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"What a daft question to ask so early on...." How do you know it is so early on? Has a date been announced..... | |||
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"Great, how many non white women going so far?" Interesting question, I was wondering if interracial was code for Black cock  | |||
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Lts of women kicking about eating the buffet. | |||
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"I went to one a couple of years ago at Tease 2 and most of the blokes didn't turn up Lts of women kicking about eating the buffet."This 
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"Great, how many non white women going so far? Interesting question, I was wondering if interracial was code for Black cock "I think most of the time it is now...... | |||
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"I went to one a couple of years ago at Tease 2 and most of the blokes didn't turn up Lts of women kicking about eating the buffet."What's the buffet like? | |||
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"Preferably a Saturday night and then count us in." Will be a Saturday night..... | |||
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"Great, how many non white women going so far? Interesting question, I was wondering if interracial was code for Black cock
I think most of the time it is now...... "Which is a shame because there are lots of sexy women of colour out there. | |||
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"Where is tease 2?" Alconbury PE28 4WD maybe a distance from you however there are rooms available ALL ensuite for £42 per night | |||
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"Thanks. Yeah that's probably to far for us. unless there's any bi black guys accommodating?! "As stated rooms onsite are available | |||
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"Interracial... aka no white men allowed." Because there's no black or mixed race women that swing??? | |||
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"Interracial... aka no white men allowed." Without turning this into a flame war, but in todays modern society should we really be even having a night such as this? or a BMFC, or any other reference to race? I totally get if you were someone who fits in that "category" you hardly going to complain that a promotion of ability to get your end away must be very appreciated, I equally understand that everyone has a taste that they find attractive, but that could be short people, tall, blond, brunnette, or someone with red heels on, as much as some people may not find that attractive.! But I thought by now, we no longer defined people by Race? Surely it should just be a party night, that anyone of creed/colour can attend, and if your attraction is black men, asian women, white women with red hair etc, hopefully each of those will be represented and everyone will be happy - but ultimately it be about is the person sexy, fun and friendly, regardless of their colour. I don't remember attending any club that excluded a particular colour, and thus required the need for a special night to accommodate them. We personally haven't had good experiences with certain single people, and neither generally find a particular attraction - sweeping statement maybe, but that said we've had two very excellent sessions with mixed race couples, who were very friendly and horny, but their race wasn't the attraction or desire, but because they were cool fun horny people, personally id be rather miffed if our only appeal was because I'm tall, and white - and nothing to do with our attitude to fun and sexy fun | |||
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"Interracial... aka no white men allowed. Because there's no black or mixed race women that swing??? "Well, I'm mixed raced bifem and definitely swing | |||
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"Without turning this into a flame war, but in todays modern society should we really be even having a night such as this? or a BMFC, or any other reference to race? I totally get if you were someone who fits in that "category" you hardly going to complain that a promotion of ability to get your end away must be very appreciated, I equally understand that everyone has a taste that they find attractive, but that could be short people, tall, blond, brunnette, or someone with red heels on, as much as some people may not find that attractive.! But I thought by now, we no longer defined people by Race? Surely it should just be a party night, that anyone of creed/colour can attend, and if your attraction is black men, asian women, white women with red hair etc, hopefully each of those will be represented and everyone will be happy - but ultimately it be about is the person sexy, fun and friendly, regardless of their colour. I don't remember attending any club that excluded a particular colour, and thus required the need for a special night to accommodate them. We personally haven't had good experiences with certain single people, and neither generally find a particular attraction - sweeping statement maybe, but that said we've had two very excellent sessions with mixed race couples, who were very friendly and horny, but their race wasn't the attraction or desire, but because they were cool fun horny people, personally id be rather miffed if our only appeal was because I'm tall, and white - and nothing to do with our attitude to fun and sexy fun" I am not here to defend the BMFC or the popularity of our community (and with 16000+ members i can assure you that there are many people who are attracted to Black guys for their