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"they let ladies in for free and most dont want to play what a waste of time "Your not paying for sex .... And we have played with plenty of single ladies at chams. But even on the days that no couples or singles take our fancy. We enjoy a chill, and each other ... Either way its a win win | |||
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"Happens at all clubs and with couples and single guys too, apart from the getting in free bit of course! Just because they`re in a swinger`s club doesn`t mean they have to shag anyone! "  | |||
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"they let ladies in for free and most dont want to play what a waste of time
Your not paying for sex .... And we have played with plenty of single ladies at chams. But even on the days that no couples or singles take our fancy. We enjoy a chill, and each other ... Either way its a win win " | |||
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"they let ladies in for free and most dont want to play what a waste of time "That's bullshit, I've played with men/women and couples in chams, maybe you're just not what they want? | |||
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"According to your profile you are only looking for men anyway? I've had some great nights at chams, with gents and ladies alike. Maybe your SHOUTY profile puts them off?" I looked after seeing your reply. I think shouty doesn't quite say it strong enough. Op if your attitude mirrors your profile there is your answer. And going off this message alone I believe it does. | |||
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"they let ladies in for free and most dont want to play what a waste of time "Oh boo hoo. a) its not free for single women b) try being a single woman there. Couples are much more successful so you must be doing something wrong. | |||
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"I sometimes go to chams as a single woman. Does this mean I'm obliged to play with anyone that asks just because I didn't pay an entry fee??!! "That'd be great if you would please  lol | |||
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"Anyone going today??? Totally up for playing!!" Hoping to get to Chams this afternoon for a few hours... Looking forward to the jacuzzi! | |||
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"they let ladies in for free and most dont want to play what a waste of time "?? Last time I went had lots of women come on to me and I am straight so it was a no...some were fine...some were offended... As someone else has said you don't HAVE to play with anyone...or justify why you don't want to play... | |||
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"Do you know why chams gets a lot of single ladies? Because the staff treat us like people. Not free hookers, not performing monkeys. Like people. I find you moaning about a gender not playing as about offensive as someone being racist or homophobic. I would take your argument seriously if you aimed your comments at none players in clubs in general. " | |||
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"Do you know why chams gets a lot of single ladies? Because the staff treat us like people. Not free hookers, not performing monkeys. Like people. I find you moaning about a gender not playing as about offensive as someone being racist or homophobic. I would take your argument seriously if you aimed your comments at none players in clubs in general. " But you play the symbols so well Adrestria. | |||
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"they let ladies in for free and most dont want to play what a waste of time "It's not free though. It's £8. Granted it's cheaper than couples and single guys but not free. As for them not playing...they are not obliged to. | |||
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"As a couple we have found everyone to be very pleasant at chams. Every one is very friendly and we have played with single ladies and couples. Only problem we have is how to ask a couple or single lady if they would like to play. We're not very forward at that. " Just don't go up and put your hand straight on their private parts as one woman did to me... Was in the cinema with my FB watching the screen... Put hand and said no thanks... Would have done the same if it was a guy I didn't want to play with... She got offended and was mouthing off in the couples changing room... | |||
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"they let ladies in for free and most dont want to play what a waste of time
It's not free though. It's £8. Granted it's cheaper than couples and single guys but not free.
As for them not playing...they are not obliged to. "I know they say £8 but they've been letting single women in for free for months - I've never paid as single. | |||
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"Do you know why chams gets a lot of single ladies? Because the staff treat us like people. Not free hookers, not performing monkeys. Like people. I find you moaning about a gender not playing as about offensive as someone being racist or homophobic. I would take your argument seriously if you aimed your comments at none players in clubs in general. But you play the symbols so well Adrestria." Calling me a monkey Mr Fluke? | |||
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"Do you know why chams gets a lot of single ladies? Because the staff treat us like people. Not free hookers, not performing monkeys. Like people. I find you moaning about a gender not playing as about offensive as someone being racist or homophobic. I would take your argument seriously if you aimed your comments at none players in clubs in general. " | |||
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"they let ladies in for free and most dont want to play what a waste of time
It's not free though. It's £8. Granted it's cheaper than couples and single guys but not free.
As for them not playing...they are not obliged to.
I know they say £8 but they've been letting single women in for free for months - I've never paid as single. "Oh....I haven't been as a single woman for a while now. Always paid when I went though. Even still....there is no obligation for anyone to play regardless of entry costs. | |||
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"Ha we had one single male just stare at us and shake his cock at us. Apprently laughing at him was not the correct thing to do." I shall be in Chams tonight in my blue speedos but won't be doing any cock waving lol x | |||
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"they let ladies in for free and most dont want to play what a waste of time "I don't understand why not, you come across as a barrel of laughs in your profile.  | |||
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"they let ladies in for free and most dont want to play what a waste of time
I don't understand why not, you come across as a barrel of laughs in your profile. " | |||
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"they let ladies in for free and most dont want to play what a waste of time
I don't understand why not, you come across as a barrel of laughs in your profile. " | |||
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"they let ladies in for free and most dont want to play what a waste of time
It's not free though. It's £8. Granted it's cheaper than couples and single guys but not free.
