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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Am I so wrong in wanting to get to know people before I play at a swingers club?

I enjoy going, meeting new people with the possibility of making new friends, some playmates and possibly more long term friendship.

So, opinions please, should I keep going as a social event to meet people, or should I go with the intention of play?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I so wrong in wanting to get to know people before I play at a swingers club?

I enjoy going, meeting new people with the possibility of making new friends, some playmates and possibly more long term friendship.

So, opinions please, should I keep going as a social event to meet people, or should I go with the intention of play?

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Never assume you are going to play....one of the Golden Rules....

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By *picyminxWoman
over a year ago

Huntingdon


"Am I so wrong in wanting to get to know people before I play at a swingers club?

I enjoy going, meeting new people with the possibility of making new friends, some playmates and possibly more long term friendship.

So, opinions please, should I keep going as a social event to meet people, or should I go with the intention of play?

Never assume you are going to play....one of the Golden Rules...."

Yep I agree

I prefer to see it as social then if anything happens its a bonus

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Exactly my point, I like the social side of things, if anything else happens then its a bonus, but not to play all the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Exactly my point, I like the social side of things, if anything else happens then its a bonus, but not to play all the time.

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Really don't think many just turn up blind and get it on...its a recipe for disaster

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have been told that I dont very often play when im there, I dont see it as a playground, I see it as a social club with a difference

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By *mmabluTV/TS
over a year ago

upton wirral

Social first everytime

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We go to have a good evening and with the intention of playing together later. Meeting others and possibly playing with them later is a bonus rather than an expectation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We go to have a good evening and with the intention of playing together later. Meeting others and possibly playing with them later is a bonus rather than an expectation. "

In my opinion you have the right approach. (Sorry, fat finger syndrome and hit enter a bit prematurely before)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lol, nothing like a bit of premature ending!

So im not a minority then, meet people, have a laugh downstairs, if we click and get on then MAYBE a little play, but not essential.

I know its a swingers club, but as I said earlier, its a social place too

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