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"Its not uncommon, one option is to make rooms invite only. I think La chambre has one room like this. Anyone can look in but you need an invitation to cross the threshold. It kinda ties in with an earlier thread about chatting to people in the bar area. " Technically two now. The invite room as you described (entry for singles by invite only) and now a couples only room strictly for male female pairs and no singles at all, although still a _iewable room. (Sorry for the off topic post) | |||
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"Close the door next time lol." It wasn't a lockable door and I think you may have missed my point. We had no issue with guys watching it was a just the general proximity when we were playing and the fact that when we walked around there was a queue of wanking zombies. Just cause there is a girl there doesn't mean you have to grab your cock. | |||
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"Its not uncommon, one option is to make rooms invite only. I think La chambre has one room like this. Anyone can look in but you need an invitation to cross the threshold. It kinda ties in with an earlier thread about chatting to people in the bar area. Technically two now. The invite room as you described (entry for singles by invite only) and now a couples only room strictly for male female pairs and no singles at all, although still a _iewable room. (Sorry for the off topic post) " Really like that idea. Would make things far more simple and everyone would know where they stand from the start | |||
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"My second visit to a club was much better. Darlaston ? Very civilised indeed. I sat and had a drink at the bar and people watched, before long I was invited to play with a single lady which turned into a 4 some For me, it's not about the money as such, as you'd spend more at a night club. I couldn't be part of a group of men doing that stuff, it's cringe worthy. The thrill of the whole thing is exhilarating to me " Cringe worthy covers it well lol | |||
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"We have only ever been to one club and the one visit and this was why we probably won't try another....and we were hoping to actually play with men." There are couples only nights at some clubs. Gonna keep an eye out for that | |||
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"We have only ever been to one club and the one visit and this was why we probably won't try another....and we were hoping to actually play with men. There are couples only nights at some clubs. Gonna keep an eye out for that " Is it couples you are after? if so that's probably the better option | |||
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"I do feel bad for single guys at the clubs mind. It's hard when not everyone there is up for play and it's damn expensive if you don't get any. " This is one of the attitudes that causes the problem. Nobody should expect to get sex if they have paid to get in. Nobody should feel bad for anybody that doesn't get sex if they have paid to get in. | |||
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"Most of the guys are regular visitors and the club only allows a maximum of 10 at any one time." Doesn't sound like much choice thought. :-/ | |||
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"Was at a club on Friday with my gorgeous other half. There was a singles social going on in town which ended up back at the club to. Now never having been a single guy at a club I don't really know the etiquette for it but I'm sure following any woman around like a bunch of cock holding zombies is not it. At one point my partner and myself went into an empty room. The jungle drum must have started as no sooner had we started kissing we were surrounded by 8 guys. If they had kept some distance I'd not say anything but they were literally on top of as as we started having some fun. At one point I moved an inch away and two guys tried to push in. This was awkward for me but my other half wanted me close and these guys ruined the fun. Look I know it's a sex club but do all Single guys really have to be so forceful. It's possible to ask if it's OK to play and I'd rather invite someone or a couple over than have to say "back off guys". Think next time it's going to be a couples only night for us " This is why I wouldn't go to a single guy night, it sounds like a nightmare! What's the matter with these guys, have a bit of pride and don't follow women around, it's desperate! I want to try out clubs but I would only go to a couples night, cock fests are not my style! | |||
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"I do feel bad for single guys at the clubs mind. It's hard when not everyone there is up for play and it's damn expensive if you don't get any. This is one of the attitudes that causes the problem. Nobody should expect to get sex if they have paid to get in. Nobody should feel bad for anybody that doesn't get sex if they have paid to get in." | |||
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"Was at a club on Friday with my gorgeous other half. There was a singles social going on in town which ended up back at the club to. Now never having been a single guy at a club I don't really know the etiquette for it but I'm sure following any woman around like a bunch of cock holding zombies is not it. At one point my partner and myself went into an empty room. The jungle drum must have started as no sooner had we started kissing we were surrounded by 8 guys. If they had kept some distance I'd not say anything but they were literally on top of as as we started having some fun. At one point I moved an inch away and two guys tried to push in. This was awkward for me but my other half wanted me close and these guys ruined the fun. Look I know it's a sex club but do all Single guys really have to be so forceful. It's possible to ask if it's OK to play and I'd rather invite someone or a couple over than have to say "back off guys". Think next time it's going to be a couples only night for us This is why I wouldn't go to a single guy night, it sounds like a nightmare! What's the matter with these guys, have a bit of pride and don't follow women around, it's desperate! I want to try out clubs but I would only go to a couples night, cock fests are not my style! " I wouldn't let it put you off! The benefits of a well run and attended single guy nights vastly outweighs the very small minority. The dynamics and atmosphere of a singles night is a lot different. | |||
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"Was at a club on Friday with my gorgeous other half. There was a singles social going on in town which ended up back at the club to. Now never having been a single guy at a club I don't really know the etiquette for it but I'm sure following any woman around like a bunch of cock holding zombies is not it. At one point my partner and myself went into an empty room. The jungle drum must have started as no sooner had we started kissing we were surrounded by 8 guys. If they had kept some distance I'd not say anything but they were literally on top of as as we started having some fun. At one point I moved an inch away and two guys tried to push in. This was awkward for me but my other half wanted me close and these guys ruined the fun. Look I know it's a sex club but do all Single guys really have to be so forceful. It's possible to ask if it's OK to play and I'd rather invite someone or a couple over than have to say "back off guys". Think next time it's going to be a couples only night for us This is why I wouldn't go to a single guy night, it sounds like a nightmare! What's the matter with these guys, have a bit of pride and don't follow women around, it's desperate! I want to try out clubs but I would only go to a couples night, cock fests are not my style! I wouldn't let it put you off! The benefits of a well run and attended single guy nights vastly outweighs the very small minority. The dynamics and atmosphere of a singles night is a lot different. " See what your saying but personally it's not for me. I would prefer a couples night and take a female friend with me or someone on here that also wanted a club experience. Although single women can get in on there own right? So that might not work lol | |||
