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"Don't forget to come say hi to the Wyrd Sisters - we have cake! Oh and predatory tendencies But still, five kinds of cake " Maybe 5. Depends which ones I finish before y'all get to us. | |||
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"Don't forget to come say hi to the Wyrd Sisters - we have cake! Oh and predatory tendencies But still, five kinds of cake " Ahh bugger, we only baked 3 cakes, we're clearly amateurs. | |||
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"Don't forget to come say hi to the Wyrd Sisters - we have cake! Oh and predatory tendencies But still, five kinds of cake Ahh bugger, we only baked 3 cakes, we're clearly amateurs. " Camp near us, join in the predation and then we'll have 8 kinds of cake!!! Mwahahahahaaaaa we'll be unstoppable | |||
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"How I'm wishing he had got the day off work today and I could have joined you instead of twidling my thumbs waiting for tomorrow. It will be a long 24 hrs " Same as us but the party really starts Friday at 12 | |||
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"A417 just closed. Horrific accident Not good " Where abouts is it closed? All cakes need to be left at the gate tent | |||
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"A417 just closed. Horrific accident Not good Where abouts is it closed? All cakes need to be left at the gate tent " Signs on the m5 from saying the a40 closed after a38 | |||
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"A417 just closed. Horrific accident Not good Where abouts is it closed? All cakes need to be left at the gate tent " I'm really crap and have no idea. Was only diverted out about 15 mins then joined back on. Was the worst accident I have eve seen. but I'm here now xxx | |||
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"How I'm wishing he had got the day off work today and I could have joined you instead of twidling my thumbs waiting for tomorrow. It will be a long 24 hrs " Us two. Feeling a bit frustrated we can't go today! | |||
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"Major crash & delays junction 12 M6 guys x try diversion " Come off junction 15 if you can, follow A34 to Stafford then follow ring road round Wolverhampton take A4123 brings you out junction 2 M5 x | |||
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"Already passed jct13 " Oh Ek hun x well say you a spot x | |||
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"Already passed jct13 Oh Ek hun x well say you a spot x " Thanks, I've got a torch for setting up in the dark lol x. | |||
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"If you're coming southbound on the m5 don't come off for a40 cos it's got a bridge closed. The diversion is fine but lengthy. Stay on the m5 till (I think) the a38 exit." Thanks for that tip. Have a great night tonight. We are coming tomorrow. | |||
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"Cant believe i have brought my camping cooker ... picked up a gas bottle on the way and the connector is the wrong one! Cant do any cooking or even make a brew! Ahhh .. oh well! No good complaining! X" We've done exactly to same. If anyone has a butane push fit regulator they could bring and we could buy that would be awesome!! | |||
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"Hope to arrive by 6 tonight. Hoping we can use a generator from someone as our double inflatable bed is mains power only." Come find us at the big blue tent, next door to Harry's bird flag, got a generator you can use, | |||
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"Hope to arrive by 6 tonight. Hoping we can use a generator from someone as our double inflatable bed is mains power only. Come find us at the big blue tent, next door to Harry's bird flag, got a generator you can use, " Thank you | |||
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"For those of you on your way, bring a shower with you. ... there's only 4 working here at the moment.." ALL sorted now | |||
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"The jelly wrestling was epic! Although some of the guys took it really seriously " Oh I totally did! I had a bad back and thought, I'm going to win this and prove I'm not a spaz! Lol | |||
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"What a weekend....same time next year?? " No way are we missing this next year. Xx | |||
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"Did we not make the papers last year as well. But oh my days we upset 30 people....Erm a few hundred were more than happy " It was one woman who caused the fuss, the council were more than happy with the sound levels but we still turned it down some more. Had to try so very hard not to nip round to hers and put a european lifestyle award flyer through her door pmsl | |||
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"Did we not make the papers last year as well. But oh my days we upset 30 people....Erm a few hundred were more than happy It was one woman who caused the fuss, the council were more than happy with the sound levels but we still turned it down some more. Had to try so very hard not to nip round to hers and put a european lifestyle award flyer through her door pmsl " You should have said, I would have poped round and showed her the ropes | |||