own personal reasons) However i am astounded that you feel this way, yet your profile contradicts your comments above ''We are ideally looking for attractive, slim caucasian COUPLES who have had their profiles photo verified(unbelievable amount of single men trying to make us think they are a couple) of a similar age range, Who like having mutual inclusive fun. (We are not racist but just our physical preference for attraction - we still enjoy watching all naughty sexy people playing regardless of race)'' So in effect, you do NOT want single guys - so i assume you go to couples only parties? You prefer to interact with white couples, which are most certainly in the majority at any regular swingers party So, YOUR preferences are catered for at virtually every swingers club in the UK - why on earth cant other peoples preferences be catered for too? This is not a race issue - this is an issue about the minority wanting to have their preferences addressed 10 years ago when i organised my first BMFC Party, i was told that there wouldnt be enough interest, yet my figures prove otherwise 7 parties a month - 7 different venues across the UK - approx 500 guests attend a BMFC Party every month and 16000+ members of our community The issue now is that unlike several years ago, the scene is now saturated with interracial themed parties Everyone seems to want a bite of the Black cherry Preferences should be catered for - there are parties organised out there for BBWs. for people into all sorts of kinks (including Piss Noir - a very popular evening for people into water sports), for beautiful people, for people into Dance music, for newbies, for festival goers .. the list is endless Your idealistic views that every swingers club should have a range of guests for everyones preferences is not a true reflection of a normal night out ''Surely it should just be a party night, that anyone of creed/colour can attend, and if your attraction is black men, asian women, white women with red hair etc, hopefully each of those will be represented and everyone will be happy'' So, by not wanting Single Guys - you are supporting couples only parties By preferring to play with White people - well you wouldnt want to attend an interracial party anyway Good luck to anyone starting to host / organise any type of adult party - theyre hard work and time consuming | |||
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"Without turning this into a flame war, but in todays modern society should we really be even having a night such as this? or a BMFC, or any other reference to race? I totally get if you were someone who fits in that "category" you hardly going to complain that a promotion of ability to get your end away must be very appreciated, I equally understand that everyone has a taste that they find attractive, but that could be short people, tall, blond, brunnette, or someone with red heels on, as much as some people may not find that attractive.! But I thought by now, we no longer defined people by Race? Surely it should just be a party night, that anyone of creed/colour can attend, and if your attraction is black men, asian women, white women with red hair etc, hopefully each of those will be represented and everyone will be happy - but ultimately it be about is the person sexy, fun and friendly, regardless of their colour. I don't remember attending any club that excluded a particular colour, and thus required the need for a special night to accommodate them. We personally haven't had good experiences with certain single people, and neither generally find a particular attraction - sweeping statement maybe, but that said we've had two very excellent sessions with mixed race couples, who were very friendly and horny, but their race wasn't the attraction or desire, but because they were cool fun horny people, personally id be rather miffed if our only appeal was because I'm tall, and white - and nothing to do with our attitude to fun and sexy fun I am not here to defend the BMFC or the popularity of our community (and with 16000+ members i can assure you that there are many people who are attracted to Black guys for their own personal reasons) However i am astounded that you feel this way, yet your profile contradicts your comments above ''We are ideally looking for attractive, slim caucasian COUPLES who have had their profiles photo verified(unbelievable amount of single men trying to make us think they are a couple) of a similar age range, Who like having mutual inclusive fun. (We are not racist but just our physical preference for attraction - we still enjoy watching all naughty sexy people playing regardless of race)'' So in effect, you do NOT want single guys - so i assume you go to couples only parties? You prefer to interact with white couples, which are most certainly in the majority at any regular swingers party So, YOUR preferences are catered for at virtually every swingers club in the UK - why on earth cant other peoples preferences be catered for too? This is not a race issue - this is an issue about the minority wanting to have their preferences addressed 10 years ago when i organised my first BMFC Party, i was told that there wouldnt be enough interest, yet my figures prove otherwise 7 parties a month - 7 different venues across the UK - approx 500 guests attend a BMFC Party every month and 16000+ members of our community The issue now is that unlike several years ago, the scene is now saturated with interracial themed parties Everyone seems to want a bite of the Black cherry Preferences should be catered for - there are parties organised out there for BBWs. for people into all sorts of kinks (including Piss Noir - a very popular evening for people into water sports), for beautiful people, for people into Dance music, for newbies, for festival goers .. the list is endless Your idealistic views that every swingers club should have a range of guests for everyones preferences is not a true reflection of a normal night out ''Surely it should just be a party night, that anyone of creed/colour can attend, and if your attraction is black men, asian women, white women with red hair etc, hopefully each of those will be represented and everyone will be happy'' So, by not wanting Single Guys - you are supporting couples only parties By preferring to play with White people - well you wouldnt want to attend an interracial party anyway Good luck to anyone starting to host / organise any type of adult party - theyre hard work and time consuming " | |||
