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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What tends to be the etiquette for a couple arranging to meet a single guy at a bar and then continue the meet at a club? Would it be the same as if you went back to your/his place and played together then went separate ways? Or once you arrive is he 'up for grabs' as it were?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No thoughts?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you mean up for grabs by anyone else at the club or by you?

I would think it depends what you all arrange as a 3. Personally I think if I went to a club with a couple intending to play with them there I would expect to be playing with that couple rather than wander off and find someone else?..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If he's willing to wait for you a "no thanks I'm meeting some friends" is all that your meet needs to say to assure people they are not up for grabs... shame you don't live closer to West Brom... We've met single guys in Flirts then onto Xtasia, couldn't have asked for a better way of doing it... xx

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"No thoughts? "

I have one.... probably better than to give people more than 30 minutes to reply...

back to the subject.... it just have a whiff of territory marking about it on all sides.... and the thing i always say to people is that you create a bubble around yourselves which makes it hard for anyone else to say hello......

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Kinda meaning that if neither the single guy nor the couple could accommodate and arranged to meet in public first then go to a club instead of a hotel, of course all parties could mingle etc but they'd obviously had gone to play with each other right? Not something we've done before but possibly considering in the future and just trying to get my head around the logistics

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


" it just have a whiff of territory marking about it on all sides.... and the thing i always say to people is that you create a bubble around yourselves which makes it hard for anyone else to say hello......

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On the other hand,if a couple goes to a club with a man who then disappears to chase a perceived "better offer ", I think they'd be justifiably disappointed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some clubs offer a 'threesome' entry offer however the etiquette would be the 3 of u arrive together n leave together. This would have to be agreed btwn urselves otherwise a single guy can come n go as he please which also includes going off n play with a 'better offer'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kinda meaning that if neither the single guy nor the couple could accommodate and arranged to meet in public first then go to a club instead of a hotel, of course all parties could mingle etc but they'd obviously had gone to play with each other right? Not something we've done before but possibly considering in the future and just trying to get my head around the logistics "

I think it is perfectly reasonable that, if you organise to meet a guy at a club, as a venue to play, then whilst he might be sociable and chatty with others at the club, he is there to play with you.

He can always go and play with others afterwards should he wish.

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