FabSwingers.com forum: The Private Club Aston

By *un2bewith OP Man
over a year ago

erdington

Went to the club, wont go again

its just a pay for sex place.

You pay on entry to have sex with the club girls, well you have to line up and wait.

Not racist but full of mostly Asians really off putting mostly 98% men.

Misleading I wanted swingers place.

never again honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest the club is quite up front about what it offers and we know quite a few singles and couples that enjoy it.

We haven't been yet x

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By *eanandJulieCouple
over a year ago

Doncaster

We would suggest chameleons or xtasia for your area

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To be honest the club is quite up front about what it offers and we know quite a few singles and couples that enjoy it.

We haven't been yet x "

agreed

the club has never hidden what type of club it is what was you expecting?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Went to the club, wont go again

its just a pay for sex place.

You pay on entry to have sex with the club girls, well you have to line up and wait.

Not racist but full of mostly Asians really off putting mostly 98% men.

Misleading I wanted swingers place.

never again honest "

Well you would think you find out about a place before visiting

as for the the Asian guys well it is in Aston......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see how you think it's missleading if you go on their Web site there's a calinder showing what girls are playing what night so you can pick who you like before you go and go the night she's on

did you think they were paying guests

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By *estinysswingersCouple
over a year ago

Worsley

"I don't see how you think it's missleading if you go on their Web site there's a calinder showing what girls are playing what night so you can pick who you like before you go and go the night she's on

did you think they were paying guests

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm.curious as to if the op had sex or went without x

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By *rummiePartyManMan
over a year ago

birmingham

I'm not surprised that the OP has been misled. This site may have contributed to it.

Do a search for "Private Club" in the search box on this site. When I did it, it produced 35 results, one by the OP, and all but one other started by someone called Tyla Moore, all of which seem to be promotional messages.

Now I know that this club has been discussed and debated to death over the years, but where are the rest of the search results that if referred to, could have saved the OP a ton of money?

Mind you a trip to the club reviews page would have given an inkling, in amongst all the fan mail.

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

Please help rid me of my ignorance here, this post is not intended to offend, but what is the difference between this and a brothel?

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester

"Please help rid me of my ignorance here, this post is not intended to offend, but what is the difference between this and a brothel? "

None

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

"Please help rid me of my ignorance here, this post is not intended to offend, but what is the difference between this and a brothel?

None"

Yes there is

Brothels are usually 'stocked up' with poor women from Eastern Europe and other third-world countries; they are held as slaves and 'disposed off' at will

Never heard of this club but if they are advertising so openly, then the women here are selling sex but that is all; nothing more sinister than that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Please help rid me of my ignorance here, this post is not intended to offend, but what is the difference between this and a brothel? "

A brothel is a house where you go with the specific aim of paying a girl for sex. The Private Club is where men pay to get in and have sex with girls who are paid just to be in the club, if they choose to have sex with the men who pay to get in the club then its up to them.

Like prostitution is not illegal, but certain things around it are illegal like trafficking and being a pimp is illegal.

It's how the club words how it operates is the difference in the eyes of the law.

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

"Please help rid me of my ignorance here, this post is not intended to offend, but what is the difference between this and a brothel?

Like prostitution is not illegal, but certain things around it are illegal like trafficking and being a pimp is illegal.

It's how the club words how it operates is the difference in the eyes of the law."

I'm not trying to be a dick here, just playing devil's advocate, but i assume that if the women there didn't choose to have sex with anyone, then the men would quickly stop coming right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Please help rid me of my ignorance here, this post is not intended to offend, but what is the difference between this and a brothel?

Like prostitution is not illegal, but certain things around it are illegal like trafficking and being a pimp is illegal.

It's how the club words how it operates is the difference in the eyes of the law.

I'm not trying to be a dick here, just playing devil's advocate, but i assume that if the women there didn't choose to have sex with anyone, then the men would quickly stop coming right? "

No, men still attend a swing club as there might be sex, even though it's not guaranteed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not been to this one but another run on the same type of thing. The girls did still pick who and the guys didn't bother me and were so well behaved.

