FabSwingers.com forum: Ladies and their periods

By *orderboyblue OP Man
over a year ago

Scottish Borders

Was with a lovely lady on friday in a club and felt so embarrassed for her. We were well into some action - me inside her - and then she stopped suddenly, apologised, pushed me away, went bright red and apologised again. Her partner saw me later and explained her period had started a little earlier than expected. Has anyone else had this or was she just unimpressed with my performance?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

It happens. Nothing to do with you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It happens. Nothing to do with you."

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By *esi tardkaCouple
over a year ago

acton

It happened to me too.. I was so embarrassed that had to run in the loo to hide. We had met this handsome gent at the hotel bar that me my husband Rahul and my cousin Pooja were staying in Bognor Regis ..both girls were feeling really fresky and wanting some action hubby Rahul was tired and went off to sleep ..we got him to our room ..we were in the midst of fucking when I got my period .. Then he had to do it with my cousin while was in the washroom ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing to do with you... I was fooling round my fwb a weeks ago, I had my moon cup in because I had been spotting that morning... Me being me, I totally forgot it was there until he found it

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

Happened to me on a couple of occasions. Nothing to do with your performance at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm fairly lucky in that I don't get the terrible periods some do because I have the coil. However once or twice I've bled a little during or after sex. It's absolutely mortifying. And does leave me feeling nervous incase it happens every time. It really does dent your confidence. Thankfully most men are grown up enough to reassure you.

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

"Was with a lovely lady on friday in a club and felt so embarrassed for her. We were well into some action - me inside her - and then she stopped suddenly, apologised, pushed me away, went bright red and apologised again. Her partner saw me later and explained her period had started a little earlier than expected. Has anyone else had this or was she just unimpressed with my performance?

Mr law loves it when I am on my period anyway, so we have no worries there. Have come on the same afternoon we were going to a club ... we don't go too often these days... so I was a bit gutted. Tampon in, did not play, but if the urge had some up, and there was agreement all around, I would have ...

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Funnily enough sex stops my period, but if there is any blood there I just apologise. I am tempted to tell them they made me bleed, but never had the nerve

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By *ownhouseTwosomeCouple
over a year ago

Birkenhead/Liverpool

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By *ownhouseTwosomeCouple
over a year ago

Birkenhead/Liverpool

I have such a crazy body that I never know when I am due on and it can last for weeks!!! So it happens to me quite a bit. I am not bothered now and if it happens during a play, I am like 'well I don't mind if you don't mind'? lol Most guys are so far into the play, they don't care; the odd one runs off like I have the lurgy! If it happens during sex though, it's never heavy as sex itself tends to make it very light and most guys may not even notice!

I don't know why people get so freaky over a bit of bloody tbh!

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By *ownhouseTwosomeCouple
over a year ago

Birkenhead/Liverpool

"I have such a crazy body that I never know when I am due on and it can last for weeks!!! So it happens to me quite a bit. I am not bothered now and if it happens during a play, I am like 'well I don't mind if you don't mind'? lol Most guys are so far into the play, they don't care; the odd one runs off like I have the lurgy! If it happens during sex though, it's never heavy as sex itself tends to make it very light and most guys may not even notice!

I don't know why people get so freaky over a bit of bloody tbh! "

*blood* even! Jeez lol

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By *verReadyAndMinxyCouple
over a year ago

Blackpool

Something to make you laugh. Years ago I met an FB on a hot sunny day in a park. I was wearing a tampon but was commando too. Anyway we got a little frisky in a secluded area and was so turned on and damp that my tampon popped out. I was mortified even tho he knew it was there and wasn't bothered. He still reminds me of it now and again

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By *eanontiWoman
over a year ago

Limerick

Nearly ended up at the doctors with a lost tampon after great sex with an ex. Still mortified at the memory of him fishing about trying to find it after I couldn't

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By *ilacWoman
over a year ago

Cheshire

I have a period/club question.

Here's something we were debating the other day. I am always naked in the club jacuzzi and if I'm on, which is always minuscule anyway, I would be more than happy to use a tampon and still use the jacuzzi. It's not happened yet. But should I wear bikini bottoms to hide a tampon string? Or should I refrain from using the jacuzzi? Or should I not care and just do as I please?

My main motivation for going to clubs is the jacuzzi so I'd be in a right sulk if I didn't go in.

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By *umpleteazerWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

"I have a period/club question.