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"Without turning this into a flame war, but in todays modern society should we really be even having a night such as this? or a BMFC, or any other reference to race? I totally get if you were someone who fits in that "category" you hardly going to complain that a promotion of ability to get your end away must be very appreciated, I equally understand that everyone has a taste that they find attractive, but that could be short people, tall, blond, brunnette, or someone with red heels on, as much as some people may not find that attractive.! But I thought by now, we no longer defined people by Race? Surely it should just be a party night, that anyone of creed/colour can attend, and if your attraction is black men, asian women, white women with red hair etc, hopefully each of those will be represented and everyone will be happy - but ultimately it be about is the person sexy, fun and friendly, regardless of their colour. I don't remember attending any club that excluded a particular colour, and thus required the need for a special night to accommodate them. We personally haven't had good experiences with certain single people, and neither generally find a particular attraction - sweeping statement maybe, but that said we've had two very excellent sessions with mixed race couples, who were very friendly and horny, but their race wasn't the attraction or desire, but because they were cool fun horny people, personally id be rather miffed if our only appeal was because I'm tall, and white - and nothing to do with our attitude to fun and sexy fun I am not here to defend the BMFC or the popularity of our community (and with 16000+ members i can assure you that there are many people who are attracted to Black guys for their own personal reasons) However i am astounded that you feel this way, yet your profile contradicts your comments above ''We are ideally looking for attractive, slim caucasian COUPLES who have had their profiles photo verified(unbelievable amount of single men trying to make us think they are a couple) of a similar age range, Who like having mutual inclusive fun. (We are not racist but just our physical preference for attraction - we still enjoy watching all naughty sexy people playing regardless of race)'' So in effect, you do NOT want single guys - so i assume you go to couples only parties? You prefer to interact with white couples, which are most certainly in the majority at any regular swingers party So, YOUR preferences are catered for at virtually every swingers club in the UK - why on earth cant other peoples preferences be catered for too? This is not a race issue - this is an issue about the minority wanting to have their preferences addressed 10 years ago when i organised my first BMFC Party, i was told that there wouldnt be enough interest, yet my figures prove otherwise 7 parties a month - 7 different venues across the UK - approx 500 guests attend a BMFC Party every month and 16000+ members of our community The issue now is that unlike several years ago, the scene is now saturated with interracial themed parties Everyone seems to want a bite of the Black cherry Preferences should be catered for - there are parties organised out there for BBWs. for people into all sorts of kinks (including Piss Noir - a very popular evening for people into water sports), for beautiful people, for people into Dance music, for newbies, for festival goers .. the list is endless Your idealistic views that every swingers club should have a range of guests for everyones preferences is not a true reflection of a normal night out ''Surely it should just be a party night, that anyone of creed/colour can attend, and if your attraction is black men, asian women, white women with red hair etc, hopefully each of those will be represented and everyone will be happy'' So, by not wanting Single Guys - you are supporting couples only parties By preferring to play with White people - well you wouldnt want to attend an interracial party anyway Good luck to anyone starting to host / organise any type of adult party - theyre hard work and time consuming " "By preferring to play with White people - well you wouldnt want to attend an interracial party anyway" When we attend a club, I've yet to see any advertise white only(and if they did, they would be prosecuted), or brunettes only etc, and when we get there, there a whole mix of people, of all races and sexual orientations, so if our preference was for Short, tall, black, blue, green people there likely be there, so don't see a need to have a specific only night when it comes to race. The other examples you give are specific to a particular kink and don't exclude any race from taking part, a watersports party, could be attended by Black, white, etc. Singles vs couples again its specific to the kink and not race related, a couples only night again is any couple of any