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what is the ettiquette for couples at greedy girls?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Wonder if fellow fabbers might have some advice for me - not been to a greedy girls night yet but am very tempted. We always attend clubs together - my husband is happy to watch me have fun with others and joins in when the mood takes him. I understand how we can get talking to one or two men in the club bar area and then we can move into the play area and start getting it on - but what happens if bystander men want to join in and one of us don't want them to - does a shake of the head work on greedy girl night? or a "no" from hubby? how can I communicate when my mouth is full? "no you can't fuck me but yes I would love you see you wank over my tits" is what I would probably want to say.

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By *jandjbCouple
over a year ago

Nr Manchester

We understand from friends that it helps greatly if hubby is with you acting as your "policeman " including checking that condoms are being used for penetrative sex - assuming you play safe. If the lady prefers men to use non-latex condoms hubby can dole them out and make sure the right ones are used.

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By *lovisMan
over a year ago

Twickenham


"Wonder if fellow fabbers might have some advice for me - not been to a greedy girls night yet but am very tempted. We always attend clubs together - my husband is happy to watch me have fun with others and joins in when the mood takes him. I understand how we can get talking to one or two men in the club bar area and then we can move into the play area and start getting it on - but what happens if bystander men want to join in and one of us don't want them to - does a shake of the head work on greedy girl night? or a "no" from hubby? how can I communicate when my mouth is full? "no you can't fuck me but yes I would love you see you wank over my tits" is what I would probably want to say. "

There should be an international sign language for playing - would make things easier, though I guess pointing at a man, making a wanking motion with you hand, pointing at your tits and giving the thumbs up will suffice - except for the fact it might be difficult with a mouthful of cock.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol

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By *ilver FoxMan
over a year ago

Manchester


" ....but what happens if bystander men want to join in and one of us don't want them to - does a shake of the head work on greedy girl night? or a "no" from hubby? how can I communicate when my mouth is full? "no you can't fuck me but yes I would love you see you wank over my tits" is what I would probably want to say. "

If you don't want someone to join in, one of you should say so, politely but firmly.

A friend once put sticky labels on the chests of guys she was happy to play with. It was all done in a relaxed and jokey way, but the message was loud and clear - no label; no play.

Maybe you could use different coloured labels - one for "yes you can shag me", another for "feel free to wank over me" and a third for "I wouldn't touch you with a barge pole".

Seriously, I used to work in a club and was asked several times to be a greedy girl's chaperone to ensure the guys played by the girls' rules.

As always in swinging, the girl rules so you mustn't do anything/anyone you don't want to.

SFxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Wonder if fellow fabbers might have some advice for me - not been to a greedy girls night yet but am very tempted. We always attend clubs together - my husband is happy to watch me have fun with others and joins in when the mood takes him. I understand how we can get talking to one or two men in the club bar area and then we can move into the play area and start getting it on - but what happens if bystander men want to join in and one of us don't want them to - does a shake of the head work on greedy girl night? or a "no" from hubby? how can I communicate when my mouth is full? "no you can't fuck me but yes I would love you see you wank over my tits" is what I would probably want to say.

There should be an international sign language for playing - would make things easier, though I guess pointing at a man, making a wanking motion with you hand, pointing at your tits and giving the thumbs up will suffice - except for the fact it might be difficult with a mouthful of cock."

Go on - give us a demo please! M x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One club I went to had an appointed gangbang monitor.

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By *ongton loversCouple
over a year ago

stokeontrent

My partner always stands watch to make sure of who I want play with condoms ect but to be honest I find the guys at greedy girls very respectful especially at the attic derby

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By *ilacWoman
over a year ago

Cheshire


"Wonder if fellow fabbers might have some advice for me - not been to a greedy girls night yet but am very tempted. We always attend clubs together - my husband is happy to watch me have fun with others and joins in when the mood takes him. I understand how we can get talking to one or two men in the club bar area and then we can move into the play area and start getting it on - but what happens if bystander men want to join in and one of us don't want them to - does a shake of the head work on greedy girl night? or a "no" from hubby? how can I communicate when my mouth is full? "no you can't fuck me but yes I would love you see you wank over my tits" is what I would probably want to say. "

Just give clear communication. Say what you want and what you don't want. Females attending want different things so my experiences are that men don't assume but ask.

It's good advice above about your husband acting as a chaperone. You will find that men you have invited to play that understand what you want to achieve will probably also shield you from unwanted attention.

It's perfectly acceptable to say... You, you and you please, the rest can watch. Or take a few Into a private room.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thank you fellow fabbers for the advice - all very useful and gives me the confidence to give it a try one day soon m x

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City


" ....but what happens if bystander men want to join in and one of us don't want them to - does a shake of the head work on greedy girl night? or a "no" from hubby? how can I communicate when my mouth is full? "no you can't fuck me but yes I would love you see you wank over my tits" is what I would probably want to say.

If you don't want someone to join in, one of you should say so, politely but firmly.

A friend once put sticky labels on the chests of guys she was happy to play with. It was all done in a relaxed and jokey way, but the message was loud and clear - no label; no play.

Maybe you could use different coloured labels - one for "yes you can shag me", another for "feel free to wank over me" and a third for "I wouldn't touch you with a barge pole".