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"http://www.thesun.co.uk/sol/homepage/news/6530270/Bonk-holiday-weekend.html?CMP=spklr-_-S9SunSocial-_-FBPAGE-_-TheSun-thesun-_-20150705-_-News-_-204194625 Glad you all had fun. I hope to be there next year. Had to have a laugh at the link above tho " That headline made me smile | |||
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"http://www.thesun.co.uk/sol/homepage/news/6530270/Bonk-holiday-weekend.html?CMP=spklr-_-S9SunSocial-_-FBPAGE-_-TheSun-thesun-_-20150705-_-News-_-204194625 Glad you all had fun. I hope to be there next year. Had to have a laugh at the link above tho That headline made me smile " Same here. You can always count on the sun newspaper | |||
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"The jelly wrestling was epic! Although some of the guys took it really seriously " Well I didn't take it seriously I knew the guy and I think it's good to end in a draw lol.. We are Al winners.. Hope you had a great time.. Xx funluvaz xx | |||
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"The jelly wrestling was epic! Although some of the guys took it really seriously Well I didn't take it seriously I knew the guy and I think it's good to end in a draw lol.. We are Al winners.. Hope you had a great time.. Xx funluvaz xx" Thankyou to everyone for a great weekend and see you all next year if not before All the games and events we're Def a good laugh, round 2 anytime pal. See you soon xx | |||
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"Don't forget to give your review in the club review section, swingfields is in the south west section... Good or bad let us know. In the next few days we will have a comments/suggestions thread to give your ideas for next year, what you would like to see, what can we improve on etc " | |||
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"The jelly wrestling was epic! Although some of the guys took it really seriously Well I didn't take it seriously I knew the guy and I think it's good to end in a draw lol.. We are Al winners.. Hope you had a great time.. Xx funluvaz xx Thankyou to everyone for a great weekend and see you all next year if not before All the games and events we're Def a good laugh, round 2 anytime pal. See you soon xx" Lol yeah round 2 round 2 round 2 See you next year mate | |||
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"The jelly wrestling was epic! Although some of the guys took it really seriously Well I didn't take it seriously I knew the guy and I think it's good to end in a draw lol.. We are Al winners.. Hope you had a great time.. Xx funluvaz xx Thankyou to everyone for a great weekend and see you all next year if not before All the games and events we're Def a good laugh, round 2 anytime pal. See you soon xx Lol yeah round 2 round 2 round 2 See you next year mate " You guys are local so round two will be sooner than that pal | |||
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"Did anyone else meet the man on the hill what a delightful man i tryed his homemade cider very strong wife tried the raspberry vodka and he gave her some gorgeous roses Out of his garden. She took him a bottle a wine and they spoke for ages very interesting chap" We met him, what a great character, we went in his abode, I had some of the raspberry vodka and Simon. Had the cider, had an hour listening to all his tales, a lovely man. We should invite him to Swingfileds next year! | |||
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"The jelly wrestling was epic! Although some of the guys took it really seriously Well I didn't take it seriously I knew the guy and I think it's good to end in a draw lol.. We are Al winners.. Hope you had a great time.. Xx funluvaz xx Thankyou to everyone for a great weekend and see you all next year if not before All the games and events we're Def a good laugh, round 2 anytime pal. See you soon xx Lol yeah round 2 round 2 round 2 See you next year mate You guys are local so round two will be sooner than that pal " Lol look forward to it xxxx | |||
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"Did anyone else meet the man on the hill what a delightful man i tryed his homemade cider very strong wife tried the raspberry vodka and he gave her some gorgeous roses Out of his garden. She took him a bottle a wine and they spoke for ages very interesting chap We met him, what a great character, we went in his abode, I had some of the raspberry vodka and Simon. Had the cider, had an hour listening to all his tales, a lovely man. We should invite him to Swingfileds next year! " Perhaps the swingfields mascot | |||
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"The best thing with the photos, was the lacey knickers - in fact it was a vest top from primani. We all know clothing is never left at festivals xx" Love that it was a top, not knickers - typical sensationalism! I actually did collect up knickers from a play tent, but no-one collected them from lost property at the Info Tent Comments on the papers' sites appear to be mostly agreeing that it's all a fuss over nothing x | |||
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"The best thing with the photos, was the lacey knickers - in fact it was a vest top from primani. We all know clothing is never left at festivals xx" It was knickers, I picked them up when we were doing the litter pick....they were near the edge as you came down the one track!! But it was only knickers....least it wasn't a used condom lol | |||
