FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to Swinging Club Discussion

Visiting clubs as a single woman x

Jump to newest
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ive been to Chams twice now with a lovely, experienced, male friend i found on fab.

I'm feeling the urge to visit by myself but am worried that i will just spend the evening wandering between the bar and smoking area and won't get spoken to! Any advice? Especially from other single ladies xx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *enithWoman
over a year ago

closer than you think

looking at your profile I don't think you need to worry

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *estmidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

you so don't need to worry BBK!!x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Ive been to Chams twice now with a lovely, experienced, male friend i found on fab.

I'm feeling the urge to visit by myself but am worried that i will just spend the evening wandering between the bar and smoking area and won't get spoken to! Any advice? Especially from other single ladies xx"

go boo boo xx

i find that when im with someone alot of people don't always approach even for chatting...when i go on my own, not only do people see you on your own, and make the effort to talk to you..there is a certain liberation in just being you in that situation.

good luck honey, my advice is to go somewhere youve been before, or, do all new at once, and go somewhere far away that you've always wanted to try, but never did..but then i get off on the challenge of the unknown its only ever unknown for 30 seconds anyway xx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire


"Ive been to Chams twice now with a lovely, experienced, male friend i found on fab.

I'm feeling the urge to visit by myself but am worried that i will just spend the evening wandering between the bar and smoking area and won't get spoken to! Any advice? Especially from other single ladies xx"

Seriously too little attention is not going to be your problem at chams!

They'll be plenty interested there from my experience

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"you so don't need to worry BBK!!x"

Thanks you gorgeous pair xx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"go boo boo xx

i find that when im with someone alot of people don't always approach even for chatting...when i go on my own, not only do people see you on your own, and make the effort to talk to you..there is a certain liberation in just being you in that situation.

good luck honey, my advice is to go somewhere youve been before, or, do all new at once, and go somewhere far away that you've always wanted to try, but never did..but then i get off on the challenge of the unknown its only ever unknown for 30 seconds anyway xx "
Lovelovelove this! Exactly why i want to go by myself. Totally my own adventure then! Youve made me feel all brave now! xx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You will get loads of offers lol.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *rummiePartyManMan
over a year ago

birmingham

Don't think that you'll have problems in getting into conversations, your problem may well be the opposite...people who you may not want to go beyond chatting with not "letting go". Also watch out for those people who think it's their "duty" to protect single ladies from those horrible single guys.

Be prepared with some "get outs" in case you see someone you like and you think you are being tied down. It's your night, do it your way and enjoy.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been on my own and i really enjoyed it.

Sometimes you can get guys who want to keep you to themselves but they are easy enough to get rid of, be blunt if they don't take the hint lol

Enjoy it

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *expuss2015Woman
over a year ago

Planet Sex

I've joined Chams as a single female and to start I sit at the bar as you easily get chatting to other singles and couples - have a walk about the different levels as your sure to bump into fun and frolics.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"go boo boo xx

i find that when im with someone alot of people don't always approach even for chatting...when i go on my own, not only do people see you on your own, and make the effort to talk to you..there is a certain liberation in just being you in that situation.

good luck honey, my advice is to go somewhere youve been before, or, do all new at once, and go somewhere far away that you've always wanted to try, but never did..but then i get off on the challenge of the unknown its only ever unknown for 30 seconds anyway xx Lovelovelove this! Exactly why i want to go by myself. Totally my own adventure then! Youve made me feel all brave now! xx"

funking loving it....have a ball honey..hope to say hi on your booboo adventures sometime xxx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have often meet single females at chams so you won't be on your own for long . Everyone who goes to chams are lovely chatty people . Be brave and you will not find yourself left out . Hope this hepls

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *estmidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

You'll be absolutely fine, meet us there one day maybe? K X

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Great advice, thanks guys I do worry about extracting myself from overly keen men! I'm too damn polite! Lol. Would be lovely to see you all there at some point! xx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Tried to message you suzy x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top