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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi, we're new to this site but we've been swingers for many years and live in the Loire valley near Blois in France. Here's a selection of clubs in our area, the words in brackets are french terms :

1. TOURS. Paradis at Monlouis sur Loire near Tours - our nearest club and where we go most of the time, there's a large dance area and a labyrinth of backrooms (Coins calins). One section of the club is only for couples and one Saturday night per month the whole club is couples only. You do need to get free towels (serviettes) from behind the bar before playing. There's also a big jacuzzi and sauna.

2. CHARTRES. Shaker et Vitray en Beauce near Chartres - we love this club, unfortunately its quite a distance from us otherwise we'd go more often. Its couples only on a Saturday night with a dancefloor (piste de dance) downstairs and playrooms upstairs. People are really approachable and Seb the boss is really nice and helpful; if there are any other English people in that night he'll introduce you to them. We've never had a bad night at Shaker.

3. NIORT. Elixyr at Tout-Y-Faut on the road betweek Niort and St. Jean D'Angely - this used to be our favourite club when we lived at La Rochelle and we still go back. Saturday night is couples only. The playrooms are upstairs and there's also a large dungeon room downstairs. The jacuzzi is closed on couples night. This club gets very busy on Saturdays and has a real party atmosphere. There are also 4 hotel rooms (chambres d'hôtel) but you need to book ahead of time.

4. ORLEANS. La Messaline, Oinville Saint Liphard, north of Orléans - we've only been twice, the first time was great and we easily met two couples but the second time there was a large group of 30-something Parisians who clearly felt they owned the place and we felt somewhat out of place, we went home frustrated.

5. BLOIS. Chêne club, Noyers-sur Cher, equidistant between Blois, Tours and Vierzon - we've only been once and it didn't have much of an atmosphere although we did meet a nice couple. I've heard that they've put in an indoor swimming pool that you can dance in although dancing naked with panda eyes from running mascara might not be so sexy?

6. TOURS. The Moulins club at St Maure de Tourraine just off the A10 motorway (which links Paris to Bordeaux) is the oldest in our area, its situated in a old transport cafe/hotel so upstairs are the bedrooms that lorry drivers would have slept in and downstairs is the common area/dining room.

We were invited by a French couple who know the club well, downstairs is a bar and dance area, we went on a Saturday night but there were only 5 couples and about 10 single men, apparently it gets busier sometimes.

Invited upstairs, all the rooms were free, each equiped with a 140 x 190cm size bed which is the standard French double bed (standard UK size is 135 x 190cm) so about the same. Thats a great size for a couple but for 4 people its a bit small. The other couple shut the door with a bolt so at least we were only 4 on the bed but it was a squeeze. The owners were friendly and it wasn't expensive but to be honest there are better clubs in our region.

We typically spend 60 to 70€ for a night out wherever we go, Ann drinks champagne or sparkling wine, I only drink soft drinks which are often free - certainly the case at Paradis and Elixyr. Smoking is strictly forbidden everywhere except in the smokers room (coin fumeur) but if you do smoke this is a great place to make contact with people. Note also that the french drink driving limit is lower than in the UK.

We hope our little review helps, we also know Cap d'Agde very well but other members seem to have done some good guides already.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Frequent visitors to France so we appreciate this very much. Thank you.

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By *aisyandDukeCouple
over a year ago

Formby

super useful thanks! Don't suppose you know anything about Paris scene do you? Have been thinking about doing a long weekend there so maybe a Sat night club would be fun - would need to ideally be a dancefloor oriented club with play areas, and ideally couples only. xxx

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By *istalloverCouple
over a year ago

Pays de la Loire -Normandie -Brittany borderFrance

Merci pour l`information .

nous demenager dans la Loire bientoit.

K and S

ps addicted to Buffalo Grills

x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

L'Arc en Ciel is really good in Caen,

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi K&S, great to hear you're moving here! We too liked Buffalo Grill when we first arrived but you'll soon find french cuisine has lots of other nice things to try. We read your profil, here's a useful phrase: 'Nous ne sommes que mélangistes' for 'we're soft swappers'. Full swapping is called 'échangisme' (we're échangistes). Best wishes Ann & David.

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By *istalloverCouple
over a year ago

Pays de la Loire -Normandie -Brittany borderFrance

Thank you Both

Much appreciated

Kim and Steve

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By *weetcorruptionCouple
over a year ago

At home

Thanks for the post guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"L'Arc en Ciel is really good in Caen, "

L'orfia formally known as l'Eden is also a good one in the Caen area.

but it is for more hardcore echangistes.

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By *ourbonKissMan
over a year ago

a land up north..... of leicester

This makes me want to do a road trip!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we are in france next week for 3 weeks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many don't speak English tho in france lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi 'Shag tonight' - you're right, the French don't speak much English so here's a little vocabulary - hope this helps ! Best wishes.

Un libertin – a male swinger

Une libertine – a female swinger

Un boite libertin – a swinging club

Un mélangiste – a soft swapper

Un échangiste – a full sex swapper

Nous sommes échangistes – we’re full swap swingers

Une gode – a dildo

Sextoy – sex toy

Dogging – dogging

Gangbang - gangbang

Sexe en plein air – outdoor sex

Doucement ! – Gently!

