FabSwingers.com forum: can anyone find a busy club night

By *incscpl10 OP Couple
over a year ago

north lincs

we love libs but its not very busy ,so tried a friday and saturday at chams both quiet ! HELP !

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By *v_heatherTV/TS
over a year ago

Leeds

Busy night is a fairly broad term though. I can think of some nights which have had loads of people and not much happening, some with very few people and lots happening.

And the odd one where I frankly had no idea whether things were busy or not - but I was!

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By *apillonNoirWoman
over a year ago

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Chams was heaving last Monday evening! Huge fun but I appreciate not everyone likes a late night on a Monday evening. I just keep my head down on a Tuesday - hand knitted eyes isn't a great look!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you should have gon chams for the beach party last month .ppl were queuing to get in when we arrived and queuing to get in when we left .al lockers were taken and thats never happened in all the time we have visited the club

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By *incscpl10 OP Couple
over a year ago

north lincs

they should make bi night once a month on a friday then to help ,it was disapointing

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By *incscpl10 OP Couple
over a year ago

north lincs

"you should have gon chams for the beach party last month .ppl were queuing to get in when we arrived and queuing to get in when we left .al lockers were taken and thats never happened in all the time we have visited the club

its looking like a theme night is the only busy nights ,we really enjoyed the phukt night at _tasia ,but they dont seem to be doing them again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the whole club scene is very hit and miss but totally agree with the post about not necessarily needing it to be heaving to indulge in lots of naughty fun.

We visited Townhouse last night and there were certainly plenty of people there but what percentage were playing, I wouldn't like to guess.

We tried to get into Chams on bank holiday Monday and gave up but then heard mixed reviews about the atmosphere.

Sometimes going with the intention of just enjoying the company, social aspect and any play being a bonus....ends up turning out to be the most indulgent evenings.

Ali x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We wish club reviews had more mention of how well attended a club was on that particular night. There are quite a lot of club reviews peppered with "it was quieter than we were expecting" ....we need a busy venue to get our motors running.

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By *incscpl10 OP Couple
over a year ago

north lincs

"I think the whole club scene is very hit and miss but totally agree with the post about not necessarily needing it to be heaving to indulge in lots of naughty fun.

We visited Townhouse last night and there were certainly plenty of people there but what percentage were playing, I wouldn't like to guess.

We tried to get into Chams on bank holiday Monday and gave up but then heard mixed reviews about the atmosphere.

Sometimes going with the intention of just enjoying the company, social aspect and any play being a bonus....ends up turning out to be the most indulgent evenings.

Ali x"

ido agree a bit,we had a great night ,but there was only 2cpls we liked but they paired up lol & as nice as the single men was i didnt fancy any ,& we do go to have a good time and a play with others really x

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By *incscpl10 OP Couple
over a year ago

north lincs

"We wish club reviews had more mention of how well attended a club was on that particular night. There are quite a lot of club reviews peppered with "it was quieter than we were expecting" ....we need a busy venue to get our motors running."

yes agree totally !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think the whole club scene is very hit and miss but totally agree with the post about not necessarily needing it to be heaving to indulge in lots of naughty fun.

We visited Townhouse last night and there were certainly plenty of people there but what percentage were playing, I wouldn't like to guess.

We tried to get into Chams on bank holiday Monday and gave up but then heard mixed reviews about the atmosphere.

Sometimes going with the intention of just enjoying the company, social aspect and any play being a bonus....ends up turning out to be the most indulgent evenings.

Ali x

I can understand that too, I've been on occasions when I've really been in the mood to play and no one has caught my attention and that can be disappointing. x

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By *ishopstippleMan
over a year ago

Purley

I too have noticed that "clubs" in general seem to be less well attended than the were say 2-3 yrs ago. Is it austerity that hit peoples attendance or something else ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We run the newbie night at Tease once a month, it's always really busy this backed up by the reviews and that we have to run a guest list to limit and balance the people attending, the point? Look for regular events at clubs which are well reviewed and mention it was busy a bit of detective work goes a long way x

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"we love libs but its not very busy ,so tried a friday and saturday at chams both quiet ! HELP !

You really got unlucky with chams, I go every Friday and its usually busy, what time did you go?

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By *teed99Man
over a year ago

Kettering

Club nights at The Vanilla Alternative are usually well attended with everyone having lots of fun but, as with all clubs, there are the odd few nights when, for whatever reason, just not so many people decide to visit. The Saturday night events for couples and single ladies usually attract more visitors than Friday nights when single guys are in but the weekend before last it was the other way round.

The important thing is, regardless of numbers, that everyone attending has a good time and goes away looking forward to their next visit.

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By *aveandkate35Couple
over a year ago

telford

"we love libs but its not very busy ,so tried a friday and saturday at chams both quiet ! HELP !

