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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hello all we are going to va for the first time this weekend and want some advice.

First off is it mandatory for you to be naked around the pool and in the bedrooms?

Any tips or advice?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have to dress down in the play areas which includes the hot tub, But you can wear a dressing gown or stay in underwear, In the bedroom its your choice what you wear as it's your room for the night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Towels are provided so no need to be naked

The club had open play areas so no bedrooms unless you mean the hotel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Towels or sexy undies in play areas. You'll have a great time. We loved our first night. Your welcome to message us if you any other questions. We were very nervous before and had lots of questions! The owners were lovely and gave idea show around when we said we were new. We are going again on 31st if you enjoy and want to go back!

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By *abloversCouple
over a year ago

London

There is the VA Festival coming up too x

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By *aidtobespankedCouple
over a year ago

Chester

We were so nervous on our first visit too. We sat outside in the car park for about 20mins before we dared to go check into our room.

I can honestly say there is no need to be nervous. You can wear normal clothing in a lot of areas. Once you feel comfortable you can change into a towel. In the hottub you need to be naked. With everyone else around you naked it will put you at ease.

Have a great time and just go with the flow, it's a lot of fun xx

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By *oddamnCouple
over a year ago

leicestershire

The owners will give you a tour and ghat helps put you at ease. Don't expect everyone to be models, but that made me feel more confident about myself.

If you are anything like us you will chat in the bar at first and then notice people coming to the bar in towels. Don't leave it too late to go into the play areas as on a busy night you might not find a space to play!

Enjoy it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello all we are going to va for the first time this weekend and want some advice.

First off is it mandatory for you to be naked around the pool and in the bedrooms?

Any tips or advice?"

We were so nervous we couldn't eat before going

The staff, the cab firm they use, the other visitors are all great. We are no models but found being naked/toweled up really invigorating.

We are going on the 1st hopefully to chat with like minded others.

Have a great time.

Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Completely agree with all of the above comments....our first experience of anything non-vanilla was at v.a!! That was 18 months ago and we've back 6/7 times already!

No pressure at all as the bar and social area is very similar to a normal bar just with a sexy twist we hope you have a great night xx

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By *oung oxon coupleCouple
over a year ago

bicester

We went a view weeks back and like others we were soooo nervous about going in that we nearly left. We needn't have been nervous tho, it is such a friendly welcoming place.

We are looking at going again on the 22nd of August if anyone else is going? Feel free to message us, we have pics to send on our profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Omg you don't wanna miss out on tonight its looking seriously epic !!

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By *ove121LustCouple
over a year ago

LaLa Land


"Omg you don't wanna miss out on tonight its looking seriously epic !! "

We have arrived (and heard the sound system from our room )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Omg you don't wanna miss out on tonight its looking seriously epic !!

We have arrived (and heard the sound system from our room )"

You ain't heard nothing yet

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By *teed99Man
over a year ago

Kettering

Best wishes to everyone at VA's including the PHUKT team for a great night tonight. Thinking of you whilst soaking up the sun and sounds in the music capital of the world. Looking forward to being back to my second home next week and then the Festival of Fun the weekend after.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Best wishes to everyone at VA's including the PHUKT team for a great night tonight. Thinking of you whilst soaking up the sun and sounds in the music capital of the world. Looking forward to being back to my second home next week and then the Festival of Fun the weekend after."

Many thanks pal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We really wish we could have gone tonight

Please let others be going on the 31st!!

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By *thicalslutx69Couple
over a year ago

lincoln

It's very refreshing to read these comments as we are very nervous newbies who plan on going for the first time ourselves on Saturday 1st August. We're not even sure if we will venture beyond the bar yet as we are that nervous but we will see how things go. We have been assured there is no pressure to go in to hot tub or play areas if we aren't sure.

If anyone else is going say hi to us as it would be nice to make new friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We were the same, literally only us and the staff still in the bar area.

Said before no way would we go in spa.

In the end once we bit the bullet and went for it it was fantastic, in the spa, on the beds we were like a couple of teenagers.

Only played together but it was so exciting playing in front of other people.

Not that anyone was taking any notice, all busy enjoying themselves.

Will definitely say high

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's very refreshing to read these comments as we are very nervous newbies who plan on going for the first time ourselves on Saturday 1st August. We're not even sure if we will venture beyond the bar yet as we are that nervous but we will see how things go. We have been assured there is no pressure to go in to hot tub or play areas if we aren't sure.

If anyone else is going say hi to us as it would be nice to make new friends "

Come on the 31st we will say hi! We didn't think we would move from bar but had a lovely cpl we chatted to and then moved to hot tub and never looked back!

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