race. We do actually attend singles nights - but for our profile we have no desire to meet single men through fab, we play with single men adhoc at a club. Ive no argument with you about someones preferences, for attractions but basing a night on race only actually suggest racism rather than basing it on people having the fun they want regardless of creed/colour. While we continue to categorise someone by the colour of their skin, even when its in this case for positive reasons, we are still highlighting the difference based on that and not who they are, and reinforcing racism. Take a look at our verifications - mixed race couple, the session she talks about was with another mixed race couple(white girl/black male) that same night we also played with another mixed race couple. We liked them for who they were, found them sexy and attractive and nice people, but nothing to do with either of them being white or black. On the whole we find a certain type of person attractive, so with the 1000s of people on here we try to narrow that down for our profile, but in a club we open to whats fun, i'd be mortified to ever attend a club night that on arrival we found out it was a white night only, and would leave instantly. | |||
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"Without turning this into a flame war, but in todays modern society should we really be even having a night such as this? or a BMFC, or any other reference to race? I totally get if you were someone who fits in that "category" you hardly going to complain that a promotion of ability to get your end away must be very appreciated, I equally understand that everyone has a taste that they find attractive, but that could be short people, tall, blond, brunnette, or someone with red heels on, as much as some people may not find that attractive.! But I thought by now, we no longer defined people by Race? Surely it should just be a party night, that anyone of creed/colour can attend, and if your attraction is black men, asian women, white women with red hair etc, hopefully each of those will be represented and everyone will be happy - but ultimately it be about is the person sexy, fun and friendly, regardless of their colour. I don't remember attending any club that excluded a particular colour, and thus required the need for a special night to accommodate them. We personally haven't had good experiences with certain single people, and neither generally find a particular attraction - sweeping statement maybe, but that said we've had two very excellent sessions with mixed race couples, who were very friendly and horny, but their race wasn't the attraction or desire, but because they were cool fun horny people, personally id be rather miffed if our only appeal was because I'm tall, and white - and nothing to do with our attitude to fun and sexy fun I am not here to defend the BMFC or the popularity of our community (and with 16000+ members i can assure you that there are many people who are attracted to Black guys for their own personal reasons) However i am astounded that you feel this way, yet your profile contradicts your comments above ''We are ideally looking for attractive, slim caucasian COUPLES who have had their profiles photo verified(unbelievable amount of single men trying to make us think they are a couple) of a similar age range, Who like having mutual inclusive fun. (We are not racist but just our physical preference for attraction - we still enjoy watching all naughty sexy people playing regardless of race)'' So in effect, you do NOT want single guys - so i assume you go to couples only parties? You prefer to interact with white couples, which are most certainly in the majority at any regular swingers party So, YOUR preferences are catered for at virtually every swingers club in the UK - why on earth cant other peoples preferences be catered for too? This is not a race issue - this is an issue about the minority wanting to have their preferences addressed 10 years ago when i organised my first BMFC Party, i was told that there wouldnt be enough interest, yet my figures prove otherwise 7 parties a month - 7 different venues across the UK - approx 500 guests attend a BMFC Party every month and 16000+ members of our community The issue now is that unlike several years ago, the scene is now saturated with interracial themed parties Everyone seems to want a bite of the Black cherry Preferences should be catered for - there are parties organised out there for BBWs. for people into all sorts of kinks (including Piss Noir - a very popular evening for people into water sports), for beautiful people, for people into Dance music, for newbies, for festival goers .. the list is endless Your idealistic views that every swingers club should have a range of guests for everyones preferences is not a true reflection of a normal night out ''Surely it should just be a party night, that anyone of creed/colour can attend, and if your attraction is black men, asian women, white women with red hair etc, hopefully each of those will be represented and everyone will be happy'' So, by not wanting Single Guys - you are supporting couples only parties By preferring to play with White people - well you wouldnt want to attend an interracial party anyway Good luck to anyone starting to host / organise any type of adult party - theyre hard work and time consuming "By preferring to play with White people - well you wouldnt want to attend an interracial party anyway" When we attend a club, I've yet to see any advertise white only(and if they did, they would be prosecuted), or brunettes only etc, and when we get there, there a whole mix of people, of all races and sexual orientations, so if our preference