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"Did anyone else meet the man on the hill what a delightful man i tryed his homemade cider very strong wife tried the raspberry vodka and he gave her some gorgeous roses Out of his garden. She took him a bottle a wine and they spoke for ages very interesting chap" I met him on Sunday morning, had a wander up the hill and saw him under his tree enjoying the view (not of us, he seemed very uninterested in us lol) He was a charming chap with some great tales, the papers should have chat with him, he'd give them what for! | |||
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"It was our first time and we had a fabulous weekend.. Well done to the organisers, you did a great job.. " it's great to see happy customers | |||
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"Just seen on another thread that Swingfields have had 400 enquiries already for next years event See...all publicity is good publicity. We have had a record number of hits on our website and Facebook page yesterday and today!! lol " Pretty good all caused by one woman we will have to send her a thank you card | |||
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"Just seen on another thread that Swingfields have had 400 enquiries already for next years event See...all publicity is good publicity. We have had a record number of hits on our website and Facebook page yesterday and today!! lol Pretty good all caused by one woman we will have to send her a thank you card" Send her a goody bag too with a few toys in | |||
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"Just seen on another thread that Swingfields have had 400 enquiries already for next years event See...all publicity is good publicity. We have had a record number of hits on our website and Facebook page yesterday and today!! lol " Now that is awesome! Shows how much interest there is in the scene lol | |||
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"How do you avoid the press from getting in next year as am sure they will all be looking to buy tickets if it's getting this much press now!! How many tickets will be available and will they be going on sale for 2016?xx" Having been this year we kinda agree with this. Not only that but control of phones and recording equipment on site needs to be sorted too because this year it wasn't so hot. And the drone that was flying around was that the organisers? Because if it was it would have been nice to have notice that a drone with a camera was going to be flying over the site. It was mentioned to us by more than one person. We have been rather concerned about our picture popping up in one of these news articles. It would make things very very awkward for us to say the least. We had a great time but do feel these issues need sorting for next year. | |||
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"A drone over the site?? Are you serious?! " Yes I am serious. We were told it was put up by the organisers to get ariel shots of the site. | |||
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"How do you avoid the press from getting in next year as am sure they will all be looking to buy tickets if it's getting this much press now!! How many tickets will be available and will they be going on sale for 2016?xx Having been this year we kinda agree with this. Not only that but control of phones and recording equipment on site needs to be sorted too because this year it wasn't so hot. And the drone that was flying around was that the organisers? Because if it was it would have been nice to have notice that a drone with a camera was going to be flying over the site. It was mentioned to us by more than one person. We have been rather concerned about our picture popping up in one of these news articles. It would make things very very awkward for us to say the least. We had a great time but do feel these issues need sorting for next year." I 100% agree we are very worried that our photo is going to be printed somewhere too. I've been on line looking every half hour or so to see what's been said or show next by the press. Last year it was very tight on phones etc etc. there must be a way to police who is purchasing tickets but I do understand it will be a mammoth task I just worry that maybe some people will be reluctant to come or put off because of all the press this year.xx | |||
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"Security were on the look out for people taking photos - I was talking to 2 attendees and looking at the media coverage online on their phone and we were approached by one member of the security team to check what we were doing - and I was clearly wearing a staff tshirt It's impossible to check what everyone on site is doing with a phone at all times - the vast majority of people were just checking texts/ fab/ facebook/ weather etc, so not doing anything 'wrong'. If people do see photos/ videos possibly being taken then please do inform a member of staff or security and it will be followed up at the time x " Is that the system that is going to be in place for next year? Because if it is we won't be going. This year that system did not work. I did see security ask two different people to delete videos or pictures. I also see at least 3 other people taking pictures and one taking video. And that was all in the entertainment area. I understand I could have gone to security but to be honest we were there to enjoy ourselves not police the event and if we see that many people how many were actually doing it?! If you allow them in you will not control them all. It is as simple as that. | |||