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By *ilacWoman
over a year ago

Cheshire

"To be honest the club is quite up front about what it offers and we know quite a few singles and couples that enjoy it.

We haven't been yet x "

Yeah I fully understand what the club is and we still plan to go as a couple and play there. I don't have a problem with what it is. They also film porn there too I think? I'd go to spectate.

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

No, men still attend a swing club as there might be sex, even though it's not guaranteed."

This is very true. When it comes to sex-for-money (it all its guises) i know there are some women who are there out of choice, and some women who aren't. I personally would always be worried that i would end up with ones who weren't there out of choice, so I don't think i would ever do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Please help rid me of my ignorance here, this post is not intended to offend, but what is the difference between this and a brothel?

None

Yes there is

Brothels are usually 'stocked up' with poor women from Eastern Europe and other third-world countries; they are held as slaves and 'disposed off' at will

Never heard of this club but if they are advertising so openly, then the women here are selling sex but that is all; nothing more sinister than that"

It's a brothel. A different style of brothel, perhaps, but still a brothel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whatever the environment and PR and gimmicks...women accepting money for sex is prostitution ..its a brothel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not in the eyes of the law and that's the main thing! and being on the right side of the law is maybe what attracts the guys to clubs like this. Ain't got a clue how much a single guy pays to get into a club like this or a "normal" swingers club????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whatever the environment and PR and gimmicks...women accepting money for sex is prostitution ..its a brothel "

But they aren't accepting money for sex . They are there at the club and choose to have sex.

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By *rummiePartyManMan
over a year ago

birmingham

"...But they aren't accepting money for sex . They are there at the club and choose to have sex. "

Forgetting for a moment the "celebrity guests", who will negotiate their own deals, each "ordinary" hostess accepts about £150 out of the club till, courtesy of the club management. How long will they carry on getting paid if they choose NOT to have sex?

Just asking...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...But they aren't accepting money for sex . They are there at the club and choose to have sex.

Just asking..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...But they aren't accepting money for sex . They are there at the club and choose to have sex.

Just asking..."

Not being funny but I know plenty of ladies that go to a club and take on as many men as they can. They aren't paid to be there they do it becsuse they love sex.

Most of the girls I know they hostess are paid to be there and they choose who they play with. And guess what many do on their days off... Yup.... They go do it anyway.

Don't really see the issue personally. Can't win in clubs. Single guys moan when they pay their money but get none. Then they moan when they pay their money and its offered to them

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By *ilacWoman
over a year ago

Cheshire

"...But they aren't accepting money for sex . They are there at the club and choose to have sex.

Just asking...

Not being funny but I know plenty of ladies that go to a club and take on as many men as they can. They aren't paid to be there they do it becsuse they love sex.

Most of the girls I know they hostess are paid to be there and they choose who they play with. And guess what many do on their days off... Yup.... They go do it anyway.

Don't really see the issue personally. Can't win in clubs. Single guys moan when they pay their money but get none. Then they moan when they pay their money and its offered to them

I don't see the issue. It's not illegal, it doesn't class as a brothel. I don't class it as prostitution.

If it's not your thing, then don't go. If it is your thing, then go. I don't see why anyone is bothered.

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

I don't see the issue. It's not illegal, it doesn't class as a brothel. I don't class it as prostitution.

If it's not your thing, then don't go. If it is your thing, then go. I don't see why anyone is bothered. "

Just as a thought exercise, exploring the moral maze...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not surprised that the OP has been misled. This site may have contributed to it.

Now I know that this club has been discussed and debated to death over the years, but where are the rest of the search results that if referred to, could have saved the OP a ton of money?

Mind you a trip to the club reviews page would have given an inkling, in amongst all the fan mail.

Anybody who has read Tyla Moore's profile will know what type of a club it is she's even advertising for working girls on there

I know the clubs not to everybody's taste but I find it hard to believe anybody who comes on here or looks at their web site can be mislead as to how the club works

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

Tyla sure does get a lot of fabs!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see the issue. It's not illegal, it doesn't class as a brothel. I don't class it as prostitution.