My main motivation for going to clubs is the jacuzzi so I'd be in a right sulk if I didn't go in. "

If you're concerned about people seeing can't you just tuck the string up so it can't be seen?

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By *verReadyAndMinxyCouple
over a year ago

Blackpool

"I have a period/club question.

My main motivation for going to clubs is the jacuzzi so I'd be in a right sulk if I didn't go in. "

Good question Lilac. I'd be tempted to wear bikini knickers if it was me. I wouldn't want idiots making jokes about it. Similarly idiots avoiding me totally if I have it on show....... I'd be interested to read other responses on this. X

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By *ilacWoman
over a year ago

Cheshire

"I have a period/club question.

My main motivation for going to clubs is the jacuzzi so I'd be in a right sulk if I didn't go in.

If you're concerned about people seeing can't you just tuck the string up so it can't be seen? "

I'm not that bothered about people seeing a string. I'm not tampon shy. But after seeing some of the responses from men on other threads previously regarding tampons and periods, I can imagine being sat in a jacuzzi and someone making a remark. Because my string will have probably broken free in the bubbles.

If I wore bikini bottoms, I'd probably get asked about them and end up saying it's because I'm on my period which defeats the object.

There is also a high probability of me removing a tampon and flinging it at anyone that made a negative comment about me wearing one in the first place :s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im getting horny reading this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has happened to me on 2 occasions, it's horrible and so embarrassing!!

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By *orderboyblue OP Man
over a year ago

Scottish Borders

As a guy I think if you're "on" with every chance of some blood making an appearance you either don't go in the jacuzzi or.....stay at home on that night. You ladies and your bloomin' bodies eh.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sod it just plug up and jump in the jacuzzi. Unplug have sex, I do, if a guy is too immature to cope with that ,then he shouldn't be meeting women!!

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

I do hope the lady you were with doesnt read this .... now youve plastered it over the forums .... men like you need to grow up ffs . ... its mother nature get over it .... or yourself !

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By *orderboyblue OP Man
over a year ago

Scottish Borders

Oh for goodness sake....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Christ, I feel like I've been transported back to the 1950's reading this thread! Why is everyone so embarrassed??

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By *ouble CCouple
over a year ago

Gran Canaria

I personally would not go to a club or party if I was On. But each to their own. I've just got into Period Sex and only then it's with Mr C. As he always says, his Mama didn't raise a wimp. Lol.

When I was single I went to a meet while I was On, told the guy b4hand, he stayed above my waist. Miss C. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's entirely natural, carry on as normal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prior to my hysterectomy, the fibroids caused chaos with my periods and I stopped having sex because sex seemed to caused bleeds. It also hurt but I wasn't comfortable having sex while on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you would go.swimming with a tampon in surely in an everyday swimming pool.on hols.or public pool.etc so why not a jaccuzzi!!! the same peope will be saying you shouldnt be breastfeeding in public next ffs its 2015 not the 1940's as my daughter always says

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You felt that embarrassed for her you felt the need to share the experience with all of us?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But in answer to the question yes I have had this happen to me

I was at a club once, I wasn't due on for a few days but it decided to come early

Mind play infact, the guy had commented on how wet I was and I have to admit I did feel wetter than usual, I looked down and the blood was quite heavy, was up our bellies and down my thighs, the guy jumped up and totally freaked out, calling me a dirty bitch and yelling at me why the hell would I come to a club while I was on

He grabbed his towel and headed to the shower, problem was i also needed a shower, as I walked in the shower block I could hear him telling everyone in there what had happened so I walked away and hid in the loo till he had gone then had a shower

I went to the bar and he was still ranting on about it at the bar to people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a period/club question.

My main motivation for going to clubs is the jacuzzi so I'd be in a right sulk if I didn't go in.

If you're concerned about people seeing can't you just tuck the string up so it can't be seen?

If I wore bikini bottoms, I'd probably get asked about them and end up saying it's because I'm on my period which defeats the object.

There is also a high probability of me removing a tampon and flinging it at anyone that made a negative comment about me wearing one in the first place :s"

Flinging it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's only fluid: not like you're not already in contact with lots of other fluid coming from the same place (if you're doin it right that is!)

Aside from maybe needing to carry a wet wipe in a purse, it should affect anyone's plans

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

Been in a club jacuzzi many times with a tampon. Being in warm water reduces the flow of my blood, so it's not likely I'd leak. I have never worn bikini bottoms, I just chunky dunk!