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"Security were on the look out for people taking photos - I was talking to 2 attendees and looking at the media coverage online on their phone and we were approached by one member of the security team to check what we were doing - and I was clearly wearing a staff tshirt It's impossible to check what everyone on site is doing with a phone at all times - the vast majority of people were just checking texts/ fab/ facebook/ weather etc, so not doing anything 'wrong'. If people do see photos/ videos possibly being taken then please do inform a member of staff or security and it will be followed up at the time x " I do understand that you can not be on top of all phones etc etc all the time it would be impossible. Most of the people were very respectful and understand of people's privacy witch is great. My mane concern now is that because the word had traveld far and wide how will the press be policed for next year. it would be very easy for them to purchase a ticket. Then there is a lot of very unhappy ppl and some jobless people may I addicted the press got in.xx | |||
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"A drone over the site?? Are you serious?! " The drone was ours and one of the security features. We clearly cannot vet people totally but it clearly states that purchasing a ticket confirms people are not press , if they purchase then under current press rules they will be breaking rules . The only "infiltration" this year appears to be when we stood the security team down on sunday morning and somebody got in so security for 2016 will work till last guests leave. We will be working to ensure youre all safe and protected xx | |||
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"Has the media interest put anyone off going again next year? This was our third Swingfields and is the first time there has ever been anything in the media. We will still be going to Swingfields 2016" So will we. If the public gets a kick out of seeing how we have our fun, that's fine by me. I see this as good PR for the lifestyle. The more public attention it gets, the more bored the public will get with the press coverage. And hopefully one day, the stigma associated with the lifestyle will be dead and buried. Carry on Swinging | |||
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" So will we. If the public gets a kick out of seeing how we have our fun, that's fine by me. I see this as good PR for the lifestyle. The more public attention it gets, the more bored the public will get with the press coverage. And hopefully one day, the stigma associated with the lifestyle will be dead and buried. Carry on Swinging " You'd think in the day and age of pride, America allowing same sex marriage and more liberal thinking that swinging would be more accepted. | |||
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"Errr shit! Metro have posted diffrent pics, And this one has reg in it! http://metro.co.uk/2015/07/06/500-swingers-turned-up-in-a-village-for-a-festival-over-the-weekend-5281835/ But the van is registered to my dad! Will there be a way press could trace back to him some how!!!!!" Thats not the best. Sorry to be the one to say but yes they can trace it back but am sure they would of by now if they were going to.x | |||
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"Has the media interest put anyone off going again next year? This was our third Swingfields and is the first time there has ever been anything in the media. We will still be going to Swingfields 2016 So will we. If the public gets a kick out of seeing how we have our fun, that's fine by me. I see this as good PR for the lifestyle. The more public attention it gets, the more bored the public will get with the press coverage. And hopefully one day, the stigma associated with the lifestyle will be dead and buried. Carry on Swinging " Many, many people's lives have been ruined after being outed as a Swinger by the Press. No matter how you think you may handle it, the reaction of family, friends, work colleagues and employers cannot be second guessed. It is a ridiculous situation that we now have gay marriage and 50 Shades of Gray as a bestseller yet Swinging still remains a great taboo. ridiculous really when the number one cause of marital breakdown is infidelity. | |||
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"Has the media interest put anyone off going again next year? This was our third Swingfields and is the first time there has ever been anything in the media. We will still be going to Swingfields 2016" It has put us off. We are who we are, we do what we do, the public should except it.... Only with some proffesions they don't and by it becoming common knowledge you put your business or your job on the line. We just can't afford to do that. | |||
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"Has the media interest put anyone off going again next year? This was our third Swingfields and is the first time there has ever been anything in the media. We will still be going to Swingfields 2016 It has put us off. We are who we are, we do what we do, the public should except it.... Only with some proffesions they don't and by it becoming common knowledge you put your business or your job on the line. We just can't afford to do that." I totally get were your coming from. Our business would suffer massive if we got found out. It is a sad state of affairs but swinging will never be socially except people just don't understand our lifestyle choice.xx | |||