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"Close the door next time lol. It wasn't a lockable door and I think you may have missed my point. We had no issue with guys watching it was a just the general proximity when we were playing and the fact that when we walked around there was a queue of wanking zombies. Just cause there is a girl there doesn't mean you have to grab your cock. " We have played in a room and closed the door, we had to pretty much yell at the man to go away as he kept opening the door, we even tried to wedge it at one point | |||
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"Was at a club on Friday with my gorgeous other half. There was a singles social going on in town which ended up back at the club to. Now never having been a single guy at a club I don't really know the etiquette for it but I'm sure following any woman around like a bunch of cock holding zombies is not it. At one point my partner and myself went into an empty room. The jungle drum must have started as no sooner had we started kissing we were surrounded by 8 guys. If they had kept some distance I'd not say anything but they were literally on top of as as we started having some fun. At one point I moved an inch away and two guys tried to push in. This was awkward for me but my other half wanted me close and these guys ruined the fun. Look I know it's a sex club but do all Single guys really have to be so forceful. It's possible to ask if it's OK to play and I'd rather invite someone or a couple over than have to say "back off guys". Think next time it's going to be a couples only night for us " This happened to me and my fuckbuddy. We had, had a long journey to the club we went too just wanted to chill for abit so went exploring and found an open room. No one was about or so we thought. We were sat kissing on the bed next thing you know 5 guys appeared from no where and practically jumped us. I felt my fuckbuddy being pushed away from me so I very quickly got up and fuckbuddy asked the guys to leave. Not one asked if they could join in. | |||
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"As a single guy who frequents clubs when i can, i am sometimes staggered by the attitude and behavior of guys in a club. I would have to admit - certain clubs are worse than others though - which may reflect on management or just as likely the general level of guys there as they seem to usually discourage bad behavior. ( if guys get too close - couples stop play - simples !) And i cant say i blame them. What really gets me is surely they never get anywhere - other then jumping in on general play in an open room - which is certainly not my scene - they seem to forget first and foremost clubs are social places and i think many of them would be better off in a brothel. In fact i have on one occasion heard that as advice to one particular guy who wasn't behaving appropriately. I think its important that inappropriate behavior is pointed out as often as possible - by either couples / the other single guys / management then perhaps it will improve. And that may be why some places are better then others.... " The Friday in question you could tell the difference between the single guys and girls. The girls were socialising in the bar and generally having a good time. If the guys had done the same it would be completely different and, who knows, some may have got a proper play. The group that were with us were almost moving my hand away so they could touch the other half. Genuinely like she was an object not a person. A brothel would be a better place for lots of them guys I totally agree but all I would like is that there is that bit of respect. I'm not saying all Single guys are like this either so don't get me wrong. Just respect and politnes can get you a long way | |||
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"Was at a club on Friday with my gorgeous other half. There was a singles social going on in town which ended up back at the club to. Now never having been a single guy at a club I don't really know the etiquette for it but I'm sure following any woman around like a bunch of cock holding zombies is not it. At one point my partner and myself went into an empty room. The jungle drum must have started as no sooner had we started kissing we were surrounded by 8 guys. If they had kept some distance I'd not say anything but they were literally on top of as as we started having some fun. At one point I moved an inch away and two guys tried to push in. This was awkward for me but my other half wanted me close and these guys ruined the fun. Look I know it's a sex club but do all Single guys really have to be so forceful. It's possible to ask if it's OK to play and I'd rather invite someone or a couple over than have to say "back off guys". Think next time it's going to be a couples only night for us This happened to me and my fuckbuddy. We had, had a long journey to the club we went too just wanted to chill for abit so went exploring and found an open room. No one was about or so we thought. We were sat kissing on the bed next thing you know 5 guys appeared from no where and practically jumped us. I felt my fuckbuddy being pushed away from me so I very quickly got up and fuckbuddy asked the guys to leave. Not one asked if they could join in. " It put you off clubs? | |||
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" It put you off clubs? A little bit there is one I won't go back to. We are just very careful now " Well it's not put us off entirely but I know I'm going to have to be far more clear with guys next time. Hopefully it will be better then. | |||
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"I went with a female and decided to go in to a room to play. We started off on our own and next time I looked we had 14 men there all cocks out. They tried their look abd moved closer and closer. I had to say at one point! 'Listen guys back off if she wants you to join she will ask'. They backed off then. I think if you voice up they will respect this." Had to voice my opinion on a numerous of occasions and bar one, they have always been respectful and backed off. | |||
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"I do think this is due to "wanksters" having zero proper social skill in general and they are usually the "wallflowers" at vanilla clubs, but oh no when it comes to swinging clubs they think in caveman mentality that they are entitled to fun and play whenever it happens. They think they payed "very good money" for the "service" and so they begin to see single women and couples as play objects which is rather nasty and crude if them and makes us gents look bad " | |||
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"I can't stand these type of men. You look at them to give eye cot act, they look at their feet. Try and speak and they walk away. Now I just tell them to back off. Feel free to watch, but not to get too close. Still get the odd one that will try and grope. When I'm on my own and they block door ways to the toilets or rooms. Standing in narrow corridors, so that I have to brush past them and if I say 'scuse me please, they play dumb. Boils my piss #walkingwankers " That just sucks tho. At the end of the day and in any other environment you just wouldn't do that kind of thing. | |||
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