was for Short, tall, black, blue, green people there likely be there, so don't see a need to have a specific only night when it comes to race. The other examples you give are specific to a particular kink and don't exclude any race from taking part, a watersports party, could be attended by Black, white, etc. Singles vs couples again its specific to the kink and not race related, a couples only night again is any couple of any race. We do actually attend singles nights - but for our profile we have no desire to meet single men through fab, we play with single men adhoc at a club. Ive no argument with you about someones preferences, for attractions but basing a night on race only actually suggest racism rather than basing it on people having the fun they want regardless of creed/colour. While we continue to categorise someone by the colour of their skin, even when its in this case for positive reasons, we are still highlighting the difference based on that and not who they are, and reinforcing racism. Take a look at our verifications - mixed race couple, the session she talks about was with another mixed race couple(white girl/black male) that same night we also played with another mixed race couple. We liked them for who they were, found them sexy and attractive and nice people, but nothing to do with either of them being white or black. On the whole we find a certain type of person attractive, so with the 1000s of people on here we try to narrow that down for our profile, but in a club we open to whats fun, i'd be mortified to ever attend a club night that on arrival we found out it was a white night only, and would leave instantly. " And this is the problem with commenting on something you have no knowledge of or experience of .. Read my profile or take time or to read the BMFC website and you will see clearly, that we state 'admission will never be refused based on the colour of someones skin ..' Take time out to read my verifications and our club reviews and you will see that we DO get single non Black guys in attendance So, your suggestion that they are NOT for white guys, is incorrect! | |||
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"Without turning this into a flame war, but in todays modern society should we really be even having a night such as this? or a BMFC, or any other reference to race? I totally get if you were someone who fits in that "category" you hardly going to complain that a promotion of ability to get your end away must be very appreciated, I equally understand that everyone has a taste that they find attractive, but that could be short people, tall, blond, brunnette, or someone with red heels on, as much as some people may not find that attractive.! But I thought by now, we no longer defined people by Race? Surely it should just be a party night, that anyone of creed/colour can attend, and if your attraction is black men, asian women, white women with red hair etc, hopefully each of those will be represented and everyone will be happy - but ultimately it be about is the person sexy, fun and friendly, regardless of their colour. I don't remember attending any club that excluded a particular colour, and thus required the need for a special night to accommodate them. We personally haven't had good experiences with certain single people, and neither generally find a particular attraction - sweeping statement maybe, but that said we've had two very excellent sessions with mixed race couples, who were very friendly and horny, but their race wasn't the attraction or desire, but because they were cool fun horny people, personally id be rather miffed if our only appeal was because I'm tall, and white - and nothing to do with our attitude to fun and sexy fun I am not here to defend the BMFC or the popularity of our community (and with 16000+ members i can assure you that there are many people who are attracted to Black guys for their own personal reasons) However i am astounded that you feel this way, yet your profile contradicts your comments above ''We are ideally looking for attractive, slim caucasian COUPLES who have had their profiles photo verified(unbelievable amount of single men trying to make us think they are a couple) of a similar age range, Who like having mutual inclusive fun. (We are not racist but just our physical preference for attraction - we still enjoy watching all naughty sexy people playing regardless of race)'' So in effect, you do NOT want single guys - so i assume you go to couples only parties? You prefer to interact with white couples, which are most certainly in the majority at any regular swingers party So, YOUR preferences are catered for at virtually every swingers club in the UK - why on earth cant other peoples preferences be catered for too? This is not a race issue - this is an issue about the minority wanting to have their preferences addressed 10 years ago when i organised my first BMFC Party, i was told that there wouldnt be enough interest, yet my figures prove otherwise 7 parties a month - 7 different venues across the UK - approx 500 guests attend a BMFC Party every month and 16000+ members of our community The issue now is that unlike several years ago, the scene is now saturated with interracial themed parties Everyone seems to want a bite of the Black cherry Preferences should be catered for - there are parties organised out there for BBWs. for people into all sorts of kinks (including Piss Noir - a very popular evening for people into water sports), for beautiful people, for people into Dance music, for newbies, for festival goers .. the list is endless Your idealistic views that every swingers club should have a range of guests for everyones preferences is not a true