FabSwingers.com forum: Clubs - dressing to impress

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi. Realise that this might sound a bit silly; we're new to the lifestyle and looking to go Xtasia on 5th September for our very first time at any club (super excited...and v.nervous! Anyone to hold our hand? Lol) my wife is wondering about what to do about wearing all the sexy underwear. Do people go with it all on under a dress or take it in a bag and change into it and spend the night in just that? More of a nervous, unsure of what to do kinda question.

Thanks

Mr A x

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

I think everyone is different - I don't wear it because I don't feel comfortable in it at all and don't see why I need to impress - don't expect that from others, either - its a bit fake to me ... but Mr does dress in his cop outfit or kilt a lot of the time, as he likes it - he usually goes in it with a long coat over - I think it is sort of expected in clubs though certainly for women to dress to impress - I have seen people come with it underneath or change into it ...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for that. Kinda suspected that was the case but it's always nice to double check and make certain from people in the know. September can't come round quick enough lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went for my 2nd ever visit to a club last night and i went full on body stocking and towering heels! Think you can wear whatever you like, dressing gown, towel, corset, sexy ann summers dress, you have a locker too so if you want to take a couple of things you can get changed

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I went for my 2nd ever visit to a club last night and i went full on body stocking and towering heels! Think you can wear whatever you like, dressing gown, towel, corset, sexy ann summers dress, you have a locker too so if you want to take a couple of things you can get changed

Bet you looking stunning in that!

. Think we've decided to wear a little sexy number under a dress and take some other naughty stuff. We're just signing up for Xtasia now. So can't wait. x

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I've got what my mate calls my pulling dress. Don't wear a bra, just some lacy knicks and some over the knee stockings. When I want to play, it comes off, when I finish it goes back on. Easier than faffing about with scratchy lingerie and suspender belts.

I do have some other stuff but the pulling dress seems to work fine.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've got what my mate calls my pulling dress. Don't wear a bra, just some lacy knicks and some over the knee stockings. When I want to play, it comes off, when I finish it goes back on. Easier than faffing about with scratchy lingerie and suspender belts.

I do have some other stuff but the pulling dress seems to work fine."

Hi Hun what does this pulling dress look like, I'm online looking at some sexy outfits to wear! Mrs k x

Plus I wonder what people wear in the flirts bar! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi. Realise that this might sound a bit silly; we're new to the lifestyle and looking to go Xtasia on 5th September for our very first time at any club (super excited...and v.nervous! Anyone to hold our hand? Lol) my wife is wondering about what to do about wearing all the sexy underwear. Do people go with it all on under a dress or take it in a bag and change into it and spend the night in just that? More of a nervous, unsure of what to do kinda question.

Thanks

Mr A x"

Xtasia isn't a dress down club it's a nightclub feel so unless you're dressing down in a playroom the rest of the time you'll be dressed in social areas

Flirts looks and feels like a normal pub

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I do have some other stuff but the pulling dress seems to work fine.

Hi Hun what does this pulling dress look like, I'm online looking at some sexy outfits to wear! Mrs k x

Plus I wonder what people wear in the flirts bar! x"

mid thigh length burgundy satin halter neck dress. Easy to take off and put on.

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Just think sexy as you dare nightclub.

To be honest the play areas are quite enclosed at Xtasia's so there's limited opportunity to show off anything else.

The social room upstairs there a little more room so if you wanted to show some sexy underwear more we think that would be a good place to start

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks

Mr A x"

It's easier to wear something nice under your 'normal clothes' - sort of kills the moment if you have to run to a locker to get your sexy undies

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

Dress to impress certainly needs to apply to men.

I'd hope most clubs would turn away t-shirt, jeans and trainers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The first time we went to a club (Ab Fabs) he said to wear something that was easy to remove. I have an above the knee chemise with a lot cut front and lacey back that now comes out on numerous occasions. I can't comment on Flirts or the specific club having not been. What I would say is go in something you feel confident in once your research is complete.

Hope you have a fantastic time

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Dress to impress certainly needs to apply to men.

I'd hope most clubs would turn away t-shirt, jeans and trainers. "

And footballs shirts, and jogging bottoms.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ah thanx, I'm wish they have a photo gallery of all the hotties in there dress's so I can see

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