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By *ilacWoman
over a year ago

Cheshire

"you would go.swimming with a tampon in surely in an everyday swimming pool.on hols.or public pool.etc so why not a jaccuzzi!!! the same peope will be saying you shouldnt be breastfeeding in public next ffs its 2015 not the 1940's as my daughter always says"

Of course I go swimming with a tampon in but I don't have the string hanging free.

I don't have a tampon issue at all. I'd happily stick a foot on the side of a jacuzzi and shove one up.

But i would probably go in the jacuzzi bottomless and the next day, there would be a forum thread saying, OMG there was this girl in the jacuzzi with a tampon string just hanging out.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

"But in answer to the question yes I have had this happen to me

I was at a club once, I wasn't due on for a few days but it decided to come early

I went to the bar and he was still ranting on about it at the bar to people

Christ that's disgraceful of him. What a git!!

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Is this thread finished yet .... yawn .......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is this thread finished yet .... yawn .......

Perhaps go and find a different thread to watch if it's not relevant to you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ladies, get a delivery of beppe sponges off the internet. Periods won't stop play with one of those inserted. Comfort and no embarrassment for either party x

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By *olyCheshireCatMan
over a year ago

Cheshire

"Sod it just plug up and jump in the jacuzzi. Unplug have sex, I do, if a guy is too immature to cope with that ,then he shouldn't be meeting women!!

Bingo.

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By *ilacWoman
over a year ago

Cheshire

"Ladies, get a delivery of beppe sponges off the internet. Periods won't stop play with one of those inserted. Comfort and no embarrassment for either party x"

Periods never stop my play. I wouldn't play with men that have issues with me yanno.... Being female.

Heard a lot of positive things about those beppy things though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course I go swimming with a tampon in but I don't have the string hanging free.

I don't have a tampon issue at all. I'd happily stick a foot on the side of a jacuzzi and shove one up.

But i would probably go in the jacuzzi bottomless and the next day, there would be a forum thread saying, OMG there was this girl in the jacuzzi with a tampon string just hanging out. "

i was being positive about the situation i give up with this forum lark lol

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By *ownhouseTwosomeCouple
over a year ago

Birkenhead/Liverpool

"Ladies, get a delivery of beppe sponges off the internet. Periods won't stop play with one of those inserted. Comfort and no embarrassment for either party x

Periods never stop my play. I wouldn't play with men that have issues with me yanno.... Being female.

Heard a lot of positive things about those beppy things though. "

Beppy are good when you are not too heavy. So for lighter periods or spotting they are fab! I would say that for fucking, they work well but vigorous finger action may result in a handful of something red and spongy!! pmsl!

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By *orderboyblue OP Man
over a year ago

Scottish Borders

sounds delish!!

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By *orderboyblue OP Man
over a year ago

Scottish Borders

I just cant believe a lady would contemplate a night out at a club knowing her period might turn up right at the moment she's getting intimate with a new guy/gal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ladies, get a delivery of beppe sponges off the internet. Periods won't stop play with one of those inserted. Comfort and no embarrassment for either party x

Periods never stop my play. I wouldn't play with men that have issues with me yanno.... Being female.

Heard a lot of positive things about those beppy things though.

Ive never had an issue with finger play causing them to come loose. If I think I may be going to have a mother nature visit I will wear one anyaway x

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By *he Milf ClubCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

"I just cant believe a lady would contemplate a night out at a club knowing her period might turn up right at the moment she's getting intimate with a new guy/gal "

Some ladies suffer from irregular bleeding. Does that mean we shouldn't leave the house

I have come in mid meet. Both grown up about it

If I'm on and fancy a play I use beppy tampons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have found the toydivision ones better than the beppy ones x been using them a few years now x

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By *imon and saffyCouple
over a year ago

southampton

Another "yay" for Beppy here too...

I'm never on heavily thanks to the coil, but I've worn them to BGHS in the pool, sauna etc and played with them in too.

OH has huge hands and always "prods" it right up against my cervix and there's never any issue with it.... until it's time to remove it, when he often has to assist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just cant believe a lady would contemplate a night out at a club knowing her period might turn up right at the moment she's getting intimate with a new guy/gal "

Oh grow up...

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By *eepster69Man
over a year ago

Dumfries

There was a lovely couple in a club I was in throught the week where she had come on unexpectedly.

I would like to think most of us going to these places are mature enough not to be phased by a completely normal human function.

Certainly as far as I'm concerned it wouldn't bother me in the least, and other than some sexual practices which are best left to another time, If the lady is comfortable enough for sex then so am I.