We tend to find it's generally a bit quieter on a run up to a party night. Or the week before. There is one this weekend (builders and basques) and we're going on Friday.

so it could have been because if that

I can understand it can be frustrating if you're in the mood and it turns out to be quiet, but on a flip side we tend to then go and use all the facilities ourselves and make a rediculous amount of noise - so it's all good.

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By *aveandkate35Couple
over a year ago

telford

"we love libs but its not very busy ,so tried a friday and saturday at chams both quiet ! HELP !

We tend to find it's generally a bit quieter on a run up to a party night. Or the week before. There is one this weekend (builders and basques) and we're going on Friday.

so it could have been because if that

I meant if it's quiet. I don't mean we go to the club just to play with each other.

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By *aydeesclubCouple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

We at Jaydees have very busy Saturdays our theme nights are a lot busier, there is one event at the end of this month which is Steampunk, Burlesque and Goth night which will be very well attended, the last one we did had a fantastic turnout x

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By *urekaPartiesCouple
over a year ago

FAWKHAM

We rarely if ever have a quiet Saturday Night, we average 180 weekly on Saturdays, 80-100 Friday's and 40-60 midweek. Themed nights are even busier!!

I know we are quite a drive from you but might be worth it

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By *incscpl10 OP Couple
over a year ago

north lincs

"We rarely if ever have a quiet Saturday Night, we average 180 weekly on Saturdays, 80-100 Friday's and 40-60 midweek. Themed nights are even busier!!

I know we are quite a drive from you but might be worth it

sounds good we will look into it

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By *incscpl10 OP Couple
over a year ago

north lincs

"Club nights at The Vanilla Alternative are usually well attended with everyone having lots of fun but, as with all clubs, there are the odd few nights when, for whatever reason, just not so many people decide to visit. The Saturday night events for couples and single ladies usually attract more visitors than Friday nights when single guys are in but the weekend before last it was the other way round.

The important thing is, regardless of numbers, that everyone attending has a good time and goes away looking forward to their next visit."

we have been keeping an eye on VA &the reviews suggest its a bit quiet x

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By *incscpl10 OP Couple
over a year ago

north lincs

"we love libs but its not very busy ,so tried a friday and saturday at chams both quiet ! HELP !

You really got unlucky with chams, I go every Friday and its usually busy, what time did you go? "

we went about 9ish and stayed over,not only quiet but lacked quality single men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We went to the VA...lovely venue & great if you're already at the stage where you want to get your feet wet (it seems everyone ends up in the hot tubs or playroom by midnight), but if not, you'll end up sitting watching the barman clean glasses from midnight onwards.

We're still searching for a place that's got a busy social area (or party vibe) for a bit longer than up to 11.30pm!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't have to be busy to have a good time. I went to the beach party at chams and it was to busy. My best nights have been when it has been quiet. Depends on the people in there that you meet, that makes the night.

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By *oo hotCouple
over a year ago

North West

"we love libs but its not very busy ,so tried a friday and saturday at chams both quiet ! HELP !

You really got unlucky with chams, I go every Friday and its usually busy, what time did you go? "

I was about to post something similar. The only quiet Friday night we have ever known was January 2nd one year.

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By *tasiaCouple
over a year ago

West Bromwich

its looking like a theme night is the only busy nights ,we really enjoyed the phukt night at _tasia ,but they dont seem to be doing them again "
Now totally replaced with DPraved, one hell of a good night. Hope to see you over again soon, xx

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By *andyMooCouple
over a year ago

bedford

Jaydees is always busy on a Saturday. Always great fun and alwYs a good atmosphere.

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By *incscpl10 OP Couple
over a year ago

north lincs

its looking like a theme night is the only busy nights ,we really enjoyed the phukt night at _tasia ,but they dont seem to be doing them again Now totally replaced with DPraved, one hell of a good night. Hope to see you over again soon, xx"

will def try this thanks

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By *ollipop77Couple
over a year ago

Dubai ( / Manchester)

Contact thlovers, they organise brilliant nights in clubs. No theme or gimmick just a great bunch of respectfully naughty people x

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By *ndykinkyMan
over a year ago

STOKE-ON-TRENT

It is always difficult to predict which nights are going to be busy at a club as some many things can affect how many attend. That said it can make the night more intimate and sensual for those who do attend.

Try the same club at a different time of the month or just try different clubs and keep your fingers crossed.

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By *ick and FlickCouple
over a year ago

Staffs

We love chams on Friday night and it's usually busy but some of the best times we've had there have been on a quiet Sunday afternoon/evening so busy isn't always best

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By *ome Social With UsCouple (FF)
over a year ago

East Midlands

"we love libs but its not very busy ,so tried a friday and saturday at chams both quiet ! HELP !

