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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you find yourself alone or do you get attention. Really is it worth going? Unless in a couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you find yourself alone or do you get attention. Really is it worth going? Unless in a couple "

I'd give your arse some attention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's often a Q for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It beats sitting online hoping to arrange a meet....clubs are a great way of meeting people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been once as a drop in never again! I will now always arrange to meet someone there or before to go there as makes life alot easier when you get in there, Your not so nervous and someone to play with that draws in other people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never not had fun when I've gone to a club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take a woman as bait. Loads of couples do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a real personal experience, some will love it and others won't like it at all. I've been to clubs and seen guys struggle, but others have been just fine and getting on with their night with a smile.

I'd suggest not to overthink it and try it.

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By *estmidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

speak to people, don't just lurk (horrid word sorry) and you should do just fine, but take time, get comfortable and see how it goes. Clubs are Worth a try for most guys I'd suggest

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I've never been to one but if I went on my own I'd go for the fun experience not necessarily expecting sex. Hoping, yes but wouldn't be disappointed if I didn't get it. I'd say go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It really depends what you want..

I normally choose to work on my own merit..as a single guy.

I have on many occasions been a real couple,or an on paper couple..

Though I will add i like the fact that having some fanny with me, makes me more desireable to meet than if I dont...

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Speak to people. Make eye contact. Don't just follow people round... there's nothing more hideous for me than having a lone single bloke trailing round behind. Start a conversation, to me it's much less of a pressure to talk to someone and go from there either way. I find it a bit letchy otherwise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Take a woman as bait. Loads of couples do it. "

wait till she gets a load of my maggot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Speak to people. Make eye contact. Don't just follow people round... there's nothing more hideous for me than having a lone single bloke trailing round behind. Start a conversation, to me it's much less of a pressure to talk to someone and go from there either way. I find it a bit letchy otherwise. "

dunno about the eye contact...my face is usually buried between the legs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Take a woman as bait. Loads of couples do it. "

I thought that was just on here?

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Speak to people. Make eye contact. Don't just follow people round... there's nothing more hideous for me than having a lone single bloke trailing round behind. Start a conversation, to me it's much less of a pressure to talk to someone and go from there either way. I find it a bit letchy otherwise.

dunno about the eye contact...my face is usually buried between the legs"

Does that not make it tricky to walk?!

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Stay in the bar and talk to people, let people get to know you rather than wander around hoping that someone will take pity on you, they won't. You might not get to play on that night but it may lead to some fun either at the club on a later date or a private meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Speak to people. Make eye contact. Don't just follow people round... there's nothing more hideous for me than having a lone single bloke trailing round behind. Start a conversation, to me it's much less of a pressure to talk to someone and go from there either way. I find it a bit letchy otherwise.

dunno about the eye contact...my face is usually buried between the legs

Does that not make it tricky to walk?!"

havent you seen the human centipede?-is easy to walk on all 8's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been once as a drop in never again! I will now always arrange to meet someone there or before to go there as makes life alot easier when you get in there, Your not so nervous and someone to play with that draws in other people"

Same for me. Been to clubs on the off chance of bumping into people and it's never quite worked out. Only use them as a social thing now and wouldn't play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clubs are great, it's not just about who you can pull it social side as Well to clubs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love going to clubs, theres always someone to chat to just treat it as if your in a normal club/ pub it takes all the pressure off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Stay in the bar and talk to people, let people get to know you rather than wander around hoping that someone will take pity on you, they won't. You might not get to play on that night but it may lead to some fun either at the club on a later date or a private meet."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Speak to people. Make eye contact. Don't just follow people round... there's nothing more hideous for me than having a lone single bloke trailing round behind. Start a conversation, to me it's much less of a pressure to talk to someone and go from there either way. I find it a bit letchy otherwise.

dunno about the eye contact...my face is usually buried between my legs"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never been a struggle for me, I go in, meet new people and generally have a goid time whilst im there.

It's not a place for a guaranteed shag, more like a social event with the possibility of a little fun later in the evening.

Get yourself known in a regular club, make friends and enjoy just going there!

Hope this helps anyone nervous of going alone.

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