reflection of a normal night out ''Surely it should just be a party night, that anyone of creed/colour can attend, and if your attraction is black men, asian women, white women with red hair etc, hopefully each of those will be represented and everyone will be happy'' So, by not wanting Single Guys - you are supporting couples only parties By preferring to play with White people - well you wouldnt want to attend an interracial party anyway Good luck to anyone starting to host / organise any type of adult party - theyre hard work and time consuming "By preferring to play with White people - well you wouldnt want to attend an interracial party anyway" When we attend a club, I've yet to see any advertise white only(and if they did, they would be prosecuted), or brunettes only etc, and when we get there, there a whole mix of people, of all races and sexual orientations, so if our preference was for Short, tall, black, blue, green people there likely be there, so don't see a need to have a specific only night when it comes to race. The other examples you give are specific to a particular kink and don't exclude any race from taking part, a watersports party, could be attended by Black, white, etc. Singles vs couples again its specific to the kink and not race related, a couples only night again is any couple of any race. We do actually attend singles nights - but for our profile we have no desire to meet single men through fab, we play with single men adhoc at a club. Ive no argument with you about someones preferences, for attractions but basing a night on race only actually suggest racism rather than basing it on people having the fun they want regardless of creed/colour. While we continue to categorise someone by the colour of their skin, even when its in this case for positive reasons, we are still highlighting the difference based on that and not who they are, and reinforcing racism. Take a look at our verifications - mixed race couple, the session she talks about was with another mixed race couple(white girl/black male) that same night we also played with another mixed race couple. We liked them for who they were, found them sexy and attractive and nice people, but nothing to do with either of them being white or black. On the whole we find a certain type of person attractive, so with the 1000s of people on here we try to narrow that down for our profile, but in a club we open to whats fun, i'd be mortified to ever attend a club night that on arrival we found out it was a white night only, and would leave instantly. And this is the problem with commenting on something you have no knowledge of or experience of .. Read my profile or take time or to read the BMFC website and you will see clearly, that we state 'admission will never be refused based on the colour of someones skin ..' Take time out to read my verifications and our club reviews and you will see that we DO get single non Black guys in attendance So, your suggestion that they are NOT for white guys, is incorrect! " | |||
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"Personally I am not sure anyone who says they will only meet caucasians has a grounds for criticising interracial parties. One of the reasons when I was younger I stopped going to predominantly white night clubs was because white women would not dance with black men. Generally there were no black women to ask. Even with the very few that would dance it would be a dance to one song and no chance of romance. Also the music was rubbish. So I stuck to black clubs good music, and women who enjoyed dancing with you even if it did not lead to anyrhing and funny enough there were more black women there. In my mind it is very similar with swinging parties. In the open parties, a few white people will chat with you but there are very few will play with you. There of course clubs that are the exception. Whereas at the interracial parties there is good music, a lot more socialising and more possibility of play. It is only a possibility of play because surprisingly to many of the critics the women or couples also have to like a guy to play. They are not all greedy and bed you just because you are black." Good post. And reminded me of my younger/80s nightclubbing days | |||
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"Wow this thread went the wrong way  "It so often does when people hijack threads and try to insinuate that interracial parties are racist .... Ignorance breeds contempt ..... I had no intentions of getting involved in this topic that is until someone accuses me of being racist!! I will say it again 'Good luck to anyone arranging adult parties - theyre hard enough to organise without having to justify your preferences to all and sundry on here | |||
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"Personally I am not sure anyone who says they will only meet caucasians has a grounds for criticising interracial parties. One of the reasons when I was younger I stopped going to predominantly white night clubs was because white women would not dance with black men. Generally there were no black women to ask. Even with the very few that would dance it would be a dance to one song and no chance of romance. Also the music was rubbish. So I stuck to black clubs good music, and women who enjoyed dancing with you even if it did not lead to anyrhing and funny enough there were more black women there. In my mind it is very similar with swinging parties. In the open parties, a few white people will chat with you but there are very few will play with you. There of course clubs that are the exception. Whereas at the interracial parties there is good music, a lot more socialising and more possibility of play. It is only a possibility of play because surprisingly to many of the critics the women or couples also have to like a guy to play. They are not all greedy and bed you just because you are black. Good post. And reminded me of my younger/80s nightclubbing days" I wish I had made it up to Nottingham to rave! | |||