You need to go on event nights that posted on forums, ones getting lots comments generally going to be busiest nights

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I went to a club (newbie) here to that type of fun, quiet would suit me for the first time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never ever been to chams when it's not been busy when did you go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have over 80 and rising guests for our newbie night this Friday, we restrict the single guys numbers to a few, it's the only night in the area where a guest list is run as it's such a busy night x

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By *incscpl10 OP Couple
over a year ago

north lincs

"We have over 80 and rising guests for our newbie night this Friday, we restrict the single guys numbers to a few, it's the only night in the area where a guest list is run as it's such a busy night x"

sounds like this is one to try

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Were taking fifty to infusions on 17th oct it will be jumping with us and the people who have messaged to say they will meet us there should be packed out again easily over 200 last time we went it was amazing

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By *atEvolutionCouple
over a year ago

atlantisEVOLUTION. Stoke. HOT WIVES Sat 01

We had more than 50 people in on both Friday and Saturday this last weekend and more than 40 for Fetish on Sunday. We can often be much busier than this. Our last social had 130+.

Like all clubs we can have quiet times (beginning and end of school hols' for example) but mostly we are busy any night we are open.

It's a curious thing that people should think clubs are floundering when their experience of one or two clubs is all they have.

Try more clubs.

CatEvolution X

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By *incscpl10 OP Couple
over a year ago

north lincs

"We had more than 50 people in on both Friday and Saturday this last weekend and more than 40 for Fetish on Sunday. We can often be much busier than this. Our last social had 130+.

Like all clubs we can have quiet times (beginning and end of school hols' for example) but mostly we are busy any night we are open.

It's a curious thing that people should think clubs are floundering when their experience of one or two clubs is all they have.

Try more clubs.

CatEvolution X

we do have experiance of other clubs but we are basing this on two very good clubs that used to be very busy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been to lots of nights over the years in several clubs.

Some events you expect to be packed and seem empty, some are packed despite clashing with major sporting events.

I think the summer holidays is always quieter for everyone except seaside attractions as people spend time with family , are on holiday or are making the cash stretch.

Maybe try to see if you can get a small group of friends of here to go to a specific club on a night and regardless of numbers inside you will always have fun ?

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By *anSusieCouple
over a year ago

Midlothian

I can honestly say we have never had a bad night at Chams (Darleston)sometimes if there are too many people, you are spoilt for choice and can end up not playing. I would say we play more in clubs, than getting private meets on here. As we like a bit of kink, we normally head straight for the dungeon in Chams. Most of the time there is another like minded kink couple who we end up playing with. I think there is a lot who sit at the bar and don't seem to move all night, but as long as people enjoy themselves, do whatever floats your boat

(Dan)

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By *aveandkate35Couple
over a year ago

telford

"I can honestly say we have never had a bad night at Chams (Darleston)sometimes if there are too many people, you are spoilt for choice and can end up not playing. I would say we play more in clubs, than getting private meets on here. As we like a bit of kink, we normally head straight for the dungeon in Chams. Most of the time there is another like minded kink couple who we end up playing with. I think there is a lot who sit at the bar and don't seem to move all night, but as long as people enjoy themselves, do whatever floats your boat

(Dan)"

We were in Chams a few weeks back. It was only when we got home we noticed a few friends had been in there the same night.

My point is, it's difficult to gauge how busy it is as I doubt you ever see all the people!

Been there before and thought - it's a bit quiet, to find 20 people having an orgy in the couples room, 20+ in the round room and another 30 having a fag! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your looking for a busy fun night There's a foam party this Sat at _tasia west brom

we've had some of our best nights out at the foam party's and as with other clubs visited the themed party nights always feel busy

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By *incscpl10 OP Couple
over a year ago

north lincs

"If your looking for a busy fun night There's a foam party this Sat at _tasia west brom

we've had some of our best nights out at the foam party's and as with other clubs visited the themed party nights always feel busy "

it takes the mrs to long to put here make up on to do that lol

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By *incscpl10 OP Couple
over a year ago

north lincs

(Dan)

We were in Chams a few weeks back. It was only when we got home we noticed a few friends had been in there the same night.

My point is, it's difficult to gauge how busy it is as I doubt you ever see all the people!

Been there before and thought - it's a bit quiet, to find 20 people having an orgy in the couples room, 20+ in the round room and another 30 having a fag! Lol

honestly last two times weve been its been very quiet,not like it used to be x

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By *incscpl10 OP Couple
over a year ago

north lincs

"I have been to lots of nights over the years in several clubs.

Some events you expect to be packed and seem empty, some are packed despite clashing with major sporting events.

I think the summer holidays is always quieter for everyone except seaside attractions as people spend time with family , are on holiday or are making the cash stretch.

Maybe try to see if you can get a small group of friends of here to go to a specific club on a night and regardless of numbers inside you will always have fun ?"

we like a fairly busy night to hopefully meet new people x

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