FabSwingers.com forum: Newbies at The Attic..

By *erbyDalesCpl OP Couple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

We're ready for our first tentative outing to a club, and are thinking of checking out The Attic on Saturday.

What time would you suggest nervous newbies go? Early when it might be quiet so we can check it out before it fills up, or later when it's busy so we can sneak around without sticking out like a sore thumb?

Mr ddc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When we first went we got there early so we could settle in a bit have a walk around and drink, I was so nervous I was shaking so quite glad we got there early as half the night I was too nervous to even stand lol

but we settled in had drink n sat n chatted with each other n relaxed after a while and its really friendly there x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We're ready for our first tentative outing to a club, and are thinking of checking out The Attic on Saturday.

Mr ddc"

Good luck with going to that place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We're ready for our first tentative outing to a club, and are thinking of checking out The Attic on Saturday.

Mr ddc

Good luck with going to that place

Why would they need good luck. It's a good club.. clean and friendly anf got amazing facilities.

We have been to Many clubs and the only reason we no longer go are personal ones that prevent it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We're ready for our first tentative outing to a club, and are thinking of checking out The Attic on Saturday.

Mr ddc

Good luck with going to that place

Why would they need good luck. It's a good club.. clean and friendly anf got amazing facilities.

We have been to Many clubs and the only reason we no longer go are personal ones that prevent it.

Our opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well we wish we could still go as from where are its the best club near to us.

But I'm sure the op can make up their own minds. I am sure they will have a good night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well we wish we could still go as from where are its the best club near to us.

But I'm sure the op can make up their own minds. I am sure they will have a good night "

I'm sure they can and will form there own opinion

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I hope you go, as I'll be there on Saturday night.

As said before, this club divides opinion, but I like it, especially the extension

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always had a lovely time at the attic

People are ever so friendly, good choice for your first time!!

I may pop along so feel free to say hello!!

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By *erbyDalesCpl OP Couple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

"When we first went we got there early so we could settle in a bit have a walk around and drink, I was so nervous I was shaking so quite glad we got there early as half the night I was too nervous to even stand lol

but we settled in had drink n sat n chatted with each other n relaxed after a while and its really friendly there x"

Thanks, that sounds exactly how we'll be feeling!

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By *erbyDalesCpl OP Couple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

"Well we wish we could still go as from where are its the best club near to us.

But I'm sure the op can make up their own minds. I am sure they will have a good night "

It's okay, we've read enough to know it seems to be a bit like Marmite, but I happen to love Marmite

It's always good to hear both sides, so that one can be prepared for the worst, though always expecting the best. We wouldn't be here if we weren't prepared to push our boundaries and try stuff for the first time.

Afterall, what's the worst that can happen?

(The rest of you: don't answer that, it's rhetorical

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've heard it a decent club. Never been but looking to go soon as I find a partner to go with

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By *erbyDalesCpl OP Couple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

"I hope you go, as I'll be there on Saturday night.

As said before, this club divides opinion, but I like it, especially the extension

Almost certainly will, we'll keep an eye out for you, if you spot us, come say 'hi'

(I may, or may not, still be wearing my Roger Moore mask!)

What time would you recommend for newbies?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

but we settled in had drink n sat n chatted with each other n relaxed after a while and its really friendly there x

Thanks, that sounds exactly how we'll be feeling!

I can imagine cause I felt scared shitless, ron on other was fine n dandy loving every minute where I just wanted to be sick with nerves lol

we are going on saturday, if you see us say hi we can chat and have a drink to calm your nerves lol x

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By *erbyDalesCpl OP Couple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

"I've always had a lovely time at the attic

People are ever so friendly, good choice for your first time!!

I may pop along so feel free to say hello!!

Thanks

We'll be easy to spot, Mrs ddc will be stunning as always, I'll be the short, bald one hiding behind her, with my knees knocking and my teeth chattering!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha funni image, you cant miss us either, me- pale, curvey girl with short hair, ron- black with dreadlocks and glasses.

wel look out for you both in the dark corners then lol x

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

"I hope you go, as I'll be there on Saturday night.

As said before, this club divides opinion, but I like it, especially the extension

Almost certainly will, we'll keep an eye out for you, if you spot us, come say 'hi'

(I may, or may not, still be wearing my Roger Moore mask!)

What time would you recommend for newbies?"

