, some clubs have to buy them and so they have a right to charge for them, just like supermarkets, chemists, vending machines, or should these be made to give them away free as well ???? | |||
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"Reading this thread makes me laugh, some people moaning about paying for a condom. How many of you book into a hotel to meet people, you pay around £80 for a room, yet you do not expect the hotel to supply condoms and lube in the room for you, yet you pay on average £25 to get into a club and expect the club to provide these free of charge. Try walking into tescos and ask them if you can have some condoms and lube for free because your a swinger or may be next time your in a premier inn try asking the reception if you can have some for free because your to tight to buy your own. Ffs people surly the person your are about to have sex with is worth paying for a condom. All I am saying is that the clubs get them for free... ( Or all the ones I have been too do from the gum or higgins trust.. ) So why would somewhere charge for something they are given so that they can give them away.. We never go without a big bag of our own.... That's a BIG assumption that all clubs get them for free . This is not the case, some clubs have to buy them and so they have a right to charge for them, just like supermarkets, chemists, vending machines, or should these be made to give them away free as well ????" All clubs can get them for free.... I know this from time in that area... But even so... Having brought trade prices... Anything more than cost price is a bit steep considering safe sex is encouraged at clubs. | |||
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"I'm also confused as to why so many people seem to think that others wander round clubs putting holes in all the condoms " I'm pretty confused that people think that anyone apart from themselves are responsible for their sexual health. I go to the GUM every three months and get a bagful of condoms free from them, so I always take them to clubs with me. | |||
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"I'm also confused as to why so many people seem to think that others wander round clubs putting holes in all the condoms I'm pretty confused that people think that anyone apart from themselves are responsible for their sexual health. I go to the GUM every three months and get a bagful of condoms free from them, so I always take them to clubs with me." I get my free ones and hand them out at clubs to others as I can't use them... And it's been months since mine had any latex free. Was nice at the townhouse that they have latex free available too x I normally buy mine in bulk | |||
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"I'm also confused as to why so many people seem to think that others wander round clubs putting holes in all the condoms I'm pretty confused that people think that anyone apart from themselves are responsible for their sexual health. I go to the GUM every three months and get a bagful of condoms free from them, so I always take them to clubs with me. I get my free ones and hand them out at clubs to others as I can't use them... And it's been months since mine had any latex free. Was nice at the townhouse that they have latex free available too x I normally buy mine in bulk " I am so lucky that my local GUM has latex-free | |||
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"I'm also confused as to why so many people seem to think that others wander round clubs putting holes in all the condoms I'm pretty confused that people think that anyone apart from themselves are responsible for their sexual health. I go to the GUM every three months and get a bagful of condoms free from them, so I always take them to clubs with me." We don't need to take them to the club as Aberdeen supplies them in every room, and also has latex free if anyone needs them. I always carry condoms at a meet, and visit the GUM clinic every few months. I carry a rubbish bag, lube and baby wipes too | |||
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"Club newbie here. Mind if I ask a related question. Once dressed down where do you keep your condoms and lube?" Ahhh... This can vary, but for us, Kate has a little sequinned "pouch" with them in. Men in towels in the club we go to normally have their locker key on their wrists and keep them under there or tucked in the top of their towels. Or do as one guy we saw... Just put one on at the start of the night and keep it on.... Personally I prefer the "pouch" approach. I always take my own, as I know they fit well, are in date, and are latex free so nothing to stop play... If I ever get the chance. D | |||
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"Club newbie here. Mind if I ask a related question. Once dressed down where do you keep your condoms and lube?" I take a small bag with me, condoms, lube, small packet of wipes/tissues and hairband. Also useful for putting the locker key in, the jangling on the wrist drives me crazy | |||
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"Club newbie here. Mind if I ask a related question. Once dressed down where do you keep your condoms and lube? I take a small bag with me, condoms, lube, small packet of wipes/tissues and hairband. Also useful for putting the locker key in, the jangling on the wrist drives me crazy " I must admit It always makes me giggle as it sounds like there are cats with bells on everywhere! Especially if guys don't take them off... It can sound like a fire alarm at times!! D | |||
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"Reading this thread makes me laugh, some people moaning about paying for a condom.... Ffs people surly the person your are about to have sex with is worth paying for a condom." For what it's worth... For me it wasn't the price of the condom, it was their free availability - Mainly down to encouragement of safer sex. My comment was merely remarked that yes, normally I have condoms and lube in clubs, however, at that point, we found ourselves in an unexpected situation, and it was a "doh". But indeed, there's not many places to carry condoms and lube around as a guy. However, I have bought a running wrist wallet to see if that works / doesn't look daft to avoid such a "doh" in future. Regards Flames | |||
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"Club newbie here. Mind if I ask a related question. Once dressed down where do you keep your condoms and lube? I take a small bag with me, condoms, lube, small packet of wipes/tissues and hairband. Also useful for putting the locker key in, the jangling on the wrist drives me crazy " The thing that made me giggle is that all the stuff is for sex but the hairband makes me think you have skills | |||
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"Club newbie here. Mind if I ask a related question. Once dressed down where do you keep your condoms and lube? I take a small bag with me, condoms, lube, small packet of wipes/tissues and hairband. Also useful for putting the locker key in, the jangling on the wrist drives me crazy The thing that made me giggle is that all the stuff is for sex but the hairband makes me think you have skills " Oh I have skills alright | |||
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"Club newbie here. Mind if I ask a related question. Once dressed down where do you keep your condoms and lube? I take a small bag with me, condoms, lube, small packet of wipes/tissues and hairband. Also useful for putting the locker key in, the jangling on the wrist drives me crazy " Yep...we have our swing kit too...ditto on the hairband...the monkey knows I mean business when my hair goes up! We also add a little bottle of alcohol based hand gel to have a quick freshen up between partners without too much of a stop to spoil the flow of things... | |||
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"saturday night a gent asked me for A condom, I passed it him and straight away asked for another. I replied that we are charging for them so I would put it on his bill. His quick response was 'no it's fine, I only need one.' Some people take the piss x" Same...A guy asked for a condom, told him its chargeable. His response 'Ill leave it'... | |||
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"I think it's a case of you forget your own why shouldn't you have to pay? It's like saying I want to travel London Underground free today because I forgot my Oyster card and it costs lots already. Oooo I can use my apple watch when I forget my Oyster card..... (Northern folk don't understand the pain of forgetting your oyster) " Oh yes we do.. I travel home quite frequently via London. And I love my oyster card | |||
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"Club newbie here. Mind if I ask a related question. Once dressed down where do you keep your condoms and lube? I take a small bag with me, condoms, lube, small packet of wipes/tissues and hairband. Also useful for putting the locker key in, the jangling on the wrist drives me crazy The thing that made me giggle is that all the stuff is for sex but the hairband makes me think you have skills Oh I have skills alright " We call it a gobble bobble | |||
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"Club newbie here. Mind if I ask a related question. Once dressed down where do you keep your condoms and lube? I take a small bag with me, condoms, lube, small packet of wipes/tissues and hairband. Also useful for putting the locker key in, the jangling on the wrist drives me crazy The thing that made me giggle is that all the stuff is for sex but the hairband makes me think you have skills Oh I have skills alright We call it a gobble bobble " And that is why I always have a hairband | |||
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