As for them not playing...they are not obliged to.
I know they say £8 but they've been letting single women in for free for months - I've never paid as single.
Oh....I haven't been as a single woman for a while now. Always paid when I went though.
Even still....there is no obligation for anyone to play regardless of entry costs. ". I completely agree - I'm really offended by the suggestion that anyone - single or in a couple - is expected to participate just because they are at a club. I've had some amazing nights at chams both social and naughty. | |||
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"As a couple we have found everyone to be very pleasant at chams. Every one is very friendly and we have played with single ladies and couples. Only problem we have is how to ask a couple or single lady if they would like to play. We're not very forward at that. " We are very much the same  | |||
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"yes i agree i dont think anyone goes to swinging clubs to just shag anyone i would not do that myself thats why i have a shouty profile to keep the idiots away but some ladies just get in free and they are not swingers and yes there are some lovely ladies at chams and some lovely people there too but some right rude people too " I'm one of those people that you would probably say isn't a swinger because I don't play every night I go there, I don't feel like I should have to, especially not to please someone who is judgemental and narrow minded like you. | |||
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"Do you know why chams gets a lot of single ladies? Because the staff treat us like people. Not free hookers, not performing monkeys. Like people. I find you moaning about a gender not playing as about offensive as someone being racist or homophobic. I would take your argument seriously if you aimed your comments at none players in clubs in general. " | |||
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"Ha we had one single male just stare at us and shake his cock at us. Apprently laughing at him was not the correct thing to do." That is funny...but at least he didn't touch you without asking...those are the rules in the club...but because it was a woman she felt entitled to do...much the same as the OP thinks they are entitled to play with the single women there... | |||
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unless you're stalking them around the place how do you know.
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"they let ladies in for free and most dont want to play what a waste of time "I play when I go in just not with couples you sure they don't play or maybe they just don't want to play with you | |||
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"Chams is a great club with great staff. Mark, Tammy, Zoe et al are all great and make the place the welcoming, sociable and fun club that I have trouble staying away from. In terms of playing, be it with single ladies or couples, I go in hope not expectation and often have great nights meeting new people and hardly playing at all. No-one, male or female, single or in a couple should expect or be expected to play just because they are in the club A combination of respect, consideration, friendliness and humour tends to the best way to a good night, not only in terms of making friends but also in terms of likelihood of being asked to play. " | |||
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"As a couple we have found everyone to be very pleasant at chams. Every one is very friendly and we have played with single ladies and couples. Only problem we have is how to ask a couple or single lady if they would like to play. We're not very forward at that. Just don't go up and put your hand straight on their private parts as one woman did to me... Was in the cinema with my FB watching the screen... Put hand and said no thanks... Would have done the same if it was a guy I didn't want to play with... She got offended and was mouthing off in the couples changing room..." What was she mouthing off about?! How rude! Hope you told staff about her. | |||
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"As a couple we have found everyone to be very pleasant at chams. Every one is very friendly and we have played with single ladies and couples. Only problem we have is how to ask a couple or single lady if they would like to play. We're not very forward at that. " Get chatting n then ask lol...I prefer someone to indicate they want to play as prefer that than guess work...its time wasted we could be playing lol | |||
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"they let ladies in for free and most dont want to play what a waste of time "Maybe they just don't want to play with you! | |||
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"Still trying to ascertain OP's purpose of this thread " Moaning single women don't put out at chams and spend too much time socialising | |||
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" Calling me a monkey Mr Fluke?" Would not dare Adrestria I'd be to scared. | |||
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" Calling me a monkey Mr Fluke? Would not dare Adrestria I'd be to scared." Damn right | |||
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"As a couple we have found everyone to be very pleasant at chams. Every one is very friendly and we have played with single ladies and couples. Only problem we have is how to ask a couple or single lady if they would like to play. We're not very forward at that. Just don't go up and put your hand straight on their private parts as one woman did to me... Was in the cinema with my FB watching the screen... Put hand and said no thanks... Would have done the same if it was a guy I didn't want to play with... She got offended and was mouthing off in the couples changing room... What was she mouthing off about?! How rude! Hope you told staff about her. " FB told me I was being over reactive!...I would have reported her as soon as she put her hand on me without asking....(as that is the rules of the club)...a male that did that would have been  ...but because I didn't want to cause a scene and ruin the night I just let it go...
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"Still trying to ascertain OP's purpose of this thread Moaning single women don't put out at chams and spend too much time socialising " Gosh...heaven forbid they just want to socialise lol | |||
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