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Going to a club for the first time alone

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

As I'm completely new to swinging clubs I was just wondering if many guys go to clubs on there own and how much luck they have. I've always been curious about going to one.

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By *estmidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

try the Townhouse, they do inductions for new guys, nice intro to clubs, details on club section

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As I'm completely new to swinging clubs I was just wondering if many guys go to clubs on there own and how much luck they have. I've always been curious about going to one."

Loads of guys go to clubs say hello to the other guys chat away

Remember as a bloke it's easier to talk to a bloke

Always ask if ok to join in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Glad to see you 'man up' by going alone. My advice is to not follow peeps around and don't expect any immediate action. Talk to people with the aim of getting to know the regulars and make friends.

Then when you go again the chances are they will want to play with you coz your friendly and sincere

Good luck and don't forget condoms!!!

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By *picyminxWoman
over a year ago

Huntingdon


"As I'm completely new to swinging clubs I was just wondering if many guys go to clubs on there own and how much luck they have. I've always been curious about going to one."

Most single guys go to clubs alone, they don't usually entertain groups of men

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As I'm completely new to swinging clubs I was just wondering if many guys go to clubs on there own and how much luck they have. I've always been curious about going to one.

Most single guys go to clubs alone, they don't usually entertain groups of men "

Thanks, I was more thinking if it was mainly just couples

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By *not69Man
over a year ago

Lancashire


"Glad to see you 'man up' by going alone. My advice is to not follow peeps around and don't expect any immediate action. Talk to people with the aim of getting to know the regulars and make friends.

Then when you go again the chances are they will want to play with you coz your friendly and sincere

Good luck and don't forget condoms!!! "

Exactly this.

Dont have any expectations of play. Just go to socialise and make friends. Dont follow people around, dont sit on your own, dont hide in a corner. Be proactive and talk to people, dont expect them to talk to you. Go to make friends, play is a bonus. Above all else, smile and enjoy yourself

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"As I'm completely new to swinging clubs I was just wondering if many guys go to clubs on there own and how much luck they have. I've always been curious about going to one."

define "luck"??? i'm guessing you mean play....

because to be absolutely honest... I would take the exact opposite approach....

go with an open mind and no expectations...

talk to people, get a feel for the place, talk to people, just mingle in a social setting, talk to people, don't just wander round like a lost lamb, talk to people.....

oh did i mention talking to people....

playing is a bonus.... to be honest I dont play as much as i could, but then playing doesn't define if i am having a good night or not.... its meeting and talking to people that does that....

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By *not69Man
over a year ago

Lancashire


"As I'm completely new to swinging clubs I was just wondering if many guys go to clubs on there own and how much luck they have. I've always been curious about going to one.

define "luck"??? i'm guessing you mean play....

because to be absolutely honest... I would take the exact opposite approach....

go with an open mind and no expectations...

talk to people, get a feel for the place, talk to people, just mingle in a social setting, talk to people, don't just wander round like a lost lamb, talk to people.....

oh did i mention talking to people....

playing is a bonus.... to be honest I dont play as much as i could, but then playing doesn't define if i am having a good night or not.... its meeting and talking to people that does that...."

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