Seriously, I used to work in a club and was asked several times to be a greedy girl's chaperone to ensure the guys played by the girls' rules.

As always in swinging, the girl rules so you mustn't do anything/anyone you don't want to.

SFxx "

Fond memories of the condom under boobage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it depends if you stay together or not on a gg night. If we have people we know or its a well organised gg night Mr is happy to leave me to my own devices but I know he will be checking on me or me on him..

I do prefer it when he is there to okay the guys and check so I don't have to stop and check and can just carry on... We to be fair normally pair up with another couple as makes it so much fun to share with another lady... Plus you tend to entice the guys that way...

We used to do gg by ourselves though so both very used to looking after ourselves but it is always a good idea to have a chaperone.. and to be honest I chaperone ladies trying it more than I do myself these days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wonder if fellow fabbers might have some advice for me - not been to a greedy girls night yet but am very tempted. We always attend clubs together - my husband is happy to watch me have fun with others and joins in when the mood takes him. I understand how we can get talking to one or two men in the club bar area and then we can move into the play area and start getting it on - but what happens if bystander men want to join in and one of us don't want them to - does a shake of the head work on greedy girl night? or a "no" from hubby? how can I communicate when my mouth is full? "no you can't fuck me but yes I would love you see you wank over my tits" is what I would probably want to say.

There should be an international sign language for playing - would make things easier, though I guess pointing at a man, making a wanking motion with you hand, pointing at your tits and giving the thumbs up will suffice - except for the fact it might be difficult with a mouthful of cock."

Don't people communicate verbally in these situations?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

May I ask,if someone is seen trying to get away with no condom or moving from one woman to another without changing,are they ejected from the club? I know fingers aren't washed etc but that's difficult to police but blatant disregard on show is easily spotted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"May I ask,if someone is seen trying to get away with no condom or moving from one woman to another without changing,are they ejected from the club? I know fingers aren't washed etc but that's difficult to police but blatant disregard on show is easily spotted. "

We have had very few guys ever try to go bare... But they do tend to get one warning then thrown out and the gg tend to talk to one another... ( although some ladies do like it so it would depend on the Ladies.. We have only been to parties that say safe sex only )

The changing condom rule between ladies has been very well enforced at all the events we have been to but I have to give them my own condoms anyway x

And for the op... Sometimes I wouldn't play with a guy but am wanting to get covered so I would invite a few to wank but not touch and no one has got the arse as yet x

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By *ilacWoman
over a year ago

Cheshire


"May I ask,if someone is seen trying to get away with no condom or moving from one woman to another without changing,are they ejected from the club? I know fingers aren't washed etc but that's difficult to police but blatant disregard on show is easily spotted. "

I've been at a greedy girl event when someone was pulled up by the organiser for doing that. I wasn't party to the conversation but that man then went and got dressed and left.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"May I ask,if someone is seen trying to get away with no condom or moving from one woman to another without changing,are they ejected from the club? I know fingers aren't washed etc but that's difficult to police but blatant disregard on show is easily spotted.

I've been at a greedy girl event when someone was pulled up by the organiser for doing that. I wasn't party to the conversation but that man then went and got dressed and left.

"

There really is no substitute for a well hosted event as means you can relax a lot more x

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By *ilacWoman
over a year ago

Cheshire


"May I ask,if someone is seen trying to get away with no condom or moving from one woman to another without changing,are they ejected from the club? I know fingers aren't washed etc but that's difficult to police but blatant disregard on show is easily spotted.

I've been at a greedy girl event when someone was pulled up by the organiser for doing that. I wasn't party to the conversation but that man then went and got dressed and left.

There really is no substitute for a well hosted event as means you can relax a lot more x "

I think you were actually at that event also? I think we spoke.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"May I ask,if someone is seen trying to get away with no condom or moving from one woman to another without changing,are they ejected from the club? I know fingers aren't washed etc but that's difficult to police but blatant disregard on show is easily spotted.

I've been at a greedy girl event when someone was pulled up by the organiser for doing that. I wasn't party to the conversation but that man then went and got dressed and left.

There really is no substitute for a well hosted event as means you can relax a lot more x

I think you were actually at that event also? I think we spoke. "

Think so

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"May I ask,if someone is seen trying to get away with no condom or moving from one woman to another without changing,are they ejected from the club? I know fingers aren't washed etc but that's difficult to police but blatant disregard on show is easily spotted.

I've been at a greedy girl event when someone was pulled up by the organiser for doing that. I wasn't party to the conversation but that man then went and got dressed and left.

There really is no substitute for a well hosted event as means you can relax a lot more x "

We have to agree, a well hosted event will always make things easier, the ones we have attended usually vet the guys first and before the fun starts they are taken to one side and the rules are explained to them.

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By *ilver FoxMan
over a year ago

Manchester


" ...Fond memories of the condom under boobage "

As if I could forget lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take the cock out of your mouth and tell them. Or use body language. Close your legs, use your hand to politely move them away, many different ways to do it.

If the guys that are playing with you want to continue, they will respect your wishes and should even help police it for you. Otherwise you could just get up and walk away- they won't want you to do that.

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