If it's not your thing, then don't go. If it is your thing, then go. I don't see why anyone is bothered.

Just as a thought exercise, exploring the moral maze..."

Sex trade needs to be legalised, the sex workers need employment rights... no point in worrying about the moral implications as it will happen whether people object or not.

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By *ait88Man
over a year ago

Plymouth

The club isn't a brothel, strictly speaking, because a man doesn't pay just one single woman for exclusive sex with her. Men pay the club and can have sex with any or all of the WILLING women present, including the fems who are there as parts of couples. The women usually enjoy the attention of more than one man at the same time. A more apt description is a "multi-girl gang bang". These also happen in other swingers clubs and hotel rooms. But never in brothels, where men "buy" just one woman,and couples don't go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Basically prostitutes then who work there?! For a fee each night? Try chams in darlaston great place well run

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Basically prostitutes then who work there?! For a fee each night? Try chams in darlaston great place well run "

Such respect for the ladies then.And as a single guy it is hard for the op to get in to chams

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By *ilacWoman
over a year ago

Cheshire

I don't see the issue. It's not illegal, it doesn't class as a brothel. I don't class it as prostitution.

If it's not your thing, then don't go. If it is your thing, then go. I don't see why anyone is bothered.

Just as a thought exercise, exploring the moral maze...

Sex trade needs to be legalised, the sex workers need employment rights... no point in worrying about the moral implications as it will happen whether people object or not."

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By *parklesglitzWoman
over a year ago

Mancs

I read about the private club

Its more sex than a swingers club

If men want to pay good on them.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

I don't see the issue. It's not illegal, it doesn't class as a brothel. I don't class it as prostitution.

If it's not your thing, then don't go. If it is your thing, then go. I don't see why anyone is bothered.

Just as a thought exercise, exploring the moral maze...

Sex trade needs to be legalised, the sex workers need employment rights... no point in worrying about the moral implications as it will happen whether people object or not."

Exactly; moral implications are no better or worse than couples swinging

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

I don't see the issue. It's not illegal, it doesn't class as a brothel. I don't class it as prostitution.

If it's not your thing, then don't go. If it is your thing, then go. I don't see why anyone is bothered.

Just as a thought exercise, exploring the moral maze...

Sex trade needs to be legalised, the sex workers need employment rights... no point in worrying about the moral implications as it will happen whether people object or not.

Exactly; moral implications are no better or worse than couples swinging"

I meant i was simply interested in exploring my own moral maze (as in, would i ever go there myself?) rather than the morals of others.

Just asking the question, but do you think there is more chance of coercion in this sort of club, rather than in swinging?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see the issue. It's not illegal, it doesn't class as a brothel. I don't class it as prostitution.

If it's not your thing, then don't go. If it is your thing, then go. I don't see why anyone is bothered.

Just as a thought exercise, exploring the moral maze...

Sex trade needs to be legalised, the sex workers need employment rights... no point in worrying about the moral implications as it will happen whether people object or not.

Exactly; moral implications are no better or worse than couples swinging

I meant i was simply interested in exploring my own moral maze (as in, would i ever go there myself?) rather than the morals of others.

Just asking the question, but do you think there is more chance of coercion in this sort of club, rather than in swinging? "
you mean for the women.. if so... I'd say no. I've seen more coercion in swinging clubs. ive not met a hostess yet who didn't do it because they enjoy it x where as I've witnessed many a cringe worthy moment or conversation at a club where one or the.other party is being coercedb by their partner x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I couldn't give a stuff about the morals involved, but the club in question is undeniably a brothel because the women there are paid to have sex. If you're someone who is happy with this then go and have a good time, but don't try to suggest the club is anything other than what it clearly is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personally I couldn't give a stuff about the morals involved, but the club in question is undeniably a brothel because the women there are paid to have sex. If you're someone who is happy with this then go and have a good time, but don't try to suggest the club is anything other than what it clearly is."