About half 9 ish

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By *erbyDalesCpl OP Couple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

"Haha funni image, you cant miss us either, me- pale, curvey girl with short hair, ron- black with dreadlocks and glasses.

wel look out for you both in the dark corners then lol x"

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By *erbyDalesCpl OP Couple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

"I've heard it a decent club. Never been but looking to go soon as I find a partner to go with "

Technically I think they're always open to single men, though I think there may be some new rules lately and they advise phoning (check the website in the reviews section)

But I know what you mean about having someone to go with.

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By *erbyDalesCpl OP Couple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

Thanks for all the help and advice.

Now just got to decide what the wear...

Looking forward to meeting some of you there.

Mrs DDC

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its definately worth while checking out and you can meet some lovely people there, just get stuck in lol

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By *tabosteveMan
over a year ago

nottingham ng11

the club is fantastic in my opinion...very friendly and non pushy, people always show respect or they get shown the door .

Myself and nef are there every week and wouldnt go anywhere else to be honest.

Slighty biased because we run the website but that is my honest opinion.

As always with any club make up your own mind, but i am sure you will be back

have fun all !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for all the help and advice.

Now just got to decide what the wear...

Looking forward to meeting some of you there.

Mrs DDC"

We're going tomorrow night, possibly Saturday too - it's a great club, I reckon you'll like it

S x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We'll be there too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ill be there on saturday, its become my regular club, always a friendly group in, come say hi if you spot me xx

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

"Ill be there on saturday, its become my regular club, always a friendly group in, come say hi if you spot me xx"

I think I may recognise you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...

Afterall, what's the worst that can happen?

(The rest of you: don't answer that, it's rhetorical

Hope you have a lovely time. Remember that even the most unfriendly, hardened swingers had a first time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for all the help and advice.

Now just got to decide what the wear...

Looking forward to meeting some of you there.

Mrs DDC"

Wear something you feel really comfortable in and that makees you feel great. It will give you confidence and relax you both.

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By *tag68Man
over a year ago

Sutton in Ashfield

I go occasionally and all I can say is that I've always had a good night, and would say go and give it a go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We went for our first visit 2 weeks ago. I think we got there around 8:30 ish. Seemed like a good time to go as we got the tour from ron out of the way before too many people were there.

we'll be there again on Saturday for our second visit. Feel free to say hello.

Everyone we spoke to on our first visit was lovely, really friendly and welcoming.

M & K x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Should be going tonight. Also newbies and will be our first club visit. Can't wait but also nervous at the same time. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Were going, quite possibly find us in a certain room where a certain will be spanked again....no shock there lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We were same as you found them all very friendly and feel free to ask questions Ron a lovely bloke staff are helpful and all we meet their(made some very good friends) are open and friendly we went first time at 8 had chance to have a good look round to see if it was for us and we still keep going back for more lol

Ps we will be their tonight come say hi?

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Tonight has the makings of a good night. I'm hoping I recognise everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tina, theres no probs recognising you hee hee

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By *ourbonKissMan
over a year ago

a land up north..... of leicester

Well I don't like marmite but I do like the attic, like others have said I too think it's a good starter for 10

It's a very relaxed club and the patrons I find a usually friendly and always up for a laugh

I kind of wish I could go tonight but I have friends birthday meal to go to

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

"Tina, theres no probs recognising you hee hee"

That's fine for everyone else, but frankly I'd not recognise my own mum, as I'm rubbish with faces and names

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By *entralnotts coupleCouple
over a year ago

MANSFIELD

Best club locally, really friendly crowd.

We`re there tonight....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But does your mother have those boobies though

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By *erbyDalesCpl OP Couple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

"...

Afterall, what's the worst that can happen?

(The rest of you: don't answer that, it's rhetorical

)

Hope you have a lovely time. Remember that even the most unfriendly, hardened swingers had a first time. "

Thanks, Scarlet

I'm told in interviews, it helps to imagine people naked - presumably the equivalent here is to imagine everyone fully clothed

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By *erbyDalesCpl OP Couple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

"Tina, theres no probs recognising you hee hee"

We're counting on it!

I'm terrible with names and faces too, Mrs ddc is currently doing her homework browsing!