Plus fort ! – Harder!

Jouir/orgasme – orgasm

2 + 2 – separate room swinging

Même chambre – same room (swinging)

Homme seul – single man

Femme seule – single woman

Couple – couple

La baie des cochons – The swinging part of the beach at Cap (literally the bay of pigs)

Debutants (nous sommes débutants) – beginners (we’re beginners)

Expérimentés (nous sommes experimentés) – experienced (we’re experienced)

Bi – bisexual

Coquin(e) – flirt/naughty

Encore, encore ! – Keep doing what you’re doing !

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks for your interesting post we are near LA Rochelle from the 31st of July if anyone's around

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi 'Shag tonight' - you're right, the French don't speak much English so here's a little vocabulary - hope this helps ! Best wishes.

Un libertin – a male swinger

Une libertine – a female swinger

Un boite libertin – a swinging club

Un mélangiste – a soft swapper

Un échangiste – a full sex swapper

Nous sommes échangistes – we’re full swap swingers

Une gode – a dildo

Sextoy – sex toy

Dogging – dogging

Gangbang - gangbang

Sexe en plein air – outdoor sex

Doucement ! – Gently!

Plus fort ! – Harder!

Jouir/orgasme – orgasm

2 + 2 – separate room swinging

Même chambre – same room (swinging)

Homme seul – single man

Femme seule – single woman

Couple – couple

La baie des cochons – The swinging part of the beach at Cap (literally the bay of pigs)

Debutants (nous sommes débutants) – beginners (we’re beginners)

Expérimentés (nous sommes experimentés) – experienced (we’re experienced)

Bi – bisexual

Coquin(e) – flirt/naughty

Encore, encore ! – Keep doing what you’re doing !

"

Hi and thanks, yes we drove thru france couple of times when going to Monaco and nice for holiday last year and notice it. Yeah basic vocab like we we as well lol.

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Hi 'Shag tonight' - you're right, the French don't speak much English so here's a little vocabulary - hope this helps ! Best wishes.

Un libertin – a male swinger

Une libertine – a female swinger

Un boite libertin – a swinging club

Un mélangiste – a soft swapper

Un échangiste – a full sex swapper

Nous sommes échangistes – we’re full swap swingers

Une gode – a dildo

Sextoy – sex toy

Dogging – dogging

Gangbang - gangbang

Sexe en plein air – outdoor sex

Doucement ! – Gently!

Plus fort ! – Harder!

Jouir/orgasme – orgasm

2 + 2 – separate room swinging

Même chambre – same room (swinging)

Homme seul – single man

Femme seule – single woman

Couple – couple

La baie des cochons – The swinging part of the beach at Cap (literally the bay of pigs)

Debutants (nous sommes débutants) – beginners (we’re beginners)

Expérimentés (nous sommes experimentés) – experienced (we’re experienced)

Bi – bisexual

Coquin(e) – flirt/naughty

Encore, encore ! – Keep doing what you’re doing !

"

Une boîte...

'Une Gode'... I am French and never used that word, I would probably use 'un vibrateur' ou 'dildo'.

And some Useful ones:

'un préservatif' = condom

'un gel lubrifiant' = 'gel coquin' = lube

Great thread, Merci à vous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Excellent post...many thanks.

We are sailing to Caen towards end of August with no firm travel plans for the following 3 weeks other than maybe end up in Cap D'Agde via the Ile de Re to top up our suntans.

We will be thinking about trying out one of the clubs on your list. Could be very interesting!!

Thanks again.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi to Welovenookie and Southwestfun - and indeed anyone else off to La Rochelle / ile de Ré. Here's a tip for getting to the naturist beach on ile de Ré cheaply :

If you want to take your car onto the island it'll cost you 16 Euro and getting back off in the evening is a nightmare at the weekends because of the queues, so take the bus !

As you drive towards the island, the final non-toll (péage) exit is called the Belvédère, follow the signs and park in the free Bélvédère carpark. Then go to the bus stop and take the shuttle (navette) over the bridge to Sablanceaux; there's only one stop so you can't go wrong. It costs 1 Euro per person each way but they don't sell return tickets.

When you get off the bus on the other side, walk towards the beach past the Oasis restaurant. At the beach turn right (ie you have your back to the bridge) and walk 200 metres to the German 2nd world war gun emplacement (blockhaus) et voila you're on the naturist beach.

We'll be at La Rochelle from the 1st till 5th of August as we have a second home there. Also have a look at our write-up of the Elixyr nightclub, its 40 minutes from La Rochelle. Have a great holiday !

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...

Excellent post OP.

When I get a little more time I will do something similar for the clubs in our area of Germany.

Maybe we will get our European club section by default.

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By *ral lover01Man
over a year ago

Altrincham & Portsmouth

Any one know of or been to a swingers club in Bordeaux France? Would appreciate any information. Thanks

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Great info. A French club is on my to do list.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks both good info much appreciated

Sue n Keith xx

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