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"Personally I am not sure anyone who says they will only meet caucasians has a grounds for criticising interracial parties. One of the reasons when I was younger I stopped going to predominantly white night clubs was because white women would not dance with black men. Generally there were no black women to ask. Even with the very few that would dance it would be a dance to one song and no chance of romance. Also the music was rubbish. So I stuck to black clubs good music, and women who enjoyed dancing with you even if it did not lead to anyrhing and funny enough there were more black women there. In my mind it is very similar with swinging parties. In the open parties, a few white people will chat with you but there are very few will play with you. There of course clubs that are the exception. Whereas at the interracial parties there is good music, a lot more socialising and more possibility of play. It is only a possibility of play because surprisingly to many of the critics the women or couples also have to like a guy to play. They are not all greedy and bed you just because you are black. Good post. And reminded me of my younger/80s nightclubbing days I wish I had made it up to Nottingham to rave!" Ahh, Nottingham had the best scene! Feeling so nostalgic now. We have good live music venues cum trendy wine bars/eateries - not the same though. The 80s were the last of that kind of 'fresh and new, rebellious yet innocent' vibe we saw across music and culture. I still have loads of old cassettes - my son leaves the room if I put them on  | |||
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"Personally I am not sure anyone who says they will only meet caucasians has a grounds for criticising interracial parties. One of the reasons when I was younger I stopped going to predominantly white night clubs was because white women would not dance with black men. Generally there were no black women to ask. Even with the very few that would dance it would be a dance to one song and no chance of romance. Also the music was rubbish. So I stuck to black clubs good music, and women who enjoyed dancing with you even if it did not lead to anyrhing and funny enough there were more black women there. In my mind it is very similar with swinging parties. In the open parties, a few white people will chat with you but there are very few will play with you. There of course clubs that are the exception. Whereas at the interracial parties there is good music, a lot more socialising and more possibility of play. It is only a possibility of play because surprisingly to many of the critics the women or couples also have to like a guy to play. They are not all greedy and bed you just because you are black. Good post. And reminded me of my younger/80s nightclubbing days I wish I had made it up to Nottingham to rave! Ahh, Nottingham had the best scene! Feeling so nostalgic now. We have good live music venues cum trendy wine bars/eateries - not the same though. The 80s were the last of that kind of 'fresh and new, rebellious yet innocent' vibe we saw across music and culture. I still have loads of old cassettes - my son leaves the room if I put them on "Caught the end of the 80s more of a 90s person but Nottingham always had good rep. I was more of a Londoner, Gossips with Rodigan and a young Tim Westwood! Trevor Nelson at Swiss House. I have inherited my older brother's cassettes lol. Maybe the interracial night should be 80s and 90s soul and dance music with some 70s lovers rock. Heaven! | |||
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"Personally I am not sure anyone who says they will only meet caucasians has a grounds for criticising interracial parties. One of the reasons when I was younger I stopped going to predominantly white night clubs was because white women would not dance with black men. Generally there were no black women to ask. Even with the very few that would dance it would be a dance to one song and no chance of romance. Also the music was rubbish. So I stuck to black clubs good music, and women who enjoyed dancing with you even if it did not lead to anyrhing and funny enough there were more black women there. In my mind it is very similar with swinging parties. In the open parties, a few white people will chat with you but there are very few will play with you. There of course clubs that are the exception. Whereas at the interracial parties there is good music, a lot more socialising and more possibility of play. It is only a possibility of play because surprisingly to many of the critics the women or couples also have to like a guy to play. They are not all greedy and bed you just because you are black. Good post. And reminded me of my younger/80s nightclubbing days I wish I had made it up to Nottingham to rave! Ahh, Nottingham had the best scene! Feeling so nostalgic now. We have good live music venues cum trendy wine bars/eateries - not the same though. The 80s were the last of that kind of 'fresh and new, rebellious yet innocent' vibe we saw across music and culture. I still have loads of old cassettes - my son leaves the room if I put them on
Caught the end of the 80s more of a 90s person but Nottingham always had good rep. I was more of a Londoner, Gossips with Rodigan and a young Tim Westwood! Trevor Nelson at Swiss House. I have inherited my older brother's cassettes lol.