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"Has the media interest put anyone off going again next year? This was our third Swingfields and is the first time there has ever been anything in the media. We will still be going to Swingfields 2016 It has put us off. We are who we are, we do what we do, the public should except it.... Only with some proffesions they don't and by it becoming common knowledge you put your business or your job on the line. We just can't afford to do that." We both work in the public sector and would both face losing our jobs if found out, me in particular. So it is now making me think rather than just buying tickets for next year. The actual story was on the local papers site and was on there Saturday night and its just been lifted from there and used by all the different news outlets. It's the addition of the photo's taken sunday morning from inside the camp that is really worrisome | |||
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"Has the media interest put anyone off going again next year? This was our third Swingfields and is the first time there has ever been anything in the media. We will still be going to Swingfields 2016 So will we. If the public gets a kick out of seeing how we have our fun, that's fine by me. I see this as good PR for the lifestyle. The more public attention it gets, the more bored the public will get with the press coverage. And hopefully one day, the stigma associated with the lifestyle will be dead and buried. Carry on Swinging " I agree. It will all be chip paper by the end of the week and from all accounts, the feedback has been 98% positive! Next year it would not gave the same impact to cover the story again. Even though it is still a taboo , the general public are really not that interested. YES , we will be back next year and yes it will be fantastic! Happy swinging xx | |||
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"Has the media interest put anyone off going again next year? This was our third Swingfields and is the first time there has ever been anything in the media. We will still be going to Swingfields 2016 So will we. If the public gets a kick out of seeing how we have our fun, that's fine by me. I see this as good PR for the lifestyle. The more public attention it gets, the more bored the public will get with the press coverage. And hopefully one day, the stigma associated with the lifestyle will be dead and buried. Carry on Swinging I agree. It will all be chip paper by the end of the week and from all accounts, the feedback has been 98% positive! Next year it would not gave the same impact to cover the story again. Even though it is still a taboo , the general public are really not that interested. YES , we will be back next year and yes it will be fantastic! Happy swinging xx" Fantastic x | |||
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"A drone over the site?? Are you serious?! The drone was ours and one of the security features. We clearly cannot vet people totally but it clearly states that purchasing a ticket confirms people are not press , if they purchase then under current press rules they will be breaking rules . The only "infiltration" this year appears to be when we stood the security team down on sunday morning and somebody got in so security for 2016 will work till last guests leave. We will be working to ensure youre all safe and protected xx" I think the easiest way to stop those who aren't 'real swingers' from purchasing tickets is to have a rule whereby you either A) Have been to Swingfields before. B) have had your profile for six months or more at the time of booking and are verified by meets or: C) if fairly new to the scene you need to have veris/recommendations from at least two couples/individuals are well know to the scene! I know that this would make the purchasing of tickets more drawn out but it would make people feel more secure I think? And if you decide to do something like that then I for one would be happy to give a few hours of my time to help - and I'm sure others would too! Next year as a precautionary measure I'll be taking along some cardboard or similar to cover my car number plates with! For the first time I wish my car wasn't bright green - but am I going next year? - HELL YEAH!!! And Effranata too - I'm on a roll!! | |||
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"We're also wary of booking because of the photo situation. It's not as bad for me if my car is photographed, my friends and some of my work colleagues know what I do. But my man is married and having his pic in a national newspaper is a massive problem. How do the team plan to prevent this? " We have a new location , pre booking requirements tightened, phones will no longer be allowed in camping area, we will look into providing lockers for valuables etc , security being overhauled etc etc more will be announced . Worth putting this into perspective however . There are other outdoor events for lifestylers this summer and i dont expect the press will bother , this was fueled by ONE resident and next year we will ask to council to check and confirm letters have gone out to residents, we will also visit them . The new site will be a lot better to secure xx | |||