We're not living in the '50's now!

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By *orderboyblue OP Man
over a year ago

Scottish Borders

Hmm...not quite so sure t b h

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just cant believe a lady would contemplate a night out at a club knowing her period might turn up right at the moment she's getting intimate with a new guy/gal "

I wouldn't..but that's just me

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By *alwaymandyTV/TS
over a year ago

galway

I find it very erotic playing with a woman when she is on. So would have no issues at àll with it.

Hard thing is finding a woman who believes you when you say you don't mind in the slightest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Periods are part of a woman's body. If you can't handle that you can fuck off, as far as I'm concerned.

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

I'd have no issue with any woman finding herself in that situation. It's not like it comes with a count down clock.

But both me and the wife would probably stay above waist height once we knew.

It would be something of a turn off, once it's in the mind.

It's fine saying it's just fluid or a bit of blood. but it's a psychological thing that just does not work in the head.

Having said that if people are happy to carry on good on them.

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By *aurenkaWoman
over a year ago

London

"I just cant believe a lady would contemplate a night out at a club knowing her period might turn up right at the moment she's getting intimate with a new guy/gal "

And I can't belive there are guys tho think that way.

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By *aurenkaWoman
over a year ago

London

"Periods are part of a woman's body. If you can't handle that you can fuck off, as far as I'm concerned."

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By *olyCheshireCatMan
over a year ago

Cheshire

"Periods are part of a woman's body. If you can't handle that you can fuck off, as far as I'm concerned."

Harsh but fair haha

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By *ransGuyTV/TS
over a year ago

Cardiff

"I just cant believe a lady would contemplate a night out at a club knowing her period might turn up right at the moment she's getting intimate with a new guy/gal "

I just can't believe that a guy would think that every woman's body has read a text book on the subject, and so it knows that it should only start a period off at certain times

I guess you would be happier if they just never had sex with you, just in case their body has given them no warning and their period starts? Just think yourself lucky her body actually gave her any warning at all, a lot of women don't feel when their period starts until someone spots the blood ...

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By *orderboyblue OP Man
over a year ago

Scottish Borders

No, no. Definitely bad form on the lady's part if she knows she's on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, no. Definitely bad form on the lady's part if she knows she's on

Why.... I have been to Clubs and parties and the only person that ever knows is myself and my partner.

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By *esi tardkaCouple
over a year ago

acton

You should have shoved a tampoon in his mouth it would surely shut that fucker ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm fairly lucky in that I don't get the terrible periods some do because I have the coil. However once or twice I've bled a little during or after sex. It's absolutely mortifying. And does leave me feeling nervous incase it happens every time. It really does dent your confidence. Thankfully most men are grown up enough to reassure you. "

I couldn't care less about it, any time of the month is fine. As for reassurance, that is a given because I can assure you I don't mind.....it's natural.

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By *oamshrimps-BobMan
over a year ago

Peterborough Hotel

"I have a period/club question.

My main motivation for going to clubs is the jacuzzi so I'd be in a right sulk if I didn't go in. "

I personally would have no issues seeing the string dangling down and would happily join you in the jacuzzi - issue may be with the Club as good clubs always clean out jacuzzi if 'bodily fluids' are identified and that takes time and effort

Some I know will say it is gross, but I love grabbing the string with my teeth and removing said tampon, then still licking and sucking on the clit (after binning tampon of course

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By *lack Shoe Red SoulCouple
over a year ago

North Hampshire

"I just cant believe a lady would contemplate a night out at a club knowing her period might turn up right at the moment she's getting intimate with a new guy/gal

Some ladies suffer from irregular bleeding. Does that mean we shouldn't leave the house

I have come in mid meet. Both grown up about it

If I'm on and fancy a play I use beppy tampons. "

I use the sponges if light or towards the end of the witch, but they are no good when in full flow (for me any way)

Hubby can't bear the blood (he hates any form of blood to be fair) and he can feel the sponges as he's a big boy... So only really use them when playing with others

But OP grow up please, if happens and a lot of us have issues with the ol witch showing up when she's not welcome, it happens!! I went to a club last Saturday night for a social! The people we were meeting knew I was on so all was good

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By *ratty_DamselWoman
over a year ago

Greater London

"Sod it just plug up and jump in the jacuzzi. Unplug have sex, I do, if a guy is too immature to cope with that ,then he shouldn't be meeting women!!

Precisely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What an arse

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