Maybe the interracial night should be 80s and 90s soul and dance music with some 70s lovers rock. Heaven!" yes Rodigan! Still going strong - had a tweet from him a few months back - I asked him something utterly banal, just to see if he'd reply. He did, with an equally banal answer haha.
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" Maybe the interracial night should be 80s and 90s soul and dance music with some 70s lovers rock. Heaven!" Lol - And what music do you hear at a BMFC Party OZZZ??? ... All of the above and THEN some!!! | |||
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" Maybe the interracial night should be 80s and 90s soul and dance music with some 70s lovers rock. Heaven! Lol - And what music do you hear at a BMFC Party OZZZ??? ... All of the above and THEN some!!!" The music, the organisation and organisers, and the company are excellent at BMFC and I have always had great fun at BMFC and recommend it without hesitation. The music policy was a suggestion for the Tease 2 interracial organisers who may try to serve up more commercial music.lol | |||
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" Maybe the interracial night should be 80s and 90s soul and dance music with some 70s lovers rock. Heaven! Lol - And what music do you hear at a BMFC Party OZZZ??? ... All of the above and THEN some!!! The music, the organisation and organisers, and the company are excellent at BMFC and I have always had great fun at BMFC and recommend it without hesitation. The music policy was a suggestion for the Tease 2 interracial organisers who may try to serve up more commercial music.lol" Sorry - thought your comment was aimed at IR parties in general ... Steps out of the discussion with my head hung low  | |||
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" Maybe the interracial night should be 80s and 90s soul and dance music with some 70s lovers rock. Heaven! Lol - And what music do you hear at a BMFC Party OZZZ??? ... All of the above and THEN some!!! The music, the organisation and organisers, and the company are excellent at BMFC and I have always had great fun at BMFC and recommend it without hesitation. The music policy was a suggestion for the Tease 2 interracial organisers who may try to serve up more commercial music.lol Sorry - thought your comment was aimed at IR parties in general ... Steps out of the discussion with my head hung low "Lol for all what you do you know you can hold your head up. | |||
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"Personally I am not sure anyone who says they will only meet caucasians has a grounds for criticising interracial parties. One of the reasons when I was younger I stopped going to predominantly white night clubs was because white women would not dance with black men. Generally there were no black women to ask. Even with the very few that would dance it would be a dance to one song and no chance of romance. Also the music was rubbish. So I stuck to black clubs good music, and women who enjoyed dancing with you even if it did not lead to anyrhing and funny enough there were more black women there. In my mind it is very similar with swinging parties. In the open parties, a few white people will chat with you but there are very few will play with you. There of course clubs that are the exception. Whereas at the interracial parties there is good music, a lot more socialising and more possibility of play. It is only a possibility of play because surprisingly to many of the critics the women or couples also have to like a guy to play. They are not all greedy and bed you just because you are black. Good post. And reminded me of my younger/80s nightclubbing days I wish I had made it up to Nottingham to rave! Ahh, Nottingham had the best scene! Feeling so nostalgic now. We have good live music venues cum trendy wine bars/eateries - not the same though. The 80s were the last of that kind of 'fresh and new, rebellious yet innocent' vibe we saw across music and culture. I still have loads of old cassettes - my son leaves the room if I put them on
Caught the end of the 80s more of a 90s person but Nottingham always had good rep. I was more of a Londoner, Gossips with Rodigan and a young Tim Westwood! Trevor Nelson at Swiss House. I have inherited my older brother's cassettes lol.
Maybe the interracial night should be 80s and 90s soul and dance music with some 70s lovers rock. Heaven!
yes Rodigan! Still going strong - had a tweet from him a few months back - I asked him something utterly banal, just to see if he'd reply. He did, with an equally banal answer haha.
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