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"We're also wary of booking because of the photo situation. It's not as bad for me if my car is photographed, my friends and some of my work colleagues know what I do. But my man is married and having his pic in a national newspaper is a massive problem. How do the team plan to prevent this? We have a new location , pre booking requirements tightened, phones will no longer be allowed in camping area, we will look into providing lockers for valuables etc , security being overhauled etc etc more will be announced . Worth putting this into perspective however . There are other outdoor events for lifestylers this summer and i dont expect the press will bother , this was fueled by ONE resident and next year we will ask to council to check and confirm letters have gone out to residents, we will also visit them . The new site will be a lot better to secure xx" Yes, it sounds great and one person complaining doesn't bother us, it's just ensuring that he doesn't get photographed without his permission. Thanks | |||
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"We have a new location , pre booking requirements tightened, phones will no longer be allowed in camping area, we will look into providing lockers for valuables etc , security being overhauled etc etc more will be announced . Worth putting this into perspective however . There are other outdoor events for lifestylers this summer and i dont expect the press will bother , this was fueled by ONE resident and next year we will ask to council to check and confirm letters have gone out to residents, we will also visit them . The new site will be a lot better to secure xx" And there you go folks, the response from the organisers shows their wholly professional attitude towards the privacy, discretion and above all, the enjoyment of their guests at Swingfields. Any outside event, whether a horse race meeting, football match, music festival or Swingfields will attract critics on the grounds of noise or disagreement with the activity of the event. We should all be mindful, and a little respectful of the fact that many people don't understand 'the lifestyle' and as a result jump to (usually incorrect) conclusions. There will always be NIMBY's, we just have to take steps to minimise their cause for complaint. We thoroughly enjoyed meeting such a diverse range of extremely friendly people at Swingfields and can't wait until next year! | |||
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"We're also wary of booking because of the photo situation. It's not as bad for me if my car is photographed, my friends and some of my work colleagues know what I do. But my man is married and having his pic in a national newspaper is a massive problem. How do the team plan to prevent this? We have a new location , pre booking requirements tightened, phones will no longer be allowed in camping area, we will look into providing lockers for valuables etc , security being overhauled etc etc more will be announced . Worth putting this into perspective however . There are other outdoor events for lifestylers this summer and i dont expect the press will bother , this was fueled by ONE resident and next year we will ask to council to check and confirm letters have gone out to residents, we will also visit them . The new site will be a lot better to secure xx" Sadly that's all it sounded like it boiled down to, one woman not amused and informed the press. Obviously Swingers won't be accepted by everyone so it probably isn't a surprise that someone wasn't happy and obviously the woman is entitled to speak out if it is upsetting her in some way but the only complaint was about the noise from the music ( which sounds like wasn't too high anyway ) then the Festival was a discreet affair. , Your changes for next year should hopefully make security tighter...Good Luck | |||
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"We're also wary of booking because of the photo situation. It's not as bad for me if my car is photographed, my friends and some of my work colleagues know what I do. But my man is married and having his pic in a national newspaper is a massive problem. How do the team plan to prevent this? We have a new location , pre booking requirements tightened, phones will no longer be allowed in camping area, we will look into providing lockers for valuables etc , security being overhauled etc etc more will be announced . Worth putting this into perspective however . There are other outdoor events for lifestylers this summer and i dont expect the press will bother , this was fueled by ONE resident and next year we will ask to council to check and confirm letters have gone out to residents, we will also visit them . The new site will be a lot better to secure xx Sadly that's all it sounded like it boiled down to, one woman not amused and informed the press. Obviously Swingers won't be accepted by everyone so it probably isn't a surprise that someone wasn't happy and obviously the woman is entitled to speak out if it is upsetting her in some way but the only complaint was about the noise from the music ( which sounds like wasn't too high anyway ) then the Festival was a discreet affair. , Your changes for next year should hopefully make security tighter...Good Luck " Thanks guys xx we have a few weeks rest now then get back to planning for 2016, we can simply assure guests we will make sure the event gets better and better and priority is to learn from this year x | |||