But it isn't a brothal as you put it... We would be happy to go if their were hostess girls aslong as the club was meeting what we wanted. We do want to try this club sometime but most of the hostesses aren't for Mr as he likes bigger ladies x

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By *ilacWoman
over a year ago

Cheshire

Well it isn't a brothel. If you read the thread you can see explanations why it's not. They also film porn there I believe. So men (and couples and single females) get the chance to go and partake and be filmed. It's certainly a different experience to a swinging club. But it's a not a brothel.

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By *rivate auditionsMan
over a year ago

West Midlands

Why would anyone pay £50 or more to go into a club that they had not researched beforehand?,surely the OP had hard of the club beforehand and did not just turn a corner and find it blocking his path?,i sense something a bit more mischievous here!.

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By *rivate auditionsMan
over a year ago

West Midlands

"I read about the private club

Its more sex than a swingers club

If men want to pay good on them. "

But there are plenty of swinging couples and single ladies who go there for the fun too!.

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By *angbang junkieCouple
over a year ago

Ilkeston

Agree with others, if you look at any of their sites, not sure how you can be misled.

Aside from the hostesses, there are plenty of couples and single ladies who still go there, and there special events are normally rammed, both with single guys and couples and ladies.

As others have said, its not to everyones taste, but in our view its certainly the best clubs around by far.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

I don't see the issue. It's not illegal, it doesn't class as a brothel. I don't class it as prostitution.

If it's not your thing, then don't go. If it is your thing, then go. I don't see why anyone is bothered.

Just as a thought exercise, exploring the moral maze...

Sex trade needs to be legalised, the sex workers need employment rights... no point in worrying about the moral implications as it will happen whether people object or not.

Exactly; moral implications are no better or worse than couples swinging

I meant i was simply interested in exploring my own moral maze (as in, would i ever go there myself?) rather than the morals of others.

Just asking the question, but do you think there is more chance of coercion in this sort of club, rather than in swinging? "

I have seen quite a few tears in swinging clubs where the female half of the couple doesn't want to be there for a moment longer but .....

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By *parklesglitzWoman
over a year ago

Mancs

"I read about the private club

Its more sex than a swingers club

If men want to pay good on them.

But there are plenty of swinging couples and single ladies who go there for the fun too!."

I know. Ive been

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By *anetandNickCouple
over a year ago

Ross-on-Wye

"But there are plenty of swinging couples and single ladies who go there for the fun too!."

We go there occasionally, when the mood takes us. We've always had a good time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Erdington to Aston 2 miles max, must have had some idea about what kind of club it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...But they aren't accepting money for sex . They are there at the club and choose to have sex.

Just asking...

Not being funny but I know plenty of ladies that go to a club and take on as many men as they can. They aren't paid to be there they do it becsuse they love sex.

Most of the girls I know they hostess are paid to be there and they choose who they play with. And guess what many do on their days off... Yup.... They go do it anyway.

Don't really see the issue personally. Can't win in clubs. Single guys moan when they pay their money but get none. Then they moan when they pay their money and its offered to them

I don't see the issue. It's not illegal, it doesn't class as a brothel. I don't class it as prostitution.

If it's not your thing, then don't go. If it is your thing, then go. I don't see why anyone is bothered. "

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By *roggMan
over a year ago

haverfordwest

The club may not be to everyone taste but is clean , tidy and friendly with a good atmosphere and even if people just want to chat that is fine. It does what it says on the tin and is a place where people go with the intention of having fun

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By *helbeeCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton

The private club is for gangbangs etc an bukake s etc

its not a sort of swing club an has organised gangbangs an a few girls on the eve etc

an i guess guys have to compete

an ive known about the club for a while

never been dont fancy being one of the girls on eve there eve

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By *ait88Man
over a year ago

Plymouth

its not a sort of swing club an has organised gangbangs an a few girls on the eve etc

It has private rooms, a playroom with a buck, and a large play area with a swing and cage.