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By *erbyDalesCpl OP Couple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

Thanks everyone, Mrs ddc will probably be wearing the burgundy dress and shoes in some of our pics.(Still considering putting a post-it note saying DDC on her back when she's not looking)

Despite all the advice to bring the proper protection, I probably won't be rocking my 'hi-viz and hard hat' look, but boring black trousers. Apologies in advance for my laugh, but that will be how you'll know it's us!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks everyone, Mrs ddc will probably be wearing the burgundy dress and shoes in some of our pics.(Still considering putting a post-it note saying DDC on her back when she's not looking)

Still never plucked up the courage to go to a club..have fun

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By *erbyDalesCpl OP Couple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

"Thanks everyone, Mrs ddc will probably be wearing the burgundy dress and shoes in some of our pics.(Still considering putting a post-it note saying DDC on her back when she's not looking)

Still never plucked up the courage to go to a club..have fun

Why not try it tonight? I'm making a sign saying 'nervous newbies corner' so you'll find us easily!

Mrs DDC

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By *erbyDalesCpl OP Couple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

"Thanks everyone, Mrs ddc will probably be wearing the burgundy dress and shoes in some of our pics.(Still considering putting a post-it note saying DDC on her back when she's not looking)

Still never plucked up the courage to go to a club..have fun

Why not try it tonight? I'm making a sign saying 'nervous newbies corner' so you'll find us easily!

Mrs DDC

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks everyone, Mrs ddc will probably be wearing the burgundy dress and shoes in some of our pics.(Still considering putting a post-it note saying DDC on her back when she's not looking)

Still never plucked up the courage to go to a club..have fun

Why not try it tonight? I'm making a sign saying 'nervous newbies corner' so you'll find us easily!

Mrs DDC"

I'm still to chicken

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I'm still to chicken

The worst that can happen is that no one says hello. That won't happen. You could be missing out on something you love and to be fair, you can spend any night of the week not going to the Attic

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over a year ago

I'm still to chicken

The worst that can happen is that no one says hello. That won't happen. You could be missing out on something you love and to be fair, you can spend any night of the week not going to the Attic

hopefully I will be brave enough one day

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By *entralnotts coupleCouple
over a year ago

MANSFIELD

Just like going to a pub but much more chilled.

It is at The Attic, everybody is genuinely friendly, and you take things at your own pace.

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By *ourbonKissMan
over a year ago

a land up north..... of leicester

I'm still to chicken

The worst that can happen is that no one says hello. That won't happen. You could be missing out on something you love and to be fair, you can spend any night of the week not going to the Attic

I've tried convincing dark in the past Tina to no avail, I'm glad you've said similar things to me though

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By *erbyDalesCpl OP Couple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

Just a quick note to thank everyone who welcomed us tonight, who set our minds at ease and helped us settle in.

We both had a really great time, and absolutely loved it.

We promise we'll try and do a few personal messages tomorrow just as soon as we've worked out who you all were!

Mr & Mrs ddc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure who I spoke to tonight. If I did please forgive me but make yourselves known please. I had the sequined dress on

Sam

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

"Not sure who I spoke to tonight. If I did please forgive me but make yourselves known please. I had the sequined dress on

Sam"

I and a friend were hanging our noses over that dress, but decided that it suited her better than me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hanging noses? I loved wearing it x

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

"Hanging noses? I loved wearing it x"

Yes, as in we were both wanting it for ourselves we liked it that much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was worried I looked bad then ??

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

"Was worried I looked bad then ??"

Oh no, quite the opposite. You looked fantastic, that dress was a knockout.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must admit the dress was super sexy and enjoyed seeing you in it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm still to chicken

The worst that can happen is that no one says hello. That won't happen. You could be missing out on something you love and to be fair, you can spend any night of the week not going to the Attic

I've tried convincing dark in the past Tina to no avail, I'm glad you've said similar things to me though"

I'm a wimp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try it

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By *ourbonKissMan
over a year ago

a land up north..... of leicester

I'm still to chicken

The worst that can happen is that no one says hello. That won't happen. You could be missing out on something you love and to be fair, you can spend any night of the week not going to the Attic

I've tried convincing dark in the past Tina to no avail, I'm glad you've said similar things to me though

I'm a wimp

I can hardly believe such a thing, go with Tina the next time she goes. She'll make sure you're well looked after

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cash in the attic with Appleby

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"Cash in the attic with Appleby

Why don't you come one night Shag, you can doss at mine. I only live 10 mins walk away

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