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"We're also wary of booking because of the photo situation. It's not as bad for me if my car is photographed, my friends and some of my work colleagues know what I do. But my man is married and having his pic in a national newspaper is a massive problem. How do the team plan to prevent this? We have a new location , pre booking requirements tightened, phones will no longer be allowed in camping area, we will look into providing lockers for valuables etc , security being overhauled etc etc more will be announced . Worth putting this into perspective however . There are other outdoor events for lifestylers this summer and i dont expect the press will bother , this was fueled by ONE resident and next year we will ask to council to check and confirm letters have gone out to residents, we will also visit them . The new site will be a lot better to secure xx Sadly that's all it sounded like it boiled down to, one woman not amused and informed the press. Obviously Swingers won't be accepted by everyone so it probably isn't a surprise that someone wasn't happy and obviously the woman is entitled to speak out if it is upsetting her in some way but the only complaint was about the noise from the music ( which sounds like wasn't too high anyway ) then the Festival was a discreet affair. , Your changes for next year should hopefully make security tighter...Good Luck Thanks guys xx we have a few weeks rest now then get back to planning for 2016, we can simply assure guests we will make sure the event gets better and better and priority is to learn from this year x " Very impressed with the prompt response and coming up with solutions to help stop the same thing happening next year re the pictures taken on the site. | |||
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"A drone over the site?? Are you serious?! The drone was ours and one of the security features. We clearly cannot vet people totally but it clearly states that purchasing a ticket confirms people are not press , if they purchase then under current press rules they will be breaking rules . The only "infiltration" this year appears to be when we stood the security team down on sunday morning and somebody got in so security for 2016 will work till last guests leave. We will be working to ensure youre all safe and protected xx I think the easiest way to stop those who aren't 'real swingers' from purchasing tickets is to have a rule whereby you either A) Have been to Swingfields before. B) have had your profile for six months or more at the time of booking and are verified by meets or: C) if fairly new to the scene you need to have veris/recommendations from at least two couples/individuals are well know to the scene! I know that this would make the purchasing of tickets more drawn out but it would make people feel more secure I think? And if you decide to do something like that then I for one would be happy to give a few hours of my time to help - and I'm sure others would too! Next year as a precautionary measure I'll be taking along some cardboard or similar to cover my car number plates with! For the first time I wish my car wasn't bright green - but am I going next year? - HELL YEAH!!! And Effranata too - I'm on a roll!! " The safety checks you mention are already in place and we vet everyone to the best of our ability. Next year will be less exciting for the press as they didn't get a great story this year. Most people commented on the fact that they had missed out !! Love it. Onwards and upwards for 2016 xx | |||
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"A drone over the site?? Are you serious?! The drone was ours and one of the security features. We clearly cannot vet people totally but it clearly states that purchasing a ticket confirms people are not press , if they purchase then under current press rules they will be breaking rules . The only "infiltration" this year appears to be when we stood the security team down on sunday morning and somebody got in so security for 2016 will work till last guests leave. We will be working to ensure youre all safe and protected xx I think the easiest way to stop those who aren't 'real swingers' from purchasing tickets is to have a rule whereby you either A) Have been to Swingfields before. B) have had your profile for six months or more at the time of booking and are verified by meets or: C) if fairly new to the scene you need to have veris/recommendations from at least two couples/individuals are well know to the scene! I know that this would make the purchasing of tickets more drawn out but it would make people feel more secure I think? And if you decide to do something like that then I for one would be happy to give a few hours of my time to help - and I'm sure others would too! Next year as a precautionary measure I'll be taking along some cardboard or similar to cover my car number plates with! For the first time I wish my car wasn't bright green - but am I going next year? - HELL YEAH!!! And Effranata too - I'm on a roll!! " and I'll be coming with you. Bring a few less suitcases next year tho haha. xx | |||
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"Just cut the wristband off. Till next year..." had to take mine off Monday morning because of work, was gutted xx | |||
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