It is frequented by swingers - see above. The only difference is that two or three hostesses are provided. This means that fem guests are not hounded by packs of single males.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Club aside, is a porn star a prostitute because (s)he gets paid for sex??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Club aside, is a porn star a prostitute because (s)he gets paid for sex??"

in my opinion yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a brothel. They are just being very cute with the way they do things to get around legalities.

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By *ilacWoman
over a year ago

Cheshire

"Club aside, is a porn star a prostitute because (s)he gets paid for sex??"

I don't class them as a prostitute. They are an adult entertainer. Having sex with other people that are paid to be an adult entertainer.

I've a few main stream films where the actors have penetrative sex during sex scenes rather than simulate it. Does that make them prostitute too? Even though they are doing it for art?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Club aside, is a porn star a prostitute because (s)he gets paid for sex??

I don't class them as a prostitute. They are an adult entertainer. Having sex with other people that are paid to be an adult entertainer.

I've a few main stream films where the actors have penetrative sex during sex scenes rather than simulate it. Does that make them prostitute too? Even though they are doing it for art? "

A mainstream film where people actually have penatrive sex?

What channel was this on

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By *ilacWoman
over a year ago

Cheshire

"Club aside, is a porn star a prostitute because (s)he gets paid for sex??

I don't class them as a prostitute. They are an adult entertainer. Having sex with other people that are paid to be an adult entertainer.

I've a few main stream films where the actors have penetrative sex during sex scenes rather than simulate it. Does that make them prostitute too? Even though they are doing it for art?

A mainstream film where people actually have penatrive sex?

What channel was this on

9 Songs

Intimacy

AntiChrist

Baise Moi

Maybe Lie With Me, I think that's one.

Proper love 9 Songs I do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To be honest the club is quite up front about what it offers and we know quite a few singles and couples that enjoy it.

We haven't been yet x "

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

"Club aside, is a porn star a prostitute because (s)he gets paid for sex??

I don't class them as a prostitute. They are an adult entertainer. Having sex with other people that are paid to be an adult entertainer.

I've a few main stream films where the actors have penetrative sex during sex scenes rather than simulate it. Does that make them prostitute too? Even though they are doing it for art?

A mainstream film where people actually have penatrive sex?

What channel was this on

9 Songs

Intimacy

AntiChrist

Baise Moi

Maybe Lie With Me, I think that's one.

Proper love 9 Songs I do "

I have never heard of any of those films so they're not too mainstream. But one film that I have heard a lot about that apparently blurs the line between porn and cinema is Marriage 2.0 that has full penetration.

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By *obert1889Man
over a year ago

Hereford

"Intimacy" (2001) starred New Zealand actress Kerry Fox (famous for "Shallow Grave") and Mark Rylance (seen recently in "Wolf Hall" on BBC)and they did indeed have full sex on screen, Fox leaving home in the morning to film, returning in the evening to her partner the journalist Alexander Linklater. Not very different from swinging, when you think about it..."Good fuck at work, darling? I'll put the kettle on..."
"Club aside, is a porn star a prostitute because (s)he gets paid for sex??

I don't class them as a prostitute. They are an adult entertainer. Having sex with other people that are paid to be an adult entertainer.

I've a few main stream films where the actors have penetrative sex during sex scenes rather than simulate it. Does that make them prostitute too? Even though they are doing it for art?

A mainstream film where people actually have penatrive sex?

What channel was this on

9 Songs

Intimacy

AntiChrist

Baise Moi

Maybe Lie With Me, I think that's one.

Proper love 9 Songs I do "

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By *atriandjoeCouple
over a year ago

Spain and Bristol

Hi, we intend to visit this club somewhere in Feb.

My wife is a very greedy girl and likes groups of men, so we think thats a right place, no matter about the definition of this place.

Questions, doubts...:

98% Asians....? Do you mean from Pakistan, India....? Or from Korea....?

Sling? Is it any good for gangbang? Some are very umcomfortable

Thank you!

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By *tarbuck007Man
over a year ago

up2no good

Brothel would be better i think as you get to cboose

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By *angbang junkieCouple
over a year ago

Ilkeston

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